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30 Dirty Would You Rather Questions to Ask Your Lover

30 Dirty Would You Rather Questions to Ask Your Lover

Looking for naughty questions to ask your lover? Use these 30 dirty would-you-rather questions to have the sexiest time and know your lover better.

Questions are a fun way to pass the time, and have a few laughs along the way.

But the right questions can be a lot more than just fun.

They can be rather revealing, insightful and very truthful.

If you were to ask your boyfriend or girlfriend if they’d enjoy sleeping with someone else, or if they’ve ever found someone else attractive, they’d shuffle their feet uncomfortably and deny it.

But all of us could find someone attractive while walking down the street.

Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you need to cover your eyes and behave like you can’t appreciate anyone else in the world.

[Read: 25 relationship rules for successful love]

Asking the right questions to increase intimacy in a relationship

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you should change yourself overnight or stop talking to the opposite sex.

As long as you respect your lover and are truthful to them, be it about a secret crush or a flirty conversation with someone else, it’ll bring both of you closer and remove all traces of insecurity in the relationship. [Read: Is flirting really cheating when you’re in a relationship?]

Remember this, insecurities and frustrations in a relationship crop up more often when you’re secretive, than when you’re truthful.

The perfect would-you-rather questions

You may be familiar with several fun would you rather questions, but have you ever imagined using them to better your relationship? Well, by using the right questions, both of you can explore your sexual minds and understand each other’s wants and sexual desires a lot better. [Read: How to make long term sex feel like a sexy one night stand all the time]

The next time you’re playing a game of would you rather questions, instead of asking mundane questions that may gross your partner out or make them laugh, ask questions that are sexy and fun, and yet, very revealing about their attitude towards sex and relationships.

As long as you keep the atmosphere light and easy, and have a laugh with each new question, you’ll know more about your lover’s sexual side within the next fifteen minutes than you’ve ever know before!

You can also use the answers to these questions to fantasize in bed with your lover later. If you do prolong these questions while making out, the sex may turn both of you on a lot more, and both of you will understand each other’s sexual side a lot more too. [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound very sex doing it!]

30 would-you-rather questions to exercise your imagination

The next time you and your lover have time in your hands on a lazy afternoon or late at night, ask each other these questions in person or text these 30 would you rather questions to each other.

Either ways, your sex life will get better, your relationship will feel more secure, and both of you will feel a lot closer and more connected.

#1 If both of us were playing sexual truth or dare with other couples, would you rather watch me make out with someone or would you prefer making out with someone? [Read: 30 dirty truth or dare questions for a sexy night]

#2 Would you rather cheat on me with your ex or with someone you’ve never been sexually intimate with before?

#3 Would you rather watch porn with me or read an erotic novel out loud while touching each other? [Read: The real reason behind why men like porn so much]

#4 Would you rather be an occasional flasher and discreetly show off your body to an attractive neighbor, or a voyeur who peeps at a sexy neighbor when they’re undressing? [Read: Real life secret public flashing confessions]

#5 Would you rather have sex with the lights on or the lights off?

#6 Would you rather cheat on me or bring another person of your gender into bed with us?

#7 If you had the choice, would you rather have morning sex or night sex?

#8 Would you rather pay for sex or get paid for sex?

#9 Would you rather give an oral or get an oral?

#10 Would you rather have sex while someone attractive is watching you, or would you want to watch someone have sex in front of you?

#11 Would you rather be on top or down while having sex? [Read: How to ride a man and look sexy doing it]

#12 Would you rather kiss an attractive person when they’re drunk with you, or wait until they’re totally wasted so you can see them in the nude?

#13 Would you rather have sex with me in front of your closest friends or circulate our home made sex video online with our faces blurred?

#14 Would you rather spit or swallow when you go down on me? [Read: How to make a guy go down on you without a push]

#15 Would you rather place a hidden camera in an attractive friend’s bathroom or kiss them accidentally? [Read: 5 ways to accidentally kiss a friend and get away with it!]

#16 Would you rather have anal sex with me or get penetrated by me and another friend at the same time? / Being a guy, would you rather have anal sex with another guy or get a blow job from another guy?

#17 If you’re really horny and couldn’t hold on, would you rather have your pet lick you down there or a complete stranger?

#18 Would you rather have period sex or a golden shower where you let me pee over you? [Read: The complete guide to having awesome sex on your period]

#19 Would you rather abstain from having sex with me for one full year because you’ve been cursed by a magical spell, or would you have sex with five other people to break the curse and resume having sex with me? Name the five people you’d have sex with if you choose to break the spell.

#20 If you were invisible for a whole day, would you rather grab boobs or grab butts of random girls / junk or butts of random guys?

#21 Would you rather give up on a promotion or sleep with your boss to get the promotion? / Would you rather give up on a promotion or ask me to sleep with your boss to get the promotion?

#22 Would you rather get an amazing oral from me or would you prefer good sex this weekend?

#23 Would you rather try out new and crazy kinky sex ideas or have romantic sex? [Read: Top 50 types of kinky sex ideas]

#24 If you were single, would you rather have multiple sex partners or one sex buddy?

#25 If you have a perfect first date with someone and the sexual chemistry is sizzling, would you rather end a date with a passionate kiss or would you like to end a first date with sex?

#26 Would you rather watch girl on girl porn or guy on guy porn to turn yourself on?

#27 Would you rather go down on me for two hours straight or give your crush a quick kiss on the lips?

#28 Would you rather have sex with my best friend or your best friend *of the opposite sex*? [Read: 12 devious ways to see a friend naked]

#29 When we’re having sex, would you rather talk about your secret crush with me or fantasize about it secretly in your mind? [Read: How to fantasize about someone else with your lover and have a good time together]

#30 If you get a massage in a secluded room and no one could see you, would you rather get it from an average looking person of the opposite sex who discreetly brushes their hands around your privates quite often, or a very attractive person whose hands don’t go anywhere near your shorts?

When you ask each other these sexy questions, both of you would instantly know more about each other and understand each other ‘s sexual likes and dislikes, and kinky interests too.

And if both of you like each other’s answers, you could use it to improve your sex lives and even understand each other’s sexual desires and dirty ideas better.

[Read: 20 sexy questions to ask a guy and seduce him and 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet]

Just try these 30 dirty would-you-rather questions with your partner over the weekend or over text late at night. The answers will definitely be enlightening, and not to mention, pretty arousing at times too!

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11 thoughts on “30 Dirty Would You Rather Questions to Ask Your Lover”

  1. Michelle says:

    It seems many of these questions could lead to a fight. I don’t find it sexy to think of my partner cheating on me especially with his ex.

  2. Dale says:

    I agree, Michelle. A few of these are cute, but would anyone in their right mind get turned on by the thought of their partner with someone else?

  3. Jim says:

    Are you really serious? Any guy who buys into this batch of questions deserves what he gets. It is a great set of questions written by girls for girls. Anyone who thinks this will increase intimacy in a relationship deserves what they get. Abandon all hope Ye who venture here.

  4. Rebecca says:

    You guys are talking these questions to seriously,it’s all in fun and allowing you and your partner to speak about likes and dislikes. You guys are closed the ultimate joys of sex. You guys are young and have much to learn.

  5. Ch says:

    My question to you all is this. Do you want an honest and understanding relationship? If so wake up and realise if you can’t be honest with yourself how can you be honest with your partner.

  6. shasaxo says:

    honestly, i see how this could be fun.. but i don’t undrestand how asking my husband if he rather “sleep with my best friend or his” of the opposite sex.. increase intimacy in a our relationship.. i love my husband and i love when he opens up with me.. love exploring new ideas in bed with him …that involve only us… i don’t understand how bringing or talking about him being sexual involved with another person would make me love him more or bring spice into my relationship… in fact that would make me love him less.

  7. Krax says:

    I think these ?uestions are great for ppl who want to spice up their relationship but don’t know how to break the ice.

  8. Krax says:

    I totally agree with Rebecca. Women’s sexual needs are complicated. And if she feels like she can’t be COMPLETELY honest with you…..she might decide to completely honest elsewhere.

  9. Billy James Shaw says:

    Do woman like kinky sex?

  10. Gert Frobe says:

    Ok, I am a male, married longer than most of you are old. Let me tell you why these are great questions. My wife and I have a good sex life, but 3 to 4 times a year wego out of town for what we call an alone day. We will bring questions like these. We get up on the one day we have chosen. Get cleaned up, have some morning wine. Read these out loud and answer them. The big part of the day is to not climate for at least 4 hours. Anticipation is the gift no one tells you about. But even though we have been married like, forever. We can still find out new things about each other. I get the impression, from reading most of your comments, that you are in a un trusting, immature, jealousy driven relationship. Do not get married until you can be comfortable with ALL of these questions and the answers.

  11. tired of idiots says:

    holy shit. this is ridiculous. And a GREAT way to start a fight or add discomfort between a couple.might as well say: “Hey! you wana cheat on me? or would you prefer if i cheated on you?”

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