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74 Sexy & Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend + Art of Dirty Talk Over Text

Overcome your nerves and learn a few dirty things to say to your boyfriend. It will give him a pleasant surprise and probably spice up the night!

Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend and dirty talk over text

Okay, we get it, it’s not easy to blurt out a few sexy, dirty things to say to your boyfriend out of the blue. It sounds exciting in your mind, but the minute you bring yourself to say it out loud, you hold the thought.

You think it sounds silly. Or worse, you think your boyfriend will cringe if he hears you say, “come here, big boy, and give me your ding dong!” *Well, yes, with this line, he may just shrivel up!*

Has your boyfriend ever told you that he wants you to talk dirty to him? Or do you find that he gets “extra” turned on when you say something naughty to him, either in a text or in bed? [Read: 72 cute things to say to your boyfriend and make his heart melt]

Say this out loud – Dirty talking is not silly

Dirty talking is not silly, it’s not stupid, and no, you’re never going to run out of things to say. Of course, that’s once you learn the art of dirty talking and remember a few of the dirty things to say to your boyfriend to get the conversation rolling.

But before getting to that part, you need to dip your feet into the world of dirty talking and understand how it works. Only then can you enjoy it and introduce a world of sexual pleasure into your boyfriend’s life!

The whole idea of saying dirty things to each other may seem like a lot of work to someone who doesn’t understand how dirty talking works.

But in reality, talking dirty and screaming sexy things at each other while having passionate sex is the easiest thing in the world! [Read: Bad girl traits every boyfriend wants to see in his girl

The art of talking dirty with a guy

Do you want to transform yourself into a sexy, naughty minx who can get a guy’s shorts stiff in seconds just by using a few dirty words?

Well, you can be all that and more, if you understand what dirty talking is all about.

So why do you think you’re having a hard time talking dirty in bed? The only thing that stops you from screaming dirty lines in bed are the subconscious rules that are embedded deep in your mind.

Your subconscious mind doesn’t want to think dirty or talk dirty because it finds the whole idea weird, awkward, and socially unacceptable. [Read: A list of sexy words that make dirty talking sound so much naughtier]

So, if you truly want to enjoy talking dirty, you need to open up your mind and accept sexual thoughts and fantasies as natural and just as normal as any other thought.

Honestly, the girl who knows how to talk dirty and say the right kind of sexy things to her boyfriend is the kind of girl every guy dreams of dating. There is absolutely nothing wrong with owning it! After all, she’s literally every guy’s fantasy!

Now, wouldn’t you want to be that girl? [Read: How to be the sexy girlfriend your boyfriend has always wanted]

Does your guy like talking dirty?

Before you go any further into the lane of dirty talking in bed, you need to know your boyfriend’s opinion about it. Remember, not all guys like dirty talking. Some guys just cringe the very instant they hear you say something crude or dirty.

If you’re dating a guy who isn’t into dirty lines, don’t fret. You can still use your words to stimulate his mind by fantasizing together in bed or talking about something that arouses both of you.

Arousing your boyfriend’s mind by talking about things he finds sexy will always give him a sexual high, even if he isn’t into dirty phrases.

For example, as both of you start making out, whisper about the first time he undressed you and how you felt that very first time. It’s literally that simple to say the right things to a guy who isn’t into dirty talking! [Read: How to satisfy a man in bed – 25 ways to leave him wanting more]

The basic steps to turn him on with your words

When you want to know things to say to turn a guy on, you not only need to know specific things to say, but you also need to know a few other basics too.

1. Be genuine

Think about what keeps you attracted to him. Whether it’s the way he smiles, his firm butt, his strong arms, or the smooth moves that sweep you off your feet. The best seduction trick is to mean what you say. 

So whether you want to compliment him or just show your appreciation in a sexy way, make sure that it’s real, and your words will really do the trick. [Read: 30 compliments for guys they’ll never ever forget]

2. Tease him

You can definitely turn your man on by teasing him with just a few well-said words. You can give him a sneak peek of what’s in store for him or describe what you’re going to do to him later.

Pair this with a wink or a sexy smile, and you can definitely turn the heat up.

3. Tell him how he turns you on

Whether it’s by the way he touches you or how he kisses you in intimate places, you can easily turn on a guy by telling him what turns you on. 

By being vivid and descriptive about it, you can excite him and get his imagination going. Just remember not to give everything away, though. Leave some details out to make him anticipate and look forward to more. [Read: 40 naughty, playful texts to keep things hot and horny]

4. All about timing

As with anything, timing is important. There will be moments, such as when your guy is stressed at work, when dirty talk will not just cut it. He may even think you’re being weird *and not in a good way.* 

Be sensitive about timing and appropriateness.

5. Know what to say

There are also such things as soft-core and hard-core dirty talking, and you should know which one you and your partner are comfortable with. 

Soft-core dirty talk is more like teasing, but you can build it up and go all the way hard-core with slang and even swear words, especially when you’re already doing the deed. [Read: 25 sexy text messages to initiate a dirty conversation with a guy and arouse him]

6. Be natural

You can be genuine and all, but if you feel awkward or uncomfortable, it will translate with how you say it.

When it comes to talking dirty to seduce your man, it’s actually not what you say but how you say it that matters the most. The secret here is not to sound forced, but rather natural and spontaneous. [Read: The art of talking dirty to a guy and sounding really, really sexy]

Sexy, dirty things to say to your boyfriend

The next time you’re in bed with your boyfriend, over the phone, or even while texting him, use any of these dirty lines to arouse him.

But remember, talking dirty isn’t just about mouthing a series of naughty lines in random order. Follow up each line you say with something you feel. It makes the whole dirty talking experience more personal and sensual.

If you say something dirty to your boyfriend like “I wish you were my sex slave,” don’t follow that up by saying something completely different like “I want to bang you in a French maid costume.” Instead, describe how you feel when you say that.

Tell him why you think he’s your sex slave, or what you’d want him to do if he was your sex slave. Play along, instead of jumping from one story to the next. [Read: What men want in bed – 32 things they absolutely love and lust after]

Doing this gives the dirty talking continuity, which makes the whole experience a lot sexier and a lot more arousing!

And now that you truly understand how to say something dirty, use this list of sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend, and give him a sexual explosion that’s beyond his wildest fantasies!

1. I’m touching myself right now.

2. Meet me for lunch. I want you to finger me in the car.

3. I’m not wearing any underwear right now. [Read: Lingerie selfie – how to perfect the art of foreplay from afar]

4. I can’t wait for you to put it in me.

5. I want you here right now.

6. I woke up wet this morning.

7. You have such a dirty mind, and it works on me!

8. Tell me where you want to touch me first. *Get naked and stand in front of him*

9. I want you to tear my clothes off my body. [Read: 15 dirty ways to have the sexiest rough sex ever!]

10. You feel so good in me, I wanna scream.

11. I’m not horny all the time, it’s just that you’re so f**king sexy.

12. I love how your tongue feels down there. [Read: How to make him go down on you without a push]

13. Bite my neck and f**k me harder.

14. You’re such a sex machine!

15. I’ve been thinking long and hard about what I’m going to do to you tonight…

16. Show me where you want me to bite you.

17. You’re such a bad boy! [Read: The wildest foreplay tips that all guys love!]

18. Please f**k me. *Plead with him*

19. F**k me now! *Order him*

20. Squeeze my boobs harder and suck my nipples.

21. I know you like my pussy…. Now show me how much you love it!

22. I wanna f**k you in every room tonight!

23. You make me think such dirty thoughts!

24. I’ve been waiting for this all day…

25. Undress me… [Read: 18 physical turn ons about your body that arouse your guy instantly]

26. Call me a bitch!

27. Just looking at you in those boxers makes me wet…

28. Oh god! / Oh yeah!

29. Tie me up and ride me harder. [Read: How to ride a man and look sexy doing it!]

30. I want you to f**k me while I’m leaning against the window.

31. Grab my ass and bang me harder.

32. You’re so big it hurts me so much but I still want it!

33. Can you imagine doing this to me the very first time we met?

34. F**k me like I’m your bitch.

35. You can have all of me, but you have to pay me first! [Read: The complete guide to sexual role play for beginners]

36. Get away from me! *Hold his collar and pull him close*

37. Get in deeper! *Grab him by his butt and claw him with your nails*

38. My boyfriend will be here any minute! *A good role-play game*

39. Punish me! I’ve been a really bad girl.

40. Blowing you makes me so horny.

41. Talk into my ears while you’re banging me. [Read: How to moan and sound and look even more sexy in bed]

42. The sheets are so wet with my cum right now.

43. You really know how to make a girl wet…

44. I love how hard you get when I stroke you.

45. You make me feel so slippery between my thighs.

46. I like it when you do it like that! [Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas for a sexy relationship]

47. Pull my hair and f**k me.

48. I want you to cum all over my face.

49. You make me feel like such a bad girl!

50. Just watching you makes me want to finger myself.

51. My panties are soaked right now.

52. I get wet just remembering how good your tongue feels down there. [Read: How to give a guy a boner – 20 moves for an instant erection]

53. Get naked and send me your pic!

54. Spank me on my ass and bite me.

55. I want you to kiss me here. *Point the spot, or send him a close-up pic of where you want him to kiss you*

56. You look so sexy on top of me. [Read: How to please a man sexually and make him crave your body daily!]

57. You f**k me so well, I’d f**k you even if I weren’t dating you.

58. I want you to lift my skirt up and f**k me right now. *As soon as you walk into your place*

59. I want you to cum in my mouth!

60. Ohhh, I feel so weak when you enter me. [Read: 15 things a girl does in bed that completely turns a guy off]

61. You have such a dirty mind and it just turns me on!

62. I wish we were just lying in bed and cuddling all day long.

63. I’m just lying in bed naked. Care to join me? [Read: 20 sexy step-by-step questions to text any guy and seduce him instantly]

64. Free up your schedule tonight. I have a surprise for you.

65. What a boring day! If we were together right now, what would we be doing?

66. Come over tonight. I have a hot fudge sundae for you to lick off me.

67. I’m in the bathtub touching myself. I wish you were here with me. [Read: 50 sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend and arouse him]

68. I woke up wet this morning thinking of you.

69. I’m not wearing any underwear.

70. Let’s get out of here. I want to tear your clothes off.

71. Wow, you’re so big! *Inconspicuously grope him or “accidentally” touch him on his crotch* [Read: Conversation starters that’ll get both of you really horny]

72. I can be your slave tonight. Why don’t we go to your place now?

73. Take me home and you can have me any way you want.

74. I’m wet right now. What to see? [Read: 30 subtle, obvious, and really sexy flirty lines for girls that’ll rock any guy’s world]

What are you waiting for? It’s time to talk dirty!

While you can’t get into your man’s mind and find out exactly what he wants to hear or what turns him on, knowing these dirty, sexy things to say is a good way to start.

These examples are great starters, and you can always tweak and customize them to suit your mood, man, and any situation.

[Read: 20 naughty questions to ask your man and open up a whole new side to your sexual relationship]

Use any of these dirty things to say to your boyfriend. You’ll definitely arouse him with your sexy words, just as much as you arouse him with your dirty actions!

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
Vin Serai is the founder of LovePanky.com, and has delved deep into the working of love and relationships for almost two decades. Having dipped his feet in almo...