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How to Keep a Guy Interested: 30 Effortlessly Easy and Sexy Ways

When you learn how to keep a guy interested, you don’t have to worry about wandering eyes. These tricks are simple enough for anyone to master!

How To Keep A Guy Interested In 30 Super Sexy Ways

Many girls may assume that guys are fickle and have a low interest span. But in reality, guys are no different from girls when it comes to staying happy in a relationship. Guys, just like girls, love novelty. Of course, they want to be with a girl who’s desirable, and one that’s envied by other girls and desired by other guys. To be that girl, you just need to learn how to keep a guy interested.

It’s easier than you think! [Read: How to impress a guy in 13 oh-so-awesome ways]

Why is keeping a guy interested actually important?

You might be wondering why you need to go to all of this effort. After all, if he’s a decent guy, he’ll see you for the wonderful person you are anyway, right? Well yes, but life doesn’t always work like that!

At the start of a relationship especially, everything is so passionate and overwhelming that it’s very easy to feel like you need to be super-sexy and interesting all the time. It’s true that you need to be yourself but it’s also not the best idea to suddenly stop trying. You wouldn’t want your guy to do that, would you?

We also live in an age when cheating is super-easy. Now, we’re by no means suggesting that your guy is going to cheat on you if you don’t learn how to keep him interested, but when neither side is really trying all that much and you’re both just expecting things to tick along without effort, it’s possible that eyes might start to wander. [Read: How to impress a guy: 17 No-fail tips to make him stay forever]

If another girl learns how to keep a guy interested and starts showing your guy all the moves, would he stray? Hopefully not, but it doesn’t hurt for you to learn a few tricks and to use them occasionally, just to keep everything safe, secure, and of course, exciting for the two of you.

Aside from anything else, it won’t hurt for him to be reminded of how awesome you are occasionally anyway!

How to keep a guy interested

To keep a guy interested in you, you just need to remember a few ways to keep his curiosity aroused and his desire in you peaked.

Here are 30 sexy ways to do just that! [Read: 15 Classy ways to make a guy go crazy over you]

Use these tips on how to keep a guy interested in you, and you’ll see how easy it can be to make him want you all the time.

1. Be spontaneous

Shock him, awe him, make plans for the evening or plan an entire elaborate date by yourself. Surprise him and never be too predictable.

2. Refuse to change yourself

Stay true to the real person that you are. Don’t change yourself constantly assuming he doesn’t like your personality. Be creative, but stick to your comfort zone. [Read: 11 Tips to fall in love with yourself and be a better you]

3. Take the initiative in bed

Your guy may like taking control in bed, but when you dominate him and show off your confidence, he can’t help but be awed by your confidence and sexiness in bed. [Read: Tips to dress for sex]

4 Smell great all the time

Always smell great around him but don’t overpower subtle fragrances with sickly sweet perfumes though. Always smell good, and pay special attention to your personal hygiene and body odor.

5. Awe his friends

Men are competitive. As long as he thinks he has the best girl in his social circle, he’ll always cling to you and want to be with you. Awe his friends and make them think you’re a great girl, and you’ve done a great job.

6. Learn to seduce him

Seduction doesn’t stop in bed. Be sexy around him and be creative wherever you go. [Read: How to seduce a man]

7. Show a genuine interest in his hobbies

A guy would absolutely love a girl who shows interest in his special hobbies, be it playing on his Xbox or climbing a mountain. Men want to spend their lives with a woman who truly understands them and connects to them.

8. Don’t be a drama queen

It’s okay to throw a fussy fit now and then if your guy disrespects you. But no matter what, don’t exaggerate a situation or blow it out of proportion just to prove a point. Guys can see through the acts of even the best drama queens.

9. Be his shoulder to lean on

Give him your strength and support when he’s low on morale. Reassure him and help him confide his problems to you. Be his confidant and his warm pillow when he’s in the dumps and he’ll treat you like a goddess. [Read: 11 Types of hugs a woman gives and what they mean]

10. Be his arm candy

Look good in his arms when both of you are together. Get a new hairstyle now and then, look fashionable and classy and he’ll never want you to leave his arms.

11. Be financially secure and independent

Be in control of your finances and have a well settled job. Guys love a girl with a steady head on her shoulders. At the same time, they stay a mile away from careless spendthrifts!

12. Have intelligent conversations

A guy may want an arm candy when he’s on the streets, but he also wants a lover who can communicate with him and have intelligent conversations at the end of the day. [Read: Things to talk about in a relationship]

13. Win over his family

Guys are attached to their families and a few guys are even loyal mama’s boys. Make his family and friends think you’re a catch and he’ll definitely love you more.

14. Help him deal with life

Men may behave like the saviors of the world. But inside, they’re still little boys who need a cuddle and a hug now and then. Help your man deal with the issues life throws at him.

15. Use public displays of affection – in moderation!

Your man may shy away from a bit of PDA, but he still loves it when you cling to his arms like a damsel in distress. It makes him feel more powerful and sexy! [Read: 15 Ways public displays of affection can save your relationship]

16. Stroke his ego

If you want to keep your guy interested and happy, learn to stroke his ego. Compliment his achievements and give him a pat on his back when he’s proud of something. Make him feel like a man and he’ll stay your man.

17. Be independent and dependent

Confused? Be dependent when you’re with him. Be independent when you’re by yourself. It’ll make him feel more like a man when you’re around without really feeling like you’re needy when he’s busy doing something else. [Read: How to be independent even if you’re in a relationship]

18. Be happy and interesting

Be interesting and creative with your life. See the happy side in everything, even in the most mundane of days. When you’re an optimist, your infectious happiness will definitely rub on to him.

19. Don’t make him feel insecure

Flirt with others and talk to men, but never at the cost of his insecurity. When he’s around, hug him close and he’ll swell with affection for you.

20. Don’t be easily available at all times

Spend time with him, but don’t be ready for him at his beck and call. Be there for him, but make him miss you when you aren’t around. [Read: How to make him miss you]

21. Be smart and sassy

Don’t ask stupid questions. Guys may like a dumb bimbette at first, but they’re not looking for a long term relationship with them.

22. Don’t be clingy or needy

Guys like a damsel who needs their help. But that stops once the infatuation period is over. Show him that you’re self reliant and he’ll always look for ways to help you and please you.

23. Be sexually innovative

Know your moves in bed and everywhere else. Have sex in different places, role play with him, wear an apron and nothing else while cooking something special, tie his hands to the bedpost… You get the drift, don’t you? [Read: What really turns a guy on?]

24. Be a good cook, and if you’re not – learn!

No matter what people say, the adage, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach still holds good.

25. Learn to think like a guy

Guys and girls don’t always think along the same lines. Learn to think like him and his eyes will well up with happy tears to have the love of a woman so special. [Read: How to think like a man]

26. Don’t ever be a pushover

Don’t be the submissive wife. You don’t need to sit at his feet to earn his respect and love. Instead, be opinionated and throw him around when he throws his weight around you.

27. Put him in his place when he acts like a child

Treat him like a spoilt child when he doesn’t behave. Ignore his childish behavior or scold him when he behaves like a slob. Be unpredictable and rude when he misbehaves, and he’ll fear you and respect you at the same time.

28. Make him proud of you

Guys may be shallow at first sight, but they still want a girl they can respect and admire. Be an achiever and a girl he can look up to in awe. [Read: Get to know who you really are with these 8 questions]

29. Respect yourself

You’re not a doormat. Let him know that you have the strength to move on if he does something stupid or treats you badly. Always make it look like you’re the biggest prize he’s won. You don’t have to call yourself a prize in front of him, but show it to him by ignoring him or pushing him out of the bedroom when he misbehaves.

30. Make him feel like he can’t live without you

As long as he thinks he can’t live without you or if he feels helpless without you, he’ll always stay interested in you.

Pick the traits you can use and you’ll see how easy it can be to keep a guy interested in you. But never let him use you or treat you like a pushover. And don’t think twice about punishing him or putting him in his place when he doesn’t treat you right. [Read: How to make him worry about losing you]

Earn his respect and love. And let him earn yours. Treat him with love and affection, but only if he deserves it. After all, as long as he fears losing a catch like yourself, he’ll never put a toe out of line, would he?

[Read: 10 traits of a perfect girlfriend]

These 30 tips on how to keep a guy interested in you will work perfectly, just as long as you remember that everything in love has to be mutual. Make him treat you right, and show him how special and nice you can be, if you choose to!

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