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How to Get a Boyfriend Effortlessly with 5 Small Changes

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If you’re wondering how to get a boyfriend, well, that’s the easy part. Getting a boyfriend is easy, but getting the guy you desire is the difficult part. Want to know how to get any guy you like to ask you out? Read on.

Figuring out how to get a boyfriend isn’t a joke anymore.

A good decade ago, it was only the kids and preteens that wondered about this question.

But now, just about every girl wants to know how to get a boyfriend who will respect her and love her for who she is.

After all, we aren’t speaking of just about any boyfriend.

We’re talking about an absolutely great guy who likes a girl for who she is, and a guy who’s going to be there by her side through thick and thin.

How to get a boyfriend who’s all that

You may have found the perfect guy in the world, and you may be wondering how to tell him that you like him. Or perhaps, you may be completely clueless and waiting for someone to approach you and ask you out.

Either ways, if you’re interested in knowing how to get a boyfriend, you need to know how to become irresistible to guys in the first place.

How to be an irresistible girl

Quite frankly, the problem isn’t with guys or girls here. Knowing how to get a boyfriend is all about knowing how to be the irresistible girl who can be desired by guys.

Here are five tips that can change the way guys see you, and make you irresistible.

#1 A strong personality

You wouldn’t like a guy who doesn’t have a personality. So why would a great guy like you if you don’t have it either. Now if you really want to know how to get a boyfriend who’s fancied by all girls and admired by all guys, you need to build yourself a personality. [Read: How to get a guy to like you]

You need to be cheerful and nice, but at the same time, you need to create an aura of confidence around yourself. Don’t be the clown or someone who can be pushed around easily by everyone. You need to be confident and carry yourself with grace and panache. Be likeable, but yet, be someone who’s taken seriously.

#2 Appear unavailable even if you’re single

No guy desires a girl who’s easily available. Play hard to get. Talk to boys but keep them at a distance. Don’t be a pushover and don’t let anyone take you for granted. Never run errands for guys.  Learn to be unpredictable when you’re talking to guys. And at times, even fussy and moody. As much as guys say they want a girl who can get along, they still want a fussy princess.

After all, Archie still runs behind Veronica rather than Betty. Makes you wonder, doesn’t it? You know the rules of playing hard to get, so play them and play them well. [Read: How to play hard to get]

#3 Groom yourself

Now good looks are an added advantage if you want to know how to get a boyfriend. But the real key to getting a great boyfriend is not good looks, but knowing how to look good. [Read: What guys always notice on a date]

Most of the glamorous celebrities and models don’t really have the prettiest faces or bodies, but it’s the way they carry themselves and groom themselves that makes them look so stunning. Katy Perry and Lady Gaga may not be the prettiest women without their makeup and their attitude. But any guy would love to date them or go out with them.

Stop focusing on your flaws and pay attention to what’s good in you. And before you know it, you can dazzle any guy with your poise, confidence and the way you carry yourself. [Read: How to make him want you]

#4 Send out the right signals

Do you like a guy? Then send out the right signals only to him. Look at him now and then, and let him notice that. Blush a bit, flutter your eyelashes or run your hands through your hair coyly, just above your ears. But never overdo it and make yourself seem like a stalker. Stare at the guy you like for a few seconds and snub him for a couple of days. Make him want you, and never let him know that you want him.

Let him crave for your attention and make him come to you. The secret behind knowing how to get a boyfriend all girls desire is to draw him and confuse him, and never letting him know he’s got the upper hand in the flirty game. Never make it obvious by telling all your friends and giggling like he’s your teenage crush! Stare at him deeply now and then, and ignore him for a few days. You hold the reins in this game, and he’ll come begging to you in no time.

#5 Learn to be sweet where it matters

Once you have his attention, make him come to you. Smile at him when you’re at the other end of the hall, but ignore him when he’s close by. That would confuse him, and yet, make him crazy about you. [Read: Is he in love with you?]

Don’t flirt with too many guys, assuming it would make him jealous. It could make him think you’re a tramp. You can be rude to any guy though, who tries misbehaving around you or tries to hit on you when the guy you like is around. Snubbing other guys makes the guy you like want you even more.

And when he finally works up the courage to ask you out, be sweet with him. Make him feel special, and let him understand that he’s being treated nicely. Don’t overdo it, but make him feel warm and fuzzy for having a conversation with you. And if he ever talks about you staring at him or smiling at him from across the hall, deny it outright and get fussy. [Read: How to talk to a guy and make him want you]

Never let him know that you accept making the first move. Always make it look like it was him and him alone who made all the moves to talk to you. That’s how you play fussy, sweet and hard to get all at once!

[Read: How to ask a guy out the classy way]

If you just follow these simple moves, not only will you know how to get a boyfriend, you’d also know how to attract the attention of any guy you like.

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7 thoughts on “How to Get a Boyfriend Effortlessly with 5 Small Changes”

  1. Mimi says:

    I have found out alot of stuff and will like to know more regarding some matters of love . This website is a helpful for me. Thank you editor.

  2. Sean says:

    Honestly, I do all 5 of these things and I’m still single. Guys won’t give me the time of day .

  3. Fernando says:

    While somethings in this article work, there are some here that can also be detrimental. Let us go through them.

    “Make him want you, and never let him know that you want him”…At what point do you drop this mask? A man with dignity will eventually move on if his pursuits are not leading to any rewards; a creeper or a guy coming from a place of scarcity will keep pushing it. When it comes to love (even this early on in the interaction), it is a two way street. The man initiates the interaction and the woman reciprocates if she is interested by showing signs of interest; just tiny breadcrumbs of it in the first interaction is all that is necessary. As the the article continues, the rest of the advice contradicts this statement.

    “Stare at the guy you like for a few seconds and snub him for a couple of days” in this world where our technology gives instant access to others, a couple of days is too much. You don’t have to respond to his texts right away, but don’t leave him hanging no more than a day.

    “Learn to be unpredictable when you

  4. Mark says:

    What a load of crap. Playing hard to get isn’t the best idea. Strong personality is great, as is grooming, but don’t go overboard. If you’re dressed to the nines all the time, you come across as high-maintenance. Some guys go for that, but I sure don’t.

    Sending signals is a tricky one. Some women are flirty by nature and many men get burned by mistaking innocent flirting with interest. There is a distinct chance that a guy will DELIBERATELY ignore your signals for fear of misreading them. Remember that guys fear rejection more than just about anything. If you want him to make the first move (and really, I thought this was the 21st century, shouldn’t it be 50-50?) you have to make him feel safe to do so. Otherwise he’s gonna go elsewhere.

  5. Matt says:

    Yeah I’ve just read this and I want to test it out but I’m a guy looking for a guy but I don’t know if he’s gay too.

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