23 Signs He’s Falling for You Hard and Is Really Serious About You

Love is a confusing subject. But, when a guy likes you, he’ll show it. You just need to know the signs he’s falling for you hard and enjoy the moment.

signs he's falling for you hard

When it comes to men, we always say they’re so hard to figure out. But, they’re actually less complex than you think. There are many signs he’s slowly falling for you, but you’re probably overlooking them ad making everything more complicated than it needs to be.

You see, both men and women aren’t that complicated. It’s really about being able to stop overthinking and just going with the flow. When you can do that, you’ll understand that the signs related to how he feels were right there in front of you all along.

See, men really do show us the signs. They show us signs all of the time, but we’re not putting them into perspective. But, most of us know when someone likes us or not. This isn’t rocket science. [Read: Understanding the feelings that best describe true love]

How to read the signs he’s falling for you hard

The problem is we choose to ignore the truth. It’s almost like we enjoy making things more difficult! You’re probably analyzing all of his actions in an attempt to decode what he’s trying to say. The signs he’s slowing falling for you don’t require words, you just need to see that he’s there, he’s putting in the effort, and he has a stupid grin on his face whenever you’re around!

Listen, there’s always a risk he won’t be into you, and who wants to come to that realization? Everyone wants the person they like to like them back. That worry can often cloud your judgment and make you become overly negative. There’s no need! At the end of the day, you have to try. If it goes well, fantastic! If it doesn’t, you dust yourself down and move on to the next one. [Read: Is he attracted to you? 16 giveaways to watch out for]

Stop overthinking! The signs he’s falling for you hard are right there.

1. He listens

He doesn’t just hear the words, he really listens. He’s not staring at his phone when you’re talking to him. Instead, he’s looking at you, really listening to the conversation. This is a sign that he not only respects you, but he sees you as someone important. Plus, being an active listener is always a good quality in a person. [Read: 19 subtle signs a guy just can’t hide if he likes you]

2. He talks the talk and walks the walk

When he tells you he’s going to do something, he does it. He isn’t playing games with you. He just does what he says. Usually, when a guy is playing you, they’ll commit to something but never carry out the actions. This is because he doesn’t really care. But if he does what he says he’s going to do, he respects you.

3. He’s serious about eye contact

Now, we’re not talking about creepy eye contact. If you’re feeling weird, then this isn’t the look of love. So, beware of that. But eye contact is usually a great sign to see how he feels about you. If you are sharing long eye gazes, well, it looks like he’s smitten. [Read: 15 sweet gestures that express love without words]

4. His free time is spent on you

People have busy lives. He’s probably working or going to school, so he doesn’t have a lot of free time. But the free time he does have, he makes sure it’s spent on you. No one would give their time to people they didn’t like – no one. He has friends and family he could see, but he chose to see you.

5. He talks about the future

It can be about next week or what you will do in the summer. The point is he’s making future plans with you. If he didn’t like you, he wouldn’t even think about tomorrow. But he already sees you together in the future. When he talks about the future, it’s one of the signs he’s slowly falling for you.

6. He gives you small gifts

No, he doesn’t need to buy you a new car or expensive jewelry. But he’ll bring you something small, something he thought you’d like. Maybe it’s a record of your favorite band or frozen yogurt. If he likes you, he’ll makes these small gestures. It basically shows that he’s thinking of you when you’re not there, and that’s pretty cute, right? [Read: 18 clues to decode a guy’s body language when he really likes you]

7. He wants you to be happy

When someone loves another person, they focus on making them happy. If he isn’t trying to make you happy, then he’s probably not into you. This is called compassionate love and is healthy in a relationship. If you’re feeling down and he cooks you dinner as a surprise, he cares.

8. He doesn’t care when you’re being gross

Listen, just because you’re a woman doesn’t mean you’re not gross. Women aren’t perfect angels when it comes to hygiene. Maybe you leave your dirty underwear on the floor or pick your nose. Usually, he would be grossed out by this, but he doesn’t seem to be bothered when you do it. [Read: 14 Signs you’re getting too comfortable with each other]

9. He’s willing to try new things

Maybe you’re a rock climber or you go sailing on the weekend. He’s never done those things before, but he’s willing to now that he’s met you. A man who’s falling for you will want to share his life with you. He’ll want to get into your world and vice versa. That’s one of the major signs he’s slowly falling for you, especially if he’s doing things which are out of his comfort zone.

10. He does favors for you

If you need help with your groceries, he helps you. If you have a plumbing problem in your apartment, he’ll come and try to fix it. He wants to help you. If he didn’t like you, he wouldn’t help you. These small acts show he cares on a deeper level. [Read: 17 gestures that are louder than words when it comes to love] 

11. He loves your weird side

In the beginning, you’re probably trying to hide your weirdness. But, of course, you can’t hide that part of you. It’s the best part! Everyone has their own weird quirks which makes them unique. Some people may not like your weirdness, but he does. In fact, he can’t get enough of it.

12. He’s always talking to you

You don’t need to be side-by-side to talk. He makes sure to send you good morning texts, and that you’re aware he’s around. Because he wants to keep the communication flowing back and forth. He wouldn’t do that if he wasn’t into you. It’s as simple as that and it’s one of the signs he’s slowly falling for you. [Read: How to keep a text conversation going when you have nothing to say]

13. Your opinion matters to him

When he talks to you about an important topic, he asks for your opinion. Firstly, this shows he respects your opinion, and secondly, it shows what you say matters to him. He wants you to know what’s going on in his life because he sees you in it for the long-term.

14. He gets worried about you

When you’re in a bad mood or feeling sick, he shows concern. He asks you if you’re okay or if you need anything. This is one of the clearest signs he’s falling for you hard and really cares about you. If he didn’t, he would just tell you to feel better and wait a couple of days to text you. [Read: 18 Signs a man is emotionally attached to you & ready to get closer]

15. He takes you to meet the family

Now, this is a big step. You know this is a big step. Meeting the family isn’t something casual. He’s showing you to his closest people, the people he cares about. He wants them to meet his potential partner, and see what they have to say. He’s falling for you. [Read: How to charm your boyfriend’s parents when you meet them the first time] 

16. He tells you he loves you

People just don’t say this out of thin air. If he tells you he loves you, well, this isn’t even a sign. It’s more than a sign – it’s the answer. It takes a lot for a man to tell someone they love them. So, if he says this to you, and you feel it’s true, it probably is.

17. He gets jealous easily

A guy who gets jealous when you speak to another guy or when someone shows you attention must have feelings for you. If that wasn’t the case, he wouldn’t be bothered, right? If another guy talks to you and you notice that he’s balling his fists up or looking annoyed, you have to say he’s having an attack of the green eyed monster! Ask yourself why. [Read: 17 Big signs of a jealous & possessive boyfriend]

18. He doesn’t mind showing affection publicly

Not all guys are into PDAs in general but most won’t mind holding hands or a gentle kiss on the cheek in public. If you’re with a guy who’s quite happy to show the world that you’re with him, you’re golden. It could also be that he’s very keen to show you off and let everyone know that you’re taken! He wouldn’t do that if he didn’t care.

19. He makes sacrifices for you

Let’s say he had arranged to meet his friends to watch a game but you’re not feeling so great and you need some company. He might cancel on his friends and stay with you. Or, perhaps he had plans but you suggested something and he likes the sound of that better. Basically, he’s sacrificing something for you because he wants to be around you.

20. He’s not worried about going public on social media

Being Insta-official doesn’t matter to a lot of people but to some, it does. If a guy doesn’t mind having photos of the two of you on his profiles, he’s happy to tell them world about you. Again, a guy doesn’t do that if he doesn’t care or want you in his life. [Read: Facebook official relationship – Is your guy ready for it?]

21. He tells you about his troubles

If he has a bad day or he’s struggling with a decision, he might ask you what you think or just tell you about it so you can listen. That’s one of the signs that he’s falling for you hard because a guy doesn’t tend to spill his heart out to people he doesn’t care about. Remember to listen and give him the best advice you can give.

22. He sticks up for you

Whether you’re there or not, he’s not going to let anyone badmouth you or do anything that would upset you. He’s basically your protector and he’ll stick up for you. It shows he cares for you and it also shows respect. A guy who does this is not only crushing hard, but he’s falling hard too. [Read: Key differences: Protective boyfriend or a controlling boyfriend?]

23. He invites you on outings with his friends and their partners

This is a big one. Like meeting the family, guys don’t introduce a girl into their friendship and partner circle unless it’s serious. If he wants you to be friendly with the partners of his best bros, that means he sees you sticking around for a long time to come.

As you can see, guys are a lot easier to read than we give them credit for. Watch his actions rather than his words and don’t try to overthink or analyze everything. Keep it simple and look out for these signs.

[Read: The smitten signs that say your boyfriend is in love with you]

Now you know the signs he’s falling for you hard. Half of the work is already done. What you need to do now is put the pieces of the puzzle together. Is he falling for you?

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and ...
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