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How to Tell if a Guy is Into You: 30 Signs He Can’t Get Enough of You

Wondering how to tell if a guy is into you? Figuring out if someone likes you can be hard, but with these signs you can figure it out.

how to tell if a guy is into you

Maybe you have had your eye on someone for a while now, and you might have had several conversations, even been on what could have been described as dates. But now you have reached a point where you have serious feelings for him, and yet, you still aren’t sure whether he feels the same way about you. Have you ever found yourself wondering how to tell if a guy is into you?

Guys can work differently than girls and tend to be less expressive when dealing with their emotions. They tend to be a bit more afraid of rejection, so they hesitate to be vulnerable. While girls prefer to make it pretty obvious if they like someone, guys can often put on a more macho appearance to avoid losing face if a girl rejects them.

If he isn’t willing to spill the beans, these signs can help you figure out how to tell if a guy is into you. [Read: 12 science-backed clues he is into you]

Are you into him?

If you are into him, you’ll be looking out for all the signs he is into you. But, if you’re not, you may want to avoid him or even deny that these signs exist.

The best thing to do if you like him and want to know if he’s into you is to tell him and see his reaction. sure, it takes more guts, but it is the best way to get a straight answer.

Now, if you aren’t into him but think he likes you, you don’t want to reject him based on a hunch. In that case, you may want to clarify that you are seeing other people or not interested in seeing someone from work or ruining a friendship.

Now, with either of these scenarios, knowing how to tell if a guy is into you is important. It may not be a foolproof method, but it will help you get an idea of what you’re getting into. [Read: 18 reasons why you like him]

How to tell if a guy is into you

We’ve all wondered how to tell if a guy is into you. If you are trying to find out whether your crush *or the guy you have been seeing for a while* is really into you, look out for these signs, which are very good indicators that he does!

1. He uses his words

Okay, let’s get this one out in the open right away. There are some instances when a guy will do the ‘normal’ thing and tell you. If he does, for goodness sake, believe him! If he is putting his feelings on the line like that, he must be pretty into you. Hip hip, hooray! [Read: 25 signs he likes you even if he can’t say it]

2. He asks you questions

If he is asking you many questions, it’s because he wants to find out everything about you. He wouldn’t bother wasting his time and energy doing this on a girl he doesn’t like, so if you feel a little like you are being grilled, it’s only because he really wants to get to know you better!

3. He likes what you like

Now it may just be a coincidence that your favorite band/book/restaurant is also his, but it is more likely that he is trying to find common ground with you because he likes you.

If you have a particular hobby and suddenly find him knowing all about it or tagging along because ‘he’s always wanted to try it,’ he is probably just finding ways to spend more time with you. [Read: 30 peculiar signs to look for when a guy likes you]

4. He gets close

Look at his body language when you are talking to him. Is he turned towards you? Does he keep leaning in when you speak? Does he occasionally touch your arm mid-conversation?

If he is trying to get close to you and his body language is concentrated on you, this is because he is literally hanging on your every word.

5. He makes a beeline for you

Every time you two are in the same room together, does he come up to you right away? This is because he can’t wait to talk to you and wants to spend as much time in your company as he possibly can.

6. He seems kind of strange whenever you are with him

Believe it or not, guys can get themselves all worked up about a girl they like too! If he starts acting differently whenever you hang out, it is probably because he is trying to make himself seem more attractive.

Does he get louder and start showing off and making jokes, or does he go all quiet and shy? Keep a lookout, and if you find your crush’s behavior changing, it probably means you’re having a serious effect on him! [Read: How do I know if he likes me if he won’t talk to me?]

7. He totally ignores you

Often what can seem like hate is actually love. If a guy basically ignores you completely, it might not be what you think! Guys can be pretty bad at showing their feelings, especially when they like someone. Remember Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice or the more modern Mark Darcy in Bridget Jones’ Diary? Give him a chance, go easy on him, and see if you can’t make him feel more relaxed.

8. His body is turning towards you

Next time you are with him, check out his body language. If his body is turned in towards you, it probably means he is into you. He is showing himself off to you and shows that his attention is fixated on you – he is not about to get distracted by anything or anyone else. [Read: Does he like me? 18 signs to decode his body language]

9. He buys you a drink

Simple but effective. If a guy asks you if you’d like a drink, it’s because he wants to show you that he’s chivalrous. If you like him, make sure you say yes! This might seem like an obvious one for telling if a guy is into you, but it is usually true.

10. He asks you for your number… and then calls you

If a guy asks for your number, it’s a sure-fire way to know that he is interested in you. He obviously wants to keep that connection going and hopefully meet up with you again.


Of course, there are some guys out there who take those digits and then disappear into the night. So if he calls or texts you, then you are on to a good thing for sure! [Read: 20 signs of attraction in the first conversation]

11. He wants to be Facebook buddies

If he’s adding you on Facebook and following you on Instagram, this is a really great sign. He is clearly interested enough in you to want to get to know you better, to find out more about you, and daydream about you while checking out your profile pictures! It also shows that he has nothing to hide.

12. He makes a move

If a guy goes in for a kiss, it’s because he thinks you are seriously hot stuff! It may seem obvious, but then again, him making a move may get lost in translation if he is feeling a little nervous.

So make sure you pay attention to him, and if he goes for that little lean in when there is a lull in the conversation, then take the hint and kiss him! [Read: How to kiss a guy for the first time and turn him on instantly]

13. He makes lots of eye contact

If he keeps looking at you, it means he simply can’t help himself. This boy is seriously attracted to you, so make your move now!

14. He looks away

Okay, so sometimes guys are a little shy. So if he can’t maintain eye contact with you, keeps staring at the floor and mumbling into his t-shirt, it’s probably because he likes you so much that you’re making him a little nervous!

15. He asks if you have a boyfriend

No, he isn’t just nosy! He wants to find out if you are free and single! Duh! [Read: 11 signs he really likes you but is too chicken to admit it]

16. He gets all fidgety

Another telltale sign of nerves here – if the guy is getting all twitchy around you, it’s probably because he thinks you are pretty dreamy, and you’re making his stomach go all fluttery! And this is one of the ways for how to know if a guy is into you.

17. He acts all macho

If the guy you have a crush on suddenly goes all alpha male all the time when you are around, it is probably his way of showing off. He wants you to see him as manly and protective. And this is his way of doing it, even if it might actually make him look like a bit of a doofus.

18. He gets all protective

Be it a comforting arm around your shoulder, stirring you through a crowd, or sticking up for you when things get a bit fairy, this guy is all about making sure you are safe and sound – how nice is that? [Read: 15 unfortunate signs he likes you but isn’t really into you]

19. He gets jealous

There is nothing worse than seeing the person you like with someone else. If he gets jealous when you talk to other guys, he wants you all for himself. And that’s how to tell if a guy is into you for sure!

20. He remembers the little things

That movie you said you wanted to see – he got tickets for it. Your favorite restaurant – he’s taking you to it. That random necklace you mentioned you liked weeks ago – he bought it for you. This guy is paying attention to everything you say and going all out to impress! [Read: Does he like you as more than a friend?]

21. He teases you

A guy making fun of you is usually just his silly way of flirting. Now, if he is rude, this is not a good sign. But, some lighthearted teasing means he is trying to flirt.

22. He arrives early and stays late

Whatever you have asked him to do, whether it’s a dinner date or helping you out with a project, he always gets there before you and stays after everyone else has gone home.

He clearly wants to spend as much time getting to know you as he possibly can. Awwww.

23. He gets quiet

When a guy is into you he may shut down. I know this doesn’t help his case, but he may just be quiet because he doesn’t know what to say. Give him some time and help him feel comfortable around you if you like him back.

24. He touches you

Now, touching without consent is not cool, but minor touches like brushing your hair out of your face or cleaning a smudge of food from your face are a great sign he is into you. A guy that isn’t into you would not bother with this or risk you think he likes you if he doesn’t. [Read: 16 non-sexual touches to show you care]

25. He actively listens

Suppose you don’t like someone. You may tend to zone out when they talk. But, he actively listens. He lets you talk and doesn’t interrupt but asks folow-up questions. He really cares about what you have to say.

26. He ignores his phone

Most people are on their phones all day. If he is into you, he will turn it upside down or keep it in his pocket. When it goes off, he will ignore it because you have his full attention.

27. He compromises

Even if he doesn’t like the movies you like or the food you like, instead of arguing to get his way, he will meet you halfway or give in, so you’re happy. Maybe he isn’t into sushi but is more than happy to go to your favorite sushi spot just to see you smile. When a guy does this is is a great sign he is into you. [Read: 12 tips for compromise]

28. He’s all over your social media

Not only does he follow you on social media but he likes all your posts, watches all your stories, and maybe even comments. If he is sending you memes and tagging you in funny videos he is totally into you. He wouldn’t be thinking of you when mindlessly scrolling through his feed if he didn’t like you.

29. He’s nervous

Just like you, when a guy is into you, he gets nervous. He may get flustered or stumble over his words. Or he may talk too fast. There are so many signs of nervousness, from sweating to clammy hands and even gas. If he shows these signs, he is probably into you.

30. You feel it

Sometimes you just know. A woman’s intuition is nothing to ignore.

[Read: 25 surefire signs that tell you if a guy really, really likes you]

How to know if a guy is into you doesn’t have to be tricky. Keep yourself focused on spotting these signs, and next time your crush appears, we’ll bet that he’ll be doing some, if not all of these!

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