A seductress is something all women want to be.
But most women who want to be seductive overlook the thin line between crass and class.
It’s feels nice to be desired by men, but it’s never a great way to get attention from the opposite sex by portraying yourself as a hooker on the sidewalk.
While sexiness is almost always associated with revealing skin, there are far better ways to get the sexy attention and become a seductress, the discreet way.
If you want to know how to be a seductress, you need to get a mind makeover with these ten points on becoming a sex goddess.
How to be a seductress
To understand how to be a seductress the sexy and yet discreet way, you need to pay attention to your bedroom lessons.
You can’t really be a seductress when you’re still an amateur in bed.
It defies the whole point of being a seductress or a sex goddess.
[Read: How to be good in bed all the time]
The easy part of becoming a seductress is your bedroom lessons.
The tricky part is knowing how to evoke the same sexual excitement from men when you’re not bouncing over them in bed.
Understand that part, and you’re well on your way to becoming a sexy seductress who can wrap any man around her pinky, even when you’re not trying to impress a man.
Here are a few tips that can help you make a difference in the right direction and become the sexy seductress you’ve always wanted to be.
Learn to be two faced
When you’re at work, be serious and focus on climbing that next elusive rung of the corporate ladder. You don’t need to pretend to be a dumb bimbette to get attention from a hot guy. Men try to use women who they assume are dumb or easy to get. You, on the other hand, are going to be a seductress, one who’s desired by all and one who’s never easy to get.
A sexy woman who doesn’t flirt at work may deflate the hearts of many men. But it’ll also make them desire you, admire you and take sneaky glances at you while you’re working. As soon as the work is over, loosen your collar, take your jacket off and let your hair down in style, especially when there are men around. Pretend like you haven’t notice any men ogling you. [Read: How to turn a man on]
Men find nothing sexier than a woman who can transform from an inhibiting closed-up woman by day end to a sexy and radiant seductress who smiles and flirts with the men around and suddenly transforms herself into a burst of fresh and flirty energy. Ever seen those sexy transforming teachers, nuns and nurses in those axe ads? That’s exactly what men want!
Men love a sexy transformation! Reveal your two extreme sides, the workaholic and the sexy girl alter ego and you’ll have a hoard of men craning around your office door every evening. [Read: How to look sexy without trying]
Show skin and play coy
Every once in a while, when you’re bending low to pick something up or walking on a street wearing a slightly revealing top, use the coy flasher move to win a guy’s heart.
When you walk up to talk to a guy, take a second to “discreetly” adjust your bra strap or bend low to adjust your heel. Now any guy who’s into women would involuntarily try to take a peek. Now you don’t even need to adjust anything if you’re wearing something that leaves a bit of room for a peek now and then. But just as he sees it, catch him in the act and cover yourself up in a cute and obvious manner.
To make this easy seductress move work, show skin and cover it back up with a shy, mischievous smile and a line like ‘oops… you shouldn’t have seen that!’
By doing that, you’re letting him know that you’re okay with him taking a little peep, and you’re also smiling mysteriously which leaves him wondering about the awkward moment. But if you do give him a sexy flirty smile, that moment will go straight into his sexy thoughts for a lonely night. [Read: Why do guys stare at girls?]
Create your own sexy expressions
Expressions are everything, and it can make all the difference between a seductress and an ugly duckling. If you want to know how to be a seductress, work on your sexy expressions. [Read: How to get a guy to like you]
You may have to spend a few weeks on this but when you do master this art the right way, you’d find men waiting to have a conversation with you no matter where you go. Whenever you find a bit of time in your hands, stand in front of a mirror and watch your own expressions, be it a smile, a laugh or even a frown and a grimace. Do you like the way your face looks when you wink or smile mischievously?
Some of the sexiest seductresses may have been born with perfect smiles and cute winks, but in almost all cases, it took a lot of practicing in front of the mirror.
Create your own sexy expressions, the thinking expression with a pen in your lip, the mischievous expression with a slight tilt of your neck, the funny one with a cute laugh, the sexy one with a discreet lick on the corner of your lip, and all the other ones including a huffy and a bossy one. And use it! [Read: What men like in women more than anything else]
These tips always work. Try them and see the difference yourself. After all, understanding how to be a seductress isn’t all about the way you dress. But that does matter too! Read the rest on the pointers on how to be a sex goddess here.
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