If you’re thinking the problem is you, maybe you’re wrong. Maybe the problem is in your lackluster bedroom. Sometimes, all you need is to transform your bedroom from a place to sleep, to a sexy bedroom which becomes a place to have sex *AND fall asleep luxuriously too!* Want to know the best sex room ideas to transform your love life?
When it comes to enjoying sex in the bedroom, it’s less about the decor and more about the little elements that make a room more sensual and yet, pleasurably comfortable.
If you’ve been together for a while, bedroom sex can end up becoming quite boring and predictable after a while. You know the exact way the pillow feels. The familiar grunts and moans. And there’s absolutely nothing new to kink things up. And just like everything else in life, if you really want to keep the excitement and the anticipation alive, you need to create new experiences in the bedroom all the time.
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Before we talk about the best ways to turn your boring bedroom into a sexy bedroom, there’s one other thing you need to remember. And that’s keeping the passion and excitement alive in a relationship.
The first few weeks or months of a new relationship are always unique and exciting. And the only reason why it’s so loin-tingling and exciting is because of the unpredictability in the relationship. Both of you are still learning about other, and every single thing both of you do together is an experience that’s unique.
As the relationship grows and you’ve spent enough time in each other’s arms, the tingle starts to fade. But you have to try and recreate that uniqueness as often as you can even as the years pass by. To ensure that you create unique sexual memories, do something that’ll bring both of you closer sexually, and keep your sex life alive. [Read: 20 ways to spice up your relationship and go from bland to ka-pow!]
You could go out for a romantic, quiet dinner or you could go clubbing and let the power of PDA warm both of your loins up. Whatever works for you is just perfect, because love and sensuality is as unique as the couple that you are.
When you go out on a date, you create a new and exciting memory. And that always leads to better things when you get home, especially if both of you are sexually aroused around each other. So as much as we focus on the best sex room ideas to spruce up your bedroom and turn into in a naughty, sexy bedroom, you also need to make sure you keep the romance alive!
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Now that we’ve focused on the importance of keeping the passion alive, let’s look at the best sex room ideas to create a sexy bedroom that’s oozes sensuality every time you’re in bed!
You’ve obviously heard those lame comments about the bedroom being “where the magic happens,” but sadly, this cliche is true.
The magic does happen in the bedroom. Of course, it can happen on top of your laundry machine as well, but the bedroom is basically your sex base. So, if your sexy time is anything but magical, a good place to start is by creating a sexy bedroom. Consider this minor renovation using these sex room ideas an investment to your sex life.
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White is clean and pristine looking, however, if you’re ever planning on having sex, don’t have white sheets. You don’t want to have dull sex. You want to have raw, messy sex. White won’t give you that. White will have you anxious the whole time, making sure you won’t stain the sheets.
Darker sheets, especially red ones look cliche but sensual. On the other hand, red or orange curtains can give your room that sensual glow too. But then again, be careful with too much red in the bedroom. Overdo it, and your bedroom may start to look like an overdone brothel.
If you want a sexy bedroom, lighting is everything, it’s what makes or breaks a bedroom.
If you have fluorescent lights, vow to never turn those horrid things on, and buy a standing lamp instead. Your lighting should be soft and dim. If it’s too dark, there’s not enough visual stimulation. However, too much light is traumatizing.
When it comes to a sexy and romantic bedroom, remember that softer, mellow lighting is always better to help you set the mood. When you use softer, yellowish lighting that resembles a burning fireplace, you feel warmer and calmer, your skin glows better, and everything just looks sexier!
And the best part of this sex room idea is that the soft light blends out all that cellulite and body fat on your body when you’re making love. And that will only make you feel more confident about your own body, and focus on the better things in hand! [Read: Lights on or off? The real score on perfect bedroom lighting]
Try to incorporate various textures into your bedroom because it’ll heighten the senses. Instead of your basic cotton sheets, try satin. It’ll be a little unusual at first, but there’s something very sensual about it that you’ll grow to love. Don’t be afraid to play around and see what textures help you out in the bedroom.
As much as these sexy bedroom tips are about creating a sensual atmosphere, the perfect love decor is incomplete without both of you playing the part. Great sex is about the sensation, but you can always heighten the sensation with appealing attire. Always dress up for bed, even if the clothes come off in a few minutes. Your bodies are like perfect presents, and just like anything exciting, it always looks best if it’s gift wrapped perfectly.
Wear lacy lingerie or loose silk robes that reveal, but not completely. Tempt your partner and arouse them, but don’t reveal all until you’re already in the act. [Read: How to look incredibly sexy in bed when your man comes over]
Now, you don’t need a bunch of nude photos in order to make a room feel sexy. Photos of your family are nice, however, maybe keep them out of the bedroom if you want to ever have passionate sex again. Family photos and sex room ideas just don’t mix very well!
Your partner doesn’t want to be staring at your mom while they’re about to orgasm. If art isn’t your thing, even hanging a picture of a landscape is better than nothing.
Having a giant desk in your bedroom with a bunch of wires and papers laid out everywhere isn’t going to give you a sexy bedroom vibe. In fact, it gives more of an office vibe, and that fantasy only works if you’re actually having sex in an office. It kills the sexual vibe that you’re trying to create in your bedroom. So, keep your personal life separate from work. [Read: How to be good at sex – 17 moves that make you the hottest lay!]
Soft sheets are magic when you’re grazing your bum against it, especially as you move your pelvises in unison. Invest in a minimum of 600 thread count Egyptian cotton sheets, and make sure they’re clean *and fragrant too, if you’re trying to be posh*. When you have sex, every sensation is highlighted, and most people ignore sheets. Don’t be that person, because good sheets seriously make a difference!
Your partner should wake up in your bed feeling like a million dollars, not like they’ve been hit by a bus. Spend a couple extra dollars and do yourself a favor by getting a supportive and comfortable bed. I mean, you’ll be the one sleeping in it the most, so it’s really in your best interest.
There are two things to remember here. A firm mattress gives you good support while sleeping. And a soft mattress topper can your body sink in as you lie on top on your partner, giving you both a snug feeling, and deeper penetration. So decide on what you want, and get something that feels comfortable, and sexy! [Read: 15 risky places to have sex and get your adrenalin racing]
It’s crazy just how many horny bunnies end up having uncomfortable sex or suffering from painful carpet burns and knees scrapes because they decided to have sex on the floor to keep things a little more kinky and exciting!
If you’re planning to make out anywhere beyond the bed, invest in a thick and soft rug. Remember, the pleasure of sex is in the synchrony of two bodies, but the base you’re lying on plays a big part in keeping the excitement alive. Having sex on a bad base is like having sex on the beach. Everyone “thinks” it’s sexy, until you try it and realize it’s not fun at all. And then, you’ve got sand inside your vagina for the whole of next week! [Read: How to have sex on the beach in the wildest and safest ways possible]
Lay a thick, soft rug, in some part of the room, so you have more space to get creative and try out other fancy positions on the floor.
What does anyone do with sheer sheets lying around a bedroom? Well, you can use it to heighten the pleasure of sexual intercourse, of course!
You can use soft, sheer sheets to silhouette your partner and pleasure them up from over the sheets or blindfold them with silk scarves or by using a soft pillow. Use the senses to excite your partner, activating one sense at a time. It’ll arouse your partner a lot more than exciting all five senses at once. [Read: Blindfold sex – 14 sensual ways to use blindfolds in bed]
If you can afford this add-on, sex furniture just makes a sex room way more fun and naughty! A chaise lounge would work perfectly too, if you have the space for it. Or you could go with a wedge on the bed, that works too!
Whether you’re a man or a woman, everyone likes candles. It adds a romantic touch to your sexy bedroom, it’s like tying a bow on a gift.
One thing though, don’t get scented candles unless you know what you’re doing. Some people don’t react too well to them, and some of those candles smell like flowered vomit. So, when in doubt, go unscented. [Read: How to have sensuous sex and make it a really wild and passionate night]
Mirrors are hot, they’re really hot. Have you ever looked at yourself having sex in a mirror? Do it. There’s something about it that just amps up the sexual energy.
Now, you don’t have to tile your whole ceiling in mirrors. But having a standing mirror in the corner adds that kink to the sexy bedroom. [Read: Sexy public flashing confessions from our readers]
People like clean people. Yes, that’s a shocking discovery! Keep your room tidy. It doesn’t have to be spotless, you’re only human. But, any dirty clothes that are on the floor, just put them in the laundry room. Vacuum often. You know, basic hygiene. A sexy bedroom is a clean one. [Read: 14 sexy secrets to be incredibly good in bed every time]
Using sex toys in bed can be a lot of fun for both of you, especially when you’re not used to watching your partner play or work with a toy by themselves. It’s an exciting way to watch a partner getting turned on.
Every time you’re in the act of lovemaking, you never really get to see your partner enjoying themselves from afar. And that’s where a sex toy can give you a voyeuristic angle where you get to sit back and watch your partner pleasuring themselves. [Read: 13 must-have couples sex toys for naughty first-timers]
Your sex room is definitely incomplete without these little edible love enhancers. It doesn’t matter if it’s chocolate syrup, edible body paint, or flavored lubes, as long as you bring something to bed to enhance the pleasure.
The bedroom is one of the most common yet boring places to have sex. But if you can turn that monotonous bedroom sex into something exciting and fun using these sex room ideas, something that lasts longer and feels more pleasurable, why not use it and bring the spark back? [Read: 15 natural aphrodisiacs sitting in your kitchen you need to try]
If you have a TV in your bedroom, get rid of it, or use it just to play some porn while you’re having sex. A sexy bedroom is a place for two things: having sex and sleeping. And make sure you have a place to put your cell phone so you won’t be distracted if you get a text message or phone call.
You may wonder why we’d recommend an adult movie collection here. But good porn or access to porn sites does have its own benefits. Even if that means placing a large screen on a wall beside the bed. When you’re trying to play with each other or prolong the fun, you do need a distraction at times to keep the fun going on for a couple of hours.
If you don’t want to stop the party anytime soon, or if you want to take your time getting aroused, one of the best ways to relax and enjoy each other’s company and have sensuous sex for several hours is by using horny movies to arouse both of you, and create a distraction at the same time. And all that moaning in the background will turn you on too! [Read: How to moan and look and sound way sexier in bed]
Sometimes, silence can be a big distraction in bed. You can talk about your fantasies or moan about to muffle the silence, but nothing beats music in bed to bring the rhythm back into the pelvic thrusting!
Music acts as an aid in determining the sexual energy that’s going to occur. The right kind of music can make you have rough sex, passionate sex, or even slow sex – And it all depends on the vibe you both feel with the music. Keep a few sexy playlists ready at all times, so you don’t have to go looking for a good one. If you had to pick one to loop on and on, pick one from this all-time best list of the absolutely sexy lovemaking playlist.
A sexy bedroom is never complete without fragrances and oils. Now, slathering oil on each other may not be something you can do every night, what with all the oily sheets the next morning. But this can be an occasional luxury that can be indulged in.
Foreplay is rather important for prolonged sex, and women love a man who can indulge in long foreplay. But if one of you isn’t a big fan of building the momentum up, scented body oils are a great way to prolong the act of sex. Instead of skipping foreplay, run the oil over your partner as they bask in the warm glow of flickering candles. It’s passionate, sexy and feels so slippery and wet when you’re on top of each other.
For most other nights, lighting a sensual incense or just using a plain old diffuser with essential oils would work just as well! [Read: How to give a good sensual massage and work your magic]
Pillows scream comfort in a sexy bedroom. If you only have two pillows, your bed looks sad. Add a couple fluffy pillows because it gives more softness and comfort to your space. Also, those pillows will come in handy if you want to place it under someone’s butt for a lift, or even when you cuddle afterwards. [Read: 20 hot sex ideas to blow your lover’s mind in bed]
You probably heard that plants make your place homier, however, not in your bedroom. You can have a plant or two, but don’t go over the top. Also, if you know you won’t be able to take care of them, then opt out of this. No one wants to have sex beside something that’s dying.
If you were an all-star football player in high school, that’s great. However, we don’t need to see every single medal you ever won hanging on your wall. You want to take the next step into your life and go with a more adult look. Your accomplishments are something to be proud of, but don’t make your room look like the Hall of Fame. [Read: The easiest ways to make your bedroom more romantic]
If you use all of these sex room ideas we’ve shared so far, you’re guaranteed to have a bedroom that oozes sex appeal. But, you want to make sure that your personality still shows in your bedroom. Pick things that you like and that you think are sexy, because then, it will truly make it a unique place to express and experience your version of sexual passion.
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Let’s not waste any more time. With these sex room ideas and small fixes, you can transform your boring bedroom into a sexy bedroom in a day’s time. So why not get started, and prepare your bed for glorious sex and wild times?!
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