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50 Dirty Things to Say to a Girl to Make Her Horny & Dirty Talk Mistakes to Avoid!

Words are a powerful tool you can use to turn your girl on and make her want you. These dirty things to say to a girl will leave her dripping wet for you.

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It’s no secret that dirty talk is a really sexy thing. There are pornos dedicated specifically to people talking dirty to their partner and for good reason. It’s hot. It’s erotic. But that doesn’t mean you can just say anything that pops into your head. You need to know the dirty things to say to a girl that’ll actually turn her on.

Because just telling her you have a boner won’t cut it. You need stuff that’s more compelling and will speak to her on a deeper level. You need to make her feel it, and that’s what we’ve got here for you!

[Read: How to dirty talk – 36 sexy tips and 55 examples to turn anyone on with words]

Men Are Visual, Women Are Better at Imagination

Do you ever feel like just having sex without saying anything to each other has started to get boring? Most couples feel that way after a few years of regular sex too.

Calling your girlfriend a “bad girl”, a “dirty whore”, or a “f**kin’ bitch” is fun the first few times. But if you’re only going to say the same words over and over again, every half an hour during sex, and every few times every week, it’s only a matter of months before those words start to sound more like a turn-off than a turn-on!

For a guy, watching porn or even visualizing something sexy like a costume could give an instant hard-on, especially if your girlfriend dresses up as a fantasy character you’ve always lusted for. [Read: 41 sultry ways to turn a guy on fast and make him lust and fantasize about you]

But for a girl, sex is more imaginative and creative. It’s aroused by their senses beyond mere sight. So if you want to seduce a girl and talk dirty to her, you need to do more than just dress up as a fireman.

You need to get her mind racing, you need to make her visualize the words you say, and you need to transport her mentally to a place of sexual bliss.

How to Talk Dirty to a Girl

If your girlfriend or wife tells you that she likes the idea of talking dirty, that’s great news! After all, now you can actually blurt out those perverse thoughts that run through your mind when you’re banging your woman, and turn her on at the same time.

But before you go saying everything that comes to mind, you need to realize that the dirty thoughts in your mind may have existed for a long time, but your girlfriend has no idea about it!

Take it easy, and always start slow. Paw your way around dirty talking like a cat stealthily walking through new grounds.

Say something tame and easy to start with, and work your way up as the days pass if both of you enjoy talking dirty and fantasizing while having sex.

Over time, both of you will get hornier, bolder, and the fantasies too will start to get wilder. But if you say something too perverse too soon, she may just want to duct-tape your mouth while having sex for the rest of your life. [Read: Freaky sex – How it works, 48 signs and sexy ways to be a freak in bed]

All the Dirty Things to Say to a Girl to Make Her Want You Bad

If you’re looking for a way to make your woman horny as hell, we have what you need. These are all the dirty things to say to a girl that’ll make her wet and begging for you to satisfy her. [Read: What do women want in a man – 41 traits that make a guy very desirable]

1. “I want you riding me right now.”

2. “I want my face between your legs.”

3. “I can’t stop thinking about how good you feel.”

4. “I wish my hands were combing through your hair, pulling it, making you groan with pleasure.”

5. “The sounds you made last time we were in bed made me so weak.”

6. “Just the thought of you naked drives me crazy.” [Read: 25 sexy text messages to initiate a dirty conversation with anyone]

7. “I just can’t handle myself when I think about going down on you.”

8. “Can’t you tell how horny you make me just by being you?”

9. “I’ve been thinking about being inside of you all day.”

10. “I love the way you taste.”

11. “My hands, running down your body. I need it.”

12. “Tonight, I want you to be in charge.” [Read: 25 femdom secrets to be a dominatrix mistress and dominate a man in bed]

13. “Whatever you want me to do to you, I’ll do it.”

14. “The thought of me bending you over the counter won’t leave my mind.”

15. “I want to strip you down and feel your body from top to bottom.”

16. “Let me make you feel better than you ever have before.”

17. “I want my tongue on your clit, making you moan for hours.”

18. “Tonight, I am yours. Tell me what you want.”

19. “The way you feel beneath me is addicting. I can’t get enough.” [Read: 30 ways to please a woman and get her addicted sexually and emotionally]

20. “I need to be careful around you. I just can’t seem to think straight.”

21. “I’m going turn you around and you’re going to take it.”

22. “I want you to take charge right now.”

23. “I can’t help but moan when I’m in your mouth.”

24. “I want to make you scream from pleasure tonight.”

25. “I want to be so deep inside of you.”[Read: How to initiate sex and 25 seductive ways to take the lead in bed]

26. “I’ve never been this hard before.”

27. “You’re so tight, I can’t take it.”

28. “Mmm, I could do this all night.”

29. “Your body on mine is what I crave.”

30. “I want to go down on you for hours.”

31. “When you come home I will put you in paradise.”

32. “If уоu соuld rеаd mу mіnd right now, you’d be blushing all over.”

33. “I’m going to make you forget your own name tonight. What I have planned will have you moan for hours, but only if you do exactly as I say.” [Read: What men like in bed – 53 things they want, desire, and absolutely lust after]

34. “I can’t believe I could want someone this badly.”

35. “I’ll follow you in after I’ve finished my first dessert. You’ll be my seconds.”

36. “Take off all your clothes. One by one. You’re going to have to striptease before I let you sit on my dick.”

37. “You’re making me so horny. I’m going to turn you around and fuck you now.”

38. “You were made for my pleasure. Open your legs and let me see and taste what’s mine.”

39. “That ass of yours is driving me crazy. Bend over the kitchen table and take every single inch of me like a good girl.”

40. “You have the most perfect breasts.” [Read: Why men like boobs – the psychology and 30 reasons why guys love breasts]

Tips For Making Your Dirty Talk Even More Powerful

These phrases may all seem perfectly useful when you’re thinking of dirty things to say to a girl, but only if you know how and when to use them. Here are some tips for making the most out of dirty talking to your girl. [Read: 37 secrets to have more sex as a couple and how often is totally normal]

1. Say something naughty in public

Nothing is sexier than a man getting intimate and naughty in a public setting. Obviously, you’ll want to be quiet about it and make sure nobody else can hear you. But if you do this right, it’ll be a huge turn-on for her.

Just whisper what you want to say very low in her ear and watch her squirm.

2. Text it to her

If you’re not together, take the opportunity to text her something very dirty. Not only will you make her feel horny while away from you, it’ll also increase the anticipation for a great time later.

This may also give you a window into some great sexting. There’s not much better than getting really turned on with a good dirty texting conversation. [Read: 45 sexy ways to start sexting and 50 sext examples to get someone horny]

3. Give her a slow, romantic kiss, and finish it by whispering in her ear

This is extremely effective because of the parallels. A really deep, romantic kiss will already turn her on and then you say something very dirty when she’s expecting something sweet.

The surprise and your words specifically will make her wet for you. You can take things right to the bedroom after doing this!

4. Know what she likes

If you know what your girl likes, you can better tailor what you say. The dirty things to say to a girl that work the best are always the things that’ll spark the most interest in her.

If you know your girl loves when you go down on her, then focus on that. Talk about how much you love it and how much you wish you could go down on her right there. She’ll start picturing this and will be horny in no time. [Read: Sexy words – 23 seductive words and dos and don’ts to make dirty talk sound erotic]

5. Only say what feels natural

Don’t try to say a bunch of these things if they sound foreign and awkward coming out of your mouth. That’ll basically just ruin the moment.

If you’re new to this, then start slow. Start with phrases that are simple and that make sense. “I want you so bad,” is a perfect place to start. You can also see how reactive your partner is and continue down a path she’s responding well to.

[Read: The secret art of making any girl wet just by casually sitting next to her]

6. Call her names

For starters, dirty names are the perfect way to take a walk down the road of dirty talk. As you penetrate her, grab her and claw her, and say something dirty and sexy about each body part of hers that you touch with your hands. Or just call her a dirty slut and work with that as the minutes pass by.

7. Describe it

This is another safe way to see if both of you enjoy dirty talking together. Tell her everything you’re going to do to her about five to ten seconds before you actually do it.

If you’re going to do it harder, whisper it in her ears before you do it. If you’re going to bite her neck or let your hands wander, breathe into her ears and tell her before you do it.

8. Ask her to open up

When in doubt, ask your girlfriend or wife what she wants to talk about in the bedroom! She may feel awkward to say something during foreplay though.

So wait until you penetrate her so she can feel completely uninhibited and bold, and then ask her to say something dirty and sexy.

Or ask her to imagine something naughty and tell you where she’d want to be. And once she says something that arouses her, take the cue and get into the dirty descriptions. [Read: 90 sexy and dirty would-you-rather questions to make anyone horny af]

9. Instruct her

Tell her what you want her to do. You could use this during foreplay, or while having sex with each other.

To make it just a little kinkier and sexier, mix in a few questions too. “Would you skinny dip with me if we were on a vacation and the beach was empty?”, “When we’re in a club, I want you to grind against me with your butt, and I want you to reach your hands into my jeans…” You get the drift?

10. Taboo fantasies

Dirty talk about things that are beyond the bed. Talk about different places, involving other people, or just doing things that are considered rather risqué like flashing in public or making out in front of someone else. [Read: Mutual fantasy – how to fantasize and talk about someone else while having sex]

Use These Words to Drive Her Wild

Now that you have 40 great examples of dirty talk and even some examples of how to use them, what’s stopping you?

Bringing new things into your sex life can not only improve your evening. It can rejuvenate a stale relationship, lift lowered spirits, and bring the honeymoon phase right back to your door.

So say some naughty things. It’ll show your girl just how much you love and cherish her.

[Read: 23 sweet, love-filled gestures to make your girlfriend feel special and loved]

Knowing which dirty things to say to a girl to turn her on will be useful for so many reasons. The next time you want to make her yours in the bedroom, try a few of these.

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
Vin Serai is the founder of LovePanky.com, and has delved deep into the working of love and relationships for almost two decades. Having dipped his feet in almo...