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Make Her Horny: 24 Sexual Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

Sexual Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

Just because you aren’t in the same room doesn’t mean you can’t make her horny, right? Here are some sexual questions to ask a girl over text.

As a woman, getting a flirty text when I’m in bed is always a great way to end the night off with a bang – even if it’s with my own hands. However, you just have to ask the right questions, and then you’ll get the right reaction. But what are they? What questions should you be asking if you want to turn her on?

24 sexual questions to ask a girl over text

Turning her on and making her horny doesn’t have to be difficult. Just try some of these sexual questions to ask a girl over text. And then let the texting begin. [Read: How to warm up to a naughty, sexy texting conversation]

#1 Do you sleep naked? This is a great question to ask to get into a more sexual tone. Maybe she sleeps naked or just in her underwear. Either way, it’s sexy.

#2 Have you ever kissed a girl before? Has she experimented with the same sex? It’s a great way to bring back a memory that’ll turn her on, or get her to open up about her sexual desires.

#3 What’s your favorite position? Everyone wants to know this answer. What position makes her lose her mind? Find this out, and the next time you have sex with her, blow her mind. [Read: 30 hot sexting examples to start a naughty texting marathon]

#4 How often do you touch yourself? How sexual of a person is she? Is she in tune with her sexuality? Maybe she touches herself very specifically… but you’ll have to wait for her to tell you.

#5 Doggy style or cowgirl? This is a good way to see how she prefers to have sex – does she like to be in control or let you be in control. This is one of those useful sexual questions to ask a girl over text.

#6 If I was to be in your bed right now, what would you want me to do to you?  Oh yes, let her imagination run wild with this. This will get her into the mood.

#7 What turns you on sexually? You don’t know until you ask. Let her do the talking and you take notes. [Read: 20 sexy text messages to start a sexy conversation]

#8 Have you ever masturbated while thinking of me? This is one of those risky sexual questions to ask a girl over text. I wouldn’t ask this until you guys have been sexting for some time.

#9 Where’s the craziest place you’ve ever had sex? Well? Well?! This is a good way to gauge if she’s a little more adventurous than you thought. However, some girls just haven’t had the opportunity to have sex other than their apartments, so don’t be too judging.

#10 Are you alone? If she’s alone, well, then you have much more free range to talk dirty or send her pictures. Just don’t send her a dick pic right away. Start off with a PG-rated one, and then work your way up.

#11 What’s your favorite body part on a man? Is she into arms? A beard? What is it? [Read: How to text a girl you like and make her want you]

#12 Do you like to talk dirty? Is she into dirty talk, or is that not her style? Not every girl is into dirty talk, and some girls like certain forms of dirty talk over the other.

#13 Boxers or briefs? Well, this will help you when you two hook up. Maybe switch up the underwear for a pair that turns her on.

#14 Do you like giving and/or receiving oral sex? Some girls aren’t into giving blowjobs, and that’s just their personal preference – if you want to investigate that further, you can. Does she like receiving oral sex? These are things you need to know.

#15 Do you like it rough or gentle? What kind of girl is she like? Now, many girls like a mix of rough and gentle, so you’ll just have to feel the energy when you two meet. However, some girls are one way or the other. [Read: 50 flirty text messages that are sure to make her smile]

#16 Where would you want me to touch you? What makes her turned on? Is it the earlobe? The neck? The breasts? This is actually an important question to ask.

#17 Is this making you wet? Is all this talk making her wet or is this just a dead end? If she’s not into it, you’ll be able to see by her short replies.

#18 Have you ever just decided to make out with a guy because you were horny? Most men think women aren’t primal, however, you’re mistaken. We get sudden urges of horniness just like you guys do. If the time is right, we may just grab a guy we like and start making out with him.

#19 Do you watch porn? Well, does she? What type of porn? Maybe you can incorporate into your texting or when you see her again. [Read: Make her yours – How to flirt with a girl over text]

#20 Do you use toys? How much has she explored the sexual realm? Has she used toys before? Would she be willing to try? This is a good way to see where the boundaries are.

#21 What’s your sexiest outfit? What makes her feel sexy? The next time you see her, tell her to wear that outfit. She feels the sexiest in it, and you’ll see her glow. Plus, it’s a big turn on when she’s feeling sexually in control.

#22 Spit or swallow? It’s not a big deal, but it’s nice to know what she prefers to do. That way, when you two have sex, you’re not expecting something that she isn’t into.

#23 What do you think about when you touch yourself? What makes her wet in the middle of the night? What is it that just automatically turns her on? Maybe she won’t tell you right away, so don’t push it. It can be very private for some people. [Read: How to make a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

#24 Have you ever fantasized about having a threesome? This is a good question, and when you’re starting to sext, knowing that she’s into it is a great way to add to your conversation. Get her imagination working. Adding another person into the mix ought to do the trick.

[Read: 20 really dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet]

These sexual questions to ask a girl over text should get the conversation going in the right direction. If you want her touching herself by the end of the conversation, well, these questions will do the trick.

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic
A serial dater, Natasha Ivanovic knows a thing or two about men and the dating scene. Much of her writing is inspired by her encounters with men - and for good ...
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