One of the best feelings as a lover is being able to turn your partner on to the point where they just CAN’T wait any longer. It makes you feel like you’re in total control of their pleasure, and it’s just one of the most satisfying feelings there is in the world. And once you learn the secrets behind how to tease your boyfriend, you’ll see how effortless the whole thing can be.
I think everyone’s goal is to please their partner. We want to do everything in our power to give them as much pleasure as we can. We care about how they feel, and we want to make sure they’re enjoying themselves immensely and teasing is such a great way to do this.
The importance of teasing and foreplay
When it comes to getting it on, foreplay is a vital part of ensuring that everyone walks away fully pleased. Without it, you run the risk of neither of you being able to finish, and that’s just not a good time for anybody.
Teasing is the best form of foreplay, simply because it creates the most anticipation. The feeling of anticipation can do wonders to turn someone on and make them want you – which is exactly what you want to do during foreplay.
[Read: 17 flirtatiously fun foreplay ideas for women]
How to tease your boyfriend and drive him crazy
Being able to tease your boyfriend to the point of him not being able to control himself should be every girl’s goal. You should be trying to tease him so much that he just can’t help himself around you.
If you want to learn how to do just that, we can help.
*Warning*: After you’re done with him, you better be ready for a crazy night! [Read: How to attract a man so he can’t resist you]
15 ways you can tease your boyfriend and drive him wild
#1 Text him about how bad you want him later. Teasing and foreplay doesn’t have to start and end in the bedroom. In fact, it’s better to start earlier in the day and build up the anticipation.
You can easily do this by sending him a quick text about how much you’re already wanting him and that you can’t wait to see him later. Bonus points if you go into detail about what you want to do later. [Read: 60 really dirty, seductive things to say to a guy and turn him on]
#2 Send naughty pictures to him. One way to amp up the previous technique for teasing your boyfriend and driving him crazy is to send him a seductive picture. But always be careful that you’re sending this type of photo to the right person. Because when he gets that picture, he won’t be able to wait until later.
#3 Tell him you’re not wearing any underwear. For some reason, guys love thinking about their lovers and having easy access to them. One way to ensure that you drive your man nuts is to simply tell him that you’re not wearing any underwear. He’ll immediately start picturing you in all sorts of teasing images.
#4 SHOW him that you’re not wearing any underwear. If you don’t want to stop the teasing with just telling him you’re going commando, SHOW him. Take a little picture and send it his way. Or if you’re already with him, grab his hand and let him feel that you’re not lying.
Both of these are perfect ways to tease your boyfriend and drive him crazy to the point where he’s dying for you. He won’t be able to keep his hands off of you after pulling these moves on him. [Read: 30 subtle, obvious and really naughty flirting tips for women]
#5 Spend the day walking around in lingerie – but don’t let him touch. If there’s one thing that gets guys really riled up, it’s putting a show for them and then not letting them touch the goods.
Get yourself some sexy lingerie, or even use something you have lying around. Then spend the day showing yourself off to him but make it clear he can’t touch… until later. This will drive him mad for you. [Read: 18 physical turn ons that arouse a guy instantly]
#6 When leaning in for a peck, hit him with some tongue action and walk away. Unexpected displays of sexuality turn men on in amazing ways. All you have to do when he leans in for your normal, everyday goodbye kiss is to give him a passionate kiss instead. He’ll be thinking about you all day long.
#7 Purchase those toys you two talked about and leave them on the bed without saying a word. Maybe you two have been talking about experimenting with some toys but neither of you have pulled the trigger on it yet. All you have to do to tease him and drive him crazy for you is buy one of those toys – and leave it on the bed for him to find.
Don’t make a peep about it otherwise. This will get him in the mood so fast he won’t know what to do with himself. I suggest doing this in the morning and leaving before he does so he finds it while you’re already gone. [Read: 13 must-have couple’s sex toys for naughty first timers]
#8 Whisper into his ear all of the things you want to do to him. Get in close to him and whisper all of the naughty things you want to do to him. Go into detail about each thing and make sure his attention is all on you – but that won’t be hard. He won’t be able to stand the anticipation.
#9 Tell him all the things you want him to do to you. Flip this same technique around and tell him all of the things you want him to do to you. Tell him how badly you want him to work his magic on you, and the images will start going around in his mind. He will go nuts! [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound really, really sexy]
#10 Give him a hot oil massage. There’s nothing much sexier than rubbing hot oil on your partner. This is a great way to get him to relax, but also a fantastic way to get him in the mood for later.
When you’re doing this, make your way up and down his entire body, pausing on those good parts, but never quite satisfying him the way he wants. This will make him want you more later. [Read: Massaging your partner to orgasm – 20 pivotal dos and don’ts]
#11 Undress him. It may sound strange to undress someone as a means of teasing them, but hear me out. This is a perfect opportunity for you to touch him all over without him being able to stop or control you. This is also a great time to put some other techniques into play at the same time in order to overload his senses.
#12 Make him watch you get undressed… slowly. It’s not called a stripTEASE for no reason. Sit him down in a chair and make him watch as you slowly take off each article of clothing – saving the best for last. He won’t be able to keep his hands off you when you’re finally naked. [Read: Striptease 101 – Your effortless guide to doing it like a pro]
#13 Start kissing him slowly and then make your way down his body… but never stopping anywhere. This is the same kind of teasing that the hot oil massage does, only better because it’s with your mouth. Start at his neck and slowly make your way down his chest, then stomach, stopping just above his goods before going back up. [Read: How to kiss him passionately and romantically]
#14 Guide his hands along your body. Take his hands and move them over your body just as you want them. Let them linger at the good spots sometimes, but then pull them away and refuse to let him touch others. He’ll be dying to be the one controlling things after a few moments.
#15 Guide him slowly into the bedroom. This is a simple, yet very powerful way to tease him. All you have to do is grab his hand and pull him behind you as you slowly, agonizingly, make your way into the bedroom. And then shut the door behind him.
[Read: How to arouse a man instantly even if he’s just not in the mood]
Teasing and taunting can be one of the best ways to excite your man. And it can turn a boring night into one that you both will never forget. And these techniques on how to tease your boyfriend will only help you drive him crazy for you.
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