“What’s with men and breasts?” people tend to ask. But think about it, the nipple is the first thing in our mouth the moment we are born. You can say that men are biologically enslaved to their attractive power. And like the bull’s eye in a target, we’ll aim for nipple play the moment a girl takes her top off.
But despite the attention it gets, men still fail to grasp the intricacies of a girl’s boobs.
No, vigorous sucking and hardcore porn groping won’t do. It might even be unpleasant for her.
Breasts and nipples are in fact like a finely-tuned machine, they need precise and careful touching. So how does one become an expert at nipple play and orgasms? And how can women enjoy it far more than before? Better get your notes ready.
[Read: Why are men so obsessed with boobs? The honest truth no one talks about]
As we mentioned, breasts and nipples – especially the female breast and nipples – are very sensitive. It means that if you do it wrong, you end up hurting her, and if you press your buttons right, you may get a chance to unlock her floodgates down there and maybe get to give her an orgasm. Ladies, you need to be prepared to give your man instructions and encourage him to move where feels good for you.
The first thing you need to know is the “layout” of nerves around it and the proper way of stimulating it to get actual pleasure.
Here’s a summary of the pleasure map of her breasts and nipples and ways for you to exploit them during proper nipple play. [Read: The 8 types of nipples, and you definitely haven’t seen them all]
The boob itself is purely a mound of fat covered by skin and the skin is where the nerves are. So, the best route is to stimulate the skin covering her breast, not the flesh of the breasts itself. This means that light touches, not squeezing, is your option.
The nipple is arguably the area where the nerves are most concentrated. The surface area of the nipple is so sensitive that temperature changes can cause it to stiffen *as we all probably know*.
In addition to that, the areola and the nipple sensory system is so complex that it can sense a wide variety of textures. [Read: 18 arousing parts of a girl’s body that turn men on instantly]
This is the darker, circular area around the nipple. This can vary in size from woman to woman and it usually has very small bumps on the pinker shade of skin. These are nothing to worry about and are simply small glands that keep the nipple hydrated and stop painful cracks.
Of course, the medical anatomy of the breasts is a lot more complicated than that but when it comes to trying to help the lady in your life achieve a nipple orgasm, you don’t really need to know about ducts and glands! So, to make things simpler, stick to the three parts above. [Read: Boob talk – Yes, your breasts are perfectly normal]
For most of you out there, the idea of having an orgasm via your nipples probably doesn’t sound real. It seems unbelievable to be able to have a nipple orgasm but, people do. It’s definitely possible if you know how to get there.
As humans, there are lots of ways to get off that we aren’t really familiar with. Your nipples are just another way to get your feel good on without having to go below the belt. If you’re someone who has extra sensitive nipples, you may be able to achieve this insane pleasure.
It’s also true that everyone needs to get a little creative in bed every now and then. It’s boring doing the same thing over and over again and eventually, you won’t be able to get off to that anyways.
That’s why you have to experiment a little bit. You may be shy or nervous at first, but if you just go for it and do something out of your comfort zone, you may find a new pleasure you never would’ve thought you could have.
So don’t stick to your plain old vanilla sex. Start experimenting! [Read: Experiment in bed with these sexy, naughty things to try]
Anyone can have a nipple orgasm in theory, but it does depend on what you find arousing, and how much effort your partner puts in.
It also depends on how sexually aroused she is before starting nipple play. It can be a difficult thing to achieve and she may not be someone who can get there, but it’s definitely possible to have a nipple orgasm.
If you want to know all about nipple orgasms and how she can have one, we’re here for you. Here’s everything you should know about nipple orgasms and how you can stretch your sexual creativity. [Read: The nipples and 9 other erogenous zones that drive women wild]
That’s right. Men can also have nipple orgasms. While women are typically more sensitive in their nipples, men have been known to have orgasms through nipple play, too.
So don’t think that women are the only ones who can feel this extreme pleasure. Men can get in on the fun, too! It might take a bit more work on the man’s side and you’ll definitely have to find a man open to this type of sexual activity, but if you put in the effort, it’ll be worth it. [Read: 8 secret places your man wants to be touched]
If you want to have the best orgasm of your life, or you want to give your girlfriend her best, combine nipple play with your regular sexual activities.
Having a nipple orgasm prior to or even during intercourse can completely change sex for the better. It can give you an even more powerful orgasm and you’ll never want to have sex without it again.
If you haven’t figured this out by now, you are surely missing out. The nipples house a lot of nerves that can really get your nether regions worked up, too. They’re definitely considered an erogenous zone.
So if you’re ignoring them during sex, you’re going about your sexcapades the wrong way. Playing, pinching, and even sucking on the nipples can get her warmed up in all the right places. [Read: The most arousing erogenous zones for women all men should know]
She probably won’t have a nipple orgasm on the first try. That’s because it takes a lot of time to master and you have to work to find out what feels best to her. Some people have different needs when it comes to nipple stimulation.
For this reason, you have to be patient. If you try to rush into a nipple orgasm, you’ll be left very disappointed. Take your time to understand yourself and your partner. Then you can master it. [Read: 13 sexy reasons to slow it down in the bedroom]
Speaking of mastering the job, you have to start slowly. The nipples – like other erogenous zones – need to be “warmed up.” Therefore, you should be starting slowly and taking it easy.
Not moving too fast with her nipples can also help you know what feels best. If you’re moving too fast and something feels great to her, you’ll have passed over what she likes and won’t know what to go back to. So take it easy!
If a woman is trying to reach a nipple orgasm and her partner isn’t patient and doesn’t want to take the time to please her this way, then it won’t work. You need to be just as turned on by playing with her nipples as she is.
Sure, you may find people who are definitely into boobs, but you need a certain level of interest in order to achieve a nipple orgasm. You need to WANT to get her off via her nipples in order for it to happen. [Read: 13 ways to know if you’re sexually compatible]
If your mind is full of doubt about getting off, your body won’t be able to do it. This is true for pretty much any type of orgasm – but especially one through your nipples.
A lot of people doubt nipple orgasms are real. If you’re one of those people, you need to push this thought aside and assure yourself that it’s possible. Believe it and it shall be.
Nipple orgasms take time and patience to achieve. You can’t go full force on the nipple and expect to reach orgasm. The nipples need some foreplay, too. So be sure you’re putting a lot of effort into them.
Start by massaging her breasts. Work your way around them, moving closer to her nipples and then back away.
Don’t touch her nipples until she’s really stimulated. This will make it feel even better when they do get played with – resulting in a better orgasm. [Read: 9 tips for the best foreplay of your life]
If she’s too much in her head during nipple play, she won’t be able to get off. Just like with any other orgasm, her body has to be relaxed and ready to achieve it. So encourage her to stop worrying about her grocery list and what chores she has to do later.
If she can fully focus on the sensations and the pleasure of the feelings, it will help her mind zero in on her orgasm and it’ll definitely help her get there. [Read: How to relax during sex – Free your mind and enjoy your orgasms]
This is essential for having a nipple orgasm. You both need to tell each other what you like and what you don’t.
You need to be ready to listen and do whatever she needs to get her to her peak. Make sure you listen to what she’s telling you and act upon it. Open up and it’ll only help your sex life as a whole.
Most women complain that their breasts feel sore and swollen a few days before their period. This is actually caused by a hormonal imbalance that they experience prior to menstruation. If this is the case, you should probably lay off the nipple play for the meantime. [Read: The guide to having sex on your period]
Aside from your hands and fingers, you can use your lips, teeth, and even your facial hair. Each type of stimulation creates a novel sensation for her which can register different levels of pleasure. Don’t be afraid to experiment!
Say how beautiful they are and how you love doing things to them. Make her feel genuinely sexy. That’ll be a pleasure that no toy or technique can imitate. [Read: 16 ways to show your appreciation for someone you love]
It’s important to remember that all women are different. One woman may love having her nipples nibbled but another woman may hate it.
You’ll only know what she likes by experimenting, asking her, watching for her reactions, and simply going with it. To help you get started with nipple play and hopefully lead her towards her first nipple orgasm, here are a few moves to try.
Well, foreplay usually starts with your clothes on and you would definitely agree that groping over her bra and sweater is definitely hot. It feels kinky, dirty, and forbidden.
Well, while she doesn’t feel skin-to-skin contact yet, the anticipation that builds as you stroke the areas where her nipple should provide the thrilling sensation that will turn her on. [Read: How to sexually arouse a woman mentally without making it obvious]
Lots of sex guides would suggest that you should deliberately avoid contact with key areas in order to build anticipation. One way to do this is to give her a sense of being touched without touching her at all.
Lightly blowing on her breasts stimulates the tiny hairs on the skin that will surely drive her wild. Do this by slightly opening your mouth over her nipple and exhaling, or lightly blowing lines over her breasts like blowing a candle.
The keyword here is ‘gentle’! Use the tip of your fingernails *make sure they are trimmed* to lightly trace lines over the skin of her breasts all the way to areola and nipples making your touch lighter as you reach the center.
Seeing goosebumps over her skin? Then you’re doing it right. [Read: How to touch a woman’s breasts on a first date]
Use the palm of your hand to rub her chest. Using both palms fingers facing outward; rub her from her stomach all the way up to the base of her breasts. Then trace the outline of her breasts with your fingers in a circular motion until you end up in her collarbone.
Rest your hands on the cup of her breasts while leaving your thumb and index finger free to play with her nipples. Starting from the base of her nipple, draw her nipple out in a pulling motion applying decreasing pressure as you let it slip from your fingers.
Don’t overdo it or you end up hurting her.
A kiss on her breast registers the sensation of soft, warm, and slightly moist lips that she’ll be sure to love. Start with short pecks from her underboob and work your way with longer and deeper kisses until you reach her nipples.
Note that you need to maintain a pattern while doing this. Kissing her breasts in random places will make her feel ticklish. [Read: Fake boobs alert – How to tell if your girl’s boobs aren’t real]
Licking is wet, slimy, and warm. And then cools off as the saliva evaporates from her skin making for a novel mix of sensations.
There are many ways to lick her breasts, but for now, focus on tracing circles around her areola with the tip of your tongue, afterwards…
Sucking is perpetually warm, moist, and silky with the texture of the insides of your mouth. Most girls love their nipples being sucked because of the mixture of these sensations.
Remember that sucking can hurt as well if you do it vigorously.
Nipple pinching is quite an acquired taste for some girls. Pinching evokes the sensation of pressure and the natural way for girls to feel this is when their nipples harden due to cold temperatures.
So if you’re introducing pinching to nipple play, start with a clamp that has light pressure on it and then gradually work your way to her pinch pleasure threshold. [Read: 15 hot spots to kiss a woman and leave her instantly wet]
You’ve seen this in movies somewhere, no doubt. A guy picks a cube of ice from a champagne cooler, uses it as a crayon, and draws circles over the girl’s breasts as she writhes in anticipation.
The best way, however, is to put the ice in your mouth and let the hot and cold sensations mix as you suck on her nipple.
You’d be surprised at the variety of sex toys aimed for nipple and breast pleasure out there. There are clamps, suckers, nipple vibrators, and chains just waiting for you to try. [Read: Top 50 kinky ideas for a really sexy relationship]
Not all people have the smoothest hands to caress equally sensitive breasts. No girl would ever want to feel that their boobs are being rubbed by sandpaper!
So you better have a bottle of light massage oil or gel at the ready just in case.
Psychology teaches us that eliminating one of the senses adds intensity to the other remaining senses. A blindfold will leave her at the mercy of her imagination and to what she feels crawling on her skin resulting in a lip-biting experience for her. [Read: Blindfold sex – 14 sensual ways to use blindfolds in bed]
So, what are you waiting for? A nipple orgasm is out there waiting for that special lady in your life. By helping her achieve one, she’s sure to remember the night for a very long time to come!
[Read: Titty sex – How to make booby sex feel like a blast for your girl]
Breasts and nipples sure do get a lot of attention during sex, but are they getting the proper handling? Remember, they can be sensitive. They can hurt if you manhandle them too much during nipple play and orgasms, but they also have the potential to provide a great sexual experience if handled properly.
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