The Subtle Secrets to be a Seductress & a Sex Goddess Desired by All Men

A seductress is the epitome of sexiness. All women want to be her and all men want to be with her. Find out how to be a seductress in this guide.

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A seductress is something all women want to be.

But most women who want to be seductive overlook the thin line between crass and class.

It’s feels nice to be desired by men, but it’s never a great way to get attention from the opposite sex by portraying yourself as a hooker on the sidewalk.

While sexiness is almost always associated with revealing skin, there are far better ways to get the sexy attention and become a seductress, the discreet way.

If you want to know how to be a seductress, you need to get a mind makeover with these ten points on becoming a sex goddess.

How to be a seductress and a sex goddess

To understand how to be a seductress the sexy and yet discreet way, you need to pay attention to your bedroom lessons.

You can’t really be a seductress when you’re still an amateur in bed.

It defies the whole point of being a seductress or a sex goddess.

[Read: How to be good in bed all the time]

The easy part of becoming a seductress is your bedroom lessons.

The tricky part is knowing how to evoke the same sexual excitement from men when you’re not bouncing over them in bed.

Understand that part, and you’re well on your way to becoming a sexy seductress who can wrap any man around her pinky, even when you’re not trying to impress a man.

Here are a few tips that can help you make a difference in the right direction and become the sexy seductress you’ve always wanted to be.

Learn to be two faced

When you’re at work, be serious and focus on climbing that next elusive rung of the corporate ladder. You don’t need to pretend to be a dumb bimbette to get attention from a hot guy. Men try to use women who they assume are dumb or easy to get. You, on the other hand, are going to be a seductress, one who’s desired by all and one who’s never easy to get.

A sexy woman who doesn’t flirt at work may deflate the hearts of many men. But it’ll also make them desire you, admire you and take sneaky glances at you while you’re working. As soon as the work is over, loosen your collar, take your jacket off and let your hair down in style, especially when there are men around. Pretend like you haven’t notice any men ogling you. [Read: How to turn a man on]

Men find nothing sexier than a woman who can transform from an inhibiting closed-up woman by day end to a sexy and radiant seductress who smiles and flirts with the men around and suddenly transforms herself into a burst of fresh and flirty energy. Ever seen those sexy transforming teachers, nuns and nurses in those axe ads? That’s exactly what men want!

Men love a sexy transformation! Reveal your two extreme sides, the workaholic and the sexy girl alter ego and you’ll have a hoard of men craning around your office door every evening. [Read: How to look sexy without trying]

Show skin and play coy

Every once in a while, when you’re bending low to pick something up or walking on a street wearing a slightly revealing top, use the coy flasher move to win a guy’s heart.

When you walk up to talk to a guy, take a second to “discreetly” adjust your bra strap or bend low to adjust your heel. Now any guy who’s into women would involuntarily try to take a peek. Now you don’t even need to adjust anything if you’re wearing something that leaves a bit of room for a peek now and then. But just as he sees it, catch him in the act and cover yourself up in a cute and obvious manner.

To make this easy seductress move work, show skin and cover it back up with a shy, mischievous smile and a line like ‘oops… you shouldn’t have seen that!’

By doing that, you’re letting him know that you’re okay with him taking a little peep, and you’re also smiling mysteriously which leaves him wondering about the awkward moment. But if you do give him a sexy flirty smile, that moment will go straight into his sexy thoughts for a lonely night. [Read: Why do guys stare at girls?]

Create your own sexy expressions

Expressions are everything, and it can make all the difference between a seductress and an ugly duckling. If you want to know how to be a seductress, work on your sexy expressions. [Read: How to get a guy to like you]

You may have to spend a few weeks on this but when you do master this art the right way, you’d find men waiting to have a conversation with you no matter where you go. Whenever you find a bit of time in your hands, stand in front of a mirror and watch your own expressions, be it a smile, a laugh or even a frown and a grimace. Do you like the way your face looks when you wink or smile mischievously?

Some of the sexiest seductresses may have been born with perfect smiles and cute winks, but in almost all cases, it took a lot of practicing in front of the mirror.

Create your own sexy expressions, the thinking expression with a pen in your lip, the mischievous expression with a slight tilt of your neck, the funny one with a cute laugh, the sexy one with a discreet lick on the corner of your lip, and all the other ones including a huffy and a bossy one. And use it! [Read: What men like in women more than anything else]

While the first three steps are the most obvious and the most sexy, you do need to work on a few subtle signs to be a real sex goddess.

Every man wants to be with a sex goddess and every woman wants to be one.

But then, who is a sex goddess really, and what makes her so different from the others?

A sex goddess knows her way around her bedroom, but it doesn’t just end there.

Really, you can’t just sleep with every man to prove that you have what it takes to achieve a sex goddess status.

And all women who have been crowned sex goddesses didn’t really sleep with all the men.

So obviously, it takes more than just bedroom manners to really understand how to be a sex goddess.

Here are a few subtle details that you should use to attain a sex goddess status, without always taking a man to bed.

Work on your dressing style

What you wear plays a big part in being a sexy seductress.

Contrary to popular belief, a sex goddess doesn’t need a push up bra and three inches of cleavage popping out of her shirt all the time, nor does she have to wear a skirt that rides up every five minutes, well, unless you want to make it obvious that Gabrielle Solis is your role model.

To be a real sex goddess in a mysterious way, don’t wear revealing clothes all the time. You’d only end up making your girlfriends bitch about you or feel insecure around their own men. And what’s worse, by wearing revealing clothes all the time, you’re letting the world know that you want to show your assets off in a very obvious manner to just about anyone who has a pair of ogling eyes. [Read: Should you wear revealing clothes in office?]

To create an aura of a desirable sex goddess, wear clothes that seem innocent but are intentionally promiscuous. White tight shirts, well fitting jeans that show off your curves and flimsy tees that hug your bosoms can make you look a lot more attractive because it leaves a lot to the imagination without revealing anything.

If you want to be a sex goddess, don’t ever dress down in baggy overalls, even if you’re gardening or cooking. Always look sexy and glamorous no matter what you’re doing. Wear snug, pretty clothes that make you look sexy and attractive. A little bit of skin is always exciting though, just as long as it isn’t screaming ‘look-at-me!’

[Read: How to look sexy while sleeping with a man]

Touch and talk to a man

The manner in which you talk to a man too has a lot to do with attaining your sex goddess status. The next time you have a conversation with a man, touch him now and then on his arms or back as you talk to him.

Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying hard to touch him. Instead, play it calm and use an excuse to gently graze your palm against his arm while pointing at something. Or if he’s reading out a few lines from a book or a piece of paper, walk up to him really close and pretend like you’re interested in reading it too. And while you’re at it, gently place your hand on his back or on his shoulder or graze your breast on his back, by accident, of course! [Read: How to flirt with a guy without making it obvious]

No guy can really assume you’re hitting on him just because you’re “accidentally” placing your hands on him. But at the same time, that lingering touch would make him crave for many more unintentional touches from you.

Compliment a man with your eyes

One of the easiest ways to attract a man’s attention and become a sex goddess is by learning to compliment a guy the right way.

Compliment a guy when you like something about him, but when it’s just the both of you, compliment him on something that’s below his neck, or something that borders on sexual flirting.

“My… that’s a sexy butt!” can seem funny, but any guy can tell you that it’ll leave him feeling great about it. By learning to compliment a man with humor and lacing it with sex, you’ll get any guy to start fantasizing about you and hoping for better things with you. [Read: What guys always notice in a girl]

Don’t be overly cute

If you want to know how to be a sex goddess, you really need to lose the goody two shoes image. Don’t pretend to be dumb and don’t try to behave in a girlish or childish manner. By appearing to be a lot more fun and chirpy, you may make it easier for guys to approach you. But you have to remember that guys approach girls when they feel confident to talk to them.

A happy girl is easy to talk to. But a sex goddess who’s desired by all men also makes most men get a heavy lump on their throat when she walks past them. So if you want to be a desirable sex goddess, you need to be sexy, and lose the cute girl tag. Of course, you can act cute though, just as long as you still remember to do it in a sexy manner!

Be calm and composed when you’re with a guy, and try to breathe rather deeply and heavily when you’re with someone you want to impress. Don’t make it obvious though, and try to behave like you normally do. When you take deeper breaths, your curves naturally accentuate your sexy body and make you look a lot sexier and desirable.

[Read: How to dress for sex]

Be confident in bed

Sex goddesses know more about what excites men in bed than the men themselves! So do your homework and be aware of your moves. When you know what to do in bed, it makes you feel a lot more confident when you’re spending a night with a man, or having a conversation that’ll eventually lead to spending a night with him.

Understand a man’s erogenous zones, and use your lips or your hands where it matters. To be a seductress, you need to feel sexy and be sexy. And if you want to be all that in bed, you need to do your homework. [Read: How to make out like a sex goddess]

A sex goddess is suave, sexy and desired by all men. Use these tips on how to be a sex goddess and be that woman that all women want to be and all men want to be with! [Read: How to seduce a guy who’s not yours]

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