29 Wild & Sexy Drinking Games for Couples or Friends at a House Party

If you’re looking for the best drinking games to give your night a boost of sexy fun – be it games with cards or nothing at all – look no further. Shed your inhibitions and get right down to it!  

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A night in doesn’t have to be boring. There are many ways you can spice things up and add in some entertainment. How about some sexy drinking games?

These games are fun, a little bit naughty, and depending on how play it, pretty dirty too!

If you’re not keen on going out and you want to enjoy some time in the comfort of your own home, drinking games are a great way to fill the time and bring you closer together. You can be a couple, a group of friends, or relatively new to dating – it doesn’t matter! [Read: The best naughty texting games to turn someone on over text]

How do drinking games work?

Most drinking games revolve around dares and divulging secrets. This gives you an opportunity to tell your date/friends something new about yourself and vice versa.

There are different rules to different drinking games, but usually if you refuse the dare, get a question wrong or don’t want to answer one, you take a drink. It’s wise not to refuse or get anything wrong otherwise you might end up very drunk!

There are many different types of drinking games. For instance, there are sexy drinking games that have a bit of a fun yet risky edge. There are also dirty drinking games that are ideal for couples that want to spice up their sex life and try something new.

Either way, drinking games are fun as long as you play by the rules. [Read: How to have great sex with your lover]

Sexy and fun drinking games

If you’ve got a group of friends who aren’t prudes and love a bit of naughty fun, or if you and your partner have a lot of friends that are couples, use these dirty drinking games to create a fun and memorable night.

When you’re planning to spend a whole night drinking with your friends, measure the hard liquor in capfuls. Even if one of you gets wasted within an hour or two, it’ll kill the party for the others. To begin the games, all of you need to down a couple of shots first and then sit down to play. [Read: Spontaneous sex – 15 reasons you need it and how to do it right]

The best drinking games are the ones with very few rules and very few requirements. That makes things easy to remember, and even if a few of you do get drunk, it’s not easy to forget the rules!

Here are some easy-to-play, sexually stimulating games that will turn all of you on and keep everyone on a sexual high for several weeks or months to come. Try one of these games with your friends one night, and you’ll see how aroused you and your lover will feel the very next time both of you get into bed.

Or, keep it between you and your partner and notice how the sex sizzles that little bit more! [Read: 10 arousing ways to make married sex feel like a one night stand]

1. Never have I ever

The original game starts with the first player saying something they have never done before. But in this version, the game starts off with one of you saying a statement that’s risque and daring. The only rule is that it must start with the words “Never have I ever…”

For example, you could say “Never have I ever… had sex in a car.” If someone in the group has actually done the act, they need to have a drink.

If no one in the whole group has done it, the person who said the line has to have a drink instead. To make it sexier, each time someone has a drink, they have to explain the deed in detail. This can turn into a dirty drinking game very quickly indeed! [Read: 15 relationship games for couples to feel more connected]

2. Alcohol Russian roulette

Have the players sit around a table, and then place shot glasses in front. Pour water in all the glasses except one – pour vodka instead. Another person shuffles the glasses around. And once that’s done, all of you pick a random shot glass and pour the drink down your throats quickly without waiting to smell or taste the liquid.

With every round, the person whose glass has the vodka has to perform a dare. As the game progresses, increase the number of glasses that contain vodka. [Read: 7 sexiest types of sex you can ever have]

3. Dares in a hat

Everyone in the group writes a to-do act on a piece of paper and drops it into a hat, without telling anyone else what the act is. The acts can be individual acts, something that has to be done with a partner, or someone else in the group – you can let your imagination run wild on this one.

The best part about this game is that the raciness of the acts can be increased or decreased depending on ground rules that are set at the beginning.

Each of you takes turns to pick a piece of paper and perform the act. If the person who picks the paper doesn’t want to perform the act, they need to down a drink. But at the same time, no person who picks a paper can take a drink twice in a row.

As each paper is used, throw the paper away until there are no papers left in the hat. Replace the papers with new dares and acts that are bolder than the ones used the first time around. [Read: 10 naughty games for long distance relationships]

4. Strip poker

Dirty drinking games and strip poker go together like salt and pepper!

Play the regular game of poker with cards, but instead of dealing with coins or money, use your clothes as currency for the game. If someone doesn’t want to strip a piece of clothing, their partner can take off their own piece of clothing as compensation on their behalf.

If you’re not sure about the rules of poker, play any card game you know and use the same rules. But each time someone takes a piece of clothing off, everyone else has to have a drink. [Read: 15 real life tips to look a lot better naked]

5. Suck and blow

Everyone stands around in a circle, alternating between a guy and a girl. One person places a regular playing card flat on their lips and inhales air through the mouth to hold on to the card without using any hands.

The objective is to pass the card on to the adjacent person’s lips without dropping the card at any point of time.

To successfully pass the card, one person has to suck the card by inhaling air while the other person has to blow on the card while passing it on. If the card drops, both people involved have to take a drink. [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it]

6. Blindfolded body touch

This is a dirty drinking game that can be a lot of fun and feel sexy too. A guy is blindfolded first. The girls stand in a line in front of him. A body part is chosen randomly by other guys, and the guy has to feel the particular body part and recognize his own partner or a particular girl by touch.

Once the guys are done, the girls repeat the same game. Each time a person guesses wrong, they have to down a glass.

Another variation of this game is for the blindfolded person to guess which body part they’re touching just by feeling a small part of someone’s body with their finger. [Read: How to get a girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]

7. Truth or dare

This is a dirty drinking game because there are no restrictions on the questions or dares that each person asks. Each person takes a turn at truth or dare, and every time someone performs a dare, all the other players must drink. [Read: 30 dirty truth or dare questions for a sexy night]

8. Flip, sip, or strip

Everyone takes a turn to flip a coin. Call heads or tails after you toss the coin, and if you get it right, you do nothing. Get it wrong once, and you have to down a shot.

If you get it wrong twice in a row, you have to take off an article of clothing. Get it right three times in a row when it comes to your turn, and you can retrieve a piece of clothing you had to take off previously.

9. Spin the bottle

This is a classic game everyone plays with friends or with other couples. But a few drinks can make this game a lot sexier and funnier.

Everyone sits in a circle, alternating between guys and girls. In a clockwise direction, each player takes turns spinning the bottle, and when the bottle stops spinning, they have to kiss the person the bottle is pointing to. If it’s someone you can’t kiss, you can kiss the person to the right of them. [Read: How to kiss a friend and the subtle ways to get them to want to do it]

Additionally, both the people involved have to drink a shot with each spin. Instead of kissing, you can also change the rules to dares or a few naughtier acts.

10. Watching a movie

This can be a lot of fun while watching a movie that’s pretty predictable, be it an epic movie, a comedy, or a porn flick. Each time a character says a particular word or does something unique, that will prompt each player to drink a shot.

The last person to take a sip or finish the glass has to perform a dare or take off a piece of clothing. [Read: Movies with a lot of sex – 29 movies to get you in the mood]

11. Go fish

If you’re looking for a drinking game you can play with cards, you can try this one. We’re sure you’ve heard of this card game before. It’s really simple, and most of us have played it since we were little kids. But now we’re going to turn it into a sexy drinking game.

You just need cards, some beer or equivalent, and some liquor. Sit around a table and apply the same rules with the game beginning with the dealer shuffling the deck and giving 5 to 7 cards to each player, and then you all begin the game by placing the cards out face down on a table to create the “fishing pond.” The difference, however, is whenever the other person gets a pair, you take a drink from your beer. Whoever has the most matches at the end wins, and the loser has to take a shot! [Read: Game time – 40 saucy truth or dare ideas for a really fun night]

12. Two truths, one lie

This is another game that can be played without alcohol, but drinking just makes it so much more fun. You’ve probably played this at work or school when getting to know someone.

In order to make this a sexy drinking game, all you have to go is give your date two truths and one lie about you. If they guess the lie correctly, you drink. If they guess it incorrectly, they drink. If you want to spice it up, you can remove clothing when you answer incorrectly too. [Read: 19 foreplay sex games for couples to get naughty and horny in minutes]

13. 1-2-3 tag

Now, this game can be a little tricky with someone you’re not too familiar with, but it’s still good fun!

You ask each other the same question and then on the count of three, you answer it and see if your date can guess your answer correctly. For example, one question would be, “What is my favorite song?” and on the count of 3, you answer what your favorite song is and your date tries to answer what your favorite song is.

Then you repeat the question for them and go through a list. You’ll learn a lot about them and get buzzed in the process! For every incorrect answer, you take a shot, and the questions can be as sexy as you want them to be! [Read: 10 dirty drinking games for naughty boys and girls]

14. Quarters

This game is really simple and can be done while watching a movie at home or even waiting for the pizza to arrive for a movie night. All you need to have is two cups and a quarter. Then you take turns bouncing the quarter into your date’s cup.

If you make it, they have to drink their whole drink and vice versa. Of course, you can up the ante and introduce clothing removal too.

15. Uno

Another game with cards, Uno is pretty much a staple card game in most homes. It’s really fun and easy to play, and it’s even one of the great drinking games for a night with friends or a lover. Although this is usually played with more people, you can play it with just two and have a ton of fun.

The rules are simple. All you have to do is play the game normally by shuffling the deck and giving each player seven cards, to begin with. The aim of the game is for a person to get rid of all their cards but one – then that person has to say, “Uno!” The player picks one card from the top of the deck if they don’t have a card on hand that they can use. If a wild card from the deck emerges, both people drink. And if a “draw 2” or “draw 4” card is put down, the person it’s meant for drinks. Loser takes a shot at the end! [Read: 60 get-to-know-you questions for a new romance]

16. Scrabble with a twist

If you’re a words person and you want to have a good time playing Scrabble, you can turn this game into a drinking game easily. You can also make it a dirty drinking game with the words you choose!

For this, instead of putting down words for points, you try your best to come up with words that are related to drinking or sex. For example, you try to come up with words like, “drink,” “alcohol,” or “bar,” etc. If you manage to make a word related to drinking or sex, the others drink.

You could even throw in dares related to the words you come up with. It depends how dirty you want it to get! [Read: 10 fun sex games to play with your boyfriend in bed]

17. Beer pong

Beer pong is played on a table–preferably a ping-pong table to maintain authenticity–where glasses filled with beer are arranged in a certain pattern on both sides of the two teams. The goal is to shoot a ping pong ball into an opponent’s glass. If you score, your opponent has to take a shot from the glass that the ball was in. The first team to shoot the ping pong ball into all the opponent’s glasses wins.

You have to drink it as it is, germs and all. For couples, do this at home and add a little spice by doing a dare or asking a personal question when someone scores.

18. The porn movie game

Here’s a kinky, albeit strange, drinking game to try with your lover.

You and your partner watch a porn video and take a shot whenever an actor mentions a body part or says the f-word. The likelihood is that you won’t make it through the movie before disappearing to the bedroom, but you can try! [Read: Porn for couples: why it might just save your relationship]

19. Straight face

This fun game is played by writing different sentences on pieces of paper. You each write something extremely outrageous on the paper. Whoever picks it out from the bunch will have to read it out loud.

The goal is to keep a straight face. If any of you react in any way, be it a laugh, a yelp, or a groan, the person must take a shot. [Read: The best dirty, sexy texting games to get naughty with one text]

20. Drunken artists

Drunken artists is played using anything that can be drawn on and something to draw with. Use a whiteboard, a piece of paper, or your partner’s body. Whatever it is, make sure everyone sees it clearly.

The game starts normally, by guessing whatever it is the person is drawing. The artist draws something as quickly as possible. Why? Because the artist has to take a shot every twenty seconds until the other person guesses the drawing correctly.

Of course, players may try to cheat and play dumb so you drink more than they do. When that happens, you both take a shot after the drawing is finished, and you take your revenge on the next turn. [Read: 10 dirty drinking games for naughty guys and girls]

21. I’m going to the bar game

This is a drinking version of the popular game, “I’m Going on a Picnic.” The game starts when you utter the phrase, “I’m going to the bar to get…” Another person has to complete the line – let’s say they pick “a shot of tequila.”

Yet another person follows with the same line, but they’re going to add another drink to the list. For example, “I’m going to the bar to get a shot of tequila and a gin and tonic.”

This goes on and on until someone makes a mistake or repeats a drink. That person has to take a shot. By the time you get to the tenth drink, you’ll probably be too drunk to continue. To add some spice, you can add sexy dares along with drinks. [Read: 40 sexy and dirty ‘would you rather’ questions to make anyone horny]

22. True or false storyline

If you’re familiar with Box of Lies, then you’ll probably get how this game works.

You write down various nouns on pieces of paper. When it’s your turn, you tell a story that involves that noun. You either tell a true story or a fake one. The other players guess if it’s true.

If they’re right, you take a shot. If they’re wrong, they take a shot. Again, you can throw in sexy dares. [Read: Game time! 40 saucy truth or dare ideas for a fun night]

23. Drunk relationship history

You start by drinking a whole bottle of liquor and proceed to retell your version of how you met your partner. You should do this together so you drunkenly correct each other during the game.

Go around the room with each couple repeating the same process. If you want to add extra spice, you can recall your first sexual encounter together instead. [Read: 22 things to do on a date that aren’t Netflix and chill]

24. Naked Twister

You’ve no doubt played the regular version of Twister, but the naked version is so much more fun!

You play in the regular way but when you spin and it lands on red, that means you need to discard one piece of your clothing. When you’re doing so, you can only use one hand. Of course, you’ll need help from other players!

If the spinner lands on blue, that means everyone has to take a shot. But if it’s just you and your partner, it’s very unlikely you’ll make it to the end of the game! [Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas worth trying at least once in your lifetime]

25. The Name Game

This one is a pretty simple but challenging and fun game. To begin, the first player will say the name of someone famous, and then the second person has to think of another famous person whose first name starts with the first letter of the previous celebrity’s surname. For instance, if someone says Brendon Urie, then the second player can say, Uma Thurman, then the third player can follow up with Tom Cruise. If one player can’t think of a name, they have to drink while thinking.

26. Thumper

Thumper starts with each of the players choosing a motion for themselves. Once everyone has decided, everyone thumps the table, and one of the players will start by doing their own hand action followed by another player’s hand action.

The player whose hand action was done repeats the pattern by starting with his action first, and then again, somebody else’s. The other players continue thumping while waiting for their gestures to be done. If you get confused or take too long to react, you take a drink.

27. Assholes and Presidents

This game is played by 4 players. To play the game, you’ll need playing cards, your preferred booze, and an “asshole” hat. The cards are ranked from highest to lowest, with the following hierarchy:

– 2 Card 

– Ace 

– King 

– Queen 

– Jack 

– 10 Card 

– 9 Card 

– 8 Card 

– 7 Card 

– 6 Card 

– 5 Card 

– 4 Card 

– 3 Card 

The Jokers must be removed and the remaining cards distributed evenly among the players. When someone throws down a two, it clears the table and resets the deck. Four of any card has also the same power, while the three is a wild card, which means it could be anything but two.

Throwing two cards of three can also burn the deck. The player who has the four of clubs or the three of hearts starts the game by placing that card in the middle. Whoever can produce a card higher than the first card placed in the middle will be the second player.

This goes on and on until each of the players doesn’t have a card higher than the last one anymore. If one of the four players puts all their cards in the middle, they are going to be the president once you move on to the next round.

The last to clear their cards will be the asshole, and they have to wear the titular hat. The second place person will be the vice president.

In the next round, the president has the power to make the asshole drink anytime they want, and they can also trade their worst card with the asshole’s best one. Except for the president, the VP can make any of the players drink at any time.

28. Rhyme or Reason

The players must be seated around a table, and the first one will think of any word that they like, say, “dog.”

The next player takes a turn saying a word that rhymes or refers to the word. So they could say “log” as a rhyme or “bark” as it refers to the dog. The game continues until someone can’t think of one word that rhymes or refers to the last one.

29. Circle of Death

Each player will be given their own drink and then sit around a table. You must choose who among you will be the dealer, and refer to them as the “dealer of death.” The dealer of death will distribute the cards face up.

If any card given to the players matches a card on either side of it in number or suit, that card is considered “active.”

Players with an active card will have to drink the number of seconds corresponding to the value of their active card. Say, a two card means they will drink for two seconds.

The dealer of death is also the one who will count out loud the seconds as the cards go around. You’re also free to go by sips if you decide to. Two sips for a two, four sips for a four. The round ends once all the cards are pulled and drank out.

Rules to remember while playing sexy drinking games

There may be very few rules while actually playing the game, but to ensure that there’s no awkwardness about the games later, make sure you set rules together before playing any games or getting drunk.

Here are a few guidelines to get you started on your sexy drinking games.

1. Don’t get carried away while playing these drinking games just because you see a flash of skin. [Read: Real life public flashing confessions]

2. No touching when someone’s undressed *by anyone other than their partner*. This is a good rule to have because it can prevent uncomfortable situations.

3. Set boundary rules before the game starts. Make it clear about what’s acceptable and what’s not before getting drunk. Even if one person gets carried away, the others will be aware of the situation.

4. Use small measures of alcohol. Use just enough to shed your inhibitions, but not enough to make someone pass out.

5. Don’t drink on an empty stomach. Eat something constantly in between the drinks, and drink a lot of water too. It’ll keep you active longer and prevent a mad hangover in the morning. [Read: 12 simple, effective ways to cure that pesky hangover]

6. Know when to stop. Don’t try to impress each other with your drinking skills. There is such a thing as alcohol poisoning. Please DRINK MODERATELY.

Which party drinking game will you try first?

To have a great time while getting drunk with other couples or with friends, mix in these naughty drinking games now and then. Don’t stretch out the same game for so long that the novelty wears off and some of you start yawning.

Keep it fresh, keep it exciting, and avoid doing anything that you or your partner would regret.

[Read: The untold sex secrets you really need to know]

Use these dirty drinking games with your partner, or with your friends. It’ll definitely make you feel sexually alive, and rekindle some fiery passion in the bedroom too.

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