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25 Tips on How to Make Your Boyfriend Happy Every Day

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Want to know how to make your boyfriend happy every day in small ways that can help him see how wonderful you are? Read these 25 ways to do just that.

Looking for ways to make your boyfriend happy?

Well, that’s a really sweet gesture.

After all, one of the most important aspects of a relationship is the ability for both partners to look for new ways to keep each other happy all the time.

[Read: How to keep a guy interested in you in 30 super sexy ways]

Wanting to make your boyfriend happy is very sweet of you.

And you’ll know just how to do that right here.

But always remember the one thing that makes love so special.

It’s mutual. And it should never be one sided.

Don’t ever go out of your way to make someone happy, unless they’re doing the same for you.

If you’re looking for ways to cheer up your boyfriend after a bad day, read how to cheer up your partner.

How to make your boyfriend happy every day

If you want to know how to make your boyfriend happy everyday in little ways that can help him realize how special and wonderful you are, use these 25 ways.

#1 What first attracted him to you? Enhance that. If it’s your hair, your smile or your perfect body, look for ways to let him see more of it so he remembers just how awesome you are.

#2 Help him with his life. Guys behave manly, but sometimes, they’re all a mess in their personal lives. Motivate him and help him achieve his goals by talking about his dreams.

#3 Indulge in romantic gestures. There’s nothing that can feel more special than a sweet gesture out of the blue. [Read: 25 sweet romantic gestures for everyday life]

#4 Don’t make him feel insecure. Guys hate feeling insecure. And instead of acknowledging it or accepting that they feel insecure, they’ll act cranky or start avoiding you. It’s a guy thing. Avoid making a guy feel insecure and he’ll love you more. [Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship]

#5 Don’t let him take you for granted. Insecurity and taking someone for granted are exact opposites. If he feels too secure, he’ll start to take you for granted. Avoid being too accommodating for him or he’ll get bored of you.

#6 Ask for his help. Ask for his help at the right times. By asking for his help the right way, he’ll feel better about himself and appreciate you more. [Read: How to ask your man for help by being the perfect damsel]

#7 Hug him tight for no reason. Guys melt like butter when it comes to sweet affectionate moments. He may not always initiate it, but if you run up to him and hug him tightly out of the blue, he’ll love the way you feel in his arms.

#8 Indulge in PDA. Most guys don’t care about public display of affection. But they love it when their sexy girlfriend clings to their arm or kisses them on the cheek in public. [Read: Public display of affection rules you need to follow]

#9 Let him know about other guys you meet. You may meet a lot of guys now and then. But whenever it’s possible, let him know about the guys you meet. If he ever bumps into another guy with you, he’ll feel more confident and secure if he already knows about that guy.

#10 Always give him first preference. Don’t ignore him when there are other guys around. This is one of the biggest things you need to remember if you want to keep your boyfriend happy. Make him feel like your man and he’ll appreciate you more.

#11 Let him know you trust him. Have faith in your boyfriend and let him know you trust him. When a man knows his woman trusts him, he gets more attached to her and takes more initiatives to keep her happy.

#12 Be willing to experiment in bed. Guys love a girl who can be a freak in bed. But if you’re not ready for something, you really don’t have to bother with it. If he loves you, he’ll understand that you’re not ready. And there are so many things to try anyways! [Read: Tips on turning a guy on]

#13 Tease your boyfriend. Don’t always give in too easily. You’ll be boring. Make him work for you and any sexual favors. It’ll make him respect you more and take you seriously, which matters a lot in love.

#14 Give him his space. If you want to make your boyfriend happy, learn to give him his space. Men need some time off everyday just to be by themselves. [Read: The right way to give space in a relationship]

#15 Be his shoulder to lean on. Hold his chin up for him when he’s down. Instead of talking about his mistake, help him overcome it.

#16 Don’t prolong a fight. Fights and arguments in relationships can tire both of you and leave both of you feeling hurt and miserable. Try to sort out any differences as soon as possible.

#17 Look good for him. Guys are immediately attracted to a girl who looks good. Your boyfriend is no different. Dress well and look sexy when you’re with him and you’ll make his day.

#18 Wear sexy lingerie in bed. If both of you share an intimate relationship with each other, learn to dress well and look like a sex goddess in bed. His awkward grin will never disappear! [Read: How to dress for sex]

#19 Get along with his friends and family. Girls spend a lot of time with their girlfriends, but guys share a deeper bond with their own friends. Try to get along with the friends he likes and make them like you back for the warm and friendly person you are.

#20 Be a guy when you have to. As girly as your guy may want you to be, he would love a girl who can tie her hair up and behave like a guy when she has to. [Read: How to think like a man and impress your guy]

#21 Compliment him. Guys love a compliment. Be genuine and tell him about what you like about him, sexually, physically and mentally. He’ll always remember it.

#22 Make him feel special. Remember his important days and tasks, and remind him about it beforehand. Do something nice for him out of the blue like cooking him a fancy dinner or buying a good looking tee shirt for no reason at all.

#23 Don’t put him down in front of others. Guys have huge egos, but they’re extremely fragile too. If you constantly put him down in front of others or insult him, the first thing he’ll do is run into the arms of another girl who treats him better.

#24 Give a good blowjob. Guys like their girlfriends to be talented and bold in bed. You can be coy everywhere else, but in bed, show off your moves and let him know how dirty and sexy you can really be. [Read: Blowjob confessions of a good girl]

#25 Be a fun girl. Have a cheerful approach to life and look for ways to have a laugh. Be spontaneous and cheerful around your boyfriend and it’ll definitely make your boyfriend happy.

[Read: Easy tips to make your boyfriend want you more than ever!]

Use these 25 tips on how to make your boyfriend happy and you’ll have him grinning from ear to ear every time he sees you. And the best part, it’ll also show him how wonderful and special you really are!

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24 thoughts on “25 Tips on How to Make Your Boyfriend Happy Every Day”

  1. onuoha chika says:

    These are nice tips, because I do use some of these steps.

  2. Angeleyes33 says:

    Okay, I have gained quite a bit of weight after quitting drugs, and I am very insecure about my body. We first dated before the drugs when I was hot. We had a son. Then we broke up for awhile, thats when I got on drugs. I got clean and decided to give it another try. But now Im bigger. For 3 years (after getting back together), we had sex a total of 5 or 6 times. We didnt even sleep in the same room. I started to lose a bit of weight and gained a bit of confidence (but still i lumpy in the wrong places) and we started sleeping together and having sex way more often. He wants me to wear sexy nighties to bed, but Im not comfortable with it. How can I be more sexy when I know and feel disgusting? Our sex is great, but I try to keep certain areas covered and I wont let him touch those areas. My breasts are much larger now, that is the only thing I like about gaining weight. I used to be flat. And he enjoys them too. But he still doesnt really touch me and grope me like he did when I was smaller. We dont wrestle in bed, and he dont fondle me like I try to do to him occassionally. I feel gross. How can I be sexy for my man?

  3. Kaitlyn says:

    Some of these are ok,but some of these make it seem like you have to put out or be slutty to keep a guy happy..

  4. K.R.S says:

    You should never have to ACT a certain way to please the other person. What happened to being yourself and never jeopardizing your happiness for someone else? “learn to dress like a goddess in bed” This advice doesn

  5. Alicia Hellawell says:

    It seems like girls have to do all the work to make a relationship last.
    So we have to dress nicely but be a guy and he doesn’t have to spend time with our friends. It seems like the girl has to accomodate to his life.

  6. Peter says:

    It’s a pretty silly list because of what KRS said. Just be yourself. Your natural self is an act you can actually maintain for years on end. And you won’t end up angry, frustrated, and tired… or mislead someone into thinking you are someone you are not (they’ll find out eventually). There’s only one thing I really do agree with, #16 Don

  7. Melissa Rachel says:

    While we all hope to god that “just being ourselves” will be enough to keep your relationship afloat, quite often it isn’t the case. My bf loves me for who I am, even when I’m a complete asshole, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay to be an asshole. We have literally just got back together after breaking up for a month (we’ve been together for 3 years) and the fact is is that it was my fault. I got too comfortable and secure, I took my man for granted and that made him miserable. If you love somebody, you don’t want them to feel like they don’t matter to you. You might feel like being told to suck your boyfriends cock is degrading but why wouldnt you want to.? I neglected his needs. He needed to feel like he was worth the extra effort and I hadn’t done anything to show him that in a really long time (not just sex, but anything). The month long break really gave me a chance to put this into perspective. And it did the same for him, because he wasn’t blameless either. I realised that all of the time that I ignored him I pushed him away. I realised that there was nothing that realistically I wanted more than to show him how I felt about him, I just didn’t know how. If 6 weeks ago you told me that the solution to sorting out my relationship was to perform felatio more often, I wouldve felt cheapened too, but now I realise that in a healthy relationship you should want to do that. Women need to be in love to have sex but men need sex to be in love. Trust me, there is no bigger feminist on the planet than me but if your bf is truly worth it, which means he is already putting in the effort because it comes naturally and you’re on Google typing “how to make my bf happy”, the answer probably is “put in more effort and touch his penis” My partner is the most amazing person in the world, but it took me losing him to realise that I needed to actively consider his feelings and make an effort for him to look nice and make him feel great about himself. I’m really lucky to have a second chance. Don’t lose the love of your life because you don’t think you should have to do anything out of the ordinary for him, because if he is a great guy, and that is how you feel, you probably don’t deserve him anyway.

  8. comfort says:

    What about a situation were he says that I have offended him,when I acknowledge my mistake n apologies about it he would remind me of the same wrong I did in the past and that im still doing it again,how does one change all this to a nice and happy mood?

  9. peejay says:

    My bf thinks I have changed after 3 years of relationship he says I insult him at any little wrong he does I realised my mistakes nd apologise he accepted nd I promised not to insult him again what do I do to control my temper because he seriously thinks am not as calm and gentle as I used to be

  10. Teja says:

    I love my boyfriend, and he also loves me but he loves his work more and always gives all his time for work and not me, I’m hurt …I told him to change but he says he’s give me all his time after marriage. And he gets irritated and then we fight a lot, but we still love each other.

  11. g says:

    This is garbage.

  12. M says:

    Some of these are good, but not all of them are necessary. Especially #24. I never want a dick in my mouth, and my boyfriend knows it. He even said he wouldn’t ask for that either way. I also don’t think you need to accentuate whatever it is that attracted him. If he loves you, he won’t care if your appearance changes.

  13. innocent says:

    wow, interesting.

  14. bella says:

    i was always to caring in my past relationship and they take advantage of that and they get bored but im in a relationship now he loves me i love him im still too caring but what can i do to make him come after me

  15. lovee says:

    i can’t understand hoe to do this..
    #4 Don

  16. pauline says:

    Since Jay is my first, and still have no experience of being in a relationsship so Im pretty shocked about some tips* ahahah oh well I’ll keep this in mind xD

  17. Rit says:

    Nice tips.. It will definitely help…

  18. Susana says:

    I Really like these tips!!! ๐Ÿ™‚ they are very detailed out and if you guys open your eyes and mind MORE ! You will see just how perfet this fits. Maybe sometimes you have to step out of your confort zone.

  19. Dolly says:

    Some creepy perv wrote this. Also- men are not all the same- there is no way this can apply to every one.

  20. Jake K.B. says:

    its skin just like any part of his body. His lips have way more germs on them and are way dirtier than his cock. You don’t have to swallow or get any cum in your mouth, but sucking is nothing. Also, he lied, he is mad that you won’t suck his dick and only said that to make you happy. But he will get tired of it and dump you, so get on it and stop being so selfish.

  21. Jake K.B. says:

    Don’t tell him to slow down on his career if you’re not even selfish. Do you have any idea how selfish that is? He will dump your selfish ass if you keep that shit up. Have you ever thought, that just maybe, he is working hard now because he’s got providing for his future family on his mind? Stop being so ignorant, grow up, and use your brain.

  22. tansysmom says:

    A few of these recommendations are just common sense. But if you have to do all these things on a regular basis in order to keep your man happy, you are probably with the wrong man–particularly if he sees no need to reciprocate. Some men are “Takers.” Don’t be a “Giver” to the point that you give away who you are. Mutual love and respect are what makes a relationship good. If that’s not enough, find someone else.

  23. Cecille Estrera says:

    I am curious about what being “too accommodating” means. Any tip on how to avoid being one? Thanks!

  24. Larin says:

    Yeah, that thing with blowjob

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