How to Make a Girl Want You and Think Of You Sexually

how to make a girl want you and think of you sexually

Are you attracted to a girl but don’t know how to get her interested in you? Use these 10 ways on how to make a girl want you sexually to do just that.

Girls may get drawn to a guy for his personality.

But even if you’re a guy with a great personality, it’s easy to end up becoming just a friend instead of a lover.

If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, read these 10 tips on how to flirt with a girl and make her fall in love with you.

But if you want to make a girl want you and desire you sexually, read on.

How to make a girl want you

Girls love great guys who are a lot of fun to be with.

But then, there are a lot of great guys all around.

And when you’re attracted to a girl who is  drop dead gorgeous and can get the attention of any guy she wants, it’s not easy to make her desire you sexually.

But there are ways, really easy ways.

Most guys are too afraid to make a move on a girl who’s very good looking because they’re afraid to get spurned.

Don’t be one of those guys.

But when you’re trying to impress a girl you know, don’t make it obvious that you like her too soon either.

If she doesn’t like you yet, she may end up distancing herself from you to avoid any awkward moments. [Read: 25 things about a guy that turn a girl on sexually and otherwise]

Instead, behave like a friend.

10 steps to making a girl want you sexually

If you find yourself getting really attracted to a friend who’s getting a lot of attention already, you can definitely make her desire you and want you. All you need to do is play it safe and slow by using these steps to turn her on and make her want you.

#1 Be a good friend. Sometimes, behaving like a friend can be the easiest way to a girl’s heart. But there’s a very thin line between being a friend that she’s attracted to and being a friend she considers a brother.

If you want her to want you, be a good friend who’s there for her, but don’t always be there for her. Speak to her when she’s around, but make sure she sees you flirting with other girls now and then too. Don’t be the friend who’s going to give a shoulder to lean on. Instead, be the friend who talks about current events and fun things.

She’s got to love your company to start with, but she should never feel like you’re an indispensible friend. If you go wrong here, you may just end up getting into her friend zone and lose all hope of sleeping with her. [Read: How to avoid the friend zone with an attractive girl]

#2 Flirt with her. Try to spend time with her when she’s alone. If her other friends are with her, you can avoid her or just wave a hello and move on after a quick chat. The more you hang out with her as just a friend, the lesser the chances of you ever making her desire you.

Spend time with her only when she’s all by herself. That’ll give you enough time to date talk her and discreetly flirt with her. Flirt with her, make her feel warm and awkwardly nice while hanging out with you. And treat her just like you would treat your girlfriend, but don’t ever call her your girlfriend though. [Read: What to talk about with a girl you like to make her like you]

#3 Don’t be possessive. You may like her a lot and hate all the other guys that flirt with her. But you know what, you don’t own her. And she’s not your girlfriend. So never behave possessively or prevent her from meeting or talking to other guys. You’ll end up losing her because you’ll become a creepy guy.

Instead, have your own life, but give her your time when you bump into her or have some alone time together. Don’t be stuck at her hip. She’ll never fall for you and you’ll end up becoming her doormat.

#4 Be her secret life. As I said earlier, spend a lot of time with her and flirt with her, but do that only when she’s by herself. Create a secret relationship that no one knows about other than the both of you. By doing this, you’ll make the relationship more exciting and thrilling. Become a part of her life, text her often at night when you know she’s alone, talk about personal issues, and indulge in everything a couple would do. But keep the relationship a secret. [Read: How to text a girl you like and make her want you]

#5 Make her miss you. Now this is tricky but also a lot of fun. Once both of you are closer and like spending time with each other, call her every night for a week or so. And then, don’t call her one day. If she meets you or texts you the next day asking why you didn’t call, she obviously missed you and wanted to speak with you!

Flirt with her and charmingly ask her if she missed you because you didn’t call. Use different ways to make her miss your company and constantly create scenarios where you force her to realize that she actually likes you and misses you when you aren’t around. [Read: Easy ways to charm a girl you like]

#6 Confession time. Confessions are the best way to open a girl up. Of course, she won’t start confessing about her sexual escapades to you just yet. You need to warm her up to it. During one of your late night calls, tell her that you bumped into one of your exes who was a horny wild cat.

The girl you like will obviously be curious and would want to know more about your ex. Use this excuse to go into the details of your sex life. Be patient and start funny, and get more descriptive and add explicit horny details as the conversation goes on. If you play this game carefully, speak softly and make sure you describe the events like an erotic story, she can’t help but visualize you naked. And chances are, she’ll also be wet down there just listening to you! [Read: 10 ways to build the sexual tension with a girl]

#7 Talk sex. If you’ve pulled off your sexual confession without a hitch and she liked what you had to say, she’s definitely turned on now. Ask her about a horny experience from her past. She may hesitate at first, but pester her just a bit. If she’s horny, she definitely wouldn’t mind getting into details. And as she tells her stories, gasp and talk like you’re imagining the whole thing. It’s be a huge turn on for both of you.

#8 Get her to talk dirty with you. You may wonder if all these steps are even possible, but you won’t believe how easy it is to get a girl talking dirty in a nighttime conversation until you’ve tried it. Trust me, it’s really easy, as long as you’ve warmed her up with your horny stories. Now that you’ve got her confessing all her dirty deeds to you, it’s time you get yourself into the picture.

Compliment her for being such a naughty girlfriend, and discreetly tell her how awesome it would have been if you were her boyfriend. Saying that will definitely spark a fire of lust because she’ll know exactly where you’re going with the conversation. Speak softly, don’t get overexcited and don’t stop with the dirty questions. [Read: 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet]

#9 Have phone sex. If you’ve used the list of dirty questions while talking to her, chances are, both of you are already really horny. Now start creating imaginary situations to turn her on even more. Tell her something like “I wish I was there right now, there’s so much I would want to do…” And when she whispers back softly and asks you what you’d do, you’ve hit jackpot.

Describe what you’d do to her in detail, starting off from kissing her neck to taking her top off to whatever else you have in mind. Avoid talking about kissing her on the lips straight away though, it’s too personal and straightforward for a few girls. And before you know it, both of you would be talking dirty and having phone sex with each other!

#10 Ask her out. Well, so now you’ve made her want you and crave for you sexually. But what’s next? You just had phone sex with her. You’re on a high, but don’t end it right there. Ask her if she’d like to meet you, or go out on a date with you the next day. She’d be too horny to resist.

And when both of you meet up on a date, it’ll probably end with both of you having sex or falling in passionate love. Either ways, you’ve got the girl of your dreams wanting you and craving for you sexually. Could you ask for anything more?

[Read: How to get a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

If you want to know how to make a girl want you and think of you sexually, use these 10 steps I’ve mentioned. If you play it calm and safe, you could be in bed with the girl of your fantasies in a couple of weeks!

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12 thoughts on “How to Make a Girl Want You and Think Of You Sexually”

  1. Katie says:

    Just want to compliment whoever wrote this article (“How to Make a Girl Want You and Think Of You Sexually”). It was brilliant! I’m a girl and I was just picturing all of the above. These steps would definitely work on me! The aloof “out of your reach” attitude in the beginning would definitely spark MY interest. I like a challenge and thinking someone is out of my reach would drive me mental. And the steps go in perfect order. Slowly, sneakily and sexily.
    Whoever wrote this is amazing and knows what he’s talking about.

  2. Demi says:

    Geez, I think I might’ ve been living under a rock but I don’t think this article was based on women who respect themselves but easy women. Then again 90% of the female population is composed of sluts so I guess there’s a high chance any guy will make this work. But believe me, if you end up getting into a relationship with a girl that is so easy to turn on and off then probably you’ll be having a lot of trouble with the possible competition.

  3. Jason says:

    This is actually really rude to make a post like this. It’s just stupid. If a guy wants a girl he’ll find his own way! If it doesn’t work then aw well too bad. We shouldn’t be giving out tips on how to get women. Plus I bet whoever wrote this hasn’t even taken his own advice. He’s probably at home by himself just sitting on the computer… How pathetic.

  4. Donald says:

    Wah!i think this one will only work to those people who dont respect there bodies,men who see women’s body as nothing but sex objects.Men like me,be aware that relationship is not all about sex.

  5. BEST MAN says:

    My God!!! this idea of getting a girl sounds very convoluted and unnatural

  6. Larry Gaines says:

    My girl cheat on me several times and me like a fool keep taking her back. But now I’m really fed up to my neck and can’t take the B.S anymore; it really hurts feeling when I know I have always been there for her and she decide to give other guys her cell # and try to hook up with them and come back to me saying I love you baby and I’ll never cheat on you ! Wow lol to me; I think I’m old enough to tell game when I see it ! Esp when she cheats in a rehab !

  7. mr. J, says:

    This is a great article and I just got laid! It’s all about timing, confidence, honesty and respect. I did not use #9 because it wasn’t meant for the situation, but everything else was awesome! On that note, guys reading this who disagree are either gay or total douche! Girls reading who think they are lowering their standards for a little forplay need to lighten up and get themselves a real man!

  8. chuma geo. says:

    This is the real deal except #9 for me personally (I think phone sex with a girl that is not your date yet seems a bit creepy and says everything out loud already). Guys that complains about these being a cheap tactics are the ones that ends up getting nothing. While girls that also think that way are really trying to be classy. This tactic will do well for majority of the girls.

  9. Chubby Bunny says:

    Thanks for this article. I found it helpful. I am a girl and this will definitely help me in recognizing those boys who want to make me think sexually of them. Beware boys I know what you’re up to!

  10. banana peel says:

    You’re chubby, no body would want to date you anyway

  11. Akiman says:

    This article reeks of prepubescence. I could only imagine Don Quijote on his quest for undying love and a long exhausting romantic quest.

    Where have you been? Some of the tips here are cheesy and misleading, they will ultimately fail with most women. Sure it may work with girls, not women though. These are way too many steps–an abundance of pampering.

    Women don’t need all of that. There is NO NEED to neglect or ignore a call or text form her simply to build up chemistry. If the juices are flowing, then there is no need to change tactics…why?

    Phone sex? This is not the 90’s, people just dont have the time for that. Sure, playful teasing “texts” are nice; it creates an invisible boundary that both people use as an advantage.

    If you wanna have phone sex, try just having sex.

    If there is mutual interest then don’t be her friend. You can be friendly and have attributes befitting of a friend but you make it clear that you are not her buddy (well maybe a fwb heh heh).

  12. Ewan says:

    This is cheating that woman may be some ones wife daughter or sister

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