Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder.
But when it comes to getting a guy’s attention, there are a few traits about girls that all guys adore and love.
Are you trying to catch a guy’s eye and make him fall for you?
Well, here are a few things that can help you out.
Infatuation and how it works on guys
Most men believe in love at first sight.
But they don’t realize that they aren’t really falling in love with a girl when they first see her.
The infatuation that kicks in convinces them that they’re head over heels in love, when in reality, they’re just being drawn towards the girl because of how pretty and attractive they perceive her to be!
[Read: How guys really fall in love – The 7 stages of love for guys]
The first few impressions can play a big part in attraction
The first thing you need to know about guys and their mind is that they’re very visual.
If a guy likes you, odds are, he finds you pretty and sweet, and definitely attractive.
Of course, men aren’t dumb creatures who judge a girl only by her appearance. But at least for the first few dates or conversations, his opinion about a girl would be completely clouded by how pretty or attractive he finds her. [Read: Secret tips to attract guys in a way they can’t resist!]
How to catch a guy’s eye and make him want you
Every guy has his own preferences and perceived notions about attractiveness. But if a girl knows how to attract any guy’s attention at first sight, she would have already won more than half the battle even before talking to him for the first time. [Read: How to get a guy’s attention and make him like you no matter where you are]
The best part about this fact is that you don’t really need to be a gorgeous stunner who’s better than every other girl in the room.
All you need to do is learn the art of catching a guy’s eye the right way, and letting him see that you really are better than every other girl in the room!
18 ways to look pretty and sweet in a guy’s eye
How attractive you appear plays a very big part in catching a guy’s eye and making him like you. But what should a girl really do to look pretty and sweet?
If you really want to know what makes a girl pretty and cute, here are 18 easy tips to transform yourself into the prettiest girl in the room, no matter where you are! [Read: 25 ways to look cute and melt a guy’s heart in the first conversation]
#1 Inner beauty. Inner beauty may not change the way you look on the outside, but it’ll still make you appear a lot more attractive and desirable. You need to be a friendlier person who is kind, compassionate and warm hearted because that’s the kind of girl all guys want to date.
Respect yourself for who you are, beyond beauty that’s only skin deep. If you don’t respect yourself as a person, no one else would respect you nor would they find you attractive. Your self-confidence about who you are as a person is a reflection of your inner beauty. The better you feel about who you are on the inside, the more attractive you’ll appear on the outside. [Read: Why inner beauty plays a bigger part than outer beauty]
#2 Pamper yourself. If you want to look pretty, you need to take really good care of yourself. The girls who look like they’ve just stepped out of a magazine look that way because they take care of themselves!
Take good care of your skin, your nails and teeth and ensure that they’re at their perfect best. Start by eating a balanced diet, and your good health will shine through your skin.
#3 Find your advantages. You could be a shy girl, a tomboy, a sexy girl or a high maintenance girl. It doesn’t matter who you are as long as you use your personality and project it to your advantage. Show off your personality and don’t try to hide who you want to be. [Read: Why guys like shy girls and find them more attractive]
Don’t dwell and despair over things you don’t like or don’t have. Guys like a girl who’s comfortable in her own body. And there’s nothing more attractive than a girl who actually loves herself for who she is. [Read: 13 easy physical attraction tips to look way hotter in minutes]
#4 Your boobs are perfect already. Many girls worry too much about what kind of breasts guys like. But seriously, you already have perfect breasts that all guys like! Guys like all kinds of breasts, no matter what they say. But the best boobs are the ones on girls who feel confident about their own bodies. [Read: Why guys love breasts like crazy]
#5 Be a flirty girl. A sweet, smiling girl who’s warm to talk to always seems a lot nicer than the girl who behaves like a snotty princess. Be flirty and approachable, at least around the guy you like. He may be too intimidated by you and may be scared to approach you. If a guy you like stares at you now and then, but doesn’t approach you, give him a few signs to approach you without appearing like you’re too easy to get. [Read: 30 subtle, obvious and sexual flirting tips for girls]
#6 Flaunt it! Take pretty pictures of yourself when you go out with friends, or to a new place. Dress up, look fabulous, have a blast and let the world know you’re having fun. Every girl envies a girl who’s having fun, and every guy wants to be with a girl who is fun!
You can put the pretty pictures up on facebook or another social network, but just make sure you don’t turn into an attention whore. [Read: 16 signs your friends think you’re an attention whore already!]
#7 Don’t put yourself down. Don’t demean or put yourself down in front of others, especially a guy you like. Don’t go telling him you think you look fat or that you have a bad nose. Guys like to tell themselves that pretty girls don’t poop! So why would you want to ruin your beauty for him by criticizing or undermining yourself?
#8 Feel sexy! Indulge in confidence enhancers. Wear perfumes that smell great on you, treat yourself to new beauty products, get a new haircut, and feel good about who you are. Guys will find you irresistible! [Read: 30 super sexy ways to keep a guy interested in you all the time]
#9 Be happy. And let the world see you smile all the time. Find ways to keep yourself happy all the time. You’ll feel good and being stress free will make you look a lot prettier. Positive energy is irresistible and sexy, and everyone loves being around a happy person. Don’t be a bore, and mingle with people who are fun.
When you feel shallow or negative, you’ll only attract other guys and girls who are negative and boring. Fell alive, enjoy the world and watch how your world would change in no time.
#10 Be yourself. Be true to yourself, and be the person you really want to be. Don’t become someone your friends want you to be. Change is good, but you should change only when you feel the need to change and become a better you.
#11 Get rid of boring clothes. Avoid wearing your old, boring clothes and use colors carefully to lift up your spirits. When you wear bright colors that you’re comfortable with, it’ll make you feel happier. And happy girls always look pretty, don’t they?
#12 A healthier lifestyle. Many young girls have the misconception that starving themselves will make them skinnier. But that’s a dangerous myth in the long term. You’ll only end up putting on more weight over time.
Don’t sit in front of a mirror all day running a brush through your hair. Work out, run around the park and try to get fit. Trying to get unreasonably skinny is definitely unhealthy, but being fit will do wonders for you, your body, your complexion, your mind, your skin and everything else! [Read: 18 physical turn ons that arouse a guy instantly]
#13 Get rid of unwanted hair. If you don’t like having hair somewhere, be it under your arms, legs or anywhere else, get rid of it. It’ll help you feel more comfortable with your body. And even if you find yourself in a situation where you’re in close proximity with a guy, you’ll still feel confident enough to flaunt your body without feeling awkward about a body part.
#14 The kind of girl guys like hanging out with. Guys like a girl who’s fun to hang out with. They may admire a glam doll, but they’d just get sick of her if she gets bratty on them. Let your hair down now and then, and just have fun without holding yourself back. Don’t be too uptight, but don’t be too accommodating either or you’ll get walked all over.
#15 Your uniqueness is your sex appeal. You don’t need to fit in with the crowd just to please the world. Your differences and your uniqueness is your sex appeal, and that’s the one thing that’ll differentiate you from the rest of the girls. If you want to look pretty and catch a guy’s fancy, flaunt what makes you different without embarrassment and you’ll work your magic. [Read: 10 ways to increase your sex appeal without any effort]
#16 Don’t cover yourself with layers of makeup. Natural looking makeup looks best on a girl, because it makes it seem like you look pretty even though you haven’t put on anything on your face. Use makeup to accentuate your features, not to overshadow them or turn yourself into a completely different person.
#17 Don’t feel unattractive. Looking pretty and feeling attractive is a state of mind. If you feel unattractive, it shows and guys can notice it. Be cheerful, and love yourself for who you are, and your oozing confidence will draw guys to you like moths to a warm flame. [Read: 11 tips to love yourself and become a much better you!]
#18 Give the guy just enough attention. When you exchange sneaky glances with a guy you like, his mind subconsciously makes him feel more attracted to you. He finds you prettier, sexier and he would definitely want to impress you. Give him just enough attention though. If you give him too much of it, he’ll think he’s won you over already and lose interest in trying to woo you. [Read: How to impress a guy in 13 oh-so-awesome ways]
If you’re still single, don’t let your beauty be judged by just one guy’s eyes. It’s not the end of the world if one guy chooses not to fall for your beauty or your charm. Be comfortable in your own skin, and fall in love with yourself first. The world will soon follow suit.
As long as you love yourself and don’t feel insecure about who you are, your positivity and confidence will always mystify and awe guys. And there will always be guys who’d want to date you and get to know you better.
[Read: The dating girl code all girls need to know]
Understanding how to look pretty and sweet isn’t just about dabbing makeup or flirting outrageously. It’s a new way to approach life, where you fall in love with yourself and respect who you are. After all, only when you fall in love with yourself will you have the positivity and the aura to make others fall in love with you!
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