Have you been dying to deliver a sexy strip show to your man, but you’re not exactly sure how to go about it? Relax—it isn’t nearly has complicated as it seems.
You’re a sexy, smart, bombshell of a lover—so why strip? If you’re in a long-term relationship, then you already know that, while the promise of a well-guided orgasm and the comfort that comes with not having to shave your vagina every time you have sex is awesome, it can also get a little too routine.
Your man has likely seen you naked hundreds of times by now, making any “out of the box” sex seem out of this world. Whether you’ve been in a relationship for 5 months or 5 years, stripping is a simple way to add a little something extra in the bedroom… if you’re brave enough!
In a way, stripping is a little bit like dirty talking: uncomfortable at first, but way too much fun once you get into it. If you don’t fancy yourself a natural dancer, or are feeling shy, a glass of wine *or, let’s be real: a shot of vodka* certainly won’t hurt your cause. Just make sure it’s 1 shot and not 10! Falling down drunk while stripping will definitely make an impression, but not one he’s likely to cherish in his “best sex ever” memory bank. [Read: 50 sexy, naughty things you can say when you talk dirty to your guy]
How to strip for your man 101: confidence is key.
As with most things in the bedroom, confidence is absolutely pivotal when it comes to learning how to strip. Let’s face it: unless you were a drama major in college, putting on a show in the bedroom seems more like an embarrassing memory you’d like to quickly forget than a sexual accomplishment. Pump yourself up by practicing in a mirror for a few days leading up to the big show. Pick your music, know your queues, and really get into it. You know you’re sexy, so work it! [Read: The absolute list of lovemaking songs for a sexy striptease]
And if all else fails? Fake it! *Your confidence, not your orgasm!*
#1 Prep your music. When it comes to learning how to strip and making your preparations, your music will be a key ingredient. Stay away from songs that will seem “funny,” or have no rhythm to them. Stick with classic stripping playlists and dubstep stylings.
Might we suggest the club, dubstep remix of “Crave You” by Flight Facilities? Remember to practice to your song *or songs* in a mirror, so you know the routine. This is great for him to watch, and great for your confidence!
#2 Set the mood. Preparing to strip for your man involves more than just peeling your clothes off. It requires a mood—an ambiance! Choose the location of your strip-down and set the mood. We’re talking music, candles, and a setting. Do you intend to do a proper striptease with him on a chair or couch, or are you going to let him lay on the bed, stroking himself as he watches you from across the room? Will there be roleplay involved? Figure out a game plan before the big day! [Read: The girl’s guide to strip clubs and female strippers]
#3 Layer your look for a sexy strip down. Stripping out of your jammies? Not exactly intoxicating. When it comes to putting on a show for your man, you want to pull out all the stops. Unlike wearing slinky lingerie, when it comes to stripping, the more clothes you have on, the better—to start with, anyway. Think of stripping like climaxing to orgasm: there has to be a buildup of tortuous teasing before you get to the big finish.
Your look matters, so when we say “layer,” don’t even think about layering with your comfy granny sweater. When you think of how to strip for your man, you want your look to exude sex. Think: your sexiest lingerie, complete with garter and knee-high stockings, sexy high heels, hair done up *and let down for dramatic effect during your strip*, all hiding beneath your short skirt and tucked-in button up. The slower you unbutton, the more lust your guy’s going to feel.
You could also opt for an old-school pin-up strip down, dolling yourself up with victory rolls, red lips, and a vintage dress and corset. [Read: How to dress for sex and look sexy in bed when your man comes over]
How to strip: getting down to it
Here it is, the moment he’s been waiting for: your big strip! Start with the music on and the partners in place and begin your big strip show.
#1 Strut into position. Let your man know you’re confident in your moves by doing the classic girl walk *head held high, shoulders back, and hips going from side to side*.
#2 Come over to a chair you’ve set up as your stripping station. Gyrate your hips to the music, play with your hair, and then offer a sexy smirk as you set your high heel on the chair. This gives him a great view of what’s hiding under your skirt, and shows off your thighs.
#3 Taking it off. While maintaining your sexy, dance-like rhythm, rock your hips until you’ve turned completely away from him and strip off your first layer—your shirt. Throw the shirt over your shoulder so it falls onto your man’s lap.
#4 Remove your skirt. Maintaining your dance, bend over *far over!* until your bum is at a perfect curve, and slowly slide your skirt down your thighs. Make sure to caress your bottom as you bring your hands back up. Men love watching a woman caress her sexy body, so play up the breast touching and thigh rubbing when appropriate. [Read: 18 physical turn ons about a girl’s body that arouse a guy instantly]
#5 Continue moving your hips side to side, feeling the music, playing with your hair, and biting your lips. You want your guy to know you’re really into how sexy you feel. Try backing up against the wall, or chair, and slowly sliding down as you move to the music.
#6 Remove your shoes. Get your foot back up on your stool and drop your shoe to the ground. Slowly start peeling off your silky stockings and garter. We emphasize: slowly. Keep eye contact during this step. The more eye contact, the more intense your sexy strip-down will be. [Read: 25 things girls do that guys find sex and irresistible]
#7 Remove your bra. Employ a tactic similar to what you used to remove your shirt, by spinning around and slowly unclasping your bra. Let it fall to the floor and cover your breasts with your hands. Turn back around and let your man feel teased by the thought of seeing you topless in a mere moment. While dancing to the music, slowly remove your hands from your breasts, and lose them in your tousled hair.
#8 Get those panties off! Once you feel your man is sufficiently teased, start slipping your underwear off. You can do this by once again bending over and giving him a doggy-style view of your goods or, for the less balance-inclined, simply stand facing him and teasing the panties down your legs. Once removed, those feeling especially naughty may choose to hold their panties by their teeth as they continue gyrating, or make their way over to their man. [Read: 12 bad girl traits every guy craves to see in his girl]
#9 It’s sexy time! Some say the best way to finish off the strip is with oral sex, but we say do whatever feels right! If you go the “lap dance” route and have yourself all hot and bothered, simply return to the lap dance once you’ve removed all your clothes and hop on top! [Read: How to ride a man and look really sexy doing it]
Learning how to strip for your man may seem daunting at first, but when it comes down to it, stripping is just choreographed dancing that leads to amazing sex. What’s so scary about that?
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Waverly Smith is a freelance writer who has been getting paid for spreading her sarcastic take on love, life, and sex since 2010. She is many things that peo...
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