How to Seduce Women: 20 Moves to Make Any Girl Melt and Want More

Not sure how to seal the deal and get the girl of your dreams? If you want to know how to seduce women, just use these 20 ways!

How to Seduce Women

Seduction is an art, and, believe it or not, is something that can be taught and learned. Even the most shy and nervous of men turn into suave and sophisticated creatures if they are in the know on how to seduce women.

When it comes to seducing a woman you like, it’s all about being confident, prepared, and willing to play the long game. Women don’t like feeling rushed or pushed into anything, so if you aren’t willing to put the time and effort into making her feel special then you’ll get nowhere.

How to seduce women – 20 little ways that make a big difference

If you’re looking to improve your powers of seduction, these 20 tips are sure to help!

#1 Take it slow. Remember that seducing a woman takes time. If all you are interested in is getting her into the bedroom as fast as possible, then being a great seducer just isn’t for you. Women want to feel beautiful, cherished, and special.

If you can’t do that for her then you can’t think she is all that in the first place. Be prepared to take your time and let things deliciously build-up—the wait will be worth it! [Read: The modern day gentleman’s guide to wooing a lady]

#2 Dress to impress. First impressions are everything. If you can’t even be bothered to change out of your sweatpants and smelly old trainers, she isn’t going to be particularly impressed by you. You don’t have to turn up to your date in a full-on three-piece suit, but putting on a nice shirt and some smart shoes shows her you care enough to make the effort.

#3 Get grooming. If you are going to dress smartly, you might as well go all out and do some serious male grooming too. Take a shower and a shave, slap on some nice cologne, comb your hair. Remember, she probably spent hours getting ready for you, so she’ll appreciate it if you have made an effort to do the same. [Read: 15 things women look for in a man before falling for him]

#4 Give yourself a pep talk. If you are a bit of a shy guy, give the impression that you are confident and together if you want your seduction to come off brilliantly.

Give yourself a good old pep talk in the mirror, play your favorite music to pump you up and get the adrenaline running. Make sure when you leave the house you feel great and ready to take on the world!

#5 Set the mood. When it comes to seduction, the ambience should be just right. Make sure you set the mood for romance by choosing a date venue that oozes style and sophistication or an intimate setting, sweep her off her feet, or do something totally unique and special. However you do it, make sure she knows tonight is a special night for her.

#6 Pay attention to what she’s saying. Women hate it when they don’t feel as though they are listened to. Make her feel like she is the only woman in the room and keep all your attention focused on her. Don’t just nod and smile, really take in what she says and ask lots of questions to show her that you want to know all about her. [Read: 20 questions to ask on a first date for the best conversation]

#7 Keep the conversation flowing. There is nothing that kills the mood more than lots of awkward silences. Make sure you come prepared with lots of questions and conversation starters that keeps your conversation flowing.

#8 Pay attention to her body language. How to seduce women? Well, become an expert in her body language. If she looks nervous try to relax her, if she seems distracted ask her why. The more attentive you are to her needs the more charmed she will be by you. [Read: 15 body language cues a girl gives away if she likes you]

#9 Be charming and gentlemanly. Being gentlemanly is seriously seductive. Make sure you do everything right. Pick her up for your date, pull out her chair, open doors for her. A few old fashioned good manners work wonders. [Read: 17 secrets to sweep a girl off her feet]

#10 Look her in the eye. Eye contact is so important when it comes to seducing women. When you talk, make sure you make plenty of it. If you avoid looking at her directly you’ll seem shy and nervous which is off-putting. Hold her gaze while she talks and smile at her lots.

#11 Speak with confidence. Being a confident conversationalist impresses her. Talk about what you know with confidence, and she’ll latch onto your every word.

#12 Flattery will get you everywhere. Being charming and seductive is all about making her feel special and beautiful. Make sure you give her lots of compliments to let her know how much you like her. [Read: 19 sweet compliments that’ll make any girl go awww]

#13 Make her laugh. Women adore men who make them laugh. While it may seem counterintuitive to your suave persona to have her in fits of giggles, she finds this charming and super attractive. If you are a witty guy, make sure you use this to your advantage. [Read: 20 funny questions to ask a girl and leave her ROFL]

#14 Buy her gifts. Everyone woman loves being spoiled, so buy her a thoughtful and charming gift from time to time. She’ll be sure to thank you!

#15 It’s all in the details. Be it remembering her favorite wine or asking about her sickly aunt, picking up on the little things and mentioning them scores you massive brownie points. So be sure to pay attention to her likes and dislikes and the little things she says and store them for later. She’ll love that you bothered to take such an interest, and this helps your seduction routine all the more!

#16 Get cozy. When it comes to knowing how to seduce women, getting close and cozy helps. Make sure you take every opportunity to snuggle up and get close. Suggesting a stroll after your date is the perfect way to cuddle up and continue to charm her even more.

#17 Be romantic. Remember to think like a romantic with every move you make. Always be thoughtful, kind, complimentary, and gentle. Try to be unique and surprise her too. If you do great things she doesn’t expect, she’ll feel like the most amazing woman in the world! [Read: 15 romantic gestures that will make any girl melt]

#18 Get physical. Don’t be afraid to make the first move. If you wait too long you risk ending up in the friendzone, and no one wants that! If you want to seduce her when it comes to the physical, it’s important to be super romantic. Start with a gentle brush of her hand or on her thigh, kiss her softly, and let things become more intense and passionate as you go.

#19 Don’t rush. Remember, as we said at the beginning, true seduction is all about taking your time and never forcing or pressuring a woman into going further than she wants. [Read: 10 ways to build sexual tension the flirty way]

#20 Leave her wanting more. To continue your seduction always leave her wanting that little bit more. Then, she’ll count down the days until she gets to see you again!

[Read: How to flirt with a girl: The art of subtle seduction]

Knowing how to seduce women is a complicated task. But done right, you are sure to win her over. Just remember to be confident, be yourself, and have fun.

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Bethany Locke
Bethany was born and raised in Scotland and now resides in Brighton where she lives with her partner and rather disobedient cocker spaniel pup. She works as a f...
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