Need to spice up your sex life a little? It’s normal occasionally but learning a few sex games for couples or even foreplay games can bring the sizzle back!
If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’d know that it’s not easy to keep that rush of sexual passion alive every single night. Sometimes, as hard as both of you try, sex can start to feel pretty repetitive, and it’s no one’s fault really. At times, you need more than just to and fro motion in bed to keep dirty sex alive in bed. And the problem can be solved by learning a few sex games for couples as foreplay, to help bring back the spark and make you both feel like you’re in the honeymoon phase all over again!
Let’s face it, it’s very normal for sex to become a little lower down on the priority list than most couples would like occasionally. But, if you allow it to stay down that list, it will remain there.
While sex isn’t the most important part of any relationship, it is pretty high up. Sex helps to bond you as a couple and it’s a healthy and important part of any relationship.
That’s why learning a few foreplay games could be the key to changing everything for the better! [Read: 10 sexy drinking games for naughty guys and girls]
Why does sex sometimes become repetitive or even boring?
Life can just get in the way sometimes. Stress, family problems, money issues, work, illness, the COVID-19 pandemic. There are many reasons why people may push sex down to the bottom of their priority list temporarily but then struggle to pull it back up again.
There are also some medical issues that can cause a person to have a lower sex drive than they would normally have. If you think that may be the case for you, a quick trip to the doctor will help you to iron things out.
However, one of the most common reasons for sex becoming repetitive or even boring is simply that you’ve stopped being creative.
In the honeymoon period of a relationship, everything is sexually exciting. You’re ripping each other’s clothes off and you can’t wait to jump back into bed. But, as time goes on, it’s not possible to keep that excitement at the same level. The truth is, every relationship needs work, even the most passionate and loving relationships need to be worked at! [Read: Is missionary sex really boring? Spice up this underrated move]
So, if you’re keen to learn some sex games for couples, that means that you’re willing to put in the work. That’s the very best first step towards reclaiming the excitement of the honeymoon phase once more.
Why is foreplay so important
A lack of foreplay, or not enough of it, is one of the reasons why women, in particular, tend to want sex less often.
Foreplay is vitally important, but for women, even more so. We all know that some women struggle to reach orgasm and without foreplay, the chances of that happening are even slimmer.
Some people—mostly guys—have a hard time understanding why foreplay is actually so important for a healthy sex life. The truth is, it’s not just about pleasing each other and making sure you’re both ready for sex. It’s so much more than that. [Read: 24 sex tips for men that’ll make any woman crave for more sex!]
It’s about getting in the right mindset, ditching the distractions, and finding a special connection with your significant other before opening yourselves up to sex.
Foreplay also helps relax women and get their pleasure started, so they’re more likely to finish during actual intercourse.
By learning a few foreplay games and sex games for couples all rolled into one, you’ll get in the right frame of mind and add the sizzle back to your sex life at the same time. [Read: What is foreplay? 17 sexy foreplay moves to get anyone hot and horny]
Sex games for couples to try tonight!
The easiest way to try something new in bed is by trying a new sex position, but foreplay games are about more than that. If you want to add the spice back to your relationship, you have to be open to trying new things before and during intercourse itself. That’s where sex games for couples come in!
It’s also true that practicing a new sex position every time both of you have sex can get pretty tiresome and daunting after a while. What with all those carpet burns, limp erections, and cramped muscles!
If you can think of a few fun things to do together instead of focusing just on penetration, you’d see that your sex life can be so much more interesting.
The next time both of you are in bed, wondering how to deal with the elephant in the room *when sex starts to get boring*, stop worrying about it.
Just play a few games, and watch your libidos soar through the roof. Let’s check out some foreplay games and sex games for couples, so you can mix and match to boost your bedroom fun! [Read: 10 conversation starters that’ll make both of you really horny in a few minutes]
1. Fantasy bowl
Write down five dark, secret fantasies of yours on five individual pieces of paper. Fold them up and drop them in a bowl. Ask your partner to do the same. Shuffle the chits of paper and pick one, and talk about that fantasy together. You don’t need to focus on having sex at all, just talk!
Just turn off the lights, get under the sheets and discuss why you or your partner likes that sexual fantasy and what stimulates each other about it.
If your partner describes their fantasy to you, just listen to them and run your hands along their body as they describe the fantasy.
Before you even realize it, both of you will be really turned on. Just remember, the darker the sexual fantasies, the more aroused both of you will feel. [Read: The top 16 sexual fantasies for guys and top 17 sexual fantasies for girls]
2. Role playing
Role playing is always fun, irrespective of the characters both of you choose. It’s also one of the easiest foreplay sex games for couples to try.
The guy could pretend to be a doctor, and the girl could pretend to be a patient who’s come to the doctor’s office. Ask your partner to lie down on the bed *fully clothed* and pretend like you’re examining them. Look for excuses to touch the patient, and undress the patient giving different excuses.
You could also use blindfolds to make the experience feel more real. Use characters that work for you and arouse each other, if you want the experience to be fun. [Read: The beginners guide to role playing and examples for different character combinations]
3. Dirty ‘would you rather’ questions
Lie down in bed with each other on a lazy afternoon or at night, and ask each other a few dirty questions. It could start off feeling awkward, but it’ll only take a question or two to light up both your eyes with lust.
And even if you’re not thinking of sex, ask each other the right questions and both of you would be making love within the next fifteen minutes! Try this list of 40 dirty and naughty would-you-rather questions to ask each other in bed to get things started right now.
4. Strip questions
This is just like strip poker, but with a little twist.
Instead of playing this game with cards, ask each other personal questions. If you ask your partner a naughty question and they get the answer wrong, they need to down a shot of alcohol, and take off one piece of clothing.
If you want to make it more fun and sexy, wear old clothes while playing the game. And instead of taking one piece of clothing off, each time a partner gives a wrong answer, the other partner tears a piece of clothing off their body! [Read: 30 questions for couples to keep the sexual spark alive]
5. Horny truth or dare
Both of you can play this game with each other. All you need to do is ask each other to perform a dare or tell the truth. Use a bottle and spin it on the floor, and the person the bottle points to has to perform the dare.
But quite frankly, it’s so much sexier and hornier if you’ve got another couple to play this game with. If you have another couple as friends, ask them to come over for a night, or try this on a vacation.
We assure you, play this game once and you’ll be on a horny high for several months, maybe even years! As far as foreplay games go, this one could get seriously spicy! Use this list of 30 really dirty truth or dare questions for a sexy night to create a horny night you’ll never forget.
6. Sexy dice
This is one of the simplest foreplay sex games for couples. And if you want to have some fun in bed without getting too creative yourself, pick up a pair of sexy dice from an adult shop near your place. Or you could even make two sets of notes, one set with names of different parts of the body, and another set of notes with different actions and things to do.
It’s simple, and for starters into the world of sex games for couples, this is a safe bet. [Read: 10 sexy ways to make long term sex feel like a one night stand instantly]
7. Tarzan & Jane
Are you into rough sex? Well, play this sex game and you will be! The goal here is simple. Both of you are in bed. There are a few scarves or ropes lying in bed.
The guy has to play-wrestle the girl, pin her down and tie her hands to the headboard or tie them up together, and her legs to the foot of the bed.
The girl has to resist him by kicking him away or pushing him. The guy’s goal or mission is to get the girl wet and penetrate her, and the girl’s goal is to stop the guy from penetrating her. Of course, this type of game does require a safe word so that anyone who feels uncomfortable at any point can stop things immediately.
This game could start out funny, but it’ll only be a few minutes before the animalistic sides come out and things start to get aggressive. And even before either of you realize it, both of you will be really determined and really horny. And totally ready for rough sex! [Read: How to have rough sex and 15 dirty ways to have the sexiest time ever!]
8. Blindfolds and food
This is one of the best foreplay sex games for couples, that’s also a good laugh. Blindfolds and food require a blindfold and a tub of ice cream. Sit down at the foot of the bed, blindfold your partner and give them a spoon. They need to scoop out a spoonful of ice cream and feed you while they’re still blindfolded.
If any of the ice cream falls on your body, your partner has to lick the ice cream off. This game may start simple, but the spoon will end up in many different places in no time! [Read: Blindfold sex – 15 sensual ways to use blindfolds in bed]
9. The sexy walk and drive
Do you get turned on when your partner does something naughty on a vacation or in public? Then this is one of the wildest foreplay sex games for you two.
The girl wears a thin tee shirt without her bra. And the guy wears a rather flimsy pair of shorts or pants without wearing any underwear. Both of you could take a short drive around the house, or even step out of the car and take a short walk together.
Stop by at a little store if you want to be seen by someone, whatever works for you! By the time both of you come back home, the sexy adrenalin would leave both of you on a horny high. [Read: The guide to sexy exhibitionism and getting naked in public]
10. Reenact porn
This is a simple and straightforward sex game for couples. Get into bed together, don’t build the pressure up by focusing on sex. Just play a porn movie and watch the movie together. Both of you can run your hands on each other while watching it.
But if you want to take it one step higher, watch a movie that’s rather risqué and fetishist, or revolves around a sexual fantasy of yours.
Both of you can reenact the characters and do exactly as they’re doing, as both of you watch the movie. [Read: Porn for couples – Why it might just save your relationship]
11. Strip poker
As far as foreplay games go, this is a great one. This game is a classic but still ridiculously fun. As long as you know how to play poker and are capable of removing your clothes, you can play. The object of the game is to win, so your partner ends up completely naked.
Trust us, after spending a long time watching your partner slowly get naked, you’ll be ready for sex in no time. Add a naughtier element by making a wager on whoever wins or loses.
The loser has to do whatever the winner wants to them without protest. It’s one of the sexiest and most fun foreplay games to try. [Read: Sexy striptease 101 – How to strip for your man like a real stripper]
12. First one to break
This is one of the best sex games for couples because it’s one you can play on a regular basis.
All you have to do for this game is take turns pleasing each other. The first person to ask for sex is the loser. There are really only a few rules to play this game fairly.
First, your underwear has to stay on, and secondly, no oral. Whoever begs for oral or sex first is the loser.
13. Time bomb
This foreplay sex game for couples is specifically designed to make sure you don’t skip right to sex the second you get horny.
Set a timer for, let’s say, 20 minutes. Next, the two of you do whatever you want to the other person with the goal of making them actually climax within that 20-minute time frame.
This game is especially useful for when you want to make an entire evening of getting down and naughty with your significant other. It’s all about pure pleasure and gearing you up for sex by making sure the foreplay actually happens beforehand. [Read: Condom types and how they can improve your sex life]
14. Massage oil madness
This is a really fun foreplay game. First, lay a couple of towels on the bed or couch or wherever it is you want to get frisky at. Next, get some delicious smelling oils and lube each other up really well.
Now, massage each other anywhere you want, except each other’s genitals. You can massage around them but never touch them. This is a perfect way to relax you both and create anticipation for sex that will make for a mind-blowing romp in the sheets. [Read: The perfect romantic massage to turn your lover on]
15. Naked Twister
We’re sure you’ve all heard of the game Twister. But just in case you haven’t, we’ll explain the rules of the game. One person spins a dial pointing to a color and says which hand or foot you have to use. Then you have to touch that body part to whichever color is selected.
This is not only a fun game to play, but when you do it naked, you end up intertwined with your bare body parts pressed up against each other. If this doesn’t turn the two of you on, we don’t know what will.
You can also make a wager for whoever wins or loses. [Read: Naked at home – Why it’s good and 20 things best done in the nude]
16. Kinky cards
This game gets rather complicated, but it’s also REALLY fun. Use a whole deck or limit the deck to only a few cards of each suite. Next, make a list of all the numbers and suits and write descriptions.
Each suite will be a different means of touching your partner. You can label these as hands, lips, tongue, etc. Each number in the suit will be a different body part. So when your partner draws a card, they have to either touch, lick, or kiss you on whatever body part the number of that suit says to.
17. Sexy Truth or Dare
Truth or dare is always fun, but it’s even more fun when you get to play with just your partner. If they say truth, ask them about all of their dirty fantasies bound to make them get all hot and horny. See, foreplay games don’t have to be difficult!
But if they choose dare, you have the ability to make them do whatever you want them to do to you. This game gets risque, but it can also bring the two of you closer together as a couple. [Read: 32 sexual Truth or Dare questions for a wild, naughty, and sexy night]
18. Sexy “Simon Says”
This is another game that is really fun for couples. Someone gets to be Simon and their job is to tell their partner what to do to them.
For example, you can say, “Simon says, kiss my neck,” “Simon says, lick my nipple,” etc. Whoever is the first person to lose and do something without hearing the magic, “Simon says,” has to give the other person a long, sexy massage. [Read: What mean want in bed – 32 things they absolutely desire and lust after in bed]
19. Utter silence
The object of this foreplay sex game for couples is rather simple. One of you lies blindfolded on a bed while the other is allowed to spend 10 minutes doing whatever they want to you. Set a timer in order for this to be fair because there’s a catch.
The person who is blindfolded isn’t allowed to make any noise. The person who does fun and sexy things to them has to spend 10 minutes trying to get their blindfolded partner to moan or make a sound of pleasure. Whoever goes the longest without making a peep gets dessert fed to them—or anything else the two of you agree on.
Now that you know the naughtiest and the best sex games for couples, which one will you try first?
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If you’re having a hard time staying horny in bed, just use these naughty sex games for couples. These foreplay games will only take a minute to arouse both of you, and the horny high will keep things exciting for a lot longer!