What Men Like in Women More than Anything Else

what men like in women

Men can’t help but love women. But do you really know what men like in women and what is it about a woman that they find most attractive? Find out here.

Men like women. A lot.

But there are a few kinds of women that men absolutely adore and fall in love with, wherever they go.

Ever seen an ad on the television where a girl walks across the street and all the guys either trail her or wolf whistle in appreciation?

Want to be that girl?

When it comes to appreciation at first sight, what different men like in women doesn’t really vary a lot.

It’s the simple things really.

And it’s really simple to become that woman who can make heads turn and men swoon wherever you go.

Find out what men like in women and be that attractive woman that all men want and desire.

But then again, once you know what men really like in women, what are you going to do with all that attention?!

What men like in women

Attraction and infatuation at first sight are very different from the deep appreciation that men get once they get to know a woman well.

[Read: How men fall in love with a woman]

But for starters, here are the special aspects about women that make men thank the one above for creating women in the first place.

#1 A cheerful attitude

The cheerful laugh or a flirty giggle of a happy, cheerful woman can melt even the hardest of manly hearts. Have a happy, cheerful personality and try to look at the happier side of life all the time. There’s something about a cheerful woman whose eyes light up with joy that draws all men to her.

#2 The way she looks and dresses

It’s always easier to attract attention from men when you make an effort to look good and dress well. A bright red umbrella is always a lot more attention grabbing on a rainy day amidst all the dull umbrellas, doesn’t it?

Dress well and feel good about yourself. You don’t really have to try and stand out with bold, flashy colors all the time. Just dress like a perfect ten in well fitting clothes and appear confident. And yes, don’t forget that dab of perfume to leave a trail of men swooning over your fragrance as you walk past them!

[Read: What men always notice in women]

#3 Flirty gestures

What men like in women is a streak of flirty seduction. Do you curl your lips or hold a pen in your lip when you’re trying to come up with an idea? Do you wink or raise your eyebrows flirtily when you say goodbye or pass a smart remark? Well, if you do indulge in any of those expressions or even a million other expressions that make you look cuter-than-cute, then you’re already on your way to make hearts beat a lot faster.

Men can’t get enough of flirty gestures from women. Stand in front of the mirror and try a few flirty moves. It may seem dumb at first, but hey, remember what men like in women and try this tip. It’s guaranteed to show results within seconds!

[Read: How to talk to a guy and make him like you]

#4 Just a little bit of skin

Want that glance to turn into a second and third glance? Learn to show a bit of skin. An outright pound of cleavage or a slab of midriff can seem attractive, but it’s also trashy and crude. And it makes you look like you’re trying too hard to please and get attention. [Read: Why do men like breasts?]

Play subtle. It works a lot better. A shirt or a tee that ends just right around where your jeans start, or a perfectly fitting top with a wider neck that shows a bit but yet needs a bit of craning to get a peep is just perfect for men. They love the nearly-there peeks and their curiosity would drive them crazy enough to stare, again and again. [Read: How to look sexy without trying]

#5 A seductive voice

If there’s anything that makes the hair on the back of a man’s neck stand in excitement, it’s a woman’s sweet and sexy voice. Now mastering the art of the husky voice takes time, so don’t give it too much of a thought just yet.

When you’re speaking with a man, speak in a low tone and avoid the high pitched glass shattering squeal that most women use when they’re surprised or ecstatic with joy. A low, soft voice inadvertently sounds more arousing and attractive. And the best part here, it’s easy to speak in a low, softer tone without seeming like you’re trying too hard. Try your new softer voice the next time you’re on the phone. And don’t blame us if the man on the other end gets flirty! [Read: How to text flirt]

#6 A woman who asks for help

This is every man’s dream. Well, as long as he isn’t your man already!

Men like to feel wanted and appreciated by women. Most women think men are slobs who hate working or running errands, but that’s the case only if he’s already in a long term relationship with you. If he’s single and a woman with all the aforementioned characteristics walks up to him and asks him to help her out with a smile, he’d jump up like a jack in the box.

Men absolutely love a woman who asks for help. It makes them feel more macho, gives them an excuse to have a conversation with a pretty woman, and reawakens their evolutionary desire to be the provider and the protector. And when you thank a man with a flirty smile, there’s a good chance that he’d gush with awkward embarrassment and ask for your phone number!

#7 A woman’s ability to flirt back

Do you ever flirt back with a man, even if it’s just for fun? Many women feel awkward, embarrassed or even threatened when a friendly guy starts a little flirting game.

Just because you indulge in a friendly game of flirting doesn’t mean you’re falling for a guy, remember that. If you want to impress a man, have a fun conversation with him. If you bring your flirty expressions into the conversation, there’s a good chance that any guy would want to flirt with you or sweet talk you, even if he’s with his own girlfriend!

But you don’t always have to flirt back with a guy, sometimes when you play hard to get and blow hot or cold once in a while, it’ll throw a guy off guard and make him try harder to please you. [Read: How to flirt with a guy without really flirting]

#8 A woman who acknowledges a man’s stare

You may like a guy who’s sipping his whiskey at the far end of the bar counter. How would you feel if he looks at you, gives you his dirtiest stare and looks away? You’d feel shattered, of course.

Men have a heart too, you know. If a guy’s trying to catch your attention or trying to exchange a glance, you don’t need to reciprocate all the time. But if he does seem decent enough, it’s a warm gesture to lock eyes for a second and look away.

You don’t need to date him or have his babies, but a simple acknowledgement that you noticed him can make his day, especially when you’re such a stunning woman with all the charms. You can look once and forget all about it, and any guy would appreciate that. If there’s one thing men like in women, it’s the ability to acknowledge a man without blowing him off in the first glance.

You could give him your dirtiest stare though, if he seems too eager to continue the game or makes a move to talk to you.

[Read: How to make a man fall in love with you the easy way]

Now that you know what men like in women, use these eight tips and you’ll see how easy it can be to win the attention of men around you. And the best part, it’ll never appear like you’re trying to make an impression!

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26 thoughts on “What Men Like in Women More than Anything Else”

  1. Leeteuk says:

    not to be rude, but this means i should completely change my personality to make myself loved…besides men don’t necessarly fall in love with a cheerful woman…it just happens, and being whisled on the streets by guys doesn’t mean they love me, or they’ll fall in love with me, they just see me as a skank.Sorry for being a total *****, but it must be said.

  2. Danielle says:

    Confidence is key and this article portrayed that to me. It means dressing nice, smiling, and being cheerful. That’s confidence right there.

  3. RW says:

    As a guy – there is only one way to get me. Give a guy the chance to be the alpha male he wants to be around you and he will not stop wanting you. Man loves any and all opportunities to prove what a man he is to a girl.. this will be hard for a women to understand as some ways can be very subtle, but as long as you do stuff like show him his efforts are appreciated and seem interested in his life – like if he ask if you want a pizza say yes and do it with lots of enthusiasm. You have no idea how far it goes when you show interest in a man’s suggestion. It makes him feel like he is valued And that is Important – once again giving him the the opportunity to he the alpha male. Contrary to what you are told, men appreciate it more when you make the move, because it shows them they are getting somewhere. Most men are affraid to initiate cause they don’t know weather they are being a pest or not. With a women’s clarification, they will open up and then try harder. The compromise I’d say is for women to initiate, then play the mysterious card. It will have him thinking why the hell you text in the first place if your just gonna ignore him. When it comes to texting… he is just waiting for that text. Promise. Hope I helped!

  4. RW says:

    I know full well that texting thing works.. my soon to be girlfriend does it all the time I CAN’T stop thinking about when she will text me!

  5. Sim says:

    Well aren’t you a silly boy. You HAVE to initiate or she wont think you’re the man. If you wait for her to initiate, you look like you have no courage

    You hunt her. We love being chased. If she doesn’t show you interest, back off and then just watch. If she’s interested she will return the chase. It’s a dance of attraction. Dont think of it as mind games

  6. mija says:

    man ! whoever this, just love ur opinions on almost everything!!… keep it up! .. n im a girl!!.. n still love the girly articles too!! .. cool stuff!! 🙂

  7. sharondella says:

    I have done all of these things as I’m a naturally feminine lady. But I’m over 35, still single, and haven’t even had a boyfriend or been asked out on a proper date in
    4 years. It’s quite sad and depressing. Last year at work I met a great guy who is indie style just like me and we have so much in common. He’s smart and funny and talented, too. ^^he said I’m beautiful and everyone saw that we had such great chemistry and they got jealous and started running their mouths. We never got together because he’s Korean and I’m not and I’m more than 10 years older than him. So his culture gies totally against him being with me^^. ^^he chose Korea instead of me^^. I feel so sad.

  8. karen_o says:

    Ugh. The cheerful thing is contrived if you’re a quiet, introverted type. Why must women act like cheerleaders all the time? This description sounds like men are looking for that “Legally Blond” character, who is annoying & ridiculous to me.

  9. Amanda says:

    I just love how men want to be the alpha male – AND be chased. I don’t know about the rest of you ladies, but in nature, the alpha male does the chasing. LOL. Not to mention that most of us want an “alpha” male as well. There’s nothing less attractive than a man we can walk all over. That being said, man up guys, and talk to us! I’m so sick of jerks being the only ones with any courage.

  10. Pepper says:

    I agree if a guy doesn’t ask me or let me know he wants me no matter how much I like him I’m just not going to put myself out there I like alpha males and I was always told if a man wants you he’ll let you know it , if a guy really likes me I should be worth him taking that chance on!

  11. ::: says:

    Honestly be yourself with a little adjustment, thats it. You’ll find the man who likes you for who you are being a little cheerful et cetera does help but if it makes you feel false or unnatural don’t.

  12. Whatever says:

    My BF is great and confident in nearly everything he does but was extremely shy, but still made the first move :). Here is how we got together. my neighbours dog chased us til we got locked up in some storage (I never figured out how we got locked in). I’m claustrophobic and started panicking. Luckily he had some calm-down medicine,(the dog was chasing me on the way to buying some of that medicine, so my BF tried helping by taking me away from the dog) How? He had asked my friends about me! He ended up confessing. And my romance life started in a storage room.
    What I’m trying to say is that there are many great sweet guys only they don’t want to risk getting humiliated or heart-crushed, they only need the opportunity. Girls are the same.

  13. mari says:

    Well im lost im married with 4 children and ive always found the time to spice things up with my hubby. Im a good looking woman, i am cheerful, i am nice and i always trtto look good. Ive done all of the above and my husband still cheats. I guess i will have to be a real bitch to him or move on with my life. Being a nice person has got me noqjere. I even send him sexy pics. What more does a man want

  14. Adrian says:

    Hi Mari, don’t blame yourself, you sound like a loveable woman. He does not sound sure of what he wants.

  15. casey says:

    OK yes i agree but how many times can anyone risk it all for something that is unsure hell you wont put yourself out there once but you ask all males to do it. and as a fella hell as a person it’d be nice to know if the person im interested in would risk it all for me .i don’t know if it right for you to ask something of someone if that something is not something you’d do your self maybe ud have more luck and less jerks in ur life by chasing back.

  16. Bm2011 says:

    Cheerful & smiling all the time = creepy… Jeff the Killer kind of creepy.
    Gloomy & angsty all the time = emo. The whiny b****y annoying kind of emo.
    Natural reactions to different situations = normal, which is good.

  17. Jessica says:

    Mari, cut him off… Completely! He will wonder why and trust me he will chase you. Then leave his stupid behind cus he don’t apprecite you. Same with my ex husband! Stop being so good to him. He’s comfortable and unappreciative. CUT HIM COMPLETELY OFF… Trust me on that!!!

  18. Jessica says:

    Mari, you’re too good to him. Not everyone deserves that. Make him earn it! My ex did the same thing and I did everything but wipe his behind for him. Plus raised 3 kids and worked, dinner, he wouldn’t work or have sex with me. AND IM SEXY LOL

  19. Eliza says:

    You should’nt have to completely change yourself to attract guys. I want someone who likes me for who I am. I am certainly not the positive, annoyingly cheerful type.

  20. SomeMale says:

    Girls, this is from a man.

    The article is almost dead right. You want to be loved by us? Straight answer is given in the article.

    Be cheerful, happy and smily. A girl who is nice looking, slim, cheerful and happy, smiles when she talks with someone, smart and makes eye contact to someone who shows interest, is way more attractive than anyone who is just going through the days, hiding away inside the papers and tables.

    Why we want this? Because we, males are often fraught with various life issues at work or other places. So when we meet our loved ones, just looking at her bright and full of life smile makes us forget the hardship, and we feel something good and caring is there worth fighting for, and they eventually becomes the driver of our motivation to live.

    And then we try out best to return the favour as well.

  21. nixilou says:

    Somemale… Y does a woman have 2 b slim? If u foumd soneone with all the other attributes but isnt a size 10 or lower would u not find that girl attractive?

    I am a bigger girl and i would like to say i am happy n have at lrast some of these attributes. Whats 2 say men wouldnt find me attractive?

  22. Hombre says:

    mari wrote:

    “Well im lost im married with 4 children and ive always found the time to spice things up with my hubby. Im a good looking woman, i am cheerful, i am nice and i always trtto look good. Ive done all of the above and my husband still cheats. I guess i will have to be a real bitch to him or move on with my life. Being a nice person has got me noqjere. I even send him sexy pics. What more does a man want”

    A man here commenting. You didn’t do anything wrong. You did everything right and you won the game, mari! You got the charming playboy to marry you out of all other women. The only problem here is that you married a playboy.

  23. Hombre says:

    Jessica wrote:

    “Mari, cut him off

  24. Hombre says:

    SomeMale wrote:

    “Why we want this? Because we, males are often fraught with various life issues at work or other places. So when we meet our loved ones, just looking at her bright and full of life smile makes us forget the hardship, and we feel something good and caring is there worth fighting for, and they eventually becomes the driver of our motivation to live.”

    It’s even simpler than this. A pretty, cheerful, smiley girl makes a man feel all warm and fluffy inside. It’s purely a visceral response, maybe the same as what a woman feels when around an infant or a cute puppy dog.

  25. Aiko Watanabe says:

    aren’t females also fraught with various life issues at work and other places? We need to be respected to when we come home from work after a long day. A man needs respect too, but keep in mind that a woman is capable of working outside the home as well

  26. Metale Tematy says:

    Zycie jest tym, co sie wydarza, kiedy Ty jestes zajety robieniem innych planow. – John Lennon

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