Have you always dreamed of dating a man who can cater to your every whim and fancy? Well, here’s the ultimate guide to bagging your own sugar daddy!
Okay, so you’ve reached that point in your life where you have realized you appreciate the finer things in life, however you don’t have your own funds to pay for such luxuries.
This leaves only one option, find a boyfriend that can pay for your dream lifestyle. There are lots of men out there that are happy to pay for anything to keep their girlfriend happy, so all you need to do is follow our tips to help you bag that fella with the bulging wallet!
How to find a sugar daddy or a rich boyfriend
If you want to snag yourself a sugar daddy with no strings attached, or a rich boyfriend who can make your dreams come true, just follow these steps and work your way into the right man’s heart.
Set your personal guidelines
Before you begin your quest, you do need to make some decisions first. For instance, you need to decide on the maximum age limit that your potential beau should be. There is no point being with someone that makes you feel uncomfortable, so if a 30 year age gap mortifies you, simply don’t go there.
Expectations and wants
It’s also a good idea to think about what you would like to happen as well. Are you expecting Mr. Rich to pay your rent on a luxury apartment and take you on exotic holidays or do you just want the odd pair of designer shoes, a nice piece of tiffany jewelry and a weekend in Paris now and then?
Knowing what you want out of this relationship will help you whittle out the ones that are simply not rich enough to pay for the lifestyle you are expecting!
The last decision to make is to consider what relationship status your man should have. Do you just want to have some fun with a wealthy married man who will pay anything to keep you happy in exchange for his occasional extramarital fun, or, would you prefer a wealthy widower or single bachelor that will want to spend all his free time with you?
Knowing this will also help you find the perfect match. If you have no preference either way on relationship status, then you can have the pick of the bunch.
Make yourself desirable to a wealthy man
You’ve heard the expression ‘speculate to accumulate’, well, this is where you need to put this into practice and dig deep into your savings/overdraft to make that initial investment into yourself. A wealthy guy will also be used to the finer things in life and that will include his choice of woman, so it is important you look as immaculately turned out as you possibly can in order to catch his eye. [Read: A secret guide to attract men in a way they can’t resist!]
The high maintenance woman
Have your hair styled sophisticatedly, make sure you regularly visit a nail salon and purchase the nicest clothes you can afford. Your potential walking wallet may not be interested in how much money you have but he will expect you to look the part. So to grab his attention initially, make sure you look amazing whenever you go out.
This will also help you out later on when you have your beautifully manicured nails hooked right into him and you tell him that looking as great as you do is not cheap and takes hours to achieve. Then watch how quickly his spare visa card jumps right out of his wallet and straight into your Gucci purse. After all, he also wants his beautiful girlfriend to look great all the time as well. [Read: 15 things high maintenance women do that you need to start doing!]
Frequent wealthy men’s hangouts
This is a definite must. Trust us, you are not going to find your new sugar daddy/rich boyfriend by hanging out in your local boozer. You need to start going to the theatre and ballet. You may not even enjoy these activities, but it’s important that you show prospective rich boyfriends how cultured you are. Keep your eyes open for notices in your local newspaper for art gallery opening nights. [Read: 10 easy ways to appear much more graceful and elegant]
Wealthy men enjoy fine art and will happily spend their money on a fine piece of artwork to hang in their study or billiards room. While he is admiring the paint, you can admire his Armani suit. Pay attention to what the men around you are spending, if anything. This will give you a clue to their wealth and bank balance.
Gamble your luck
Casinos are also good venues to be around, especially the more exclusive members-only casinos. Okay, you might have to take out a second mortgage to pay your membership fee, but it will be worth it in the long run. The same goes for golf clubs as well. Forget yoga, golf clubs will soon be your new best friend as you sit in the cocktail lounge sipping mojitos while your sugar daddy plays eight holes.
The right parties
Also try to attend as many private functions as you possibly can. You might need to be inventive here in order to bag an invitation to such events, but private cocktail parties and dinner dances are good places to search for your wealthy man. [Read: The art of networking at a party and making a great impression]
There are lots of dating sites online where women can set up a profile specifically to find a wealthy boyfriend or sugar daddy. This method of bagging your beau is also good if you really don’t have the funds to go out to expensive venues and drink champagne with the hoi-poli.
Remember to take your time when you are creating your profile. It might even be worth having some professional photos taken that you can use. Make sure you look sexy, sophisticated and appealing and you don’t resemble a dog’s dinner. If you can’t afford to have some professional photos taken, then ask a friend to take some for you. Don’t post ‘selfies.’ They really won’t give a good first impression. [Read: 12 bad girl traits every man wants to see in a girl he dates]
The cultured and sophisticated you!
Try to make yourself sound as cultured and as interesting as possible. Bend the truth a little if you have to. It’s worth sitting through three hours listening to Pavarotti if it earns you a three week cruise in the Caribbean during the summer! All you have to do is stay awake and act like you are enjoying the singing, even if you don’t really understand a word of it.
If you are the type of person that finds it hard to hide their true feelings, then it might be best that you don’t tell any white lies on your dating profile, especially if you are likely to yawn loudly with boredom while you are meant to be enjoying a German version of Swan Lake. [Read: 13 charming ways to make yourself appear more approachable]
Keep your eyes peeled
If you follow our tips, you will soon find the right person. Be patient though. Don’t expect to find exactly what you are looking for within a week. It might take a little longer than that. You might also have to date a few Shreks before the right fella comes along, but don’t worry, just make sure every date you go on is somewhere very exclusive and expensive. You might as well enjoy some fine food and sip champagne while you are on your quest. Good luck and have fun!
Have fun, enjoy your quest, and follow these steps on how to find a sugar daddy or a rich boyfriend, and before long, you could find yourself in the arms of the man of your dreams, with his wallet in your hands!
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