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How to Give Good Head: The Ultimate Blow Guide & 50+ Blowjob Tips

Want to know how to give good head? No, make that the best ever! Here are all the blowjob tips you need to make him hard every time he thinks of your mouth.

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Okay, it’s time for you to take a seat and settle in. You want to know how to give good head? And that’s exactly what we have here – the best blowjob tips you’ll ever need. Literally, every single thing you can do to him below the belt to leave him gasping for air, we have that for you, including all the tips, tricks and side moves no one ever talks about.

Are you a blowjob newbie? Or are you someone who’s familiar with the idea of blowjobs, but are looking for more blowjob tips to hone your mastery? Here’s every move from the mild and easy to the wild and crazy!

Why do girls have to learn how to give head?

You may be thinking, “Why do I have become good at giving blowjobs?” Have you ever had a guy go down on you, and he didn’t know what he was doing? It’s a tragedy. You spend every second trying to figure out how to get his face out of your crotch. It’s not a pretty picture.

In fact, when a guy starts poking his head down there, you’re probably having flashbacks of that one bad experience. It’s the same thing with blowjobs. So, it’s time to learn how to give good head the right way!

Why do men love getting blowjobs so much?!

If you asked a guy to make a top five list of his favorite sexual things, most men, if not all, would give blowjobs the number one spot. And for good reason! A mouth is wet and warm, and it’s got the added bonus of a tongue that can do a lot of tantalizing moves from flicking to caressing to gently teasing.

Plus, there’s also the fact that receiving head means guys get to relax and let the lady do most of the work. What more can a guy ask for when it comes to foreplay? [Read: 12 hottest foreplay tips men will love]

Being on the giving end of a blowjob may not be half as fun as being on the receiving end, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t have pros for the giver as well!

Just think about it, isn’t the sight of your guy helplessly writhing in uncontrollable pleasure because of your mouth something you’d want to see at least a couple of times? Doesn’t it boost your ego to know that despite the fact that you’re the one on your knees, it’s you who’s still in control?

At the end of they day, you need to keep in mind that to most guys, blowjobs are the gift from the high heavens! So it’s best to become a master of this art that’s so respected and awed in the male world.

[Read: How to be seductive – The secrets of seduction to turn anyone on]

Are blowjobs good foreplay?

To a guy? Of course!! To a guy, a blowjob is literally the best kind of foreplay you could ever indulge in.

Firstly, foreplay is the most important part of the lovemaking experience. Of course, we’ve all had quickies without foreplay that were so amazing we’ll remember them forever. But in general, we can all agree that great sex requires phenomenal foreplay.

And we can’t talk about foreplay without mentioning oral sex. Men are in heaven when they receive oral sex. But, unfortunately, there are women who are just not into it.

After all, if there’s one job that shouldn’t feel like a job, it’s the blowjob. But unfortunately, most girls hate blowjobs. Not because it’s selfish for a guy to receive without giving, or because it’s not fun for a girl. They hate it because they don’t know what they’re doing. The guy’s not as turned on as he should be. And she’s not having any fun at all. Everyone says blowjobs are the best, but when you don’t know how to do it right, you can’t help but wonder what’s so great about sucking on a fat straw!

On the guy’s end of things, nothing can turn off a man who’s getting head than a partner who just isn’t into it, or a girl who goes through the same motions like clockwork. That’s boring. And very soon, he starts to go limp. He hates it. The girl hates it. And everyone’s disappointed in the end.

Honestly, let’s admit it, there are many women out there who are either not givers or gifted in the art of blowing. A blowjob isn’t just about moving your mouth up and down over a guy’s penis. There’s more to it than that – way, way more!

[Read: How to know a guy has a big dick even before you see him naked]

Why do so many women hate giving head?

What’s the thing that disgusts women most when it comes to giving head? Is it the mere sight of a penis? Or do they think this part of sex is not hygienic? Is it the act itself? Do they think it’s disrespectful and degrading to them? [Read: Top 8 reasons she refuses to give you a blow job]

Things are not always black and white. There are plenty of reasons why women dislike the idea of giving a blowjob.

Things guys do wrong that makes women hate going down on them

Before we talk about how to give good head, we need to get this out of the way. Guys are partly to blame here, even if not entirely. Even if a girl wants to go down on a guy, his “experience” that he’s gained from watching porn only tells him one this – Hold the girl’s face and choke her over his penis! WTF? That’s not the way it works in real life!

Or, it’s a case of hygiene and appearances – no one wants to go down on a guy who looks like a hairball down there, or smells like a football stadium restroom after a game. Or it’s a case of a selfish partner, he wants head but he doesn’t want to go down on here. 

Want to know more? Check out these worst things a guy could possibly do in bed!

Let’s get started… it’s blowjob time!

First things first, you have learn how to be comfortable with the act if you want to be able to enjoy doing it. Don’t feel bad about fellatio. It’s totally normal and healthy. Moreover, it’s a perfect way to spice up your sex life, and also to be a giver in bed. *just make sure he’s a giver as well!*

No matter how you see it, oral sex is a sensual and fine art. It’s the most selfless thing you can do sexually for your partner. Giving head isn’t rocket science, but there are a few things to know and blowjob tips that will make your blowjob technique far more superior.

Guys just love getting head, but a mind blowing blowjob is a rare sensual treat. Take your technique to the next level by learning these super sexy moves.

How to give good head – The blowjob tips that can transform your BJ skills forever!

A blowjob, when done right, is a woman’s ultimate secret weapon in bed to make her man fall apart in her hands… or in this case, your mouth. You’ll even end up enjoying the whole thing too, if you do it right.

You want to rock your man’s world, we get it. And if you want to do that, you’re going to have to know some tricks for how to give a good blowjob. Use these blowjob tips to know how to give THE blowjob to end all blowjobs, and you WILL rock his world.

A standard blowjob is great, but there’s so much more you can do, to spice it up for your guy. If you haven’t tried anything new in the bedroom lately, these blowjob tips are sure to give you some really good ideas. The best way to remember these blowjob tips is to visualize them as you read along. And act it out on your man!

1. Stop thinking it’s a job

If you don’t want to give blowjobs, don’t. If you really don’t like giving them, it’s not going to be a good experience for either of you. Now, if you like doing them, but you feel like you have to, stop that thought pattern. No one tells you that you have to do it, don’t think of it as a job. Because it’s not. 

2. Work him up

Often, when you’re in the heat of the moment, you may find yourself heading straight to your man’s fly. While this is fine *and a must for quickies*, it’s the buildup that gives you both the best orgasms. So instead of ripping his boxers off, take your time and linger on his other body parts.

Caress his arms, trace his chest with your nails, make your fingers lightly touch his abs as you make a trail towards his crotch. Taking your time like this and teasing him with your fingers and palms will help build anticipation, which can then potentially take your main event through the roof. [Read: What makes a girl amazing in bed – The subtle things guys desire]

3. The warm up – Take control

Pull his shirt up and kiss him passionately. Get creative with your location. It doesn’t have to be in the bedroom. Break out of your comfortable shell and get dominant. Push him onto the floor or bed and make out. Glide your lips across his face and neck and lick his earlobe. Suck his lower lip and move down toward his neck, chest, and stomach.

Unbutton his pants and kiss back up to his lips, while placing your hand on his bulge. Squeeze, but be gentle. Bring your face down to his penis, take off his pants and his underwear, look him in the eyes, and get ready for some action. Build the anticipation! 

Want to blow his mind even more? Try these sexy moves with a finger blowjob before you give him a real one!

4. Explore with your mouth

We can’t emphasize enough, don’t just head straight to the crotch when you give head. As you trail a path with your fingers from your lover’s chest down to his manhood, follow this up with your lips and tongue. Kiss him in various places as you go down his body.

If you are undressing him, kiss him downwards as you unbutton his shirt. This keeps his arousal up and stimulates him in all places at once with your hands and fingers, which is almost enough to take him over the edge, that is, until you finally take him into your mouth. [Read: The most seductive bad girl sex tricks to try in bed tonight]

5. Position

This is an important blowjob tip that focuses on your comfort, so pay attention to this. The position you choose while blowing him is totally up to you and your partner.

You may want to try it with him standing and you kneeling in front of him, him sitting with you kneeling in front of him, or him lying down on the bed or floor with you tucked between his legs. Keep in mind that when he’s lying down, you get full control over him, and free movement. And he’s also most relaxed lying down, so he’ll probably enjoy the show to the fullest in this position. Unless he likes watching, perhaps then, he’d prefer a sitting position.

6. Play with visuals

Dress up like a sexy minx if you want to know how to give good head and make it look even better! For starters, if he’s laying down on your bed, wear a sexy bra, lace underwear, and give him a little extra to look at.

Blowjobs are more than just his penis. It’s about you and your sexuality. Want to take it a step further? Dress up like a fantasy character and role play while giving him head. [Read: The sexual role play guide for beginners]

7. Let your hair down

This is a sexy move and it’s super easy to do. Even if you don’t know it yet, chances are you’ve done it before without even realizing it. For this, he should be lying down and you should be off to the side.

All you have to do is let your hair fall down onto and over his balls. As you move your head up and down, the hair will give him a little massage with the lightest touch. This feels amazing for him, almost like the caress of a feather. He’ll be totally blissed out!

8. Show yourself off! 

Most guys like to look at a woman when she’s sucking him off. But every guy is different and so is what he wants to see. Once you know what eye candy he likes, give him a peek while you’re blowing him. [Read: 15 ways you can give him a view he’ll go crazy for!]

If he’s a boob guy, give him a nice view by using your twins to stimulate the base of his penis. If he’s an ass man, show him some ass. 69 comes close to this, but once it’s all up in his face, he might not be able to enjoy the view as much.

Instead, try kneeling next to his chest, almost 69-like but you’ll be a little off to his side. Even if he’s not that into butts, this view will drive any guy so wild that he might return the favor by using his hands or even his mouth to stimulate you as well. [Read: Make him want to go down on you with these sexy moves]

9. Create a ring

A good oral session involves hand work, too. Form a ring with your thumb and forefinger, and work his penis up and down with your fingers while you’re working with your mouth on the top. Your mouth may need a break, so give him a hand job. Then, once you’re rested and ready, bring him back into your mouth. [Read: How to master the art of the perfect blowjob]

10. You can use it as an intro to sex

A blowjob doesn’t have to the be one and only act that happens that night. Just because you’re giving him head doesn’t mean he has to finish with cum in your mouth. You can use the blowjob as a warm-up and then move onto having sex.

Many women think that once they start giving a blowjob that it should end with him getting off, but that’s not the case at all. But if you do want to finish with your mouth, you can still do that once you’ve had sex and your share of orgasms, and help him finish off with your mouth.

11. The strategic moves

This is one of those blowjob tips most girls overlook. You need to remember that the most sensitive areas are the head of his penis, the testicles, and the perineum, the spot between the testicles and the anus. But let’s not forget the lower stomach and his inner thighs. Gently kiss these areas as well when going down on him.

Continue by gently kissing the head of his penis, making sure your lips are moist before taking his penis into your mouth. Slide your tongue and lick him from the base of his penis to the head. Wet your lips and make out with his love tool a bit. Move up and down, wrapping your lips tightly around his shaft. This way, you’re creating a vacuum effect that will make your partner go weak at the knees.

12. Don’t blow him

Just because it’s called a blowjob doesn’t mean you just have to blow him while giving him head. Your mouth and tongue is a magical tool while giving a guy head, so it wisely. Yes. it’s funny to blow an uncircumcised guy and watch his dick turn into a puffer fish. But no, it’s not sexy. And chances are, he’s not going to find it arousing. In fact, you may just kill the mood too. 

Read this confession to know how it feels to have sex with an uncircumcised man if you’re curious about the uncut penis. 

13. Look up at him with those big beautiful eyes

This is a great move for when he’s either sitting or standing, and you’re on your knees in front of him. While you have him in your mouth, all you have to do is look up at him. Doing this will make your eyes look big, and big doe eyes make you look irresistibly young and inexperienced.

What he’ll see is the contradiction of you giving him head, while also looking sweet and innocent. Plus, eye contact while doing something so sexy is sure to give you both an added surge of lust and pleasure. [Read: What are bedroom eyes? Your guide to master the look of seductive eyes]

14. Explore his body

Performing oral sex on your partner can be empowering, as you hold in your hands, mouth, or both, the power to please your partner in your own way and with your own timing. This can also amp up your own libido, making you more aroused as well.

Giving head to your partner is a great time for you to explore his body in very intimate ways, get to know its curves and crevices, and at the same time, have fun. So take this opportunity to get to know him better physically and keep things playfully sexy. [Read: How to master the art of the perfect blowjob]

15. Give it a hand

Or two. Just because you are using your mouth for the BJ doesn’t mean you should leave your hands idle on your sides. Massage, rub, caress, and stimulate him in different parts of his body, especially his member.

Use one hand around his base and move it up and down as you also bob up and down with your mouth, stimulating his whole penis. Also pay attention to his little jewels, his testicles. Rub and caress them, or give them a gentle squeeze from time to time. [Read: 12 sexy, smutty moves to give him the best handjob ever]

16. Amplify the sound

Nothing is sexier to a guy than a girl who’s moaning with pleasure while giving him head. Want to make him float in high heavens and feel like the luckiest guy alive while you’re giving him a blowjob? Let out quiet gasps and moans, as you pleasure him. Read this guide on how to moan in bed and turn a guy on to know how to do it right. 

17. Boost his ego

As confident and in control as a man may appear when he gets naked in front of you, he’s just as insecure about how he looks naked as you are. If you want him to enjoy the whole blowjob experience, let him know that you enjoy blowing him. 

If you’re disappointed by the size of his package, or not really interested in giving him head, he’ll know. And he’ll feel worse about himself and the whole sexual experience. So flatter him, compliment him, and go down on him like there’s nothing else in the world you’d rather do at that moment than suck his big, fat, juicy cock!

18. Take a couple licks

Licking is hot. Start your blowjob by just starting to lick his penis from the base to the tip. If you want to up the visual effects, have him lay down on his bed so he can see you and your mouth in action. Plus, licking also helps create a rhythm that builds up the excitement and sexual tension.

Use your tongue *a lot*. Circle it around his head and lick his shaft. Take frequent breaks while blowing him, and just spend several seconds licking his shaft slowly, all around. [Read: Do all women like to swallow? This and 20 other sex questions answered for you]

19. Water it up!

Are you suffering from a case of dry mouth? That’s not fun for you, or him. If your mouth is feeling extra dry, and you’re not able to lubricate his penis with your saliva, don’t worry about it. Just slather his member with more lube while blowing him. Or better yet, pause for a second to take a quick gulp of water and get back to his member. The flowing water around his penis would make him feel even more aroused and horny.

20. Squeeze him

Many women focus the blowjobs around their mouth, which obviously makes sense or why else would it be called a blowjob? But, don’t forget, you have two very functioning hands that can jump in and help.

Use them to grab, squeeze, and rub his lower region. You can also use them to squeeze his inner thighs, his butt or his chest and stomach. You don’t have to focus all the attention on his penis.

21. Started from the bottom, now that we’re here

If you’re comfortable with your man’s penis and giving blowjobs, try starting your blowjobs from the base and suck his penis’ shaft sideways and work your way up to the tip. Use your tongue to massage his balls. Most guys expect you to go straight to the head, but when you start lower down, and spend a while there before you get to the head, it’s a whole new experience for a guy.

Think of it like the move guys use when they kiss and lick you all around your nipples before sucking them. [Read: Erogenous zones for men – The secret zones to touch your guy]

22. Use your body

Anyone who is an expert at giving head knows how to give the full-body experience. After all, it’s not just your mouth, tongue, and hands that are sensual and can give pleasure. Your whole body can be a great tool too.

Rub your breasts against his thighs as you sit above him on the bed. Graze your hair over his stomach to give subtle sensations as you move down. Better yet, with good positioning and better coordination, you can guide his hand to your breasts, touch yourself, or have him touch you down there too. All of these add important wow factors to your whole performance. [Read: Trim, shave or natural? How do guys prefer to see your bush?]

23. Lube it up

Making your BJ wet and moist is by far one of the best things you can do, whether you’re a blowjob newbie or an expert. Making his member wet makes the whole experience more sensual and luscious, taking the friction up enough without making it painful.

You can do this by producing enough saliva or by using a flavored lube. If you’re into some experimentation, you can also try whipped cream or flavored syrup, so you’ll enjoy licking those goodies off of him too.

24. No jaws

This happens more often than you think, so pay attention to this blowjob tip. It is highly important to avoid grazing your teeth on your man’s penis when you are giving him a blowjob. Even if you’re highly aroused and can’t get enough of his manhood, avoid clamping down with your jaws, as your man’s penis is highly sensitive, especially when he’s erect.

Even accidentally grazing his shaft with your teeth can be enough to make the moment fizzle. The best way to avoid this from ever happening is to wrap your lips over your teeth as you move up and down and all over him. This ensures that your munchers will have no contact with his pecker.

25. Squeeze the base

Here’s a pro blowjob tip for when he’s having trouble staying completely hard or for when you just want to change things up a bit.

With your thumb and one finger, squeeze around the base of his penis. Apply about as much pressure as it would take to pinch your cheek until it almost starts to hurt, but not quite. This works like a cock ring, keeping the blood inside, and the penis hard. Even if he’s having no trouble staying hard, the orgasm will feel different this way. It never hurts to try something new. [Read: How to use a cock ring – Your rock hard dick guide to orgasmic bliss]

26. Slow down

Okay, blowing a guy isn’t like brushing your teeth – the same motion in different parts of your mouth. A blowjob is an art. But if you want to take it to a whole new level, try this – really, really slow it down.

Go fast now and then, and slow down your to-and-fro pace, and instead of focusing on the motion, focus on the suction pressure only. Check it out here to know how to give a guy a slow blowjob and leave him horny in slow motion!

27. Bring along a toy

There’s no rule that says your sex toys are only for you. Get one out when you’re giving him head to really get him going. It should be something that vibrates, and ideally it should be small. He’ll probably be scared if you take out a dildo and want to put it between his legs!

Don’t bring it out right away. Get him going a little bit first, and when he’s really starting to get into it, about halfway to orgasm, then introduce it. Let him know before though, as sex toys are intimidating to guys in many ways. Surprising him with it will probably not be received well.

Put it right under his balls, and push lightly against the skin where the taint ends and balls begin. His balls and prostate will be stimulated, and even if he’s unsure about doing it initially, his fears will quickly melt away. Don’t be shocked if he comes a lot harder than usual. [Read: 15 common types of sex toys and singles and couples should know about]

28. Variety!

Have you figured out a way to make your man come when you get down on him? Is this what you have kept doing because it works? You may have the techniques down pat, but if you keep doing the same routine over and over, it can get boring.

And as we all know, boredom and routine are two things that can kill a relationship, both in and out of the bedroom. Therefore, try out new things with your blowjob repertoire. Keep exploring and keep on looking for hot spots. Vary your tempo, pressure, and rhythm to keep the excitement going. [Read: 8 naughty little moves every guy wishes you’d do in bed]

29. Get into it

If you enjoy giving him a blowjob, don’t feel like you must hide it. In fact, you should show your excitement. If you’re getting wet, tell him. If you want to moan, do it. This gets him even more aroused seeing you enjoying yourself. What guy wouldn’t want to see you enjoying yourself while you’re going down on him? Exactly. 

30. Find your rhythm

You need to find your rhythm if you want to give a good blowjob. That way, you’ll be able to get yourself into a groove and develop your own flow. Regardless of what the rhythm is, find what feels comfortable to you. Once you find a rhythm, you’ll be able to really get into it.

31. Take frequent breaks 

Giving blowjobs are a lot of work, contrary to popular belief. Usually, guys think that it’s just a couple minutes, but they’re not really paying attention to the clock. Some guys really enjoy the moment, and that moment can last over 10 minutes.

You’re not a dick-sucking robot, so cut yourself some slack. It’s okay to rest. All that rolling and bobbing can be painful for you, so allow yourself some active rest. But don’t just sit back completely and ignore him for a minute while you rest. [Read: Blowjob queen: The titillating moves to give the best head ever]

32. Make eye contact

Just because he can’t see you as you kneel or go down on him doesn’t mean you should disappear. Make your presence felt by maintaining connection with him through eye contact.

If he’s lying down and you’re sitting down with your head on his crotch, chances are, he might also be looking at you from time to time. These moments are the best times to lock eyes with him, and maybe give him a sexy wink and a smile as you resume pleasing him. 

33. Don’t forget the balls

Ah, yes, those little guys. Don’t forget them, they need some loving too. Use your hands to hold them and gently massage them or you can suck on them as well. Either way, he won’t complain. But remember, be gentle with them, they’re very sensitive. [Read: What are blue balls? All the facts every girl’s gotta know]

34. Don’t stop the party

It doesn’t take too long before your jaw starts to get uncomfortable. There’s really no other activity where you have to keep your mouth open for that long. Your hands and wrists may also start to feel like you’ve been milking a cow for hours. When you start to feel uncomfortable, take a quick break and shake it out.

But what too many women do is rest everything all at once. It’s more like a general strike than a break. When your jaw is starting to hurt, let your hand pick up the slack. Pull back, close your mouth and let it rest, but keep working him. When a woman just stops everything she’s doing, it kills the mood and you may need to start getting him worked up all over again.

This is when you can try other things while you give your mouth a break. For example, brush or rub his penis against your lips, like you’re using his dick as a lipstick. Alternate with your hands to keep the sensation going. Or just run your hands or hair against his body. You know you’re taking a break, he just thinks you’re being naughty and trying a new trick!

35. The penis isn’t like the vagina

You obviously know that, but really, they’re different. The penis isn’t self-lubricating so this means you’re going to have to lubricate with your spit or with lubricant. Women are lucky in that sense, but be mindful that they don’t have this gift. [Read: How to use lubricants to liven up your sex life]

36. Deepthroat?

This doesn’t have to be something to completely avoid, even if you think you have a sensitive gag reflex. The key to mastering this blowjob technique is to start out slowly, allowing yourself to get used to the feeling. Believe it or not, practice really does make perfect in this case, as the more you get accustomed to the feeling, the easier it will become to relax your gag reflex.

Just go as far as you can, and stop there. Swallow if you need to swallow, take a breath, and get used to the sensation. Once your throat is relaxed and you’re comfortable in the position, try a little further, but don’t push too quickly. Find the best angle to get the least resistance. [Read: How to deep throat like a porn star and leave him wanting more]

37. Don’t push it to the point of gagging

You may have heard stories about how the deeper you go, the more saliva your mouth produces. But is it worth it? Do you really need to gag on him to lubricate him? Is this deep throat action worth inducing panic and fear while giving him head? Nope. Just go as deep as you’d like, and use water as we said earlier (19.) to keep things moist and wet while blowing him.

38. Stay comfortable!

Okay, so you thought it was a great idea to get on your knees on the hard floor to begin with. Okay, that’s fine. But change positions so you’re comfortable now. You won’t break the flow or break the horny zen state your man is in. He’s enjoying it already, and a break for a few seconds to position yourself better won’t hurt. In fact, it’ll do him good.

You’re the one giving him a blowjob, so, you decide how you’re going to give him a blowjob. You don’t have to be on your knees. If he wants the blowjob, it goes by your rules. The most comfortable is when he’s lying on the bed, you have some cushion. [Read: 20 sizzling blowjob tips to make everything way better!]

39. Play with his bum

The anus is still a slight taboo topic, but it’s a very sensitive and pleasurable place for men. You can use your finger to just press gently over it, or use a sex toy. Now, not all guys are going to be down for this, so you’ll have to slowly work your way to this point. [Read: How to touch a guy – 17 subtle moves to make him lose his mind]

40. Finger him?

This one isn’t for everyone, but if you’re both into it, a finger in his ass can blow his mind. Men and women both have pleasure points in their ass, and you don’t have to be in too deep to find those spots. Unfortunately, due partly to fear, and partly to stories we’ve all heard where people do it wrong, men and women choose to avoid the added pleasure hidden in there.

While you’re already giving him head, lube up a finger with a trimmed nail. Start slowly, rubbing only the outer rim. There’s no need to rush or to shove it straight in. Some light caressing will already feel really good for him.

Once he’s started to relax, slowly and very gently, push your finger in. He’ll need to breathe, and loosen up to let it happen. About two inches in on the top side, you’ll feel a small bump. Massage it. This is the prostate and some people call it the male G-spot. Be careful: when he comes, it’ll be like nothing he’s ever felt before. You’ll definitely be raising his standards on orgasms because of this move! [Read: How to find and stimulate the male G-spot]

41. Tainted love

Different men respond to this one in different ways, but it’s worth seeing if he likes it. When he’s about to come, push somewhat firmly on the perineum, also known as the taint *the area between his anus and scrotum*.

This will push on his prostate and constrict the flow of his semen as he ejaculates, thus making him feel like he’s literally about to explode with pleasure. Use this blowjob tip with caution, and be careful of where you aim his penis, as the pressure will make his semen shoot out further than it ever has before!

42. Teabagging

While you’re working the shaft, stimulate his balls by gently massaging them. If you want, you can also use your mouth on them, but please, no teeth! These babies are extremely sensitive, so be gentle. Let him guide you as to how much pressure feels the best for him. Lick and suck his balls while stroking his penis.

And if you’re feeling extra confident in bed, try teabagging him. Yes, it’s exactly as it sounds. And many guys love the weird and sexy sensation of teabagging. Find out how to teabag your man and do it the right way.

43. Look into his eyes when he comes

Blowjob eyes are the best eyes. There’s nothing sexier for men than blowjob eyes looking right at them. Your partner will feel like a prisoner to you every time he sees you’re looking at him. Make sure he sees joy in your eyes. You look beautiful and amazing from up there.

The crucial moment to give him those blowjob eyes is the moment he’s having an orgasm. Wink or smile at him… and when he comes, look straight into his eyes with a triumphant look. You literally just made a man cum with your mouth. You’re a damn superstar, girl! 

44. Finish off with fireworks

There are many porn things men like during blowjobs that women are not quite fans of. Watering eyes, gagging on a penis, face-fucking, etc. But keep in mind that these things aren’t real expectations, unless of course, you’re also into them. Any effort you show him will leave him feeling amazing.

This is definitely something to keep in mind when the time comes for the age-old question: to spit or to swallow?

Spitting—running to the bathroom after he cums—can be awkward and even offensive. Let him cum in your mouth, but if you don’t want to swallow, you don’t have to. You can spit in a paper towel or a tissue nearby.

But really, swallowing can be hot, even for women! The tricky thing with swallowing is that you can’t predict what the taste will be like. Semen taste depends on many things, including his diet and health. In general, the taste is something between “that didn’t have taste at all” to “sour, but satisfying.” [Read: What does cum taste like? The real truth from women and science]

It’s worth giving it a try, and if you don’t like it, you can always have him finish elsewhere on your body, which can be equally as sexy. [Read: How to learn to swallow cum and go from spitter to swallower]

If he likes you to swallow though, and you don’t mind indulging him, there are tips on how you can make his cum taste better, even sweeter. [Read: 16 things a guy can do to make him cum taste better and make the experience more fun for you]

45. Coming on your face

You don’t have to let him do it every time, but let him come where he wants to, once in a while. You may not understand why he wants to come there, but if he enjoys it and it won’t hurt you, just indulge him.

There’s a good chance he’ll choose your face as his target. Or maybe your breasts. You might think it’s about domination and humiliation, but just think about it as bedroom play and not something that carries over to your actual relationship. As long as he respects you as a woman out of the bedroom, a minute or two of degradation in bed can add a rush of excitement! [Read: How to perfect your orgasm face and make him want more of that]

46. Not all guys can finish with a blowjob

This is a must-know blowjob tip, and not knowing this could bruise your ego. Not every guy can cum with a blowjob. Some guys find it easier to ejaculate while having sex instead.

Why? No one knows for sure, but his masturbation technique has a big part of play in this. Some men like masturbating with their hands *they find it easier to ejaculate with a blowjob* and some guys prefer masturbating while humping a bed *these guys have a harder time cumming to a blowjob*. So whatever the case, or any other reasons, remember that him not ejaculating in your mouth isn’t a sign that you don’t know how to give a blowjob.

47. All men are different

Your ex may have liked it when you went slow or used a lot of lubricant. However, the new guy you’re dating prefers when you play with his balls. All men are different, just like women. What one guy likes, another guy won’t. So, you can either see what he likes by trying different things out or you can just ask him. [Read: What do men like in bed? 32 things they wants and absolutely lust after]

48. Nonverbal communication

If you want to know how to give a good blowjob, remember that nonverbal communication is huge and actually arouses him even more while you’re giving him a blowjob. Make eye contact with him, smile, laugh, whatever you want. This makes him enjoy the experience even more. Plus, it shows you’re having a good time as well. Don’t be scared to show your emotions.

One of the best ways to be on top of your game when it comes to the bedroom is to master giving your man a mind-blowing, soul-altering blowjob. Or at least do it right. If you enjoy it, he definitely will too!

49. The head pusher

So far, we’ve given you all the things you need to do, and the blowjob tips to make sure you satisfy your guy. But on the flip side, there are a few guys who would pressure you or try to forcefully coax you into giving them a blowjob while making out with them.

Enter the head pusher. He’s the guy who starts gently but firmly holding you by your hair or head, and guiding your face down to his penis even if you resist him. Never, ever, ever put with with assholes like that.

You may have been okay with giving him head, or even mildly interested to begin with. But if any guy ever tries to force you to give him head *however subtly or gently*, get up and walk away. He isn’t making out with you or making love to you, he’s using you as his blowjob machine. And that’s something you should never ever tolerate, however much you like the guy.

50. The demanding one

Just as with the head pusher, the demanding fuckface of a guy doesn’t deserve a blowjob from you. And he definitely doesn’t deserve you. A blowjob is a gift you offer a guy. You don’t need to do it. It’s a choice, and you’re being a true giver by making it all about his pleasure, instead of focusing on yours. If any guy demands a blowjob, for heaven’s sake, don’t give him one. Men need to learn to respect women even in bed, not “demand” favors!

The last word on these blowjob tips and the best ways to give him head

Keep these blowjob tips in mind, and remember to make it a full-body performance by putting your whole body to work and not just your mouth. This is also the perfect time to get creative as you get more intimately acquainted with your man’s anatomy. And of course, don’t forget to have fun. [Read: All the reasons why a swallower is the best girlfriend ever!]

Believe in yourself, believe that you’re great at giving head, and you will really be. Make sure every kiss, lick, suck, and look is secure and sincere. When you’re confident and own it, it shows! [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl]

And finally, men say blowjobs make them feel loved and special. But a woman’s feelings about blowjobs depend on her feelings towards the person she’s giving head to. However, giving oral sex has remained a dirty taboo and is still considered impure and disgusting for many women.

Some women don’t like to get up close to a man’s private parts, or they think that “good girls don’t give head.” But if you like the guy, and want to give him head, well, let’s sin, honey! 

With these blowjob tips and tricks, you’re sure to put your man in a rollercoaster of intense pleasure. Whenever your guy deserves some good lovin’ or whenever you’re just in a generous mood, use these sexy tips to give him head and make him explode!

Next, try these 60 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend and the art of dirty talk to take your bedroom talent to a whole new level!

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