56 Secrets to Satisfy a Woman in Bed & Make Her Wet Just Thinking of You

Want to know how to satisfy a woman in bed? These sex and psychology-backed tips will blow her mind, and leave her wet just thinking of you.

You’re here looking for ways to satisfy a woman in bed or secrets to f*ck a girl and leave her moaning and writhing, or you’re probably hoping for a cheat code. We’ve all been there, because no matter how much porn we’ve watched or how many exes we’ve had, women’s pleasure still feels like a beautifully complex, sometimes mysterious art form.

But here’s the truth: it’s not about having a magic tongue or marathon stamina. It’s about understanding her brain, her body, and her emotions. And science has a lot to say about that.

In fact, studies show that only 18.4% of women orgasm from penetration alone, but over 80% orgasm regularly with clitoral stimulation and good communication. 📚 Source: Debby Herbenick, et al., 2018, Women’s Experiences With Genital Touching and Orgasm

So if you want to know how to satisfy a woman in bed, emotionally, mentally, and physically, you need more than just friction. You need finesse. Let’s break it down.

[Read: How to Get a Girl Horny & Make Her Wet Just by Sitting Next to Her]

TL;DR: 5 Keys to Satisfy Her in Bed

In a hurry, and want to know the main areas to focus on right now? Use this:

1. Focus on clitoral stimulation, not just penetration.

2. Use the 4 power techniques: angling, shallowing, rocking, pairing.

3. Go slow with foreplay, and stay mentally connected during.

4. Use your words, ask what she wants, talk dirty, check in.

5. Her orgasm first. Always. (Then go for round two.)

Even cooler? A 2021 study introduced 4 techniques that real women report using to enhance penetration-based sex:

Angling: changing body positions to alter depth and angle of penetration

Rocking: instead of thrusting, keeping pressure on sensitive zones

Shallowing: stimulating just the outer third of the vagina (which is more sensitive!)

Pairing: combining penetration with clitoral stimulation

📚 Source: Devon J Hensel, 2021, Techniques for making vaginal penetration more pleasurable

What does that mean for you? More variety. More focus. More listening to her body, not porn scripts.

Want to understand this a lot better, and satisfy every woman you ever sleep with here on? Read on!

How to satisfy a woman in bed

You may have heard this before, but the most powerful sexual organ humans have isn’t in our underwear. It’s in our head.

More than anything else in your body, it’s your brain that plays the most important role in great sex. If your mind is convinced that you’re having awesome sex, big chances are, every other part of your body will follow suit too.

To truly have amazing sex and satisfy your woman in bed, you first need to learn to make her mind enjoy the things you do in bed. Once her mind enjoys it, her emotions will too, and then her body will follow. [Read: How to be good at sex – 32 sex secrets that make you the hottest lay]

Once you know that, then there are a lot of different ways to pleasure a woman. But there are a specific set of standards that must be met in order to do so. It’s not easy to generate a female orgasm, especially if two people hardly know each other. 

Some women don’t even know how to satisfy themselves. If that’s the case, how can men hope to measure up? Get that right, and she’ll surely be satisfied and more. [Read: 26 Sexy, dirty, freaky things to say and do in bed and try something new]

Men get sexually aroused extremely fast and can lose the erection really fast too. But a woman takes her time to get aroused, and when she does get aroused, she stays aroused for a long time.

Use these tips to satisfy a woman in bed and make her want more of you, even if you’ve been in the same relationship for a very long time.

1. Go down on her

If all else fails, this usually succeeds. If you’re having a hard time getting your woman warmed up for the act, just go down on her and spend a gentle while down there.

Almost always, this would help build the momentum for a great night ahead.

2. Take time during foreplay

Most men hurry the foreplay bit without any consideration for the woman they’re with. Just because you’re up and ready doesn’t mean your woman is ready too. Take your time before penetration, and both of you will enjoy sex a lot more. [Read: 20 easy ways to keep an erection up for longer]

Every woman requires a different regimen. Some women have predictable needs when it comes to foreplay like kissing, licking, and touching. 

Some require a bit more complex steps like choreographed undressing, roleplaying, dirty talk, hair-pulling, etc. The choices are limitless, but it’s best to know which one works for both, you and your partner. [Read: The best foreplay tips to rock her world]

3. Remember her erogenous zones

The typical erogenous zones in a woman are several, going from the back of her neck, her ears, and all the way to her knees and her toes. But each woman has a few special sweet spots that switch the button on instantly.

Kiss and nibble the entire length of her body and make sure you remember the zones that excite her more than the others. It’ll always come in handy the next time you want to arouse her faster.

4. Rock Her, Don’t Just Thrust

Penetration alone is rarely the golden ticket to a mind-blowing orgasm, especially when you’re treating sex like a jackhammering contest. According to the 2021 study by Devon J Hensel, et al., (shared above), many women find rocking, a slow, grinding motion that presses your pubic bone against hers, far more pleasurable than repetitive thrusting.

Instead of going in and out like a piston, try staying deep and gently rocking your hips to maintain pressure on her most sensitive zones. It keeps the clit and the G-spot stimulated at the same time, and makes her feel like you’re with her, not just on top of her.

According to the study we shared earlier, rocking instantly increases orgasmic pleasure for many women.

5. Your hygiene matters

Looking good for your woman makes a huge difference in the experience she has in bed. After all, a better-looking partner is more of a turn-on, isn’t it? But you need to remember that looking good doesn’t just mean six-pack abs.

Take a shower if you’re making love at the end of a long day, and keep all those hairy regions clean and trimmed. Smell great and feel great in bed, and your woman will definitely have a hard time keeping her hands off of you!

6. Use the “pairing” technique

Want to seriously upgrade her orgasm odds? Combine clitoral stimulation while you’re inside her. This combo, called “pairing”, was shown in studies to be one of the most reliable ways to help women orgasm during penetration.

You could use your fingers to stimulate her clit during sex, or introduce a small vibrator for extra sensation. Or if she’s riding you, let her grind in a way that rubs her clit against your pelvic bone. The magic happens when you stimulate both pleasure zones at once, and not just rely on penetration to get her off.

📚 Source: Debby Herbenick, 2018, Women’s Experiences With Genital Touching and Orgasm

7.Fantasize with her

Women have an active imagination and tend to rely on feelings more than visual appearances. If you want to turn your woman on and satisfy her in bed, arouse her mind by using the right words. 

Whisper sweet nothings in her ears or talk about her favorite fantasies. As long as you excite her mind with your seductive words, she’ll have an orgasm that’ll grip you hard down there. [Read: How to talk dirty with your woman and arouse her instantly]

8. Explore the “shallowing” sweet spot

Most guys aim for depth when they should be exploring the outer edges. Research shows the outer third of the vaginal canal is packed with the most sensitive nerve endings. This is why a lot of women report more pleasure from shallow penetration than deep thrusting.

So slow down. Ease in just an inch or two, and experiment with subtle strokes in that shallow zone. Pair it with clitoral stimulation or dirty talk, and you’ll create a pressure-cooker of pleasure that builds up more anticipation, and stronger orgasms.

📚 Source: Devon J. Hensel et al., 2021 – PLOS ONE Study on Shallowing

9. Experiment all the time

The most boring of sexual relationships are the ones where the couples just do the missionary and don’t experiment at all, be it about positions or about dirty conversations. 

If you want to do more than just satisfy your woman in bed, try new things all the time. If you feel like a particular sex fantasy or a particular position is starting to get monotonous, freshen things up by trying something new.

10. Trigger zones and fantasies

Do you have any fantasies that make you hard as soon as you think about them? Well, girls have their own trigger fantasies too. For some girls, it’s a sexual fantasy, while for others, it may be an erogenous zone.

Speak to your woman and find out what turns her on instantly. It’ll play a big part in turning her on, and at times, it can help her orgasm sooner when you can’t hold on for too long. [Read: Top 17 sexual fantasies that girls love thinking about]

11. Play with her body

Just because you’re inside of her doesn’t mean you should stop focusing on the rest of her. Play with her body and move your hands all over her.

Massage her, stroke her, and grab her all over. It’ll turn your girl on a lot more than just focusing on the missionary.

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12. Refresh sex all the time

The primary reason why sex starts to get boring is that it can get rather repetitive after a while. The typical foreplay-followed-by-missionary-position sex may be the most comfortable of all positions, and it may feel intimate too. But every now and then, try something new just to bring a change into your bedroom.

Try role-playing, dirty talking, or a few sexy games in bed. Just when sex starts to get predictable, bring an interesting twist into it.

By refreshing sex all the time, you can make each time you make love with your woman feel like a one-night stand! [Read: Top 50 kinky ideas for a really sexy relationship]

13. Bite, lick and suck

Kissing is sensual and romantic. But don’t stop there. Let her feel your passion when you bite her and tongue her body.

And here’s something to remember, a good love bite in the strategic regions will still feel just as passionate to a woman even after several years of going out with each other.

14. Let her lead the rhythm, and follow her hips

Here’s a mistake a lot of men make: they assume they should set the pace and rhythm. But if you want her to reach peak pleasure, follow her hips.

Let her grind or ride you at her preferred tempo. Watch how she moves, does she slow down, circle her hips, shift angles? That’s her body guiding you to what feels good.

When she’s on top, give her full control. And when you’re on top, stay attuned to how her body is responding and match her rhythm. It’s more intimate, and way more satisfying.

15. Her orgasm first

This is one of the best ways to satisfy a woman in bed. The last tip to satisfy your woman is only the most important one. The perfect orgasm is the high point of lovemaking. 

And if you orgasm before her, it’s almost certain that she’ll have to make do without an orgasm. Control your erection better and learn to hold on for longer, so you can satisfy your woman completely before you orgasm.

16. The G-Spot

It’s not that hard to find, but it is a bit difficult to reach for some. Achieving a g-spot orgasm can be difficult because every woman has a different depth and level of sensitivity.

The best way to go about it is to ask your partner what feels best for her in terms of speed, reach and pressure. [Read: How to achieve a G-spot orgasm – a couple’s sexy guide to ecstasy]

17. The location

Women have different preferences when it comes to the setting as well. Some like it in risky places like public bathrooms, while some want you to spruce up your bedroom with roses and candles. Know what she likes and try to provide it for her if you can.

18. Mood

The mood can be developed using location, food, or conversation. It all depends on how your date or initial meeting goes. 

Some women find sensual food like chocolates and strawberries a turn-on. Some like talking about what you plan to do to get them in the mood. [Read: 20 sexy things you can do to get her in the mood]

19. The duration

If you’re really good at what you’re doing, yes, you can make a woman orgasm in 30 seconds. Still, that doesn’t mean that one orgasm is enough. 

Women enjoy multiple orgasms, and sometimes they will expect more than one. You need to be physically primed to provide that using your prowess in bed.

20. Slow sex is a secret weapon

This might sound counterintuitive in a list full of tips about making her moan, but slowing things down can actually be the sexiest move you make.

When you slow down, you increase sensory intensity. Every touch, every kiss, every thrust feels deeper, richer, and more connected. It builds anticipation like nothing else.

Plus, research in sex therapy (like the Sensate Focus technique) shows that slow, mindful sex reduces performance anxiety and increases pleasure, especially for women.

So the next time you’re in bed, try slowing everything down by 50%. Make her crave every move. That’s how you make her feel worshipped, not just wanted.

📚 Source: Masters & Johnson Sensate Focus Technique, Clinical Sexology Model, 1966, still widely used today

21. The choreography

Sometimes, the missionary position is enough, but a woman may want to try something different now and then.

Gently ease your ideas into a conversation while you’re in bed so that you can find out what she is willing to try the next time you sleep together.

22. Sext throughout the day

Remember when we said that sex starts in the mind? Well, this is especially true for women. So, if you want to get some action in the evening, then start by trying to turn her on through sexting.

Say flirty and sexy things and tell her what you want to do to her when you see her next. That will get her excited, and she’ll want to jump your bones.

23. Ask her what she wants in bed

Because a lot of men are selfish in bed, they don’t ask the woman what she wants and what feels good. This is partially because he’s selfish and partially because of his ego. [Read: How to open up about sex and get your partner to share their desires]

A lot of guys like to think they are “The Greatest Lover of All Time.” But someone who earns that title asks their lover what feels good and what they want. In other words, he is selfless. And that is one of the best ways to satisfy a woman in bed.

24. Talk her through it, literally

You’ve probably heard “communication is key,” but here’s a secret: talking during sex is one of the most underused tools for satisfying a woman.

Tell her what you love about her body. Ask her what feels best. Say “Do you like it when I do this?” or “Show me what you want.” These aren’t awkward, done right, they’re hot.

According to a 2024 study, couples who openly communicate during sex report higher orgasm rates and stronger emotional intimacy. The sexiest thing you can do isn’t just take control, it’s co-create the moment with her.

📚 Source: Falgares et al., 2024 – The Role of Sexual Communication

25. Play with toys

Speaking of ego, you also shouldn’t let your ego get in the way when it comes to using toys – especially vibrators.

It’s not nearly as easy for some women to orgasm, and so a lot of them need some help. Don’t feel threatened by it or by other toys she wants to try. She will appreciate you for it.

26. Use lube

Not all women need lube. Some get wet naturally all the time. But some don’t. So, you will need to use some lube. It’s not an enjoyable experience for a woman to have dry sex. It causes too much friction and doesn’t feel good. [Read: 13 perfectly good lube substitutes just as slippery as the real thing]

Even if a woman does get wet naturally, the longer you have sex, the more she dries up. So, if you are a marathon man in bed, then have the lube handy for her.

27. Prioritize the clitoris

The clitoris is quite literally like the female penis. When babies are developing in the womb, both boys and girls look the same until a certain point. And then, the same organ either becomes the penis or the clitoris. 

That’s why it’s such a pleasure point for women. That is where most of them achieve their orgasms. So, put a lot of attention down there. [Read: Clitoris stimulation – 19 secret touches to leave a girl squirming for more]

28. Give an erotic massage

Who doesn’t like a good massage? Not only does it feel good, but it’s also even better when it comes from your naked lover. Giving your woman an erotic massage will get her brain, and the rest of her body, turned on.

Try using fragrant oils or even some food while you are massaging her. Touch her in all the right places and tease her just a little bit, so you create anticipation which will make her want you more.

29. Keep the bed clean

Sadly, a lot of men aren’t the best housekeepers. Many of them might go months without washing their sheets and blankets on the bed. 

But most women think that’s downright disgusting. So, do your laundry, and keep food and animals off the bed so she isn’t scared to get into it. [Read: Turn offs for women – 25 things guys do that girls absolutely hate]

30. Let her take control

Not all women like to be submissive in bed. A lot of women like to be dominant – if not all the time, at least sometimes.

So, ask her if and when she wants to take control. Tell her she can do anything she wants to her, and then follow her lead.

31. Don’t rush with removing each other’s clothing

Yes, we know that once you’re turned on and know you’re going to have sex, you want to get right to the good stuff. But for women, part of the “good stuff” is the making out, kissing, and fondling even when your clothes are still on. 

So, pretend like you’re a couple of teenagers and don’t rush the sexual process. Take your time and enjoy every moment. That’s a great way to satisfy a woman before you get into bed. [Read: Make out session secrets – 18 sexy tips to make it way better and sizzle]

32. Whisper in her ear

When you’re having sex, it’s always a turn-on for a woman if you whisper sexy things in her ear. You can compliment her on her body or the things she is doing to you sexually. Or you can just moan and tell her how good it is or how her body feels amazing on yours.

33. Use temperature play to heighten sensation

This one’s underrated, and incredibly hot. Temperature play involves introducing hot or cold sensations in bed to stimulate her nerve endings in a new way. Think warm massage oil, an ice cube gliding along her inner thigh, or a cool mint on your tongue before oral.

Why does it work? The surprise of temperature change activates different nerve responses, increasing arousal and focus. Just make sure to check in, start gently and avoid extremes. She’ll remember the sensation long after the night ends.

34. Use your fingers

And by fingers, we don’t just mean fingering her. Sure, some women really like that. But some don’t.

Fingers can be used anywhere on the body. From her nipples to her clit. So, don’t forget to incorporate them whenever you think it’s appropriate.

35. Don’t forget to cuddle with her when you’re both done

Because women are emotional, they feel like the sexual experience isn’t over, even when the actual sex part is.

They see afterplay – cuddling and pillow talk – as an extension of it, so don’t forget to do that. It shows her that you really care about her – not just her body.

36. Don’t be selfish

If you want to know how to satisfy a woman in bed, this is as simple as it gets. Put your woman’s needs in bed before yours. 

Understand her preferences in bed, be it about the dim lighting or the right side of the bed, and make sure she’s feeling comfortable enough to enjoy having sex without any insecurities or awkwardness. [Read: How to arrange your room and make it a sex bedroom]

37. Don’t roll over and sleep

Falling asleep immediately after sex is a good sign because it means you’re secure enough in the relationship to just enjoy the relaxing after-sex sensation without having to worry about awkward moments. [Read: The art of perfect romantic pillow talking]

But there’s a thin line between being secure and taking your woman for granted. Cuddle up after sex or indulge in pillow talk for a while. Or just fall asleep in each other’s arms.

38. The right compliments

Women love appreciation in bed. It makes them shed their inhibitions more easily and gets them to experiment in bed sooner. [Read: What turns women on? 52 traits to turn girls on sexually and emotionally]

When you’re naked in bed with your woman and find something fascinating about her, make sure you share the thought with your woman. She’ll feel better about herself, and her new sexual confidence will lead to better sex.

39. Be outrageous

Sex gets sexier the more wild and outrageous it feels. If you want to satisfy your woman, learn to get risqué with your actions. Do something bold now and then, and sex will feel a lot more exciting.

Have sex near an open window, use blindfolds, grope each other on a dark dance floor… The wilder your thoughts and actions, the sexier the sex will be. [Read: Dirty public flashing confessions to arouse your mind]

40. Communicate before, during, and after

You probably already know that women like to communicate. While most guys like to keep their mouths shut during sex, a lot of women don’t like that. [Read: How to dirty talk and turn your lover on like no one else can]

So, talk to her before, during, and after you have sex. She will feel more connected to you.

41. Be gentle with her

A lot of women like loving, sweet, emotional sex. So that requires you to be gentle with her body. Sure, some might like it hard and rough, but most don’t.

Take it easy on her body because you don’t want to accidentally hurt her. That’s not a turn-on. [Read: What is courting? The modern day gentleman’s guide to wooing a lady]

42. Confidence

You have to know what you’re doing or at least look like you do. Nothing turns off a woman faster than a guy who doesn’t know what to do with his hands or his member. 

If you want some hands-on information, ask your buddies what they think is the best way to pleasure a woman. Don’t be shy. That’s what locker room talk is for.

43. Make her feel safe enough to be wild

This tip isn’t about technique, it’s about emotional safety. And honestly, it’s the foundation of everything.

When a woman feels emotionally safe, respected, and non-judged, she can let go and fully immerse herself in sex. That’s when she gets adventurous, vocal, orgasmic. Want her to try new things? Let her know there’s no pressure, no shame, and no performance expectations.

You create the space. She’ll bring the fireworks.

📚 Source: Nasim Bahrami, et al., 2023, Sexual Satisfaction and Marital Intimacy

44. The Three Circles of Stimulation

Think of this as the holy trinity of pleasure zones: the clitoris, the G-spot, and the anus (optional, depending on comfort and consent). The most satisfying encounters often involve a dance between these three areas, without focusing on just one.

Start by stimulating her clit to build arousal, then introduce gentle G-spot pressure through penetration or fingers, and finally, tease around her anus if she’s into it.

Each circle awakens a different cluster of nerves, and when combined, it creates a full-body symphony of pleasure.

The secret isn’t about intensity, it’s about variation and communication. Keep checking in with her, and pay attention to how her body responds. When you master the circles, you’ll never have to wonder if she’s satisfied.

📚 Source: Sayaka Inoue, 2024, Hormonal mechanisms controlling female sexual behavior

45. The Mirror Effect

There’s something wildly erotic about watching yourselves in the act. Mirrors aren’t just for vanity, they amplify visual arousal and deepen body awareness. Having sex in front of a mirror lets her see herself being desired, and that can skyrocket confidence and excitement.

Try positioning a mirror beside or opposite your bed so she can catch glimpses of both of you. Keep the lights low but visible enough for reflections. The visual feedback loop, seeing, feeling, watching, stimulates multiple parts of the brain, making the experience feel more immersive and primal.

46. Edging Her (The Art of the Almost)

If you’ve never tried edging, you’re missing out on one of the most powerful orgasm amplifiers ever. Edging means bringing her close to orgasm, then stopping or slowing down just before she climaxes. Let her cool down a bit, then build her back up.

Repeat this cycle a few times, and by the time you let her finish, the orgasm will hit like a tidal wave. [Read: How to Edge Yourself: What’s Edging & 15 Sexy Secrets to Huge Orgasms]

This technique plays with anticipation and dopamine regulation in the brain. The longer she stays near the edge, the more intense the eventual release. Think of it as a slow-burn tease that keeps her begging for more.

📚 Source: Courtois & Dubray, 2014, Neurophysiology of Orgasm

47. Let Her Use Her Vibrator During Penetration

Some men see vibrators as competition. In reality, they’re allies. Studies show that women who use vibrators during partnered sex report up to three times the orgasm frequency. The vibrations complement your movement and help stimulate the clitoris consistently, something even the most skilled hands can’t maintain. [Read: 24 Moves & Positions to Use a Dildo & Secrets to Enjoy It Like the Real Thing!]

Encourage her to use her favorite toy during sex, or hold it against her clit yourself. You’ll both feel the difference, and she’ll appreciate you for being secure and open-minded enough to make her pleasure the priority.

📚 Source: Herbenick et al., 2009, Vibrator Use and Orgasm Consistency

48. The Deep Eye Contact Challenge

This one’s simple but incredibly powerful. Maintain eye contact through parts of your sexual rhythm, especially during foreplay or just before orgasm.

Eye contact triggers oxytocin (the bonding hormone) and activates emotional intimacy. It creates a feedback loop of trust, desire, and vulnerability. [Read: Eye Contact During Sex: The Science & 18 Intimate Ways to Feel Less Awkward]

Don’t stare intensely the entire time, that’s creepy, but catch her gaze at key moments, hold it, and let your expression say everything. She’ll feel seen, desired, and safe all at once.

📚 Source: B Auyeung, et al., 2015, Eye Contact, Intimacy, and Oxytocin Response

49. The Power of Scent and Smell

Visuals might get the spotlight in porn, but scent is the silent MVP of sexual chemistry. The olfactory system connects directly to the limbic system, the part of your brain that governs emotions and arousal. That’s why her natural scent (or yours) can instantly turn things up a notch.

To use this to your advantage, keep yourself freshly showered but avoid overpowering colognes. Instead, go for subtle, clean scents, or let your natural pheromones do the talking.

You can even play with sensual smells like vanilla, sandalwood, or amber. Studies show that familiar scents boost comfort and arousal.

📚 Source: Keller et al., 2010, The Role of Olfaction in Sexual Arousal

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Why it’s important to satisfy a woman in bed

Sadly, a lot of men are known for the “wham, bam, thank you ma’am” sexual routine. In other words, they are selfish. All they really care about is their pleasure and getting their own orgasm.

But do you really think that would satisfy a woman in bed? Do you really think that she’s that much of a “giver” that she doesn’t care about feeling good herself?

Of course not! 

One of the reasons men tend to be selfish in bed is because it takes longer to turn a woman on than it does for him to get turned on himself. He thinks that her body reacts as quickly as his, so he doesn’t think she needs extra stimulation. But she does. [Read: 30 ways to please a woman and get her addicted sexually and emotionally]

And that’s where most guys get lazy. It takes effort and a lot of “work” to satisfy a woman in bed and make her orgasm. But that doesn’t mean it’s difficult.

Some women are easier to please than others, but all of them deserve a man who makes them sexually satisfied.

How long does it take to satisfy a woman in bed?

The answer you are probably hoping to hear is – immediately! But that’s not the case. As we just said, women are slower to get turned on and to orgasm. Plus, what one woman likes, another might not. 

Some women know their bodies well, and so they do just what it takes to orgasm. While others don’t know at all. What that means is that satisfying one woman could happen right away. And with others, she may never be fully satisfied. [Read: How to seduce a girl and 22 subtle moves to make her sexually desire you]

So, there’s no clear-cut answer to this question. You’re just going to have to put in the effort and gauge her reaction to see how satisfied she seems to be at any given moment.

Emotional and sexual satisfaction

The first thing you need to know is that for a woman, sexual satisfaction depends a lot on emotional intimacy.

After all, two people can get together and have great sex for a while. But very soon, boredom will set in, and the excitement of passionate sex will start to dwindle and fizzle in no time.

But if you know how to satisfy a girl emotionally, you’ll build a better relationship that’s emotionally stronger and make sex feel a lot more intimate and better in the long term. Read the introduction on how to please a woman emotionally and sexually to build a better emotional relationship before using these sexual tips.

How to know if she’s satisfied in bed

Aside from moaning or screaming, there are other more valid ways for you to confirm whether you managed to satisfy your partner in bed. The best part about it is that you don’t even have to ask her.

1. Her eyes

Look into her eyes and whisper sweet nothings while she’s amorously sated. While you’re doing that, check to see if her eyes are dilated. That is a sure sign that she has just had an orgasm. [Read: 14 secrets to sexually arouse a woman mentally and not make it obvious]

2. PC muscles

A woman who is experiencing an orgasm has significantly stronger PC muscle contractions. If you are very aware of the sensations that your penis is feeling, you can determine whether it’s a voluntary contraction or one that is generated by an orgasm. Contractions during orgasms are usually more powerful.

3. She’s sleepy

If she hasn’t done anything but lie down after a round of sex and she ends up dozing beside you like a baby, that means you got the job done. 

Surprisingly, having an orgasm takes up more energy than doing anything to get an orgasm. That’s why both men and women want to sleep immediately after sex. [Read: What does sex mean to a woman and how does it make her feel?]

4. Shivering

Although this can be faked, a real shiver is very obvious. When a woman shivers during and after an orgasm, you can rest assured that it’s real.

A fake shiver is usually slow and weak, while a real shiver makes her look like she went out naked in the snow.

5. Her moans

Boys, please stop basing a woman’s actual orgasm moan on porn. Those girls are actresses *sometimes, not very good* and they are exaggerating for the camera’s sake.

A woman can gasp, whisper, scream, moan or groan like an animal if she’s actually having an orgasm. It’s not something that she can practice unless she’s won an Academy Award. [Read: How to moan and look and sound sexy AF while making out]

6. Her breathing pattern

If a girl chooses not to make any noise while having sex, you can base your assumptions on the way she gasps and breathes during and after an orgasm. When a girl comes, she will breathe slowly, deeply, sharply, and heavily. 

After she’s done, she will breathe quickly, deeply, and heavily as if she’s run a marathon. This will immediately slow down after a few seconds, and that’s when you’ll know she’s satisfied. [Read: 22 common reasons women fake their orgasm]

7. You can’t touch it

When a woman has had an orgasm, she will not allow you to touch her clitoris anymore. You can try, but her body can’t take it, because it has become super sensitive after her climax. 

It’s the same as when men orgasm. You cannot keep stimulating the penis and overdo it after an orgasm.

In order to really maximize these tips, be alert and aware. These are subtle signs that cannot be determined in passing. You need to observe your partner and watch them for signs of faking. If you think you didn’t satisfy them, it may be time for you to talk about it.

[Read: 20 tips to last really long in bed all the time]

Satisfying a woman in bed isn’t about memorizing tricks or being a god in the sheets. It’s about listening, experimenting, and showing up with curiosity and care, again and again.

The female body is intricate, but it’s not impossible. The more you care about her pleasure, the better your sex life gets too.

So the next time you wonder how to satisfy a woman in bed, remember: it’s not about doing everything, it’s about doing the right things, at the right time, with the right mindset. That’s what leaves her wet just thinking of you.

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Keeping a woman happy sexually isn’t really hard, just as long as you remember these tips for how to satisfy a woman in bed. Remember these and your girl will definitely be more than just happy with your bedroom capabilities.