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How to Make Out with a Guy & Secrets to Make Him Explode In His Pants

You might think you know how to make out with a guy, but do you know how to make him go crazy? There’s always something new to learn or improve on!

how to make out with a guy

Everyone thinks they know how to make out with a guy, but do you know how to do it seriously well? For sure, it’s a simple and natural act, but you need to own the process and really commit to it if you want to drive him crazy.

Any first time is bound to be a nervous thing. But, you have to push those nerves aside. It only takes a few minutes to realize that you’re a pro when it comes to kissing and taking clothes off.

First impressions count for a lot and if you want to leave the very best impression on this guy, you need our advice.

[Read: 33 secrets to seduce a man who’s not yet yours and hook him deep and hard]

Firstly, what do we mean by ‘making out’

Let’s make sure we’re on the same page here. When we say ‘making out’ with a guy, we’re not talking about having sex. For sure, it can lead to that if you’re both happy about it, but it’s normally a few steps before that.

Making out means kissing, tongues, touching, hands wandering. It means you’re basically getting pretty excited.

It’s one of the first things you do with a guy before you end up being truly intimate. Not to say that making out isn’t intimate, for sure it is, but it tends to lead to something a lot more intimate either straight after or a little down the line.

So, when you learn how to make out with a guy properly, you’re giving him a glimpse of what your sex life could be, if you both decide to have one.

You’re showing him that you’re a real firecracker and it could be all it takes to keep him right by your side. You’ll leave him wanting so much more! [Read: How to make out with someone for the first time and do it well]

Amateur tips: How to make out with a guy for the first time

So you’ve met a guy you like. You’ve been holding hands and exchanging giggles and sideward flirty glances with each other for a while.

And tonight, both of you are heading out for a drive on a lonely road. Eventually, both of you will probably pull over in a lonely spot and watch the stars. And we know where this is going to go.

There’s really no perfect way to make out with a guy for the first time. But, it would be preferable to let the guy take the lead and initiate the kiss.

You could initiate the kiss yourself, but after all the playing hard to get, it’s probably better to wait for him to kiss you. When you kiss each other for the first time, you may feel overwhelmed with a rush of emotions.

But, you don’t really need to stay guarded or focused on what to do next. Just take it slow, relax and go forward with the kiss. [Read: How to kiss a guy well – 21 secrets to arouse him with your very first kiss]

You don’t need to tongue him immediately. Just a gentle peck on his lips for starters, and within a few seconds, your evolutionary instincts will kick in. You’ll realize that you were born a great kisser!

How to make out with a guy like a sex goddess

Now let’s get straight to the point, beyond all the first date kisses and nervousness, understanding how to make out with a guy requires a few tips. It’s also about understanding what guys like when they’re getting it on with a girl.

Foreplay and role play are great when you want to arouse your guy and have sex with him. But when you want to stop short of sex and make him crave for you, use these flirty, teasy ways to make a great impression. They’ll leave him begging you for more. [Read: How to make out with someone for the first time and really impress them]

1. Men love to be touched

If you know about the power of flirty touches, this is probably the best time to show off your skills. Just like women, men love to be touched.

Indulge in some casual petting, but be discreet until the first kiss.

A few girls take the touching part too far and touch far too often. This can come off as being too easy to get. Always remember to play hard to get until there’s a lot of intimacy in the relationship. [Read: How to make a guy chase you – 20 subtle ways to make him fall hard for you]

But once you’re past the kissing before making out, give your hands some action. Any guy would love it when a girl wraps her arm around his neck while kissing him. It reveals a wild side to the coy and demure girl that real men with testosterone prefer.

This confusing conflict of the shy side and wild side is what drives a man crazy. Slide your hand over his chest and his arms, and let him know you’re ready to take this further. [Read: 22 subtle ways to touch a guy and turn him on – During the date and later in bed]

2. Tease him and he’ll love you for it

Kiss him and pull away immediately now and then. Smile mischievously and tease him. Back away when you’re almost on the verge of kissing him and nibble his ear or kiss his cheek or neck instead.

Men like foreplay, but they don’t really enjoy it as much as women. Restrict a man and it’ll frustrate him, and yet, drive him mad with passion.

He would want to do so much more with you, but each time you stop him, his desires will grow. You’re so close and yet so far!

Backing away while kissing him is a great way to stay in control and make him want you so much more of you. Tease him and tempt him and you’ll have him passionately crazy with horniness! [Read: How to make a guy horny and rock hard just by casually sitting next to him]

3. Dominate him passionately

In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to sit back and let passion lead the way. You know you’re going to take it a lot further with him anyway, so why bother right? Wrong.

Letting a guy touch you all over or even have sex with you on a first date is passionate and grand, but it’s all too easy.

Now we’re not saying you should abstain from sex on the first date. If you really feel like it, go right ahead. But remember to stay in control.

Letting him explore you while you sit back and close your eyes might feel amazing. But if it’s all too easy for him. He might take the whole thing too lightly. It’s an unfortunate mechanism with most men – they lose respect for anything they get too easily. [Read: Just the tip sex – why guys use this excuse and why girls always fall for it]

Men know this fact themselves. So try not to get too frisky on the very first date, unless you’re just looking for a fling, a rebound, or a one-night stand.

By making a great guy wait for it, he’d lust for you and yet, understand that he can’t take you lightly. [Read: How long should you wait before sex? A guide on timing it perfect with a guy]

4. Flaunt it for him

This is something women can do, and do well. And men can’t do anything about it, but go weak in the knees.

You want to tempt him, but you don’t really want to have sex in the backseat of a car. So what can you do to keep him on heat until the next time you make out in bed? Flaunt it!

You’ve kissed him, teased him, and dominated him. Now it’s time to play a flashing game. If you’re wearing a low-cut blouse or a dress, it’s obviously going to show a lot more skin in the heat of the moment.

Instead of trying to cover your impressive cleavage or your never-ending legs, let it show. If you’ve got something that you’re proud of, be it your cleavage or your lower back, make sure you give him an opportunity to see it and want to touch it. But don’t reveal it all, and make sure you hide the regions that really matter.

If you’re wearing a tee shirt or a shirt, unbutton the first few buttons or lift your tee shirt up to your bra. You really don’t need to be discreet at all, let him know you’re intentionally flaunting it.

But each time he tries to move his hands over your revealed skin, stop him mischievously from going too far. Even if he begs for it, which he definitely will! [Read: How to turn on a guy – 25 seductive secrets to make him horny in seconds]

5. Wet him with your hands

Any normal guy with raging hormones will probably be ready to explode with all the tension. The flaunting and the restrictions that you’ve built up will ensure that.

But here’s the low blow that’s the icing on knowing how to make out with a guy like a sex goddess. You’ve run your hands over his neck and his chest while kissing him. But now it’s time to take it further.

Take his hands and run them along your body a few times. He’ll get the hint and continue doing that even when you stop guiding him.

In the middle of all the heavy breathing, slide your hand over his thigh and go close to his package without really touching it. Do it casually without really paying any attention to it as you’re kissing him. [Read: How to turn on a guy without being obvious and leave him desiring you]

Men go weak when a girl touches them, especially in a few strategic places. Now run your hands a few times and occasionally, don’t shy away from placing your hand right over his package for a fraction of a second – if you’re comfortable doing so.

When you do that, it’s going to make the guy go giddy with excitement and he’ll want to place his hands over your breasts or slip his hands under your bra.

This time, allow him to touch your breasts but don’t let him linger for more than a second before you take his hand away.

By doing this, you’ve given your date what he wanted, and yet, you’ve not given him more than a glimmer of the good things to come by sticking around and pursuing you!

You’ve got to make him want you and want you bad – at least until you’re ready to give in to him and take the making out all the way to the bedroom. [Read: Blue balls – What it is, why guys get them, and every must know detail girls should know]

Making out with a guy is about knowing when to stop

Learning how to make out with a guy is about knowing when to stop. That means you have enough willpower to move away and leave him wanting more. That’s how you build up the tension that’s bound to explode at some point. 

For sure, if you want to go all the way, then that’s fine. But, it’s probably better to wait in some ways.

Why? Because you can build up the tension to the point where you’re both desperate and can’t wait for a second longer. He’ll see how much of a sex goddess you are because you’re not giving easily. Remember, guys want what they can’t have easily! [Read: How to be good at sex – 17 moves to become the hottest lay]

It might all seem like relationship politics, but it’s sadly true. Build up his desire for you by learning how to make out in a sexy yet controlled way, and he won’t be able to stay away from you.

[Read: Having sex with someone for the first time? The 14 must-know secrets to blow his mind]

If you just follow these steps on how to make out with a guy, you’ll be a mysterious and flirty sex goddess that no guy will ever be able to resist. Try it, you’ll know what we mean!

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Vinod Srinivas Serai
Vin Serai
Vin Serai is the founder of LovePanky.com, and has delved deep into the working of love and relationships for almost two decades. Having dipped his feet in almo...