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The 17 Flirtatiously Fun Foreplay Ideas for Women

When it comes to great sex, it really is all about the foreplay. Here are some of the best foreplay ideas for women to get her in the mood.

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Sex is a wonderful thing, but it can be easy to rush into it. If you’re not taking time to build up to the act, you could be missing out on most of the fun! And if you’re not getting revved up and in the mood, this could prove to be a challenge. Having some great foreplay ideas for women in mind can help to make sure you have the best sex possible.
Being totally turned on before you have sex is going to make it better for both of you. Not only will sex feel more enjoyable, but you’ll also become closer, learn more about each other’s bodies, and discover some pretty awesome acts of foreplay that are just as good as actual penetration, an yway!
Fun foreplay ideas for women
So, with this  in mind, here are some of the best foreplay ideas for women. Men, sit up and take note!
#1 Kissing. Don’t underestimate kissing when it comes to great foreplay. Kissing is a seriously sensual and very intimate act. There are of course, many different ways that you can kiss someone. Often, it depends on the circumstances and the kind of sex you end up having. Just pay attention to your partner and tailor your kissing session to match the mood and type of night the two of you plan on having. [Read: 12 foolproof kissing tips for a perfectly sexy smooch]
#2 Complimenting. You might think that foreplay is all about the physical side of things, but complimenting a girl can actually play a huge part in making her feel comfortable and ready for sex as well.
Women want to feel desired and beautiful, so make sure that she knows how sexy you think she is. Give her compliments before, during, and after sex to really make her feel sexy and want to do it more! [Read: How to compliment a girl and make her blush]
#3 Looking. Take time to actually look at your lady. Taking time to appreciate how great she looks will not only turn you on more, but it’ll also make her feel special, like she’s the only girl in the world for you.
#4 Dry sex. This might be something that you think is reserved for horny teenagers, and maybe you’re right, but it still works when it comes to getting both of you seriously turned on. Simply lying on top of one another and having a good old-fashioned dry humping sesh can be fun and really sexy, too. This builds up tension and heightens anticipation, so when you get down to it, she’ll be desperate to have you inside her. [Read: Dry humping and the virgin’s guide to orgasms]
#5 Nibbling. Nibbling is a huge turn-on for many women. Nuzzle and nibble her neck, ears, breasts, and any other body part that feels good! This might be one that some love and some hate, so just ask her or simply start and see how it goes!
#6 Licking. Licking is seriously hot, and the great news is that every single part of her body is a part that you can lick! Kissing and licking all over her body will build up huge anticipation and get her tingling in all the right places! [Read: 8 tips and tricks to give her oral sex like a pro]
#7 Massage. A sensual massage can work wonders when it comes to turning a woman on. Not only is this deeply relaxing, but, if done right, can be romantic and sensual, too. To do it right, set the mood by lighting some candles, dimming the lights, and investing in some wonderful massage oils to help you along your way.
#8 Teasing. Another of the best foreplay ideas for women is to tease her. Women love a good build up, so if you want her squirming and desperate to have sex with you, make her wait for it. Kiss, touch, lick, and whisper to her to build it up until it gets more passionate. Then slow it down again.
#9 Talking dirty. Talking dirty is a great way to get a girl feeling hot and heavy under the covers. If you haven’t tried it before, take it slowly at first. Tell her how sexy she is, how good she makes you feel. If she responds well, then build it up until you’re whispering filthy *but incredibly horny* things to one another. [Read: 23 sexy tips to dirty talk and say the sexiest words]
#10 Using your hands. Use your hands to rub and touch her in all the right places. Using you hands and fingers to stroke and rub her is one of the best and most obvious foreplay ideas for women to make her feel fantastic.
#11 Watching porn. Watching porn is not everyone’s up of tea, but the visual stimulation of watching others doing the deed can make you feel incredibly turned on. This might be one to discuss with her first, though. If she is up for it, talk about the kinds of things that you both think might make you feel horny, then find the perfect porno for the pair of you! [Read: 10 good reasons why women should watch porn]
#12 Oral sex. Oral sex is a classic foreplay move and a major turn-on for women. This is an incredibly intimate act, but it can make her feel absolutely amazing.
#13 Stripping. Appreciating seeing each other naked before you dive into bed is another visually stimulating act that can work well as a foreplay move.
Even though there will be times when you simply want to rip each other’s clothes off in the heat of the moment, try to take your time every now and again. Remove each item of clothing one at a time, and build up the sexual tension and anticipation from there.
#14 Taking a shower. Hot steam and warm water flowing over your naked bodies—it’s no wonder that many of the sexiest scenes in movies are filmed in the shower. Why not give it a try yourself? [Read: 9 wild ways to have sex in the shower and enjoy it]
#15 Taking a bath. Taking a bath together is relaxing and romantic, but it’s also a great way to start off your sex sessions. Why not run a warm bubble bath, pour a glass of wine, and enjoy the warm, soothing waters before you head off to bed?
#16 Playing a game. For a fun bit of foreplay, why not play a sexy game together? This can be anything from strip poker to rolling the dice, with each number having a different sexual act you have to do to one another. You can even make up your own rules! [Read: 10 naughty sex games for couples to feel horny again]
#17 Spanking. Again, spanking is not one that everybody enjoys, so make sure she’s on board first. However, a light spanking works wonders for some women and is a great way to get her turned on before sex. [Read: 12 arousing fantasies to try in real life]
These 17 foreplay ideas for women are fantastic to use in and outside of the bedroom. So the next time you’re at a loss for what to do, why not try one of these? Your sex will be all the better for it, we promise!

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Bethany was born and raised in Scotland and now resides in Brighton where she lives with her partner and rather disobedient cocker spaniel pup. She works as a f...
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