Would you rather questions are a fun way to pass the time, and have a few laughs along the way. But the right questions can be a lot more than just fun. They can be rather revealing, insightful and very truthful. And with a few sexy and dirty would you rather questions, you can find out so much more about your partner, while arousing them at the same time!
If you were to ask your boyfriend or girlfriend if they’d enjoy sleeping with someone else, or if they’ve ever found someone else attractive, they’d shuffle their feet uncomfortably and deny it. Because hey, that’s what they’re supposed to do… *out of respect for you!*
But all of us could find someone attractive while walking down the street. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you need to cover your eyes and behave like you can’t appreciate anyone else in the world.
[Read: 25 relationship rules for successful love]
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you should change yourself overnight or stop talking to the opposite sex. A big part of being in a relationship is accepting ourselves and our partners for who we are.
Just because we’re in love with someone, or in a committed relationship, doesn’t mean we become numb to every other sexual thought or urge. If you can look at someone else and admire them, or flirt casually because there’s no harm in it, or even steal glances with someone cute on the street, you need to remember that your partner is human too, and could probably be doing the same things too. [Read: How to talk about sex without sounding like a pervert]
When you accept this truth, that we’re all humans, and fleeting moments of sexual arousal and flirtation are normal, it’ll help you and your partner feel closer and understand each other better.
After all, what matters is not the naughty thoughts in your head, but whether you make an active effort to act out on something that would be deemed as unfaithful in your relationship. [Read: How to get your partner to open up about sex and start talking about their innermost desires]
As long as you respect your lover and are truthful to them, be it about a secret crush or a flirty conversation with someone else, it’ll bring both of you closer and remove all traces of insecurity in the relationship. [Read: Is flirting really cheating when you’re in a relationship?]
Remember this, insecurities and frustrations in a relationship crop up more often when you’re secretive, than when you’re truthful.
You may be familiar with several fun would you rather questions, but have you ever imagined using them to better your relationship? [Read: 40 gross and disturbing would you rather questions that’ll make you squirm]
Well, by using the right questions, both of you can explore your sexual minds and understand each other’s wants and sexual desires a lot better. [Read: How to make long term sex feel like a sexy one night stand all the time]
The next time you’re playing a game of would you rather questions, instead of asking questions that may gross your partner out or make them laugh, ask questions that are sexy and dirty, and yet, very revealing about their attitude towards sex and intimacy.
As long as you keep the atmosphere light and easy, and have a laugh with each new question, you’ll know more about your lover’s sexual side within the next fifteen minutes than you’ve ever know before! [Read: 30 very naughty questions for couples to keep the sexy spark alive]
You can also use the answers to these sexy would you rather questions to bring your partner’s fantasies to life in bed later that night. If you use these questions while having sex, it may seem funny at first, but the sex may turn both of you on a lot more, and both of you will understand each other’s sexual side a lot more too. [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound very sex doing it!]
The next time you and your lover have time in your hands on a lazy afternoon or late at night, ask each other these questions in person or text these would you rather questions to each other.
Either ways, your sex life will get better, your relationship will feel more secure, and both of you will feel a lot closer and more connected.
1. If both of us were playing sexual truth or dare with other couples, would you rather watch me make out with someone or would you prefer making out with someone? [Read: 30 dirty truth or dare questions that are very, very naughty!]
2. Would you rather cheat on me with your ex or with someone you’ve never been sexually intimate with before?
3. Would you rather watch porn with me or read an erotic novel out loud while touching each other? [Read: The real reason behind why men like porn so much]
4. Would you rather be an occasional flasher and discreetly show off your body to an attractive neighbor, or a voyeur who peeps at a sexy neighbor when they’re undressing? [Read: Real life secret public flashing confessions]
5. Would you rather have sex with the lights on or the lights off?
6. Would you rather cheat on me or bring another person of your gender into bed with us?
7. If you had the choice, would you rather have morning sex or night sex?
8. Would you rather pay for sex or get paid for sex?
9. Would you rather give an oral or get an oral?
10. Would you rather have sex while someone attractive is watching you, or would you want to watch someone have sex in front of you?
11. Would you rather be on top or down while having sex? [Read: How to ride a man and look sexy doing it]
12. Would you rather kiss an attractive person when they’re having a drink with you, or wait until they’re totally wasted so you can see them in the nude?
13. Would you rather have sex with me in front of your closest friends or circulate our homemade sex video online with our faces blurred?
14. Would you rather spit or swallow when you go down on me? [Read: How to make a guy go down on you without a push]
15. Would you rather place a hidden camera in an attractive friend’s bathroom or kiss them accidentally? [Read: Sneaky ways to accidentally kiss a friend and get away with it!]
16. Would you rather have anal sex with me, or get penetrated by me and another guy at the same time? / Being a guy, would you rather have anal sex with another guy or get a blow job from another guy?
17. If you’re really horny and couldn’t hold on, would you rather have your pet lick you down there or a complete stranger?
18. Would you rather have period sex or a golden shower where you let me pee over you? [Read: The complete guide to having awesome sex on your period]
19. Would you rather abstain from having sex with me for one full year because you’ve been cursed by a magical spell, or would you have sex with five friends in a week to break the curse and resume having sex with me? Name the five people you’d have sex with if you choose to break the spell.
20. If you were invisible for a whole day, would you rather watch people undressing or run your hands over people’s clothed bodies?
21. Would you rather give up on a promotion or sleep with your boss to get the promotion? / Would you rather give up on a promotion or ask me to sleep with your boss to get the promotion?
22. Would you rather get amazing oral from me or would you prefer good sex this weekend?
23. Would you rather try out new and crazy kinky sex ideas or have romantic sex? [Read: Top 50 types of kinky sex ideas that are must-try for every couple]
24. Would you rather go skinny dipping with your friends or with my friends?
25. If you were single, would you rather have occasional one night stands or one fuck buddy?
26. Would you rather have sex with one person for the rest of your life, or one new person every week for life? *if you were single*
27. Would you rather have a threesome or hear about your friend who had a threesome? [Read: 20 things you MUST know before you even consider entering into a threesome]
28. Would you want to be spanked in bed, or bring food into bed?
29. Would you rather have sex once a fortnight with me and no one around, or have sex every other day but with someone in the room who watches us?
30. Would you rather have kinky sex or romantic sex for the rest of your life, if you could only pick one?
31. If you have a perfect first date with someone and the sexual chemistry is sizzling, would you rather end the date with a hug, or would you end the date with sex if they suggest it?
32. Would you rather watch girl on girl porn or guy on guy porn to turn yourself on?
33. Would you rather go down on me for two hours or kiss a coworker you find attractive?
34. Would you rather have sex with my best friend or your best friend *of the opposite sex if you’re straight*? [Read: 12 devious ways to see a friend naked]
35. When we’re having sex, would you rather talk about your secret crush with me or fantasize about it secretly in your mind? [Read: How to fantasize about someone else with your lover and have a good time together]
36. If you get a massage in a secluded room and no one could see you, would you rather get it from an average looking person of the opposite sex who discreetly brushes their hands around your privates often, or a very attractive person whose hands don’t go anywhere near your underwear? [Confession: My Asian happy ending massage confession]
37. Would you rather send a sexy text or a sexy nude?
38. Every time you have sex for the rest of your life, would you rather have sex for exactly 5 minutes and have a quick-but-average orgasm, or have sex for a minimum of one hour to have an explosive orgasm *remember, if you stop before an hour or your partner finishes before you, you don’t get to orgasm*?
39. Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who is always submissive in bed or always dominating in bed?
40. Would you rather have sex with me now, or later tonight? 😉
[Read: Naughty sex games for couples to instantly feel really horny]
When you ask each other these sexy questions, both of you would instantly know more about each other and understand each other’s sexual likes and dislikes, and kinky interests too.
And if both of you like each other’s answers to these dirty would you rather questions, you could use it to improve your sex lives and even understand each other’s sexual desires and dirty ideas better.
[Read: 20 sexy questions to ask a guy and seduce him and 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet]
Just try these 40 sexy, dirty would you rather questions with your partner over the weekend or over text late at night. The naughty answers will definitely be enlightening, and not to mention, pretty arousing too!
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