Every guy differs in showing how they feel towards someone. There are some universal signs a guy is into you. It’s time you learned what they are.
Is he into me? God, I hope he is, but I just can’t tell. I need a sign! How many times have we sat and thought of this about the guy we like? Praying that we’re given a few signs a guy is into you or just any clue to tell how he feels.
Well, the signs are there, but are you paying attention to them? That’s what you should be asking yourself. When we like someone a lot, it’s easy to project our feelings onto them and get confused about their feelings towards us. It’s not easy having a crush!
At this point, you have no idea what’s going on between you. First, step back for a second and calm down. He’s just a guy! Don’t get yourself worked up over him to the point you can’t tell if your feelings are genuine or not.
The 12 subtle but glaringly obvious signs a guy is into you
If you want to figure out if he likes you or not, you’ll need to take a rational approach to read his behavior. Seriously, it would be so much easier if he just told you.
#1 You can be yourself around him. The thing about having a crush is that you never feel comfortable around him; you’re always nervous. But with this guy, you feel yourself. You can laugh, be goofy, and just have a good time. This is a huge sign that he’s into you. [Read: The signs he’s ready for a relationship with you and signs he’s not]
#2 He’s making the plans. You’re not the only one who’s constantly calling him and asking to hang out. Instead, he’s the one who’s asking what you’re doing later today or if you want to hang out this weekend. And this is a huge sign. No guy is going to make plans with you because he doesn’t like you.
#3 He asks questions. He’s not just hanging out with you to get into your pants. He’s asking you important questions, questions someone would ask when they’re trying to get to know another person. These questions show you he’s into you. [Read: The actions that reveal a man’s love for you]
#4 He texts you. Men, in general, aren’t interested in wasting their time on someone they don’t like. So, if they’re going to make the first move and text you, that’s because they want to talk to you. Whether he calls or texts you, just the fact he’s making contact with you is a huge sign. [Read: How guys text when they like you – 15 things they do differently]
#5 You’ve met his friends. Meeting his friends is a big deal. No guy will purposely introduce you to their friends if you’re just a fling. This guy wants his friends to meet you. It’s no small gesture. Meeting the friends is the final move before things get a little more serious.
#6 He’s asked you about your feelings towards relationships. He’s had “the talk” with you and wanted to know how you feel about being in an exclusive relationship and if you’re ready for it. Well, if you’re still wondering if he likes you, you need to get your ears checked. [Read: The 15 signs he’s ready for a relationship with you]
#7 He doesn’t send you booty-call texts. If a guy only texts you at night to see “what you’re doing,” then he’s looking for a booty call. But is this guy texting you during the day? If so, then there’s more to this interaction than just sex.
#8 It’s the little things. When it comes to figuring out whether a guy likes you or not, it’s really the little things he does. Did he remember your favorite flavor of ice cream? Or did he surprise you with your favorite popsicle? They don’t need to be expensive gestures; they need to be genuine. [Read: How guys flirt – 15 subtle things guys do when they like you]
#10 He calls. Texting is a good sign, but you know what’s a better sign? A phone call. First of all, no one calls someone on the phone anymore. It’s almost a vintage action. But if he makes the mature move to call you, then there’s something there. He wants to get to know you.
#11 He opens up to you. When he’s around you, he’s comfortable enough to open up to you and tell you personal things about himself and his life. This is a huge move for him to make and shows he really trusts you. And trust is the foundation of a relationship. [Read: How to tell when a man is emotionally attached and connected to you]
#12 He’s told you. If he’s told you he likes you, well, that’s great! But if you’re reading this, then maybe you’re not sure his actions match his words. What is your gut telling you? If he’s told you he likes you, his words need to meet his actions.