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36 Sexual Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text & Make Her Horny & Wet

Sexual Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

You don’t have to be in the same room to get a girl wet. Try these sexual questions to ask a girl over text, and she’ll be wishing you were inside her!

As a woman, getting a sexy text when I’m in bed is always a great way to end the night off with a bang – even if it’s with my own hands. However, you just have to ask the right questions, and then you’ll get the right reaction. But what are they? What questions should you be asking if you want to turn her on? We’ll we’ve got the perfect list of sexual questions to ask a girl over text to work your magic, and get her to work her fingers!

It’s time to rev up the energy with some spicy sex questions to ask a girl. You don’t always have to touch her to get her wet, you know!

How to use the right kind of sexy, dirty questions to get her warmed up

There’s always that moment where talking to a girl intensifies and goes down the path of sex. It’s the moment when you take the relationship to the next level. As a woman, I’ve gone through some awkward moments when the guy tries to take it to the next step. You can see that they want it so badly, but when it comes to texting you, it’s uncoordinated and uncomfortable. Really, sometimes, all you need are the right sex questions to ask a girl.

That’s what halts the relationship from going any further. How can I respond to horribly phrased questions trying to get me wet? It’s just not going to happen. So, you need to know what sex questions to ask a girl if you want the right reaction.

If you know the right things to say, you can work your magic.

[Read: How to make a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

36 sexual questions to ask a girl over text and make her wet and horny

Turning her on and making her horny doesn’t have to be difficult. Just try some of these sexual questions to ask a girl over text. And then let the texting begin. [Read: How to warm up to a naughty, sexy texting conversation]

#1 Do you sleep naked? This is a great question to ask to get into a more sexual tone. Maybe she sleeps naked or just in her underwear. Either way, it’s sexy.

#2 What do you wear to bed? If she says she doesn’t sleep naked, then maybe she wears a sexy little number. This is a good question to start the sexy talk. [Read: How to text flirt with a friend – The guide to warming her up]

#3 What are you wearing right now? Who knows, maybe she’s not wearing anything. That’s not a bad discovery. [Read: 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and leave her really wet]

#4 Have you ever kissed a girl before? Has she experimented with the same sex? It’s a great way to bring back a memory that’ll turn her on, or get her to open up about her sexual desires.

#5 What’s your favorite part of a man’s body? Is she into arms? A beard? What is it? Women all have a favorite part of the male body. For some, it’s big arms or a prominent jawline. The point is, we have a spot that makes us instantly wet.

#6 What’s the sexiest part of your own body? Again, women all have a favorite part of ourselves. Some prize themselves on their hair, bouncy ass, or perfect breasts. Find what she loves about herself and bask in its glory.

#7 Do you prefer shaven or body hair? Not that it really matters, but if she’s into guys that are trimmed, but you look like you’re in the 80’s, maybe you could trim it down a bit.

#8 What’s your biggest fantasy? I don’t mean fantasy sports, I’m talking strictly sexual. She has a hidden fantasy. However, don’t ask this question right away, you need to warm up to this one. [Read: Sexy, naughty texting games to have fun all night long]

#9 Who do you fantasize about? Maybe she has a favorite actor or maybe it’s you that she thinks about when her hands down her pants.

#10 Do you like talking dirty? Not all women like talking dirty. So, the best way to know if she likes dirty talk is to ask her. Way better than talking dirty during the act and leaving her mortified. [Read: How to talk dirty to a girl and not turn her off]

#11 How often do you touch yourself? How sexual of a person is she? Is she in tune with her sexuality? Maybe she touches herself very specifically… but you’ll have to wait for her to tell you.

#12 Where’s your favorite place to touch yourself? Where does she masturbate when she’s home alone? Is it the shower? Does she make a hot bubble bath? Or light some candles around her room and put on some music? Find out what her dream place is to masturbate and recreate it.

#13 What’s your favorite place to be touched? Men think the vagina is the place where we like to be touched. However, that’s not the case. I love being touched around my neck and ears, while other women love being touched on their breasts or lower back. Find out where the spot is. [Read: How to tease a girl sexual and leave her with your thoughts all day]

#14 Have you ever had a one night stand? Well, has she? This doesn’t really mean much if she hasn’t had one, but it’s always interesting to hear the stories.

#15 Did you ever get caught having sex? Who knows, maybe she has a crazy story to tell you.

#16 What’s your favorite position? Everyone wants to know this answer. What position makes her lose her mind? Find this out, and the next time you have sex with her, blow her mind. [Read: 30 hot sexting examples to start a naughty texting marathon]

#17 Doggy style or cowgirl? This is a good way to see how she prefers to have sex – does she like to be in control or let you be in control. This is one of those useful sexual questions to ask a girl over text.

#18 If I was to be in your bed right now, what would you want me to do to you?  Oh yes, let her imagination run wild with this. This will get her into the mood.

#19 What turns you on sexually? You don’t know until you ask. Let her do the talking and you take notes. [Read: 20 sexy text messages to start a sexy conversation]

#20 Have you ever masturbated while thinking of me? This is one of those risky sexual questions to ask a girl over text. I wouldn’t ask this until you guys have been sexting for some time. But if this doesn’t start the dirty talk, then I don’t know what will. Maybe she’ll be a little shy to admit it to you, but on the other hand, maybe you’ll get in on her midnight hobbies.

#21 Where’s the craziest place you’ve ever had sex? Well? Well?! This is a good way to gauge if she’s a little more adventurous than you thought. However, some girls just haven’t had the opportunity to have sex other than their apartments, so don’t be too judging.

#22 Are you alone? If she’s alone, well, then you have much more free range to talk dirty or send her pictures. Just don’t send her a dick pic right away. Start off with a PG-rated one, and then work your way up. [Read: How to sexually arouse a woman mentally without making it obvious]

#23 Boxers or briefs? Well, this will help you when you two hook up. Maybe switch up the underwear for a pair that turns her on.

#24 Have you ever had a one night stand? Well, has she? This doesn’t really mean much if she hasn’t had one, but it’s always interesting to hear the stories.

#25 Do you like giving and/or receiving oral sex? Some girls aren’t into giving blowjobs, and that’s just their personal preference – if you want to investigate that further, you can. Does she like receiving oral sex? These are things you need to know.

#26 Do you like it rough or gentle? What kind of girl is she like? Now, many girls like a mix of rough and gentle, so you’ll just have to feel the energy when you two meet. However, some girls are one way or the other. [Read: 50 flirty text messages that are sure to make her smile]

#27 Where would you want me to touch you? What makes her turned on? Is it the earlobe? The neck? The breasts? This is actually an important question to ask.

#28 Have you ever just decided to make out with a guy because you were horny? Most men think women aren’t primal, however, you’re mistaken. We get sudden urges of horniness just like you guys do. If the time is right, we may just grab a guy we like and start making out with him.

#29 Do you watch porn? Well, does she? What type of porn? Maybe you can incorporate into your texting or when you see her again. [Read: Make her yours – How to flirt with a girl over text]

#30 Do you use toys? How much has she explored the sexual realm? Has she used toys before? Would she be willing to try? This is a good way to see where the boundaries are.

#31 What’s your sexiest outfit? What makes her feel sexy? The next time you see her, tell her to wear that outfit. She feels the sexiest in it, and you’ll see her glow. Plus, it’s a big turn on when she’s feeling sexually in control.

#32 Spit or swallow? It’s not a big deal, but it’s nice to know what she prefers to do. That way, when you two have sex, you’re not expecting something that she isn’t into.And this isn’t something you’d ask right away, of course. I mean, I hope you know that. When you’re already getting into the hot and heavy conversation, ask this question.

#33 What do you think about when you touch yourself? What makes her wet in the middle of the night? What is it that just automatically turns her on? Maybe she won’t tell you right away, so don’t push it. It can be very private for some people. [Read: How to make a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

#34 Have you ever been with another woman? Maybe she’s more experienced than you think. Perhaps you’re the one that’s lacking in that department. However, it doesn’t really matter, what matters is that you now know how experienced she is, and if she’s open minded.

#35 Have you ever fantasized about having a threesome? This is a good question, and when you’re starting to sext, knowing that she’s into it is a great way to add to your conversation. Get her imagination working. Adding another person into the mix ought to do the trick.

#36 Is this making you wet? Is all this talk making her wet or is this just a dead end? If she’s not into it, you’ll be able to see by her short replies.

Read: The step-by-step dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet within 15 minutes

These sexual questions to ask a girl over text should get the conversation going in the right direction. If you want her touching herself by the end of the conversation, well, these questions will do the trick.

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Natasha Ivanovic
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