What Turns a Girl On Sexually & Otherwise: 25 Irresistible Traits

What Turns A Girl On Sexually And Otherwise

Want to know the real difference that girls see in a sexy guy and a bore? Find out what turns a girl on sexually and otherwise with these 25 tips.

Most guys think they’re great guys and know everything there is when it comes to knowing what turns a girl on sexually, and in every other way. And somewhere along the way, they start to date girls. Along the way, they find themselves losing the best girls to another guy.

[Read: How to steal a guy’s girlfriend]

Or a great girl walks out of the relationship, simply because the guy wasn’t good enough. Now most guys are not losers. But they fail when it comes to understanding what turns a woman on and what keeps them buzzed.

If you want to impress a girl and turn on her interest in you whether it’s your first conversation or the tenth, there are a few things you should know and follow.

What turns a girl on more than anything else?

If you want to know what turns a girl on, you need to understand these 25 tips and use them in your daily life.

You may think you have it all already, or some traits may seem like a lot of effort.

But these are the traits that can make the real difference in your life when it comes to making any girl you want desire you back.

[Read: Top 10 biggest dating turn offs for girls]

Read these 15 traits that girls like at first sight when they see a guy, and the 10 traits that count when you’re in bed with the woman of your dreams, and you’ll know what it takes to turn any girl on with your behavior and your class act in bed.

15 things that turn a girl on about a guy

When you’re introduced to a girl or when you walk past her on the streets, you have to remember that she’ll judge you and build an opinion about you within the first few seconds.

Want to turn her on and make her fall for you immediately? Use these 15 suggestions.

#1 Dress really well. Dress like a million bucks. Improve your wardrobe and dress in clothing that enhance your assets. Girls are immediately attracted to a guy who looks good in the clothes he wears. [Read: What girls always notice in a guy on a date]

#2 Your confidence. Confidence is a huge turn on for any girl. Not cockiness, but confidence. Don’t be nervous or reveal your awkwardness when you’re around a girl and she’ll love your company.

#3 A guy who can pursue her and make her feel special. This is rather important. Girls love to be pursued and wooed by a man. Giving her a good chase when she teases you is the best way to let her know how much you want her and appreciate her. [Read: Why should guys chase a girl to impress her?]

#4 A man she’s proud to be with. Are you proud of yourself and your achievements? If you are, there’s a good chance that the girl you like will like you back too. A great girl wants to be with man who feels like an achiever because that’ll set this guy apart from the rest.

#5 A man who’s in control of his life. Are you certain about the goals in your life? Do you have a well settled job and a balanced life? Women like being in the arms of a man who’s in control of his life and his finances.

#6 Your ego matters. While an unnecessary outburst of your egoistic self can be a huge turn off, girls still appreciate a man who respects himself. Avoid getting tossed around by other men, even if they’re your friends.

#7 Your sweet and caring side. Girls love a masculine man who’s got a soft side in him. As macho as you may seem all the time, reveal a soft and comforting side to a girl when she’s trying to warm up to you. [Read: How to think like a woman and get any girl to like you]

#8 The alpha male. All girls are drawn to an alpha male. He’s the leader of the pack and a guy who’s always in control of the situation. If you want the best girl in a group of girls, you have to be the best guy around too, don’t you think?

#9 Your passion for life. Are you driven and motivated to achieve your dreams? Or are you a carefree guy who lives for the day? As much as girls may like a whimsical guy, they still prefer a guy who’s got passion and dreams burning in his eyes.

#10 Wit and charm. Be a cheerful guy who knows how to be smart at the right time. You don’t need to be a clown to be witty, you just need to be sharp and clever. [Read: How to date a girl by being a funny guy]

#11 Pay attention to her and her needs. A girl would want to be with a guy who can make her feel special and loved. Pay attention to a girl’s needs when she’s with you, and she’ll warm up to you faster than you think.

#12 A chivalrous man. Behave like a knight in shining armor and treat her like a princess when you’re with a girl you like. Learning the art of chivalry alone can take you deep into a girl’s heart. [Read: How to be chivalrous with a girl]

#13 A man she feels safe with. Be protective of a girl when she’s with you. It doesn’t matter if she’s your girlfriend or just a friend. Always focus on the girl’s safety and wants before you worry about your own.

#14 A man with wealth. Not many girls would accept this, but let’s face it. A bit of money can make a huge difference in the way you can pamper a girl. [Read: How to be successful in life]

#15 Don’t be a pushover. Don’t ever let anyone take you for granted, not even the girl you like. Demand the respect that you deserve from your family and your colleagues. Don’t let anyone make you feel less like a man, and avoid any friends who take pleasure in having a laugh at your expense. It’ll only hurt your ego and your self esteem.

[Read: Tips to hook up with a girl and make out with her]

What turns a girl on sexually about a guy?

When it comes to bedroom games, there are a few things that matter more to women than these ten tips. Want to know what turns a girl on in bed more than anything else? [Read: 10 tips to increase your sex appeal]

#1 A sex god. Work out and look good naked. It’s the easiest way to arouse any girl and turn her on. Get yourself a six pack and a body to die for, and you’ll have your work in bed cut out for you.

#2 A guy who knows to use his tongue. Most guys want a good blowjob but aren’t really interested in reciprocating the favor. Learn to work your tongue around her pleasure spots and you’ll make her moan louder. [Read: How to sound sexy in bed]

#3 A guy who can take his time. Don’t rush into the act of penetration. For a guy, it’s all about driving the car into the garage. But women love a long drive first. Take your time and penetrate her only when she can’t wait any longer.

#4 A guy who isn’t selfish. Don’t finish yourself off first. If you feel like you can’t hold on, warn her a few minutes ahead so she can climax with you.

#5 A guy who’s knowledgeable. Sex is an art that needs constant exploring. No one ever knows enough, and what works for one person may not work for someone else. Be aware of what girls like in bed and the unique things you can do to please them. [Read: Top 50 kinky ideas to try in bed]

#6 A guy who smells manly. Focus on your hygiene before you get into the sack with a girl. Have a shower if you’ve had a long day and use a good cologne that enhances the manly natural fragrances of your body.

#7 A guy who knows how to touch her. Caress her and linger on her sensitive spots. Stroke a girl gently with delicate touches and let your hands wander all over her before reaching out to the more prominent places. She’ll love the sensation.

#8 A man who can dominate her. Men like being in control in bed, and women don’t mind that as long as you allow her to hold the reins when she feels like it. But when you’re making love, don’t always play it safe and easy. Sometimes, a decent bit of pain can arouse the sexual sensation a lot more for both of you. Hold her hair, pull her close, bite her and take her hard. She’ll definitely like it.

#9 A man who keeps sex interesting and exciting. Learn a few new tricks in bed and be prepared to try it. You don’t always need to start and end sex in bed. Get innovative and unique and she’ll love you for it. [Read: 7 sexiest places to have sex]

#10 A guy who’s desired by other girls. If a few girls find you sexy and desirable, you can bet that many other girls will follow their lead too. Please a girl with your personality and your charm, and perhaps even in bed, and other girls will fight for your attention. [Read: How to get any girl to have sex with you]

To be a great guy who can turn on any girl no matter where he is, in bed or on the streets, just follow these tips on what turns a girl on and you’ll definitely leave an impression on her and make her desire you in no time.

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18 thoughts on “What Turns a Girl On Sexually & Otherwise: 25 Irresistible Traits”

  1. Tasha says:

    Ummmm. I’m a girl. I only read this to give good advice and to give guys a good honest source for if all these facts were legit. I gotta say, this is almost completely true in every way. God, when I was reading this I got a bit turned on myself! This is definatly all legit. THERE’S YOUR PROOF! A living girl said it was all legit!

  2. natalie says:

    I kind of disagree with a couple things. A lot of girls are very attracted to shy guys because of the cuteness factor. I personally don’t go for the Alpha male most of the time because I naturally associate it with egocentricism. Also, I don’t mind guys who aren’t wealthy at ALL!

  3. Sapphyreopal5 says:

    I think a lot of these types of articles are silly. Why not just ASK what they want behind closed doors, instead of pigeonholing everyone into one box? And just be yourself; otherwise, you will attract someone who isn’t into YOU for you ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. hatcha says:

    I disagree with some factors on this it was clearly written by a female lol u never treat a girl like a princess at first u have to built rapport and give what you feel she deserves otherwise you put them on a PEDESTAL which is highly unattractive if she earns your respect she should be treated like a princess also hirls like cocky but u have to be funny with it otherwise it’s percieved as arrogant which is a turn off also the body part dont worry guys im no arnie im tall dark and handsome and thin and girls still love me attraction for women isn’t just physical like for us…ever seen something that looked so good on the menu but tasted like shit? Point prooven the only muscle you should work on is your biggest one THE BRAIN, alpha males are pricks betas are whimps be omega ladies find an omega and you wont get used unless that’s what you want cos alphas have no emotional side what so ever, there purely insecure …..PEACE!

  5. Francesco says:

    I agree with almost everything.Of course,when it says

  6. michaels says:

    i agree with fransesco, the only muscle there is to build, is the brain.

  7. Bradley says:

    Why would anyone advise against working out and having a good body (Hatcha and Michaels)? It helps you be strong and healthy and able to be a good protector, all of which improves your confidence. If you do well even without it, good for you, but dont promote your laziness as a virtue. Muscles are great.

  8. kenny says:

    All I have to say is “be yourself” I don’t really believe in imitation.

  9. Doms Emmanuel says:

    All i had to say, is just be yourself.
    It works.

  10. dylantare says:

    It’s all about being yourself when it comes to a girl you want to like you. But if you wanna hump her then you gotta put on a game. Just like above see if you can fullfill all that. Am a short light skinned guy and average in size. But girls do scream for me. I don’t know how it works but the girls do wanna jump on me. I never get to keep them for long though. Thank I never want them to stay too.

  11. Chillz says:

    Not all females are into this stuff. besides if you act out of the norm to get a female, you won’t feel free in the relationship, you’re constantly trying to impress her, you’ll lose yourself in the process. Just be yourself & you’ll get a girl that accepts and understands you. same goes for females.

  12. mattress says:

    none of this is saying act out of the norm? dude i agree totally with all the above shit its just like a basic guideline to how to not be a douche and find quality girls ya know. its free to tweak based on your personality. shiittt mayyyyyne you all are dumb so quick to argue maybe its because im on a shit load off lsd or some research chemical like acid and cant shut up or keep my thoughts to myself hahaha butt yeah dudes be yourselves and treat a woman like her father would her except without all the sex shit if it was like that i dont think any of this applies haha peace nukka going to go bang the neighbor chick who keeps blowing up my fucking phone damn whore just wants my drugs lol that goes against everything i just said butttt yeah dudes if your gonna be an asshole or an aplha dick do it when your droppin the hammer

  13. ironclad says:

    You really watch a lot of backwall romantic comedies, dont you? Im sorry, actually im not, but the truth is stony and ugly.

    You would have nailed it if the woman selected stepped out of a time machine that departed from the 1950s.

    Nobody has a need for a “knight in shining armor” (bleh, gag) because there are no princesses anymore. You dudes like to build a masculine fortress and slay dragons while ms. Whoever powders her nose and curtsies at the hooves of your steed. Blow me. Modern women like companions, not rescuers. Someone theyd slay dragons (we call them bills and the irs today) with rather sit on her duff and sigh from a distance.

    Also, “a guy who is desired by other girls.” stop a) calling us “Girls” for one. Puberty ended 5, 10, 20 yrs ago yet we’re branded with a mental image of dollies and frills and rosy cheeks until we hit menopause. That shit aint right.
    B) I dont give a shit what the others are up to. A Tsunami of vagina hit one direction last week, and then it was usher, and honestly, theres no hive mind there. You attract what you put out, so, the average female will roll for a certain dude and ripple effect on her buddies because hysteria is contaigious. Usually treausures are found where no one looks. Rare gems of women that stand out are probably on hold for another rare gem of a man that stands out. Not your friendly neighborhood fad.

    A man who can dominate her. Lol, nice try tin foil cooch crusader. Ive been a member of the bdsm community from the vanilla end of the spectrum to the dungeon and chains end of the spectrum, since ive had “hair down there” and if you put down your 50 shades novel once in a while youll figure that the overwhelming majority are switches or experimental and finding a submissive is rare. But highly and obnoxiously advertized. Until it is a common belief.

    “A guy whos knowledgeable.” Do go on. “Sex is a…” ad nauseum. Years of pleasure can be extracted from the library of a persons intelligence, day in and day out and it never gets old. The 3 seconds of pleasure from a guys finger jerking around like a panicked earthworm i could honestly do without. I understand men are the more physical of the sexes because physical endurance is their evolutionary ace card. Intelligence is the strength of a female because we couldnt stack up in the ttestosterone department. If you neglect the thing between our ears its a huge insult. And sorry, its not just a ball of emotions and yearnings for chocolate. Theres substance there.

    “Be protective of your woman when…” please dont. I can tell when a dude has a savior complex and tries to be a “protector” or a “provider”. I dont need protection from the “big mean scary world.” its not like its evolutionary times and you had to bat a giant hyena away from our offspring with a stick. I dont need to be protected from “modern harm” now that the world is a chessboard of wit rather than strength. I dont need protection from the big scary mean stop sign. I dont need protection from big nasty thunder. I wont cling to your leg when the waiter asks what i want to drink. I do like to be provided with hours of poking questions at the universe however. I like to be provided with jokes. I like a book or a concert ticket every now and then but i like to be provided the level playing field to provide these things back…

    …my bottom line is. Im an individual. Thats where that last paragraph was taking us. Your one size fits all advice really doesnt cater to anyone but the gender itself. The stereotype.

    Perhaps this is why your success is 2 dimensional and you blog about it rather than harvesting the fruits of your… Fable

  14. Claudia says:

    I’m a girl I’ve got bored and wanted to see what advice it gave for girls but most GIRLS aren’t alike just be yourself and you will be fine????

  15. Juanita Rios says:

    I think what confuses people is the fact that even though people born female don’t have sexual desires and can’t have an orgasm there are those who are born male but have sex changes to become women.So the info in the article is accurate from the point of view of male that had their sex changed to female.Those born women will have problems with articles like this because it doesn’t make sense to us.We do not get turned on sexually,it never happens for a woman,just like we never have an orgasm,it is the way nature made us.Men on the other hand do want sex and get turned on but some people can be confused seeing information like this article referring to “girls” when in fact they are only talking about men who transitioned to women via sex change.So it is understandable.

  16. Amber Vaughn says:

    I agree with a lot of these tips. But I have noticed that hardly anyone says anything about a womans boobs. I am more sensitive up top then down below.

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