Is He in Love with You? Read His Subtle Signs!

is he in love with you?

It’s easy to find out whether a guy loves you if you know the little signs that any guy in love gives away. So is he in love with you? Find out here.

Have you met a guy recently and found yourself wondering if he likes you?

But seriously, is he in love with you?

It can be confusing at times, or at times, you may just have that instinctive feeling that there’s something more than friends in the air but you may just not be able to pinpoint what it is.

And at times, there may be no clear cut signs, but there are some not-so-obvious clues that guys give away, which can tell you whether he’s in love with you or not.

[Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you]

So the next time you’re wondering if he is in love with you, use these signs to read between the lines.


Have you ever watched a child being served a big bowl of ice cream with all the works? You can’t help but notice that the child’s eyes light up with happiness.

Likewise, when you meet someone you’re happy to see, you are obviously excited.

And surprisingly, the human pupil dilates when someone is excited or has strong feelings about something.

You can tell a lot about whether a guy likes you by the way he looks at you, and the way he pays attention to you.

A guy’s eye contact often tells a lot about him and his feelings towards you. Remember this, we often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes. So is he in love with you? If his eyes sparkle with happiness, you’ve definitely made a great impression on him!

[Read: What guys always notice in a girl]


Now don’t get us wrong here, friends make each other happy. But when a guy likes you, he would plaster his face with a wide grin no matter what he’s doing.

If he’s fond of you or likes you, you’ll see that he smiles and blushes a lot more easily when you’re around him. He would avoid any distractions and make you the center of his attention, no matter where he is or what he’s doing.


If a guy is engaging in activities that you like to do, or making an extra effort to be a part of them, chances are he’s doing it just to spend more time with you. Girls love company and so do boys, and we all enjoy activities a lot more when we’re with someone we like.

So take notice of how often he wants to do things with you or go out with you, be it movies, games or chores. If it seems rather frequent, it’s a good sign he’s into you. And he obviously wants you to think you share a lot of common interests, which makes him more likeable! [Read: How to keep a guy interested in 30 ways]


All of us have hectic lives, and everyday can be quite a handful. A weekend is that part of the week when we get a bit of time to relax and do what we enjoy most. But when a guy wants to spend weekends with you or wants to hang out with you, it could well mean that he’s interested in something more than just hanging out together.

When we like someone, we want to be with them all the time. What better way to spend time than by spending weekends together? After all, when you spend weekends together, you’re not doing it because you bumped into each other by accident. And any guy who likes you would love that thought. So if a guy wants to meet you on weekends all the time, ask yourself if you’re ready for something more than friendship. [Read: Reasons why he may not be interested in you]


Good friends are concerned about you, but a guy who likes you would always be overly concerned. He would remind you about all your appointments, he’d ask you if you’ve had lunch, he’d offer you a jacket even if it isn’t cold, he’d suggest a trip to the doctor even if you just cough once!

So is he in love with you? There’s a big chance he’s trying to impress you if you find that he’s overly concerned almost all the time, no matter where you both of you are.

This can be cute at most times, and rather irritating at other times. But it’s just something the guy can’t help but do if he really does like you. Any guy who likes you would want to take care of you too, so if you find a guy becoming overly concerned and caring, it probably means there’s something in the air. [Read: Tips on turning a guy on]

These are some surefire ways to know whether he’s in love with you, but every girl can also sense something in the air, whether it’s love or something else. So rely on your senses and these next five points on whether he’s in love with you.

[Read: How to flirt with a guy without really flirting]

Read the next five secret signs about how to know if a guy likes you that can help you read a guy’s mind and answer that big question. Is he in love with you?

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32 thoughts on “Is He in Love with You? Read His Subtle Signs!”

  1. Rhonda says:

    I have meet this guy off of a free dating site. We have went out and he has came for dinner. He has stayed the night once. We text and talk on the phone all the time. I have asked him questions I wanted to know and he has asked me some also. When I ask him if he likes me or how things are going between us he always says we are good. I really don

  2. Ketki says:

    Hi this is ketki

  3. Bryony says:

    I went out with this boy twice we were truly in love and for some reason both times he dumped me 4 days later I asked him out again he said I love u but it’s a maybe then 2hours later he started going out with some girl I was crying for weeks he stopped talking to me then 1week after That we were best friends now every time we look at each other he does that sparkle n stares at me for like10mins he is still with her but stiff feel this connection that were still going out when we are not ;( someone help please xxxx

  4. Bryan says:

    All of these tips are way too vague. I’m always happy to see friends of mine, I’m friends with people BECAUSE of common interests, I hang out with friends on the weekends because my weeks are busy, and it’s pretty normal to not want your friends to keel over and die. I mean, okay, these are signs a guy likes you, but not LIKES you.

    The 6-10 tips are way better. I can say that the touching, pet names, gifts, and the friends knowing you are more concrete signs. Then, there’s a chance he LIKES you.

  5. Raine says:

    Hi im confused. Help please. My crush is always watching me and smiling around me. The thing is we have only said three sentances to each other and he was smiling! i was happy but im not sure if he likes me. Every time in p.e when i stop running he stops running and if i run he also. Is this just me or is does he like me? I really like him and he means alot to me. He is also tingly around me like he’s leg or foot would twitch but not in a stupid way. And he’s always smiling around me! does he like me? Thanks lots!

  6. SOLO says:

    hi i met these guy 9 months ago………. but he is married we have been together now for 9 months and wondering what is goin to happe to us in the future…………. question dat i ask myself is he happy with me………. am i doin a good thing…………….. will it always be like that or will i have him all to myself or will he go AND be faithful to his wife again……………… i were pregnant foe him a few months back but i did an abortion………… i know it wasnt right i was selfish and was only thinkin of myself………… that is somrting that i will always regret but life goes on eh………………… u try to leave him soo many time but i just cant i always find myself coming back to him………….. dat is how much dat i am in lve wid him……….. he also has a littli boy who likes me alot and i also like hmm…………… we are like a little secret family wid our ups and down……………………. i want different view and i am lookin towards it pls tell me your opinions ill be more than greatfull. i freally do loves him……….. he is 28 and i am 16……… wat a different it is but i am really into him…………. help me out please………….. i am desperatly i need of answers

  7. Lily says:

    Ugh are dating a child molester..the fact that he has a family and wife and is playing around with a teenager is so damn sick..his wife needs to know what kind of pathetic man she is married too..get the hell out of that kind of relationship..there are better guys out there..that aren’t child molesters/pedophiles

  8. Lisa Joseph says:

    I’ve been having terrific sex & wonderful times of Joy with a man for over 6 yrs on & off.I have been indeed chasing after him for many yrs. I am tired of it though. I want him for good. i just want to enjoy life & have fun with him forever & ever. He taking care of me & vice versa . We have a huge emotional bond & special connection & I know it . I asked him why he has not taken me out in public for all this time. He answered He does not trust me. He thinks I will embarass him. I replied You know I’m the best thing that has ever happened in your Life & you Know it. He replied Yes you are the best thing Plus you are beautiful.. I want him Forever what do I do????

  9. Emm says:

    i had this classmate at school….nd bth of us really dint get along back thn….infact v even had small arguments once or twice…anyways, 5 yrs after school he contactd me nd ever since thn we’ve become really good friend…(its almost been one nd a half yr since we started talking)….anyways, its been a few months since hez started saying tht he likes me….my way of talking…my looks…infact almost everything abt me… plus everytime i meet him he does the eyes sparkling thing…nd acts really happy around me…. nd no matter how tired or busy he is he still txts or calls me just to talk to me for a little while…. now the problem is that he hasnt asked me out properly, though he has joked abt it a few times….secondly one of our mutual frnd had once told me tht hez a flirt… but the way he talks to me…nd acts around me has gotn me soo confused tht i cnt tell whether hez flirting with me or if hez serious abt me…:S…. PLZZZ help me out with this problem…

  10. Erin says:

    Hey. I thinkim in love with the guy who told the guy in third grade that
    I liked him. We never talked since the aruement. Now, i like him. Whenever i pass him, is head, is from down, to up. He has a sad look on his face, i think, and it may mean im sorry. The only time were we ever talked, is that pool party. I was beating up the boys because they were stealing the girls toys. Some of the boys joined the girl team. Kade came right beside me, and he said, this is awesome! His smile made me smile, and his blue eyes sparkled, while his blonde hair was getting wet. That was the day were i fellin love with him. Before that day, i despised him. I never talked to him, but i seen him act around his friends. Funny. I love that in a guy. Thats every thing i want. Blonde hair, blue eyes, great smile, a christain, plays sports, funny, and polite. But we never talked, so i forgot what his voice sounds like. I need serious help.

  11. It’s confusing for me. I’m 13 i like a guy in my class. I heard rummors about him liking me back but you can’t always rely on stuff you here from other people( If ya Catch Ma Drift)
    I always thought of him as an annoying person (I still do though) but i always liked how he always jokes with me like he has known me for along time ( I’ve known him for 3 months only). I think my biggest mistake is that i told my friend that i actualy liked him ( Hes um a bit of nut case if you catch my drift). From then on she begin teasing me and calling him to tell him that i like him. So One day, During. Chinese class (I live in singapore) i kept throwing eraser balls and dusts then he threw at me a piece of crumpled paper then i threw it back then when he threw it back at me i saw these words ‘I?Eve” Then another day during chinese class he said this “I know your secret I dont need her(friend) to tell me” Ima confussed help me.

  12. Heidi Kelly says:

    There is a guy in two of my college classes and so we see each other three days a week. We talk before class and at break and the other day he asked me for a ride home because his friend had his car. When he asked me he was shaking. He makes eye contact with me and jokes around but that’s as far as any of it has gone. I can’t tell if he likes me. Also I know where he lives should I leave a note in his mailbox that my friends and I are going to a local bar and he should hang out if he can? Or is that creepy? We’ve been talking for a couple weeks

  13. tracy phetla says:

    Am tracy phetla, am 15 and there is some other guy he’s name is kefilwe and I realy love him so much we are in the same school. So like everyday we look at each other at breaks and after schools I do not know how can I talk to him and he knows that I love him and he realy wants to talk 2 me but he does not know how can he talk to me because everyday am with my friends and he’s realy hot. Everyday when am with my friends I talk about him. So I need help!!!!!! And every girl says he’s a good kisser and he has an 8 pack OMG!

  14. Erin says:

    Well, I’m in university and I’m dating this boy called Triston. Anyway I don’t talk to him that much and I might break up with him, but I’m going to wait another 5 weeks to see if he finally makes a move.

    Anyway I have a friend called James and we have been friends ever since nursery, and he is always smiling around me and always touching me and hugging me so I’m getting the feeling he likes me because he goes nervous around me. So I would date him but I’m now with triston. Then I went to a cafe once and I saw my other friend Ben with his mother who I’ve sen before but never met face to face, anyway i went to see them and when Ben went to the bathroom I said to his mum “I’m Erin” and she said “Oh my goodness, Ben has not stopped talking about you”

  15. Sabby says:

    There is this guy who loves me … we had a fight and he was very hurtful. I told him so, he apologised and now he has stopped talking to me. In the past too, whenever we would fight, he would stop talking and I would always be the one to make up. This time round, I am not sure where we stand and I didn’t make the first move. Its two months and we still don’t communicate. Do you think he is still sulking or he is gone? Can love fade away so soon…

  16. nikita says:

    i have met a guy……. ou first meeting ws on 5th sep… evening around 5…… 1st tim wen i talked to him we fought…… i hated him dat tim n also abused him dt tim…… wen i returned home, i jss had his thought in mah mind….. i ws regularly questioning myslf wether i did anythng wrong by scolding him…. later i wasnt at all happy n so i wrote a letter 4 him saying sorry….. wen i went school, my friend said meh dat he had sayed meh sorry….. i handed over the leter n some chocolaes for him to my frn n said her to giv it 2 him… my frn did so n nxt dae he even wrote a letter for me…… n den we became frnds…. again one dae i sent him a letter n that letter ws caught by the warden of that hostel……. dat guy did nt mention my name n took the full blame on himself…. after i cm 2 know dis, i started to develop feelings for him….. den one dae we met….. co-inciendtly…… he saw me n gav a uncontrollable smile…. even i smiled at him…. his frnds started teasing him wid mah name n even mah frnds started teasing meh wid his name…… n now finally i agree dat i love him…… but i dont know bout his feeling because he told me that he have a galfrn…… bt he also asked mah numbr….. even i told him dat i have a boyfrn but i really dont……. now m dying for dis guy….. i want him….. i want him to be mine…… wat shall i do????? i love him…… i love him very much but dnt have the guts to sae him dis thng……. m scared ……. does he love meh?????????// i hope he does……. i love him….. very very very very very much………..

  17. marisa says:

    hi i need help and i am really confused i like this guy and he says he likes me but he has a girl friend and i have a boy friend. we talk and he seems way happier with me than his girlfriend even he says that he is. i seen him around school but he never looks at me when he is with her….. no body knows we had… well you know what… but i truly do love him .. he goes to school late just to see me, i see him on the weekends, we talk all the time after school, he even says he texts me more than his girlfriend. i i need to know if this “relationship” is going anywere because im tired of not having him and having my heart fucked with

  18. Ulani says:

    I need to know as there’s two guys I kind of like but I don’t know if they like me so I don’t want to ask them out. We are very close friends & whenever I’m with either one of them I smile & laugh so big it just lights up my whole face. I need to know so i might be able toask one of them out whichever likes me. Please help……

  19. Brittany says:

    Hi! My name is Brittany and I have an issue: see there

  20. ray lee says:

    i like my best friend and some times i feel that he likes me back and sometimes i feel that he doesnt like me , he got alot of exams and i dont see him alot but we talk every day and i call him to check on him and he do the same he flirts with me sometimes and when he’s free to go out im the first one he calls and when i tell him that i cant go out he stays home , i think its cute and i really want to be more then friends but im just tired of waiting i dont want to be disappointed in the end .

  21. mercy says:

    Im in love with my bestfriend, he lived with me for two month’s but two weeks ago he had to return to Romania (I’m in the UK) whilst he was here we made love everyday and night, we couldn’t get enough of eachother. He told me he didn’t want to go cause he would miss me, when he left we spoke on the phone and he told me he loved and missed me, (he’s only said it once) and said that I didn’t love or miss him, I giggled and said I did, he wants me to move to Romania. He said he will take care of me. I’m worried I think hes joking about feeling anything more then friends for me. But things he says and does idk..I’m scared to ask I’m I can’t lose him. What should I do? Please help

  22. kayal says:

    I’m in university…Here is a guy who is senior to me(he broke up with his gr8 who left him)..I used to call him brother(which I do with almost all boys to avoid controversies) but then few months back I started liking him..and v have a common friend who s supposed to be his best friend…but I knew this oly lately…I had told this friend like how I feel for him..from the next day his ex started showing up in our university…but then with ex by his side he was looking at me the whole time.after that he smiles nd blushes a lot in person…but wen I text him regarding general stuffs he never replies…I’m very confused y he does this??…I dunno wat is in his mind…he s every girl’s dream boy nd he s a very nice person…I like him too much…but I want to know if he feels the same…can u pl help?

  23. Marilyn says:

    Hi I really need an advice please… Here’s my story->
    I met this guy online. We been dating for 3 months now. He’s the one who always texting me first and keep asking me when we will gonna see each other again. We usually meet on club. We have the same in common like music and we love dancing. There’s just one night my friend celebrated her birthday in the club so my guy went there and he touches my girl friends butt while dancing with them. He keeps looking to other girls even when his with me but he apologized about it on the next day. Three days later, I texted him that we need to stop it and no more seeing each other and I said he can now date anyone. But he doesn’t want to stop it he even invited me for a real date like eating dinner somewhere then watch a movies. He texted me sweet things to make me feel better. Everything was set up for our dinner and to watch movie but his friends having a big party so he let me decide if it’s okay for me to go to watch a movie or go party with his friends then we can watch movie on the other day so I said okay let’s go to ur friends house. So met most of his friends then went clubbing after but when the both of us get drunk. He’s dancing with me but he’s looking for other girl. One time I caught him and I said you go dance with her! and told him “I saw you looking at them” but he told me my eyes are only looking at you. I don’t even like them! When we got to his place he’s been texting a girl and it’s like he was trying to hide it from me everytime I looked at the screen. Until now he keeps texting me and keep reminding me our dinner and movie next week… but I don’t really know what to do… I am scared of loving him more…

  24. Steve says:

    Ok, I’m a guy

    1 – I have no idea what my eyes do. Lighting conditions trump attraction anyways.. if it’s super bright out, all we’ll see are “pinprick” pupils or sunglasses.

    2 – Not quite. How a guy feels is how a guy feels.. we have good days and bad days. A girl we like could have a stronger influence over our moods– the slightest interaction could make or break our day

    3 – This is true, but…. When making conversation with people in general, I’ll ask them about themselves too. There is no way any a girl will pick up on this. If I’m interested in a girl, then I’ll make an effort to get to know her. The attraction will slowly build once I’m getting to know her as a person.

    4 – True, if the guy is bold. We just want to spend time with the girl, the activity is irrelevant

    5 – I’m concerned for everybody, including the girl I like. I’m more prone to tease and (playfully) torture her.. how much though depends on her personality and whether she can tease me back.

  25. razia khan says:

    hi..i met this guy at a freinds place. At first i didnt like him but thorugh phone calls and messages i knew him but didnt eet hm. we met like a month later with much excitement. i went out with him lot of times but now he seems to be losing interest in me..he doesnt text much and call .it seems his distanced from e and this hurts more because when i ask him to meet he just doesnt say yes..what am i supposed to do..i think i love him but how do i know if i do and if he does too….someone plizz help meeee…

  26. andyroo says:

    I’m a guy who’s been in love a few times so after thinking about each sign mentioned, I have to say that only 2 and 3 are strong signs. And they are very strong signs. A guy will show extra interest in the girl he likes, he’ll want to be around her a lot, and will show up meaninglessly but want to stay as long as he can. He will take interest in her family, her hobbies, the music she likes, TV shows etc in order to find common intrests. These open the door for future discussions when he wants to be around her. But if you really want to know if he’s in love with you beyond a doubt, then out of the blue tell him you think he’s really cute and a really sweet guy. He will most defiantly turn to a pile of mush on the floor before your eyes. Particularly if he’s a little shy. The reason is because this is what he wants you to think about him, so it will be hard for him to respond coherently. He may probably say something like, “I haven’t been very lucky in relationships recently” (hint hint hint). With this he’s basically saying, I’m available, are you interested? He’s putty in your hands.

  27. Mackenzie -21 ;-) says:

    Hi I hav a problem w/ a boy in my skool. Ok here’s my story: I was walkin from tha bathroom wen a group of (boys bout 7) came up to me n said tha one of em likes me. I don’t no if I should believe them also they said tha he wanted my fb n #. he didn’t even deny it he jst stood there. All he said was ryt am cuter than them. He is cute Wa shld I do this is not my first time I was aproach by this kind of action n this one I wanna respond. PLEZZZZZZZ HELP AGurl out. Thnx:-)

  28. Sandra Conners says:

    This is a very sad & pathetic article to read and especially to the girlfriend that is in love with her guy. Girls wanting to break a couple up just because she likes what she sees, are pathetic !! And guys who give in to these type are just as bad!! And you can bet everything you have on the simple fact that someday, when you feel all secure & happy (because you read all these outlines on how to take another girl’s guy) he will do it again, only to you this time. So have your fun and feel as confident as you can about snagging this guy but it won’t last. How could a guy truly respect a woman like that when he gets past the excitement of those first encounters and has time to sit and reflect about what a creep he’s been. . You won’t look so appealing as you once did.

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