There are some things that just hit the spot when you’re in bed with a guy. Maybe he whispers, “I love your curves,” into your ear or tells you how amazing you feel. There’s something about his words that make the experience even more sensual and arousing. Whether his words are sweet or naughty, they make everything better. But have you considered what do guys like to hear in bed exactly?
They don’t need to hear a monologue during sex, but little phrases and compliments here and there can not only boost a man’s confidence, but make them even more aroused.
At the end of the day, women and men aren’t that different when it comes to knowing what guys like to hear in bed. We’re both emotional beings who are looking for affection and connection. The things men like to hear in bed aren’t necessarily as raunchy as you may think *though, this doesn’t mean they don’t like dirty talking*.
You expect your man to satisfy you in bed, and he expects the same from you. To sexually satisfy each other, using some of these phrases can help amp up your sex life. And who doesn’t want that? Test out some of these phrases the next time you and your man are getting freaky.
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What do guys like to hear in bed?
So, what do guys like to hear in bed? Well, here are phrases to get your imagination running. So, repeat after me.
#1 Different strokes for different folks. There are some phrases on this list that are going to hit the spot for your man, and others that he’s not going to be into. That’s just the way it is. We all have different sexual preferences. Some guys get turned on when you say their name, and others not so much. So, you’ll need to test these lines out and see which ones hit the spot. [Read: All the secrets to dirty talking with a man and turning him on in no time]
#2 Be into it. Listen, for a moment, forget about what guys like to hear in bed, and think about yourself. If you don’t want to have sex with him, don’t do it. Or if you’re not in the mood, tell him and take a raincheck, because the best sex is when you’re into it. If not, you won’t be able to give it your all, and that’s what makes sex good. If both people are genuinely excited and aroused, then sex will be amazing.
#3 Say his name. Some guys love it when you call out their name. Now, if they have a long name or an ‘old man’ name, it may not work out too well. Yelling the name ‘Frank’ or ‘Bob’ out isn’t exactly a panty dropper. You can sensually whisper his name into his ear, or scream it out when he hits the spot. Either way, he’ll love it.
#4 Make noise. If you’re not into saying things during sex, that’s okay. You don’t need to say much, but making noises will take you a long way. The only thing you shouldn’t be is silent. When it comes to sex, silence is a sign that things aren’t going well. If you’re enjoying yourself, don’t be afraid to express it by moaning, gasping, or groaning. [Read: Sex sounds: How to moan and look and sound even more sexy in bed]
#5 ‘I love how you eat me.’ If your man goes down on you, let him know how much you appreciate it. Oral sex can be daunting for some men, especially if they’re not experienced. Of course, you can guide and teach him what makes you get off while he’s eating you out. At the same time, you need to compliment him and boost his confidence. [Read: The sexiest ways to make a man go down on you without a push]
#6 ‘I love how you fuck me.’ He’s doing all the right moves and hitting all of the right spots. You need to let him know he’s doing a good job. But you can make a “good job” comment a little naughty and dirty. While he’s inside of you or after sex, tell him how much you love how he fucks you.
#7 ‘You’re going to make me cum.’ Well, every guy wants to hear this in bed. It not only tells him that he’s doing it right, but it reassures him that you’re being satisfied. It’s a double ego boost. Most men *unless they’re only into themselves* want their partner to orgasm, so let him know he’s on the right track.
#8 ‘Your dick tastes so good.’ Now, there are times when his dick may not smell the best – post-workout dick, for example. And when it comes to smells, every man wants their dick to taste good. There’s no reason why you shouldn’t let him know how good he tastes *if he does taste good*. Sometimes saying the most obvious things can be the biggest turn on. [Read: What does cum taste like? Several women share their stories and tastes!]
#9 ‘Harder!’ He’s doing everything right, and you want more. Well, don’t just lay there in silence! Tell him what you want! Do you want it harder? Then tell him! If you’re going to demand he thrusts harder, then you better say it loudly. [Read: 10 really naughty sex games for couples to feel incredibly horny]
#10 ‘Stop! I want to give you a blow job.’ In the middle of foreplay or sex, a nice and unexpected surprise can be to perform oral sex on him. While he’s doing down on you or kissing you, stop him and tell him to get on his back. You can whisper this in his ear, and you’ll see his entire body perk up with excitement.
#11 ‘Oh my god.’ Well, what do guys like hearing in bed the most? This line! I know, it’s such a simple phrase, yet, it tells a man everything he needs to know. If you start praying to god, well, then obviously he’s blowing your mind. This is a great confidence booster for him if you start praying to the lord.
#12 ‘I love watching you fuck me.’ If he’s doing most of the work right now, let him know you appreciate it. While he’s thrusting away, let him know that you’re loving the visual he’s giving you. By saying, ‘I love watching you fuck me,’ well, he’ll certainly want to fuck you more.
#13 ‘Don’t cum yet.’ You’re loving what he’s doing, and you don’t want it to be over just yet. I don’t blame you. By telling him this, two things will happen. Firstly, it shows him you’re enjoying the sex. Secondly, it’ll make him want to cum. So, the sex will probably become more intense, but it’ll end relatively soon. [Read: 10 must-try tease and denial games that make so-so sex so hot-hot]
#14 Try out an accent. Some guys like accents, what can I say? If you can speak a second language, even better. Don’t be scared to talk dirty to him in another language. In fact, he’ll probably find it super hot.
#15 ‘Ready for round 2?’ If you throw in some of these phrases during sex, there’s no reason why he wouldn’t want to have sex again. Asking him this question lets him know you loved the sex, and you want more.
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Now that you know the answers to what do guys like to hear in bed, what are you waiting for? The next time you have sex with your man, try out some of these lines.
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