Believe it or not, great guys are all around. Sometimes, we see them for an instant, and at other times, we get to spend a while with them. Understanding how to get a guy’s attention will ensure that he stick around for a little longer this time.
It’s possible that you’ve known a few great guys in your life. You probably crushed on several but maybe they didn’t notice you or didn’t show you the same attention back. Don’t worry and assume that it’s something you’ve done wrong. It’s simply that you need to known how to stand out above the crowd.
Here’s a complete guide on getting his attention and making him like you, no matter where you see him. [Read: How to attract men: The irresistible secrets no one talks about!]
There are three circumstances when you’d bump into a guy you like in real life.
Depending on the circumstances, there are different things you can do to get his attention, impress him and get him to ask you out, or make a move on you. Of course, every guy is different and there isn’t a one size fits all approach here. Despite that, there are some tactics you can use to make sure that he notices you very clearly indeed. [Read: 20 situations when a guy will never like you back]
Stare at him now and then and let him catch you staring. Eye contact is the simplest and easiest way to let a guy know you’re interested in him. Exchange a few glances now and then, but never overdo it.
When we’re attracted to someone, we instinctively start feeling touchy feely. It’s one of the subtle ways to let someone know you’re attracted to them. Play with your hair, show off your slender neck and your cleavage by tilting your head back now and then. [Read: How to flirt with a guy subtly without really flirting at all]
Irrespective of where you are, try to show off your curves. Men are visual and after the face, your curvaceous body is the next thing he’s going to notice. [Read: 20 things about a girl that turns a guy on instantly]
After a few hidden glances, act coy when he catches your eye. Look away and just smile to no one in particular.
Have a relaxed posture, and don’t be too jumpy or active. Stare at him now and then while delicately playing with a pen or a glass of wine.
Guys would be intimidated to approach a girl who seems busy. If you want him to make a move on you, play around with some object, act idle or pretend like you’re bored. It sends the right signals to let him know you’re waiting for him to make a move. [Read: 30 Subtle, obvious, and really sexy flirting tips for girls]
This helps create the connection even if both of you are sitting far away from each other. If you find him shuffling his collar because of the heat, fan yourself with your hands to let him know you’re feeling hot too. Learn to build the connection by replicating each other’s behavior.
Not all guys have the man pebbles to make a move on a girl at first sight. So help him out by giving him more opportunities to talk to you. Walk by him alone when you’re going to the ladies room, graze against him at the counter and apologize with a sweet smile, etc. [Read: How to flirt without really flirting]
We don’t need to repeat this, but men are completely visual when it comes to attraction at first sight. They love women in heels and women who dress in a manner that makes a guy’s jaw drop. Try it, but don’t be vulgar.
Guys are always attracted to girls who are the life of the party. When you’re hanging out with your own friends, have fun with them. When he sees that you’re a hot girl who also has a lot of fun, there’s little reason for him to overlook you. [Read: 10 Ways you can make your relationship more fun]
Bump into him now and then, be it at the cafeteria or at the gym. You can use the tips to attract a guy at first sight, but there’s no necessity to talk to him. Just draw his attention and let him miss you when you aren’t around.
Flash a discreet smile when you walk past him or bump into him at some new place. He may just be scared to make a move, so avoid seeming intimidating when you bump into him. [Read: How to talk to any guy and make him like you]
Sit next to his table if you can, or walk near him if there’s an excuse. Let him know that you’re interested in him, but don’t ever overdo it by constantly trying to run into him.
If he’s just not making a move at you, spark his chivalrous side. Drop a few books or sheets of paper when he walks past you, or ask him for something when he walks past you like a pen. It’ll give him the perfect excuse to start a conversation with you. [Read: Why guys love a girl who asks for help]
Don’t get overexcited because you’re on talking terms. Don’t seem desperate and don’t blow your trumpet about your single status and how you’re looking high and low for someone to fall in love with. Have interesting conversations and let him realize how much of a catch you are.
Once you’re on talking terms, get connected through social networks and keep in touch occasionally by dropping a few comments on his page. But if you see that he’s not responding on facebook or twitter, back away for a while until he shows an interest in you.
Make him want to know more about you if you want to learn how to get a guy’s attention. Arouse his curiosity by telling him a few things about yourself that will make him want to ask more questions about you. Talk about your interests and hobbies, but don’t reveal all. Talking about your weekend spa trip or regular massage session can seem harmless, but it’ll make him think of you in the nude. Add in a few pointers that can awe him or make him desire you. [Read: Tips to seduce a guy who’s not yours]
Don’t disagree on too many things right from the beginning. You may have a few differences with his opinions, but unless it’s a little nothing, don’t pick an argument with him. He wants a partner who’s compatible, not one who’ll constantly pick flaws with his logic.
While a guy may take it as a challenge to impress a girl who disagrees with him, no guy would like a girl who rolls her eyes at him or puts him down often. Don’t be too strong headed or look for ways to prove your point, just to make him realize that you’re smart and confident. [Read: 12 Ways to tell if she’s flirting, or just being friendly]
Drop a few hints now and then to let him know you’re interested in him, but don’t overdo it. Find ways and create conversations to let him know you’re single and have a few free weekends. Make him wonder if you really like him and his curiosity will make him fall in love with you.
You’ve got his attention and you’ve let him know that you’re interested in him. So what are you waiting for? Be your true self and make him fall crazily in love with you!
Sure, playing a little hard to get can be a useful tactic when trying to learn how to get a guy’s attention, but if you push it too far, it’s not going to work well for you. Guys take things very literally sometimes and don’t often read between the lines. If you’re never available, you’re acting cold, and he’s getting all the vibes that you’re not interested, he’s going to take that a face value and assume you’re not into him. [Read: How to play hard to get with a guy]
Playing hard to get only works when you get the balance right. It’s like a game of cat and mouse. You show him you’re interested but then you’re not too available one or two times. Then, you are available, but pull back again the next time. It makes him wonder what else has got your attention, or perhaps who else.
Don’t expect a guy to be a mindreader. Sometimes it’s just easier to come right out and tell him you like him. Terrifying, I know, but it works! Expecting him to read your mind and pick up on your vibes when your expression is pure resting bitch face isn’t going to work. The direct route is often harder, but subtle yet firm signs will help get your message across.
[Read: How to get a guy to like you: 26 super moves that drive men crazy]
To win over a guy, just use these simple tips on how to get a guy’s attention. You’ll see how easy it can be to make any guy want you and desire you in no time!
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