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13 Must-Have Couple’s Sex Toys for Naughty First Timers

Couple’s sex toys add an extra flare into the bedroom, no matter what your personal preference. Here’s some great sex toys for beginners!

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When people think of sex toys, they tend to think of them as “solo” accessories, but that isn’t so! Vibrators aren’t just meant for girls getting off, and strokers aren’t the only solution to men’s sex toys. Think your sex life is perfect as is? You may be pleasure central in the sack, but we assure you these couple’s sex toys are sure to take you both over the edge in ways you’ve never imagined!

If you’ve never used a couple’s sex toy before, we assure you it’s definitely something you should try at least once! No matter what your preference, fetish, or fear, there’s a sex toy to pleasure, entice, and ease your apprehension. Without further ado, here are the 13 must-have couple’s sex toys for first timers!

Small toys and beginner accessories

If you’re not well-versed in the great wide world of sex toys, you may want to start off with something a little less daunting than a rabbit vibe or strap-on penis. That’s where these sexy accessories come into play as starter couple’s sex toys. [Read: The vajankle and other really creepy sex toys that will scare a beginner away]

1. Sex dice

Throwing a little sex dice into the mix of sexual play is the perfect way to break into the world of sexual accompaniments. The pack will come with two dice. One die will tell you an action, and the other will list a body part.

For example: DIE #1 Lick; DIE #2: Nipples.

Simply give it your best roll and let the dice decide what happens next.

2. Nipple clamps

Do you or your partner love to have your nipples toyed, teased, and played with? Nipple toys are great couple’s sex toys to have if you’re only just beginning to enter the world of naughty accompaniments.

Nipple clamps, suckers, and vibrating suckers are available for the delight of you and your partner. We promise it feels much more delicious than it sounds!

3. Handcuffs

Handcuffs are the perfect sex toy accessory for couples. Not too risqué *unless you lose the key!*, these handcuffs allow you to take control of your partner and do whatever you please to give them pleasure, or receive your own!

4. Under the bed restraints

Take your lover’s addiction to restraint one step further by purchasing some under the bed restraints. These harnesses are slipped underneath your mattress and cuffed to your partner’s wrists and ankles for the perfect thrill. Pair this one with a blindfold for some extra mystery. [Read: BDSM tips and tricks for curious first timers]

5. Vibrating panties

This couple’s sex toy is sure to get your thrill on. Slip these remote controlled vibrating panties onto your lady love, and you be the one in control. Many panties offer the chance to please the woman, while the man uses a remote control in his hands.

This can be used as a form of foreplay in the bedroom or even in public! Take your lover out to a fancy restaurant and see if she can’t resist a restrained, public orgasm as you pleasure her via remote!

6. Blindfold

When sight is taken away, the ever adaptable brain is said to heighten the other senses in the body. Whether you believe that daredevilesque statement, using a blindfold during sex, oral, or foreplay is certainly going to add an air of enticing mystery into your next bedroom romp. [Read: 14 sensual and arousing ways to use blindfolds in bed]

7. Ticklers and sex whips

If you don’t consider a sexy whip a form of sex toy, you’re obviously not doing it right! Grab a feather or faux leather sex whip and give your partner a little punishment for their naughty deeds. This is a great way to start off your sex toy exploration, since it’s both silly and erotic.

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8. Oral toys for her

When it comes to oral for her, there’s plenty of couple’s sex toys that can be used. For example, “The Accommodator” is a harness worn around the giving partner’s head, which has a strap-on penis. This faux member gets inserted into her while you’re licking her clit for the perfectly blended, toe-tingling orgasm.

You may also opt for the “Tongue Teaser,” a vibrating “tongue” you wear on your nose or tongue to further enhance her oral sensations. Of course, you could always just go back and forth from using a vibrator on her clit and then using your tongue. [Read: 8 of the best sex tips and tricks to give her oral sex like a pro]

9. Oral toys for him

It might seem like the women get all the fun toys when it comes to getting oral, but that simply isn’t the case. There are plenty of couple’s toys for blowjobs, too!

For example, many sex shops carry a “Good Head Kit,” consisting of mints and cooling mouth rinse to give her mouth an extra tingling sensation on your cock, and a silicone ring that can be put around your penis that sends feel-good vibrations all over your member. Some kits even come with desensitizing spray, so your lady love can get you deep in the back of her throat and prevent nasty gagging.

Couple’s vibrators

Couple’s vibrators come in all shapes and sizes and are some of the easiest couple’s sex toys to start with. Some popular couple’s vibrators include:

10. A cock ring

A cock ring is a stretchy, silicon ring wrapping around the base of the penis. There is a nub at the top of the ring that has a vibrating “bullet” inserted into it.

This nub will hit the woman’s clit with explosive, orgasmic waves as she rides her man up and down, and he’ll feel equally delightful vibrations through his penis, making for the perfect shared experience. [Read: 9 sexiest foreplay moves you can ever use in bed]

11. The we vibe

The “We Vibe” is a shared vibrating experience. The shape of this couple’s vibrator is what makes it so unique. This couple’s sex toy is shaped like a C. The bottom of the C is inserted into the woman’s vagina, while the top of the C is slid over her vulva, hitting her clit with all those good vibrations.

To add the couple into this sexy experience, simply slide your penis inside her while the We Vibe is still inside of her. This creates a snug fit full of pleasurable vibrations for both you and her. Just be sure to use plenty of lube.

12. Double penetrator penis ring

Alright, so this one isn’t so much for beginners… but it’s certainly a fun toy to try if you’ve ever been curious about a little bum play! This cock ring simply slides over the man’s penis, complete with a vibrating nub on top, and has a silicone penis attached underneath.

This gives the man’s penis and the faux member room to play. You may use this for a little DP action, or simply lube up the faux penis and have it rub against her backside without penetrating for some erotic play.

13. Vibrating mini pleasure probes

Whether for him or her, whoever likes a little bum action will love these toys. These vibrating nubs come with a mini handle and are perfect for teasing the bum or having a little probing fun.

Whatever couple’s sex toy you choose, just remember to have fun, keep communication open, and always have a safe word!

[Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your boyfriend]

And remember, never be too shy to tell your partner what you liked or didn’t like about the sex toy experience, since both of your input can only make your future battery-operated romps even better!

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Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer, and the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degr...
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