Many people have a fantasy about trying a spot of outdoor sex. There are many places you can try, but remember not to get caught!
The fantasy of having sex outdoors has long been on many a sex bucket list. Just the thought of getting down and dirty with someone in the crisp fresh air is enough to bring out the most primal side in many people. Of course, the amount of people who are actually having sex outdoors is most likely much larger than you might think. After all, part of the fun is trying not to get caught, right?
If you’re someone who has always had a bit of a desire to try heading outdoors for some sexy fun, you’re probably half wondering whether you should go for it and half wondering whether you’re going to get caught.
Well, there’s always the risk! And we should remember that the risk is being arrested! However, if you’re careful and you find a safe and secure place to get it on, you can enjoy the process without ending up in a cell for a few hours. [Read: The most risky places to have sex and get your adrenalin racing]
Why do people want to have sex outdoors?
There are a lot of reasons why someone would choose to get naked and have sex with someone outside. The most common reason is simply that it’s somewhere that’s probably new and exciting to get down and dirty.
The truth is, having sex outside is arousing and thrilling. Both of these emotions add to the pleasure you feel when you have sex. Adrenaline can also be added to the mix when you decide to have sex somewhere that you could potentially get caught, making the sex even better.
Of course, some people have a slight fantasy to try al fresco fun, but they’re so worried about actually getting caught that they can’t imagine ever enjoying themselves.
It’s true that if you’re constantly distracted by the thought of someone tapping you on the shoulder, you’re probably not going to have the best time. But, that’s why finding the best place is so important.
If you find somewhere sexy yet safe, you can forget your inhibitions and enjoy ticking something off your sexual bucket list! [Read: The most arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]
Remember, not all outdoor spots are the same
Having sex outdoors isn’t always the best if you don’t do it in the right spots. Stripping down and revealing yourself to the wildlife that surrounds you in the wrong place can lead to quite a bit of trouble.
So save yourself the hassle and have sex in one of these hot and amazing places.
1. At the beach
While this may be somewhat of a cliché place to have sex, it doesn’t make it any less exciting.
With the breeze, the sound of the ocean, the saltiness of your skin from the water, and the warm sun, it’s almost enough to make you never want to leave. Just watch out for getting sand in uncomfortable places. [Read: Sexy fun on the beach for couples]
2. In the forest
This is a perfect place to have sex if you want to have a decent amount of coverage and a beautiful view. There’s not much that can compare to looking up at the sun peeking through the treetops.
3. In a barn
Although this isn’t technically completely outside, it’s still an amazing almost-outside place to have sex.
Barns can be romantic and sultry if you can manage to find one that’s not filled with the smell of livestock. Lay down a blanket, turn on some country music, and get it on. [Read: The best songs to make love to]
4. On a high-rise balcony
Or really, any balcony for that matter – even one that’s attached to your own home. This is a great place to have outdoor sex if you’re new to it and want a safe place you can retreat to if the thrill of it gets to be too much for you or your partner to handle.
5. An outdoor body of water – pool, lake, ocean, etc.
Any body of water is going to make sex feel that much better. The sensation of being nearly weightless in the water can enhance your sexual pleasure that much more.
6. In the rain, somewhere secluded
There’s just something about being sopping wet and having sex that is so appealing to so many people. There’s a reason that powerful kissing scenes in movies often take place outside. Do it, and you’ll discover just what a powerful feeling that is. [Read: How to kiss passionately and romantically]
7. On a cliffside
As if being on a cliffside isn’t thrilling enough in itself, if you add having sex out in the open on top of that, you’re in for a fantastic time.
Lay down a blanket and enjoy the view while enjoying the romp. However, don’t get too close to the edge because that could become dangerous.
8. On the deck of a sailboat
Now, if you have access to a sailboat and haven’t had sex on it yet, then you’re abusing your privilege of having the boat in the first place. Banging while moving to the rhythm of the ocean is nothing to take lightly. [Read: How to spice up your sex life in 30 sexy ways]
9. In a tree house
Having sex in a tree house can not only bring you back to the careless life you once led as a child, but it can be a perfectly romantic *not to mention wild* place to get it on.
10. In a tent
If you’re a little too scared to try complete outdoor sex for fear of being seen, then opt for getting it on in a tent. Tents are well covered, but you can still get the feeling of being outdoors by keeping some of the flaps open while you do it. [Read: The best foolproof tips for dating a nature lover]
11. In a canoe
Having sex in a canoe and having sex on a sailboat are completely different things. In a canoe, you’re even more exposed to the elements and have to make do with very little space. Be prepared to get as close as possible to your significant other.
12. At the top of a Ferris wheel
If you can manage to get stuck at the very top of a Ferris wheel, you better strip down immediately and start making that cart rock. [Read: The best flirting moves you can learn from famous movies]
13. On a swing
Have you ever heard of making a spider on a swing? If not, look it up and you’ll understand why you should definitely take advantage of that position on a swing.
14. In your car
This is another great alternative for people who aren’t fully comfortable with having outdoor sex where people could potentially see them easily. Roll down the windows and the backseats, and get busy! [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl]
15. On a trampoline
Trampoline sex is just plain fun! Every position comes with an extra bounce that only adds to the pleasure you’ll feel. You’ll also be able to enjoy some post-sex exercise in the form of a trick competition afterwards!
16. Up on the roof
Some people have the option of having sex on their roof. Those people should take full and complete advantage of this luxury and get it on. You’ll feel like you’re on top of the world.
17. In a hammock
The gentle rocking you can get from a hammock, plus the added relaxation, will make for a really fun bang session.
Just try not to get too rowdy, or you might fall off *but hey, maybe that could be fun, too*. [Read: How to cuddle – The best cuddling positions to be a loving cuddler]
18. In a truck bed – preferably at an outdoor movie
Pile up the blankets and pillows, and park in the very back row. You’ll be able to bone to a great movie, and no one will be the wiser.
19. In an abandoned building
Even though this might sound like something out of a horror movie, you should try it before dismissing it. Abandoned buildings can be some of the most beautiful places to see. With foliage growing all around and the old feel to it, you’ll enjoy every minute of it.
20. On horseback
This one is only for the brave. If you can accomplish having sex on a horse, you should consider yourself extremely talented.
Although it would be a tough one to pull off, it could also be one of the most rewarding. Just have the girl sit on your lap, and you’ll be good to go. [Read: 15 dirty ways to have the sexiest rough sex ever]
How to make outdoor sex less risky
Of course, the risk is there whether you want to forget it or not. For some, that’s part of the fun, but you need to be sure that you’re not going to get yourselves into trouble for the sake of a quick bang. Here are a few tips on how you can make your outdoor sexcapades a little safer.
1. Don’t get totally naked
You might think it’s more romantic, but it’s definitely more risky. If you’re planning on doing the deed outdoors, make sure you wear something that can easily be lifted up or moved to one side.
2. Double check the spot first
Okay, this is taking the spontaneous element out of outdoor sex but you don’t want to get caught, right? In that case, do a quick sweep of the area first, to assess the element of risk. [Read: Spontaneous sex: 15 reasons you need it and how to do it right]
3. Don’t be noisy
You might want to grunt and groan but that’s going to alert other people to what is going on! Keep quiet – it all adds to the thrill!
4. Use positions that can be easily hidden
There are certain positions that look an awful lot more obvious than others. For instance, the doggy position is going to look pretty obvious to anyone who happens to wander past. Missionary is a little risky too. Standing positions are often better for outdoor sex; that way you can make a quick getaway if you need to!
It’s totally possible to enjoy outdoor sex and not get caught. You just need to make sure that you cover all bases first, whilst still enjoying the bucket list thrill.
[Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas worth trying at least once in your life]
Outdoor sex isn’t for everyone. Some people just don’t like the idea of it. But if the thought of it thrills you, then you’ll have to try one of these hot, hot, hot places for great outdoor sex.