For as long as we’ve heard, men don’t ever need foreplay.
For men, evolution has taught their shorts to go stiff as soon as they see an opportunity.
But is it always true?
As much as we’d like to believe that men don’t need foreplay, it’s just not true.
At the beginning of the relationship, all a guy needs to see is a flash of his girlfriend’s skin to get ready for the act.
But as time goes by, things can start to get rather repetitive and obvious.
[Read: 20 tips to keep his erection up all night long]
And when there’s no novelty anymore, you definitely need to start focusing on his mind more than his little head to keep him excited in bed.
Give your man something extra special to think about by indulging in these foreplay tips that can get him to appreciate your body and exercise his sexual mind at the same time.
Foreplay for men
Just like foreplay matters for women, men too need a bit of foreplay to excite them now and then.
You may have the best sex already, but don’t take your man for granted and assume that he’s always going to think of you as the sexiest thing alive. [Read: How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess]
Focus on little things that can make him feel sexy and crave for you all the time.
Foreplay tips that work on your man
Learn to get him to appreciate your body, desire you and feel lucky to have you with these foreplay tips.
Be sexily unpredictable, and he’ll awe you. Get his horny mind working and he’ll always get aroused by you and your dirty talk.
Use these 12 tips to do just that. [Read: Tips on turning a guy on]
#1 Watch porn in bed. Watching porn can be a great way to help bring both of you closer. It’s exciting and stimulating as long as both of you are comfortable with appreciating other people’s bodies in front of each other. The focus here isn’t on just watching, but replicating the moves you see on the screen in your own bed. [Confession: How erotica saved my marriage]
A good half an hour of watching porn and having hands run all over each other can delay sex and excite both of you for a great round of foreplay.
#2 Dress up for him. Your man may be used to seeing you naked around the house. But that doesn’t mean he can’t get turned on by you when you wear your bare minimum. As foreplay, dress up for him and wear racy lingerie. [Read: Sexy tips to dress for sex]
The sexier you look, the longer he’d want you to keep your lingerie on as he gropes all over you. Sometimes, all you need is a new look to get the blood flowing in his loins.
#3 Go clubbing and grind with him. Foreplay doesn’t always have to start out in bed. At times, a club can be the perfect setting to tighten his pants for several hours at a go. When you’re at a club, the air is almost always filled with sex and lust. And as boring as your sex life can seem, bringing your man to a crowded club with sexy people all around will always get his hormones raging. And once you start grinding him, there’s little he can do to avoid a raging erection. [Read: How to grind with a guy sexily and discreetly]
#4 Massage him. A massage is a perfectly sensual way to give him a happy ending at the end of the day. Bring out your massage oils and scented candles, talk sexy as you stroke him and move your body against him, and all he’d want to do is have sex with you.
#5 Recreate sexual fantasies. When both of you slip into bed, talk naughty with your man. You don’t even need to touch him to play foreplay. Just sit close to him and whisper about the first time he touched you or played with your breasts. Or remind him about the way both of you felt when you first had sex together. [Read: How to talk dirty in bed]
Talking sexy has a great impact on a man’s little organ. It creates a sexy world of imagination with limitless possibilities that can lead to a sexy rush even before he gets inside you.
#6 Have a bath together. If both of you are not particularly in the mood for a fancy night out in town, slip into a bathtub and just relax in each other’s arms. You can bring out the candles and wear a sheer cotton shirt in the tub before revealing it all to him. Don’t focus on sex right away. Instead, just play with each other’s bodies. It would be the perfect round of foreplay to invigorate him after a long day at work.
#7 Public display of affection. After dinner or a few hours of clubbing, indulge in a bit of foreplay by making out in the car, either in the parking lot or on a lonely spot on the way home. Build up the sexual tension so he’d want to get home and do something about that hard on in his pants. Public display of affection is always a huge turn on for a guy, be it for foreplay or for any other thing. [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl]
#8 Snap your memories. Cameras are meant for racy snaps. Use a camera and get racy with it. Sext him a naked photo of yourself when he’s on his way home. Or when both of you are in bed, hand him a camera and ask him to take a few pictures when you’re nude and doing something dirty to him. But unless you’re sure the photos will always stay safe and away from prying eyes, delete them after the fun and games. [Read: The sexy art of taking nude pictures of each other]
#9 Role play with each other. Role playing is the perfect idea of foreplay to keep your man in the mood, without focusing on sex. Dress up in his favorite fantasy characters and tease him. You could even tie him up or just let him explore your body without undressing you. Recreating his secret fantasies is one of the sexiest ideas of foreplay for any man. [Read: The sexual roleplay guide for beginners]
#10 Live webcam. This is risqué, but well, sexual high does come with a pinch of salt at times. If both of you enjoy it, get in front of your webcam and log onto a few webcam chatting sites like Chatroulette or Omegle. Play it safe by tilting your webcam low enough to avoid revealing your faces to other chatters. Play with your man using your fingers and chances are, he’ll have a huge erection and a racing heart in no time.
#11 Sexy secrets. Dress sexy when you go out, or even if you’re at home with a few friends. But don’t wear a bra. Do something outrageous, even if no one else can notice it. [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your man]
And out of the blue, go close to him and whisper your little secret in his ear that you’re not wearing a bra inside your tee shirt / underwear under your skirt. It doesn’t matter if it’s not obvious to anyone else. What matters is that your man knows your sexy secret. And chances are, he’ll get on foreplay mode almost as soon as he hears your secret. [Read: 30 dirty truth or dare questions to play with couples]
#12 It’s all in his head. To turn a guy on, everything is in his head. While physical attraction may be important, it also takes a few mind games to seduce your man once you’ve been in a relationship for a while. Make him feel like what you’re doing is sexy and he’ll always get aroused by you. And isn’t sexual arousal the first step of any successful foreplay? [Read: How to make your man want you more than ever]
Foreplay for men can be a pleasurable and sexy experience for both of you, just as long as you remember to focus on his mind and get him to focus on your body. Just use these 12 foreplay tips for men and you’ll be able to do all that and more.
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