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How to Have a Threesome With The Right Rules

threesome with the right rules

Three can be a crowd if you don’t plan it right. Find out how to have a threesome using the perfect threesome rules to have a great time in bed.

Click here to read the introduction on threesome sex and what you should know before inviting a third person into bed.

To indulge in a successful ménage à  trois, you need to know the real rules of threesome sex.

Now there are no hard and fast rules, but a few guidelines can definitely help you have a great time.

The ground rules of ménage à  trois

To actually enact a fantasy like a ménage à  trois, you need a third person who’s willing to share the bed with you.

It’s usually preferable to involve someone who’s not a friend or a co-worker. I mean, really, what if your partner and your friend end up meeting often and have sex without you?!

But then again, if it’s trust and safety that you care about while having a threesome, you could use a good friend that you know will not let the word spread. [Read: How to have sex with a friend]

Comfort is the key to a good ménage à  trois.

But if you want to make sure it’s a secret that you and your partner take to the grave, take off on a vacation [Read: Fun on the beach], and find a good looker who’s ready for both of you! But one word of caution, never ever take someone whom you or your mate works with. The word will spread and/or the ménage à  trois will turn into an affair!

In bed with the third person

Now whenever you’re involving another person in bed with you and your own lover, the rules are simple and almost always the same. You can read the rules for swinging to know everything you need to follow while involving a third friend in bed.

After the ménage à  trois

After you guys orgasm, let’s admit it, things are going to feel weird in bed. There you three are, lying in bed, and wondering what next!

If there’s just three singles involved, then by all means, stay back. There can always be another round in a while! But the best thing to do here is split up if there’s a couple involved. The couple stays together, and the single leaves.

For the couple, this is the time to talk about it, and cuddle up. If you haven’t realized it already, you’ve just banged another person while your mate was watching! So let your mate know that you’re still in love, and that was just sex. Great sex, of course! And another word of advice, don’t fall in love with the third person. It can happen. In most cases, it always does. Avoid contact unless it’s sex on your mind.

The three rules of threesomes

Are there any specific rules to have a threesome? Can there ever be one? Of course, there are. A threesome isn’t as simple as it seems. It’s not just the bang-bang followed by scampering.

Threesomes can, at times, emotionally hurt a lot more than an external affair. So use these three important rules each time you decide to bring in a third mate.

Threesome Rule One – Ground rules

Always have ground rules before you enter a ménage à  trois. You don’t want your man to penetrate into the other woman, let him know that it’s off limits. You want the third person to leave as soon as the sex is over, let it be told. You may only end up feeling uncomfortable if you close your eyes and open them to see your woman kissing another man.

So whatever pisses you off or makes you feel awkward, apply ground rules and let all three of you know when things are going overboard. Remember, you do want to have happy times, not frustrated ones, after doing the deed.

Threesome Rule Two – Pleasure up

Everyone’s in it for their own pleasure, when you’re involved in a ménage à  trois. But that doesn’t mean you should finish yourself up and sit down against the bed-post pouting and sulking about the crowded bed. Slow your pace and see that all the three involved are excited to be there. Even if your body is over one person, you still have your hands free, don’t you?

Try your best to see that all three of you climax almost together. If you can pull that off, you’ve got the ménage à  trois thing going really smooth!

Threesome Rule Three – Play Safe

This is a good one, and one that shouldn’t be overlooked. All three of you may be safe and clean off STDs, but there could be a good chance that one of you could be having a symptom that is in the dormant stage.

You don’t want things to go from good to bad, and bad to worse. So while having a threesome, make sure you stock a good pile of condoms on the bedside. Each time the man penetrates another woman, the condoms have to be replaced. And if you’re using hands, restrict one hand to each person’s privates, so you don’t play a part in the transmission. There may be no problems in the first place, but prevention is always way better than getting a disease with no cure, right?

[Read: How to start swinging]

Ménage à  trois Pop Quiz

Q. Can you do this or think about it when you’re not horny?

A. If you can’t, then give up on the thought. You’re still not ready for it!

Ménage à  trois Pop Quiz

Q. Do both of you talk about having threesome sex, or is it just one if you?

A. If it’s just one of you, sorry, you guys still aren’t ready!

Having a ménage à  trois can be fun and exciting. It can also increase the sizzle in bed, just as long as you understand how to have a threesome and follow the right threesome rules to play a safe game.

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