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How to Make a Guy Hard: 25 Casual & Subtle Moves No Man Can Resist!

A lot of women have secrets to knowing how to make a guy hard. If you need a little help, don’t worry. We have all the suggestions you need. 

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There will probably be many girls out there reading this thinking, “How to make a guy hard? Jeez, most guys get hard just by being in the same room as a woman.” Well, it is true there are a lot of guys out there who have been blessed with all the sexual sophistication of a male Chihuahua.

Equally, there are many guys a little bit more deserving of the chase, a bit more sophisticated than the average Joe, and hence the object of desire for half the female populace of the district.

Understanding what you have

If you’re going to beat the opposition to the end game, you’re going to have to know what tools you have at your disposal and how to use them. On that score, you are blessed indeed.

A woman has many tools and weapons capable of reducing even the most even-headed and sensible man to jelly. You’ve just got to know how to use them.

To help all you ladies out there in your quest to attract the man of your dreams with the full force of your feminine wiles, the list below gives you a full guide to get the object of your desires standing to attention in more ways than one!

How to make a guy hard in any and every circumstance

If you want to know how to make a guy hard using your physical attributes, read on and you’ll know everything there is that you can use to turn a guy on and leave him horny in your presence.

But if you’re already talking to him and spending time with a guy, here’s a complete step-by-step guide on how to make a guy horny and hard in his shorts just by sitting next to him with the most subtle of moves. It’s so simple and yet so powerful, he won’t know what hit him!

And if we’re talking about wanting to give your man a real boner each time you’re around him or trying to get naughty with him, use this list of 20 sexy ways to give your guy an instant boner in no time.

Now on to the 4 different ways you can make a guy hard, just by using your body and your feminine ways. Divided into four sections—physical attributes, speech, body language, and the hard sell. Take a selection of those methods you think might work best for yourself, or all of them, and begin your quest.

And if you’re looking for really subtle or outrageously naughty flirting moves that’ll leave any guy breathless, try these 30 subtle, obvious and really sexual flirting tips for women.

Your physical attributes

Those parts of your body most feminine, most particular to your gender, are the parts of your body he drools over. Make the most of your personal strengths.

1. Breasts

No part of the body is quite as uniquely feminine as breasts, and most guys are REALLY into a flash of mammary heaven. Low slung tops are the order of the day on this front. [Read: Why men like boobs – An in-depth scientific explanation]

2. Butts

Arguably number two on the list of favorite female body parts, a larger, rounded butt is also a very uniquely feminine trait. Best advice… bend over for a full flash at every opportunity.

3. Legs

Never underestimate the power of legs to get a man hard. Long legs especially do it for guys, as do the uniquely feminine shape of the thighs. High heels and short skirts make the most of both. [Read: 34 physical and sexual turn ons for guys that arouse them at first sight]

4. Hips

Mistakenly undervalued, hips are often the vital last ingredient in the FWAR factor *fantastic waist to arse ratio*. Make the most of larger womanly hips with figure-hugging skirts. [Read: Why men love women and their oh-so-hot bodies]

Speech and conversation

When it comes to knowing how to make a guy hard and horny, it’s not only the things you say, but also how you say them, giving him the picture as to where you hope to head, and putting a bit of lead in his pencil as a result.

5. Tone

Avoid being squawky and high-pitched when you talk one-on-one, a real turn-off for most guys. Keep your voice low, gentle, and husky for maximum sexual effect. [Read: How to have a sexy voice – 17 hacks to seduce anyone with your words]

6. Appreciation

Take time to tell him how much you appreciate aspects of his physicality—strong arms, nice butt, broad chest, etc.

Guys are usually pretty narcissistic, and they’ll get their groove on for a well-placed compliment. With the right compliments, you’ll leave any guy spending hours thinking of you, fantasizing about you, and wishing he could be with you, over and over again. [Read: 30 unique compliments for guys they’ll never ever forget]

7. Your past

Nothing’s going to turn him on more than sexual experiences you’ve had in the past or just how you enjoy sex in general. That kind of talk is really going to pump the heat up—and plenty more besides.

8. Your future

Ditto for sexual fantasies. Something you haven’t done yet but would really like to in the future. Let his imagination lead him to believe he could be the one to benefit and watch his pocket rocket! [Read: 20 naughty questions to text a guy and seduce him]

Body language

Body language does at a very deep, and often subconscious, level, what speech and physical attributes do at the surface and intermediate levels, getting your guy as stiff as a board.

9. Footsie

A tried and tested way of getting a guy’s pulse racing is to let your feet and legs meet under the table. If having a meal, slowly increase the contact until obviously intentional.

And if you’re looking for something a lot more subtle, just let your arm or leg very slightly touch him while casually sitting beside him. You don’t need to do anything at all, just the slightest intentional touch, and his horny-boy-mode will pick up the naughty signal. [Read: How to flirt by touch without making it obvious at all]

10. Eye contact

Simple eye-to-eye contact is a good way to start the seduction process, but start dropping your eyes to his lips, chest, or even further south, for a more significant fly-busting effect.

11. Hands-on

There’s nothing like letting a hand linger on his knee, back, or arm to get him warmed up. For some real heat and to instantly make a guy hard and feel hot around the collar, try grazing or running your hand across his stomach, butt, or thigh.

12. Lips

Nothing sends a sexual signal out to a guy quite as effectively as sensually licking the lips. A truly powerful invitation to sexual adventure. [Read: Lip biting and the scientific explanations as to why men find it so sexy]

The hard sell to make a guy hard

Once you’ve coaxed him to near or actual erection, the hard sell is the stage when you ensure that it’s going to stay in its manful state, the promises of delights to come now entirely blatant.

13. It’s in your kiss

Time to employ your lips in direct contact, especially on the neck and ears to have him chomping at the bit. [Read: 15 sexy ways to tongue kiss and arouse your date in seconds]

14. Your fingers

Let your hands meet at some point, and then slowly draw his hand to your mouth and suck gently upon his middle finger. Let him know EXACTLY what’s in store for him.

15. Remove all doubt

Just to make sure that there’s no doubt left in his mind, nor any inclination in his junior partner to soften, tell him exactly what you’re going to do to him once you’re in private. [Read: How to talk dirty and seduce a man just with your words]

16. Give him a peek

If you’re feeling particularly brave, take your panties off at some point and take the opportunity to give him a full-on flash.

Just one caveat: if he’s wearing button-fly jeans then you might want to think about donning a pair of safety glasses because those babies are going to be flying off like bullets from a sub-machine gun!

17. Blow in his ear

Oh yes, the ol’ “blow in your ear” trick. Well, there’s a reason that it’s a thing, right?

Ears are erogenous zones for both men and women, so it’s a great way to get a guy hard. It’s subtle and exciting, and it will get him turned on. You can even nibble it if you want.

18. Suggestive texts

These days, a lot of the sexual turn-ons happen when you’re not even together. So, texts are a common way to flirt and give him a hard-on.

So, you can send him messages asking him to guess what you’re wearing or what you would like to do to him. [Read: 60 examples and tips to talk dirty over text and get him hard imagining you]

19. Touch yourself

This is a sure-fire way to get a guy to have a hard-on. You don’t even need to touch him – just touch yourself in front of him.

Guys love it when girls touch themselves. Show him what turns you on by doing it to yourself. So, if that’s something you’re comfortable doing, why not give it a try? 

20. Tease him with a touch

If you’d rather not touch yourself in front of him, you can always touch him instead in a teasing kind of way. You can keep the touch light and innocent.

Try running your hand up his leg or over his chest. Or if you prefer, you can be more assertive and touch him in the areas you know he likes.

21. Dirty talk

Sure, you can text dirty things to him, but you can also say sexy and suggestive things to him when you’re together. It might be a little uncomfortable at first, but it will definitely turn him on.

So, if you’re secure enough, try telling him the dirty things you want to do to him. [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and arouse him with the sexiest words]

22. Give him a massage

Who doesn’t like a good massage? Most people do, and it’s even better when it comes from your lover.

So, tell him to strip down naked and rub some scented oils all over his body. He won’t be able to hold out long when you do this before he attacks you!

23. Send him a naughty photo

Not only can you text him dirty words, but you should also send him some naughty pictures of yourself. You can either be in lingerie or completely naked.

Show him his favorite parts of your body. Just make sure he’s not at work where other people will get a glimpse of you too. [Read: 84 hot texts to turn him on, make him hard, and leave him really horny]

24. Touch him everywhere but “there”

Sure, he’ll get hard immediately if you touch him there. But why not try to tease him by touching everywhere but there? You don’t always need to take the direct route to make him hard.

So, instead of going right in for the spot he wants you to touch, put your hands all over his body to create anticipation for him.

25. Sexy lingerie

Buy some sexy lingerie and meet him at the door when he comes home. Guys like surprises, and this one will get him hard immediately! Or, you could even take him shopping while you try some on. Give him a little fashion show, and he will want to be getting out of the store immediately so he can see it in private.

[Read: 20 sexy things that turn on guys every single time]

It doesn’t take a genius to know how to make a guy hard. Just play to your personal strengths and follow the advice above. Everything else that follows will happen just as you want it!

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
Vin Serai is the founder of LovePanky.com, and has delved deep into the working of love and relationships for almost two decades. Having dipped his feet in almo...