Most men are slow to admit it, but we tend to be sexually curious. So, maybe you have a lot of sex questions to ask your girlfriend too.
Sometimes guys worry their sexual inquiries might be taken the wrong way. But, believe the fact that girls also enjoy those intimate conversations. So, tee up those sex questions to ask your girlfriend, because she is happy to answer them.
Having the occasional sex Q&A is a healthy practice for a relationship. It is an exercise in honest communication and allows partners to get to know each other intimately, along with their kinks and sexual fantasies they might be hiding.
Most agree that asking and getting those sex questions answered can turn both parties on. So, guys, no need to be embarrassed. Make your list of sex questions to ask your girlfriend. Time to ask away!
What types of sex questions to ask your girlfriend?
#1 The quality of your sexual “performance.” Admit it or not, you’re always itching for her feedback on your performance in bed. We also know that women are careful not to break this kind of information on their man to protect their ego. This is not something she’ll share unless you ask.
#2 Her kinks and fetishes. Essentially, a man wants to know the things that turn your girlfriend on. This information is pretty valuable because it helps improve the quality of your sex life by adding a bit of flavor suited to your girlfriend’s tastes. [Read: 12 signs you have a slutty girlfriend and need to be proud of it!]
#3 Her sexual fantasies. Now for these questions, tread carefully. Sexual fantasies are one thing women guard. These are somewhat extreme sexual kinks that turn her on or she would like to try but wouldn’t dare declare it openly. They possess a weird or wild aspect that normal people would be shocked if they knew.
#4 What she thinks of your own kinks and sexual fantasies. Of course, you have your own kinks and sexual fantasies that you might be hiding in the closet. Take the chance and ask her what she thinks of it and whether she is open to try or experience those fantasies of yours. [Read: 20 hot sex ideas to blow your lover’s mind in bed]
Just remember: For you both to enjoy a sexual question and answer session, ask your questions in a respectful manner. Even though she is your girlfriend, there might be some topics that she won’t want to discuss.
Mind the words you put in your question, and no matter what the response, accept it as it is and don’t judge! Sex questions may also have the potential to bring unsavory memories, so in case the conversation takes a weird turn, let it go and move on. [Read: The most important traits that make up a good boyfriend]
How has it been so far? A little awkward? A turn-on? But admit it, the right kind of sex questions to ask your girlfriend can be an exciting and refreshing experience. Your relationship and sex life both see the benefit.
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Paul Timothy Mangay
Paul aka Morty is a keyboard-pounding cubicle-dweller based in Manila where he occasionally moonlights as a writer for anyone in need of his mediocre word-strin...