Long term sex can be satisfying, but adding an ingredient of role playing sex into your bedroom can make it electrifying! Learn how to role play in bed with these tips and ideas that can change your bedroom tales forever.
Click here to read the introduction on sexual role play for beginners.
Do you really need to learn how to role play in bed?
Role playing sex can actually change your lives for the better if you know the rules.
The need for role playing sex
Even the happiest couples in love can suffer from a drought in their sex lives.
You could be madly in love with your partner, but quite frankly, emotional love and mad, sexual passion are two completely different things.
You could actually be in love with someone and yet, lust about another person. [Read: Threesome sex]
Worried that might happen to you? Well, don’t be. There are quite a few ways to bring the sizzle back in the sack, and costumes and role playing sex is definitely one of the best.
How to role play in bed
If you’ve never indulged in role playing sex or anything close to this before, then you may think the whole game is just hilarious. And extremely stupid.
But like it goes with everything else, you never know what you’re missing until you try it! Wearing costumes while having sex may make you feel uneasy and uncomfortable, but the more you feel the part, the more the fun for both of you.
For beginners, you could just play along without the costumes, and opt for roles that wouldn’t make you uncomfortable. Choose to be a delivery girl instead of a stripper, or opt to be the mailman instead of a doctor.
After you’ve done it a few times, you can move ahead with more adventurous role playing sex games that both of you will be eager to explore.
Learning how to role play can be exposing and awkward at times, but with time, you would learn to enjoy yourself and be comfortable with your own body, even if it’s a bit on the fatter or skinny side. Be prepared to experience something new, and enjoy yourself.
How to role play the right way
Remember role playing sex is a lot better than regular sex because you can actually enact any fantasy that you’ve ever had, and with role playing sex, you can actually spend a longer time waiting in anticipation for great sex, instead of just having sex without any preparation.
Choosing your characters to role play
Choose a character that has always enticed or motivated you, something that gives you a boost of sexual adrenalin, and let your partner choose one that suits them. But remember, the characters that both of you choose should be able to blend with each other. A few of the all time favorite role playing sex characters that are preferred over the others all across the world include these.
Teacher – Student
Slave – Master
Photographer – Model
Escort – Client
Doctor – Nurse
Stripper – Client
Fireman – Trapped person
These are just a few of the different characters that you could opt to play, and if you have the perfect costumes to go with it, you could guarantee yourself a totally wild night of role playing sex.
The rules of role playing sex
Knowing how to role play in the game is the most important part. Enjoy the game, even if your lover decides to dress up like the Giant Horny Bird or as the Fat Bastard from Austin Powers, just go with the game. You’re doing this to make sex a lot better for the both of you, so avoid judgment, unless of course, your partner’s costume or behavior grosses you out.
Sometimes it’s easy to get caught up in role playing sex, and overdo it once in a while, so if anything gets boring or uncomfortable, just cut it out. Learn to have good sexy conversations to turn each other on.
And most importantly, before you even think of shedding your clothes, shed your inhibitions! Or you wouldn’t be able to pull off something that can excite the both of you. [Read: How to get naked in public]
Once you’re comfortable with the theme of your role playing sex game, learn to dress the part. Accessorize, use the right kind of perfume, dress well and behave the same way. A few minutes into the game and you would be aroused a lot more than you would have ever thought. So play this game with the right spirit and interest and you’d flood the sheets before you’re done!
How to enjoy role playing sex
Enjoy the game with your partner. Remember, having sex is not all about penetration, but about the way you feel during the whole act. And great sex is more in your mind than in your pants. [Read: The art of tantric sex]
So learn to tune your mind into the mood when you indulge in role playing sex. Role playing sex doesn’t have to give you an extra dose of orgasms, but it helps you prolong the game, so that both of you can have fun and experience the full effect of a good night of sex and games.
So, get into it, make it intense and safe, and always agree that it can end the moment someone feels uncomfortable. It is good if you can understand that just because it doesn’t work once, it doesn’t mean that you should stop trying.
Just like different couples find different ways to rekindle the lust in long term relationship by swinging or making out in public, role playing sex is just one of the many exciting things you can do to spice things up in bed.
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[Read: How to start swinging]
Role playing sex is always fun, if done the right way. If at first you don’t succeed, try again. And soon, you might understand the wonders it can do to your sex life, and how good it can feel for you!
Now that you know how to role play in bed, create your own exciting role playing sex games and set those boring nights on sexual fire!
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