If you want your relationship to last, you have to do certain things to keep the spark alive. Without consistent effort, relationships fall flat, get boring, and eventually end. Therefore, you have to try new and exciting ways to keep your love life hot and steamy. One way to do that is to send your man texts that will make him hard.
Men have great imaginations, but they can’t always get a clear picture without a little help. That’s where you come in. If you want your man to be dripping with anticipation the second he comes home, sending him naughty texts will do the trick for sure.
Why anticipation is the secret to great sex
We all know the build up to sex can greatly improve the act itself. When you are thinking about someone else’s hands all over you throughout the day, the release you feel when it actually happens is greater than you can even imagine. And the best way to get that anticipation pumping at full speed is sending sexy text messages.
Once you fill a man with anticipation, they only have one thing on their mind: you. Every time they see your name pop up on their phone, they’ll think only dirty thoughts of you. And when they finally get home, they’ll want to put those internal thoughts to action. [Read: How to foreplay – The key for the best sex of your life]
Texts that will make him hard and desire you deeply
There’s really no better way to get a man’s attention than to surprise him with a dirty, sexy text message midway through the day. When he doesn’t see it coming, the shock alone is enough to make him hard.
Not to mention all the different things you can say. When it comes to texts that will make him hard, stimulating his imagination is by far the best way to do it. If you’re looking for ways to spice up your love life, look no further. We have everything you need. [Read: 10 tips to reignite the lost spark in a relationship]
#1 I want you. Now.
#2 I’m thinking about all the dirty things I want to do to you when you get home.
#3 If I let you do anything – and I mean ANYTHING – to me, what would you do?
[Read: 20 new things to try in bed with your lover]
#4 I can’t stop thinking about your lips on my body.
#5 All I want is my mouth on you – everywhere.
#6 Remember what we did in bed last time? I can’t stop thinking about it.
#7 Guess what I’m wearing right now.
#8 The bed feels so empty without you.
#9 Baby, I’m so wet for you.
#10 I had a very naughty dream about you last night. Guess what happened in it 😉
#11 Let’s spend a whole day together this weekend. In bed.
#12 If you can guess the color of my panties, I’ll give you a blow job you’ll never forget.
#13 Tell me your dirtiest fantasy about me.
[Read: Sexual fantasies all men have about women]
#14 I have a special surprise for you tonight. You better come ready 😉
#15 I’ll give you a reward tonight if you can guess where I’m touching myself right now.
#16 I can’t stop thinking about what I’m going to do to you tonight.
#17 Let’s watch porn together and act out each scene.
#18 Have you ever wanted to have sex in public?
[Read: Sex in public and 15 other naughty places to get it on]
#19 All I want right now is your hands on me. Down there.
#20 I just had the naughtiest thought about you. But it’s much too dirty to send in a text.
#21 There’s something special I want to try tonight. Get ready 😉
#22 I’ve been a very bad girl today. I think I need to be punished.
#23 I’ll be wearing heels tonight. ONLY heels.
#24 You have three wishes that I’ll grant you in bed tonight. What are they?
#25 Guess what I’m thinking about. I’ll give you a hint, it involves my lips wrapped around something.
#26 I’m horny and you’re nowhere in site. Looks like I’ll have to finish the job myself. I’ll be thinking of you 😉
#27 Something is missing today. I think it’s you. Between my legs.
[Read: How to talk dirty over text and turn him on]
#28 I can’t concentrate on anything today because I’m distracted by thoughts of our last time in bed together.
#29 I just got out of the shower 😉
#30 I think it’s about time we tried that new position we’ve been thinking about.
Tips for making the most of your naughty sext
You may be thinking that one simple text is enough to drive him wild, and while that may be true in some cases, there are certain things you can do to make your sext even more effective.
#1 Appeal to what he likes. Don’t just choose one of these texts when you know he isn’t into something that’s mentioned. The best way to really turn him on with texts that will make him hard is to tailor it to what you already know he likes.
Doing this not only shows how well you know him – a turn on in itself – it’ll also trigger his horniness right away. If you know he has a certain fetish, focus on that first before you dive into other naughty messages. [Read: 22 things men like most in the bedroom]
#2 Don’t make promises you aren’t willing to keep. Many women make the mistake of “talking a big game.” They send messages that they know will turn their men on, but then they don’t actually do the things they mentioned.
If you really want to make him hard, follow through with what you say and the next time you sext him, it’ll be even more effective because he’ll know you mean it.
#3 Bait him. In order to make things even steamier, send a text that will force him to respond. Getting him to interact with your naughty sexts will increase your chances of turning him on immensely. Leave your texts open ended so he can reply and join in on the fun.
#4 Avoid unappealing phrases and words. There are certain things us ladies think sound dirty and naughty that are actually not appealing in the least. Turn-off phrases and words include things like: juices, squirt, sludge, throbbing, and even excessive swearing. There is no need for those. Say what you mean and be creative with adjectives, not with nouns. [Read: 60 dirty and seductive things to say in the bedroom]
#5 Get yourself in the mood first. What better way to turn your man on than to tell him how horny you are – and actually mean it? This way, you’ll be more descriptive and real with what you say. You can even describe to him what you’re doing to turn yourself on. That alone will be better than any other texts that will make him hard.
[Read: Sexy, naughty texting games to have fun all night long]
Some say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. We say it’s through dirty texts that will make him hard. Let your man be the judge by giving these naughty sexts a try!
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