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Is He Into You? – Signs He’s Into You

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Do you feel something in the air when you’re around this guy? Is he into you? Find out if he’s really into you and has more than just friends on his mind with these signs.

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Sometimes it’s not easy for a guy to tell a girl that he likes her.

He may be shy or even scared of getting turned down.

Met a friend who seems to have more than friends on his mind? Is he into you?

It’s not easy to know if a guy’s into you or just being really friendly.

But if you know the signs that really matter, it’ll help you find out for yourself if a guy is into you and help you make the next move.

If you don’t like him, you can always back off.

On the other hand, if you do like him, you can warm up to him and let him see that the romantic feelings are mutual.

Is he into you? – Signs he’s into you

Here are ten signs that can help you find out if he’s into you. Even if your friend fits in with a few of these signs, there’s a good chance that he’s into you.

He uses any excuse to touch you

If a guy’s into you, he’s obviously going to be infatuated by you.

And infatuation also does involve a lot of sexual attraction.

He may not make it obvious or give away any signs, but he’d try to touch you whenever he can, be it crossing the street or hugging you goodbye.

Ever felt like he lingers his touch when you clasp his hand or when he places his arm around your waist or on your back? That’s a good sign that he’s into you.

He treats you like a lady when you go out

When just the two of you go out or hang out for a while, does he behave like you’re his girlfriend? Does he pull a chair back for you, offer to get you things, or does he insist of paying for you even when all friends generally go dutch?

If a friend does this, there’s also a good chance that he’s just being a chivalrous guy. But watch out for his behavior with other girls. Does he treat them the same way or is it just you that gets the special attention? [Read: Are you more than friends?]

He flirts with you

If a guy is into you, he can’t help but flirt with you. Flirting comes naturally when you like someone, you really can’t help it. Do you ever find him sweet talking you or asking you personal questions in a funny way? If he does this in front of others and to all girls, perhaps he’s just the group jester. But if he prefers to flirt when you’re alone or if he likes flirting just with you, he’s definitely into you!

Text him one night when you know he’s alone at his place. Does he text back and start a flirty text conversation with you? Or does he call you up and talk flirty? If a guy likes you, all he needs is a little sign to push his luck further. [Read: How to flirt by texting]

He never talks about any other girl

When a guy likes a girl and hasn’t told her that he likes her, he’d want to make it as obvious as possible without really revealing the truth directly. At the same time, just to make it extremely clear that he’s into you and no one else, he may avoid talking about any other girl when he’s around you. That way, at least he’d hope to get the message across that you’re the only girl he notices.

A great way to test this is by talking about a few girls and asking him whom he finds the prettiest. If your name pops up even when it’s not in your list, bingo! You’ve got a guy that fancies you. [Read: How to talk to a guy who likes you]

He wants to be with you

Even when you’re hanging out with your friends, does this guy make his way through the crowd of friends just to be with you? If he constantly chooses to be around you even when there are several other friends he can talk to, he’s obviously very interested in you.

This can be confusing at times because he may just like talking to you. So let’s put this to the test. The next time he walks up to you and your friends and starts having a conversation, wait for a few minutes until he starts talking to someone else. As he begins his conversation with the other person, excuse yourself from the group to go to the cafeteria or some other place. Does he leave the conversation midway and tell you that he’ll come along?

Well, that’s a sure sign that he wants to be with you and that he’s into you.

[Read: How men fall in love]

He likes your attention

If a guy likes you, he’d try his best to please you. Have you ever told him he looks good in a particular shirt? Does he wear it often when he’s around you?

If he knows about your preference in music or places to hang out, does he have the same preferences too? A guy who likes you will always try to become the perfect splitting image of the kind of guy you’d like. So is he into you? If you see that he changes his preference whenever you change your interest, there’s a possibility that he’s trying to impress you and make you like him.

[Read: How to make him want you]

These are a few signs that a guy’s into you. Use these tips to test the signs and find out for yourself if a guy has more than friends on his mind. So is he into you? Read the next five signs in signs that a guy likes you to know for sure.


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  • February 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    this website actually helps!!!:))

  • MeLa
    April 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    My guy friend called me cute, nice, and smart in one conversation yesterday. Plus his friends started screaming “Go! *his name* Go!” and he said it was because he was talking to me. Also, he never exactly liked my last boyfriend now that I’m thinking about it. I’m scared…

  • Janine Juanico
    June 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    This is really true. Thanks to lovepanky. :)

  • Cunfused
    July 7, 2013 | Permalink |

    I’ve really really liked this guy at school for about a year now and I can never tell if he likes me or is just being nice. Like this one time in our after school activity we have together, he just kept lightly touching me on my arm, back and even waist. He holds my hand, sits inbetween my legs and lets me do the same, he has called me gorgeous, all sorts of things, like hes picked me up once just so that he could hug me and hold my hand, then proceded to let me sleep on him all the way home. And he always giving me lots of hugs, once he even put his head in my neck and held on really tight then he stole my ice cream haha. He does lootts of things that suggest he is interested, but he does some of that stuff to other girls aswell. So I can’t tell if he is actually intrested or if he is just being nice ooorrr if he’s a whore and I just haven’t realized it. Help!!

  • Iris
    September 7, 2013 | Permalink |

    These are true with even the mature crowd. I am in my late 50s and a gentleman at work is flirting with me. I love it. :)

  • deedee
    June 10, 2014 | Permalink |

    ok I am 500 years of age. I was once a closeted lesbian or gold start lesbian. I have dated men but they all turned out to be shit and worthless so I don’t think I will bother anymore. I kinda hate them so yeah…

  • Teddybearbloom
    September 14, 2014 | Permalink |

    So… There’s this guy is perfect in everyday for me we have a lot in common but he doesn’t know that yet… I talk to him everyday at school when I get to see his beautiful face … But I’m not sure if he likes me or if he’s just being nice… Last year at the en of the school year he would give me hugs goodbye when I had to leave for my class but my friends would ask him for a hug and he would never hug them only me… This year in class he is always talking to me about his ex’s like he is trying to make me jelly or something he also likes to touch me a lot like playfully hitting and pushing one day I said he had pretty eyes and he just looked at me and then looked down :( when I walk next to him I stand really close to him and he doesn’t back away from it I make him smile and laugh and he does the same…when he talks to me he likes to look in my eyes and talk but sometimes he also looks away and talks to me :( he touches my hands offten when he is playing with something and I steal it from him :) but I don’t think he would like me but I still have hopes that someday he will feel the same for me as I feel for him … Someone please help me …:(

  • Confused
    September 23, 2014 | Permalink |

    I met a guy at a party 2 weeks ago, and we instantly clicked. Since last weekend we were messaging non stop through Snap Chat, we’d been together a 4 times, & the whole block thinks of us as a couple. We have similar enough interests, he’s the first guy to ever call me ‘stunning’ or ‘hot’ to my face, with no Instagram filters. (That sounds really sad…!) We had great craic. I stayed in his apartment the other night, and he was late for college. Since then, he hasn’t really replied to my messages, has been making excuses that he just ‘didn’t check his phone’, and I don’t know what’s going on, what I did wrong. People kept asking were we going out but he was too embarressed & kept saying no, even though we were together while sober & got on like a house on fire. Ok, he’s 4 years older than me, & in his 3rd/final year of college while I’m in 1st, but that can’t be the reason?? I asked him why he’s in denial about us being together & he said I’d have to ask him when he was drunk. He’s a lovely, honest guy, but he’s holding back, and it’s driving me insane because he’s near perfection for me. Not in looks, but personality. I just don’t know where I stand with him. I’m too afraid to walk down the hall to his gaff because I’m not sure how he feels about us anymore. It was more than just a ‘fling’. :(

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