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Love Is in the Air: The 14 Clearest Signs a Man Loves You a Lot!

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When a man is in love, it’s normally pretty easy to tell. If you’re not sure, here are the signs a man loves you without a doubt!

The first few months of dating can be pretty confusing. It’s all about the heat and the passion. For the most part, you have no idea what is actually going on. However, as a little time passes, you settle down and feel a bit more at ease around your guy. There does come a point however when you start to wonder about the big “L” and if you’re able to find the signs a man loves you without a doubt in your romance.

You might have already decided that you love him, or you might not be sure yet. If you’re looking for signs a man loves you, they’re actually pretty easy to pick up on if you know what to look for. However, they’re also pretty easy to miss and pass off as something else entirely!

[Read: The 25 signs he loves you even if he doesn’t say it out loud]

14 signs a man loves you, and only you!

Let’s give you the low-down so you never miss the tell-tale signs again.

#1 He’s your biggest supporter. He builds you up and pushes you to achieve. And he shouts it from the rooftops when you do well. He holds your hand when you’re worried about going for something and failing, giving you the confidence to give it a shot anyway. The guy is your biggest cheerleader and supporter. You know why? Because he loves you and wants you to do the very best you can. [Read: 9 relationship stages that all couples go through] 

#2 He stands up for you, even when you’re not around. It’s easy for someone to stand up for you when you’re present, but if your guy has your back when you’re not around, it’s one of the biggest signs a man loves you. He can’t stand for a second that you might be disrespected by anyone. He’s happy to stick up for you and defend you, even when you’re nowhere to be seen.

#3 He’s concerned about your well-being. Of course, a good person will be concerned about another person’s well-being. But if your guy is concerned about yours as much as or more than his own, that’s a tell-tale sign that he’s in love! He wants you to be healthy and happy. All of these are signs a man loves you. He cares about every aspect of your life. [Read: What a boyfriend should do if he wants to prove his worth]

#4 He’ll do anything to make you smile. If you’re happy, he’s happy. It’s because he loves you. Of course, when I say ‘anything’ I do mean within reason. If nothing is too much trouble and when you smile, it’s like his world has just brightened up, it’s a very clear sign that this guy has fallen for you big time.

#5 He encourages you to move towards your dreams. It’s easy to be worried about your partner moving towards their dreams because you worry that they’re going to move away from you in the process. However, if he puts that aside and wants the best for you, that’s one of the biggest signs a man loves you! He wants you to achieve in life and he wants you to have what you dream of. Of course, he also wants to be a part of that so be sure to include him wherever you can.

#6 He’s protective over you. If a guy is protective of you and treats you like a china doll, it can be a little annoying and even suffocating. However, if he doesn’t cross that line into suffocating territory and protects you in a strong and mature way, it’s a great feeling and one of the biggest signs that love is in place. [Read: Controlling vs Caring – A thin line that’s hard to see]

#7 He includes you in his life. He’ll include you in family functions. You’ll be a part of his circle of friends, and he might even try and forge friendships between you and the partners of his friends. He’s basically including you in his life because he wants you to be a firm fixture. It’s one of the most definite signs a man loves you. [Read: 30 facts about guys that can help you read his mind]

#8 He often talks about the future with you in it. A guy isn’t going to dream about the future you both have together if he’s not in love. So, if he’s talking about ‘one day’ and picturing the two of you still together, that means he sees a long-term future for your relationship. It’s something to be extremely pleased about. If you see the same thing, of course!

#9 You are a priority in his life. This point doesn’t necessarily mean that you are the number one priority, because we all have full lives to lead, with family problems, friends, and everything else. If he regularly shows you that you are a top priority in his life, it’s a very good thing indeed. [Read: How men fall in love – The 7 stages of love for guys]

#10 He communicates with you as much as he is able. Not all guys are great at putting their feelings into words, which is probably why you’re reading this article on signs a man loves you! However, if he tries the best he can and communicates with you as much as he is able to comfortably, it’s a great sign.

#11 He asks your opinion because it matters to him. He asks you what you think about things. He wants to hear your opinion. Also he asks you because your opinion is important to him. This means he listens to you, respects you, and takes you seriously. It’s one of the big signs a man loves you, for sure.

#12 When you’re not around, he misses your presence. Of course, it’s easy to miss someone when they’re not around at any stage of a relationship. You don’t even have to love them. However, if you can recognize several of the other signs on this list and he misses you when you’re away, he’s in love!

#13 He would *probably* give you anything you asked for. It doesn’t mean that you should ask him for anything you want for the hell of it. But you have a sense that if you asked him to do something for you or give you something, he would do so, within reason. We don’t do those things for people we don’t care about. [Read: 12 key moments in a relationship that will predict your future together]

#14 You can just feel it. Of course, the biggest signs a man loves you aren’t things you can actually see, but things you can feel instead. If you just feel that there is love radiating from this love, then that means there probably is. Learn to trust your gut.

There is no guy on the planet who is perfect. That means he will sometimes make mistakes, just like you will. However, if he’s showing you he loves you with the signs above, then that means he’s doing his very best.

Love is complicated. Sometimes it’s hard to know what to think or feel. The best advice? Follow your heart. If you care about him and feel pretty sure that he feels the same way too, respect and love each other. Then, see where the future takes you. By being open to whatever comes next, you can build a strong and loving relationship that stands a good chance of lasting.

[Read: How to know if you’ve met the one already – the checklist you need]

If you’re noticing a few of these signs a man loves you, it’s certainly a good pointer towards love being firmly in his heart. Sometimes we must read between the lines a little and look at a guy’s actions. 

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Nicky Curtis
Nicky Curtis
Having stumbled from one relationship drama to another throughout her 20s, Nicky is now somewhat of a guru in the crazy world of life and love. Telling it how i...

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