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104 Sexual, Dirty Questions to Ask a Girl & Make Her Horny

Knowing a few dirty questions to ask a girl means that you can turn her on from afar. Then, when you meet, explosions will happen in the best way!

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Getting a sexy text when you’re in bed is always a great way to end the night with a bang – even if it’s with your own hands. However, you to do that, you need to know the best dirty questions to ask a girl.

So, what dirty questions should you be asking if you want to turn her on? We’ve got the perfect list of sexual questions to ask a girl to work your magic, and get her to work her fingers!

You don’t always have to touch her to get her wet, you know! [Read: Massive orgasm – 13 moves to have unforgettable, explosive orgasms]

How to use the right kind of sexy, dirty questions to get her warmed up

There’s always that moment when you’re texting a girl you’re flirting with, or your girlfriend, and the texting intensifies and goes down the path toward sex. It’s the moment when you take the relationship or flirtationship to the next level.

As a guy, you may not know how to start talking dirty, or how to initiate a sexy conversation with a girl.

Don’t be uncoordinated and uncomfortable, and most importantly, never rush it. Really, sometimes, all you need are the right sexual questions to ask a girl. [Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas worth trying at least once in your lifetime]

You want to make her feel the tingle of lust, but without going straight into it. So, ask her something that seems casual, but has a strong undertone of sex in it.

If you’re just not sure how to begin, or it’s your very first time, try this step-by-step guide on the things to talk about with a girl and make her incredibly wet in 15 minutes.

You can use all of the sexual questions to ask a girl we’ve listed below, but always gauge the girl’s reaction as you text her something naughty. That’s what halts the relationship from going any further.

If she’s not getting turned on or even remotely aroused, or if she’s just busy doing something that’s distracting her, it’s just not going to happen. If you know the right things to say, you can work your magic. And that’s the beauty of knowing some sexual questions to ask a girl! [Read: 46 expert level tips and secrets to be a better lover and feel amazing in bed]

The must-know do’s and don’ts of dirty questions to ask a girl

For you both to enjoy a sexy question and answer session, ask your questions in a respectful manner. Even though she may be interested in getting intimate with you, there might be some topics that she won’t want to discuss.

Mind the words you put in your question, and no matter what the response, accept it as it is and don’t judge her!

Sexy questions may have the potential to bring up unsavory memories that you might not know about, so if the conversation takes a weird turn, let it go and move on. [Read: The most important traits that make you a good boyfriend]

When you’re coming up with dirty questions to ask a girl, you need to make sure that you’re adhering to a few rules. Of course, be free to talk in a comfortable way. But know that not everyone finds it easy to talk about sex.

The do’s of sexual conversations

1. Listen to what she has to say.

2. Choose the right time to have this type of conversation. Sexual questions to ask a girl should not be used when she’s busy or distracted.

3. Pay attention if you’re asking these questions in person.

4. Be prepared to give an answer of your own. [Read: How to talk dirty with each other and ease into it without feeling awkward]

5. Encourage her to give more detail by asking follow up questions.

6. Set the scene with something to make the space feel sexy if you want to take things further in bed. [Read: Sexy bedroom – 24 sex room ideas to make any room look & feel sexy]

The don’ts of sexual conversations

1. Don’t laugh at ANYTHING she says, unless it’s a joke. You might cause her to feel embarrassed and not want to talk anymore.

2. Don’t push her if she doesn’t want to answer. [Read: 41 rules to be a gentleman every girl would secretly dream of dating]

3. Don’t judge whatever she says or tell her that it’s weird.

4. Don’t repeat anything she tells you to others – the number one rule! These sexual questions to ask a girl should remain between the two of you only.

5. Don’t take anything she says too personally. [Read: 20 subtle, seductive ways to touch a girl and make her wet]

6. Don’t feel that you have to do anything that you’re not comfortable with.

The best dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet and horny

Turning her on and making her horny doesn’t have to be difficult. Just try some of these sexual questions to ask a girl over text. And then, let the sexy texting begin. [Read: How to warm up to a naughty, sexy texting conversation]

Remember, these dirty questions to ask a girl may end up leading to somewhere very pleasant indeed, so make sure you’re ready!

1. What was your first time like? [Read: 15 true stories of losing your virginity]

2. When did you first learn to masturbate?

3. What stuff do you usually masturbate to?

4. How would you rate yourself as a kisser?

5. Do you like sleeping naked? [Read: 14 sexy benefits of sleeping naked you had no idea about]

6. Do you get horny when you’re drunk?

7. Have you ever made out with another girl? *some sexual questions to ask your girlfriend might make her shy. If you ask her something like this and she doesn’t seem to want to answer, don’t push it*

8. What part of a guy’s body turns you on the most?

9. How would you describe your ideal foreplay? [Read: 13 steamy foreplay techniques that’ll make you irresistible]

10. How must a first date go for you to immediately have sex with a guy?

11. Have you ever had sex with someone and almost got caught?

12. Do you watch porn or read erotica? What theme is your favorite? [Read: 20 of the best online erotica lit to make you both really horny]

13. Have you ever considered going to a nudist beach?

14. Would you wear lingerie that I picked for you?

15. Have you ever been in a threesome? [Read: Threesome tips – 57 tips and things to know before entering one]

16. What do you think of having a threesome? *A word of warning on this one – out of all the sexual questions to ask your girlfriend, this has the potential to actually make something happen. If you’re not sure about threesomes, don’t attempt this*

17. Have you ever sexted anyone?

18. How would you feel if I asked you to pose naked for a photo shoot? [Read: How to take good nudes – 36 tips for the sexiest naked selfies ever]

19. Do you consider yourself a breather, a moaner, or a screamer in bed?

20. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve used as an improvised sex toy? [Read: The best homemade dildos for when the moment strikes unexpectedly]

21. What’s the weirdest situation that you found yourself feeling very horny?

22. Which of the things we do during sex do you love the most?

23. Would you consider being tied up during role play? [Read: Sexual role play – How to try it and the 35 best roleplay ideas for couples]

24. Which guy friend will you have sex with if given the chance? *another one of the sexual questions to ask your girlfriend that you need to be wary of. Only ask if you’re sure you want to know the answer*

25. Have you ever thought of – or tried – having sex with an older man?

26. What is your favorite sexual position?

27. What do you feel about the size of my penis? [Read: The 18 types of penises that women either love or laugh at]

28. What’s the first sex toy you ever bought?

29. What would you think about other people watching us having sex?

30. Would you ever consider doing it with another couple in the same room?

31. What’s the part of your body that you like to be kissed or licked? [Read: How to eat a girl out – 81 secrets to make her scream]

32. Do you like getting spanked during sex?

33. Do you prefer me doing long slow thrusts or rapid aggressive pumping? *when you’re choosing which sexual questions to ask your girlfriend, remember that she may give different answers depending on her mood*

34. How would you want to be seduced?

35. Does dirty talk get you aroused? [Read: How to dirty talk with a girl without turning her off]

36. How do you feel about watching a couple have sex?

37. Of all your sexual encounters, which one was the wildest?

38. Of all your sexual encounters, which one was the weirdest or funniest?

39. Have you ever thought of incorporating food into foreplay?

40. If given a chance to have sex in a secluded place, what kind of place would you prefer? [Read: The 20 best and hottest places for outdoor sex]

41. Have you ever been in an orgy? Would you? What’s the closest thing to an orgy you’ve ever found yourself in?

42. Have you ever had a naughty dream about someone you know in real life?

43. How do you feel about making an amateur sex video? [Read: 8 tips for having steamy Skype sex with your guy]

44. What’s the sexiest dare you’ve ever agreed to do?

45. Have you ever hooked up with someone at a party? *Come on, out of all the sexual questions to ask your girlfriend, this one is likely to be a ‘yes.’ Simply listen to the story and see if you can both find pleasure in her words…*

46. Do you prefer being the dominatrix or the submissive during sex? [Read: BDSM tips and tricks for the curious first timers]

47. How do you feel about anal sex?

48. What’s the most random, non-sexual thing about a man that turns you on?

49. What’s the dirtiest sexual fantasy that you always have but don’t have the courage to try?

50. What’s the sexiest compliment ever given to you?

51. How would you describe your ideal penis? [Read: 18 fascinating and unknown facts about the penis]

52. What’s your favorite sex toy?

53. What’s the most times you’ve had sex in a day?

54. What’s the most times you’ve orgasmed during sex? [Read: How to make a woman orgasm – 60 secrets to master the art]

55. Which of your sexual partners has given you the best orgasm so far? *another one you need to be careful not to take too personally! Sexual questions to ask your girlfriend should be taken with a pinch of salt when it comes to queries like these*

56. If I were to let you do anything to me for one night, what would you do?

57. Would you ever agree to swinging with another couple? [Read: How to ease your partner into a swinger lifestyle]

58. How would you feel about having sex with another man while I’m watching?

59. Do you enjoy having sex in the shower?

60. What’s one sexual fantasy that you wanted to try the most that you’re hesitant to tell me about?

61. How high is your sex drive? [Read: Sexually incompatible? The confirming signs of bad sex]

62. What’s something you want more of in our sex life? 

63. Would you say you’re kinky?  

64. Have you ever had anal sex? *You’ve asked her how she feels about it, now ask if she’s ever tried it* [Read: How to prepare for anal sex – the beginner’s guidebook]

65. When did you first have good sex? 

66. What’s your definition of amazing sex? [Read: Sexual wish list – 16 naughty deeds to help build your list]

67. What’s your longest dry spell? 

68. What would you like me to wear to bed?

69. What’s your favorite time of day to have sex? 

70. Do you like sexting? [Read: How to go from ordinary sex to romantic sex fantasy]

71. Where’s your favorite place on your body to be touched? 

72. What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience? 

73. What sex position do you want to try? 

74. What’s your favorite part of foreplay? [Read: Sexual truth or date questions for a naughty, sexy night]

75. If you could have sex with any celebrity, who would it be? 

76. How would you make me orgasm? 

77. What is something non-sexual that turns you on? [Read: How to talk about sex without sounding like a pervert]

78. What do you like to be called in bed?

79. What is your most favorite position?

80. Where is the riskiest place you’ve ever had sex? [Read: Best places to have sex that go beyond your bedroom]

81. Lights on or off?

82. Do you like the idea of tying me up or being tied up?

83. Have you ever tried, or wanted to try, having sex with another woman? [Read: How to cuddle with a girl so it leads to sex every single time]

84. Do you like the idea of being spanked?

85. Be honest, what kind of porn turns you on the most?

86. Have you ever slept naked?

87. What do you wear to bed?

88. Have you ever kissed a girl before? [Read: How to tease a girl sexually and leave her with your thoughts all day]

89. What is your favorite part of a man’s body?

90. What is the sexiest part of your body?

91. Do you prefer shaven or body hair? [Read: Manscaping and what girls actually want to see on a guy’s body]

92. How often do you touch yourself?

93. Where’s your favorite place to touch yourself?

94. Have you ever had a one night stand?

95. Have you ever been caught having sex?

96. What’s your sexiest outfit?

97. Can you send me a picture?

98. Doggy style or cowgirl?

99. Boxers or briefs? [Read: Boxers or briefs – What girls like and how to know what works for you]

100. What’s the wildest thing you’ve done sexually?

101. Do you like it rough or gentle?

102. Have you ever been wet while talking to me or texting me?

103. If I was in your bed right now, what would you do to me? [Read: How to get a girl to have sex with you by arousing her very subtly]

104. Is this making you wet?

Talking about sex doesn’t have to be awkward

Now you know some dirty questions to ask a girl, you need to find the confidence to actually ask them! It’s so easy to assume that sexual communication should be kept to moans and groans, but that’s missing the point.

If you want to improve your sex life, you need to talk about it. Sharing your desires and fantasies can be very exciting and prompts from questions make it much easier to initiate the conversation.

Remember to have your own answers ready if she fires the question right back at you – and she probably will! Communication is a two-way street, after all.

[Read: How to dirty talk – 36 sexy tips and 55 examples to turn anyone on with words]

How has it been so far? A little awkward? A turn-on? But admit it, sexy questions to ask a girl can be an exciting and refreshing experience. Your relationship and sex life will both see the benefit.

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
Vin Serai is the founder of LovePanky.com, and has delved deep into the working of love and relationships for almost two decades. Having dipped his feet in almo...