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How to Have Sex with a Friend

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When you’re pals with a real hottie, it’s hard not to think about how to have sex with a friend. So for all you pervy naughty ones out there who want to have sex with a friend, here’s your baby step into the world of sex buddies.

Seriously, who hasn’t met a friend who’s sexy and all that?

And how many of us haven’t wondered how to have sex with a friend?

It feels so good to be bad. It feels even better to cross that boundary and play dirty, doesn’t it?

Life in the fast lane couldn’t get any faster in these days of fast love and raging hormones.

It’s hard to get over the blues of being single especially when everyone around is either madly in love, or physically in love.

If lovers can do it, why not friends? After all, friends do share everything lovers share, other than physical intimacy, right?

Sex with a friend

You can turn to a friend to cheer you up, and hang out together to cure those boredom butt pains. As always.

A friend can really help cheer you up in more ways than just a shoulder to cry on. If this friend is of the opposite sex and looks hot, that is.

In these days of sexual relationships and one night stands, friendships too seem to dig in for a stake of lust and carnal desires. Sex, to be precise. A hug between two friends can lead to heavy petting and a drink can show you the direction to your friend’s bedroom, with a finale of lustful lovemaking. [Read: How to accidentally kiss a friend]

Why have sex with a friend?

If your friend is charming or really good looking, what are the odds that you are not going to want to have sex with a friend? Oh yeah, I seem to have forgotten the ‘fact’ that friends are out of bounds. Is that what you’re trying to say? You know what, take that phony excuse and stick it up your rear end!

Now don’t tell me that you’ve never wondered about how to have sex with a friend or fantasized about a sizzling friend as a hot lay, or hoped for a drunken snog at least once. [Read: Signs you’re both ready to be more than friends]

Having sex with a friend – A sex buddy

A sex buddy is someone you know as a friend, and is physically attractive and physically attracted to you. It doesn’t end there though, a sex buddy is one who shares uninhibited physical intimacy with you, with no strings attached! If this is news to you, take those goody goody glasses off your face and take a good look at the pair gyrating in the club, and try keeping a count on the number of partners that are being swapped in a night, at least on the dance floor!

Sex buddies have always existed over the years but until a few years ago, it was an immoral and hushed affair. Friends have always had sex with friends, but it’s not really something people readily talk about in the open.

But recently, with the boom in 24/7 calls from work and work shifts at hours that run late into the night, the prospect of friends just hoping to have sex with a friend or friends just rubbing the shoulders is passé! These days, it’s not taboo or unusual to have sex with a friend, after work or a party. If one night stands can be morally legal amongst us, why not having sex with a friend? Anyways, they’re here to stay, whether you like it or not.

Phone calls and sex with a friend

A booty call is that ‘special’ call that is made with the sole intention of having sex, with the person being contacted. And this person is usually a single attractive friend of the opposite sex, who is bored, and craving for some sort of fun to wind a boring day. Or perhaps, they too just want to have sex with a friend. A booty call is usually made at night, or after consuming alcohol. [Read: How to text flirt and have sex with a friend]

A booty call might be the telephonic version of a one night stand, but it’s a lot better in more ways than one. Here, you don’t have to worry about waking up in bed with an ugly slob as you already know what your hot friend looks like, and the chances of getting an STD is relatively less, though it cannot be eliminated.

Now that you’re all warmed up with the lingo, it’s time to ask yourself if you want to have sex with a friend. And if you do want that, it’s time to take the next baby step into the land of sex buddies.

If you’re wondering how to have sex with a friend and ready to do the deed, click here to continue reading about how to become a fuck buddy.

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28 thoughts on “How to Have Sex with a Friend”

  1. ellis sande says:

    One evening i will come 2 ur room
    lock the door, turn off the lights, join u in bed
    Ill come closer 2 u, my lips near ur face
    And Ill shout, Have a gr8 night!!!

  2. Wisely Robert says:

    In fact if I could just come closer to you…….

  3. Sarah says:

    @ellis sande LOL. That’s funny. Am thinking of texting this to him. Texted… and had a good laugh.

  4. Harry says:

    Sometimes, you can’t help but get sexually attracted to a friend. It happens to all of us. But almost all the time, it’s not easy to come up with a perfect way to do something about it. After all, one wrong move, and it’s all over. And just like me, most people just bottle up their feelings and infatuations and meekly play along the part of the friend.

    The easy ways you guys have mentioned here is so simple, and yet the most effective way I could think of. It makes the whole seduction game feel so much more than a one sided effort. By texting a friend and actually building the flirting up discreetly, it makes everything so easy. If the friend’s interested, it’s great news. And even if the friend isn’t interested, you lose nothing because it’ll just seem so innocent anyways.

    This is seriously some great advice. It’s so perfect, only an idiot would lose out even after using this guide!

  5. Mitsy says:

    So.. I was in a situation where I was not long out of a long term relationship that had been followed by two short term relationships, so I called my friend one night, as she had also just broken up with her long term boyfriend, so we could have a little bitch about men, e.t.c :L She decided to bring round a bottle of wine and we drank it quickly until we were both comfortably tipsy. The thing is she’s someone that I’ve felt a sexual attraction to pretty much as long as I’ve known that I liked girls and when we were on holiday with two other friends we shared a room and used to drunkenly make out all the time. So, anyway, after we finished the wine I plucked uo the courage to come onto her (she didn’t stop me) and we ended up having sex… something I’d wanted for a while. We were gonna be f**** buddies too, but then things happened with a friend of mine who I had had a crush on and who liked me to the next week (we kissed) I got into a relationship with him and had to break this of with her. Now I have to be so careful when I’m with her and we never allow ourselves to be alone with each other. So unless you want something serious then having sex with a friend can lead to a lot of awkwardness :S

  6. James says:

    Yeah, so you get to have sex with your friend after fixating on just that… and next thing you know, you either don’t love them as much as the sex, or they are hooked… and you aren’t. Either way, say goodbye to your friendship, it’ll never be the same.

    Lesson? Don’t fixate on sex. Crikey. Since when did it become the be all and end all? There is a real problem in society today where people can’t deal with someone of the opposite sex without thinking of SEX.

  7. Niki says:

    Dont do it, one or both will end up hurt and u can kiss goodbye to ur friendship

  8. Mike says:

    I am 37 and my friends mother is my FWB. We known each other for about 10 years. She is 55 and been divorced from my buddies father for like 15 years. I am also divorced and no way want a girlfriend or anything like that. We make a date to have sex. We go to dinner and end up at my place. Followed by getting some Bob Eveans the next morning. It is a perfect relationship right now. I don’t have to wear a condom and her tubes are tied, She is also the first black woman that I have slept with and it is a whole new everything to me. My buddy is ok with this and I like to tease him about me screwing his mother.

  9. vi says:

    why would sleeping with your friend lower your chances of getting an STD…? People are not less likely to have STDs just because you know them.

  10. z says:

    i dream to swing with my close friend,but i dare not say to him

  11. broken HR says:

    i find the article funny and “TRUE”. im a human resource officer in our own family business. i’ve met a few friends of the opposite sex. well, having a fuck buddy is not that bad. i have a drinking buddy who treats me real well since im his boss. then one night when we are all out and preparing fr a trip the following day, we got drnk and others have to go home. then i was left in my own place when he came back, lay down the bed beside me and the next thing? we were having sex. weeks after, we planned to go out one night for a drinking session. then just planned of going back to my place and have a beer. the next thing, he turned off the light and lay down beside me. we just said “goodnight” to each other and kisses follow and ends upwith sex. we woke up the next morning and worked again. honestly, i nnever thought having sex with a friend would be this fun. and after reading the article, i realized that a fuck buddy happens when both parties are physically attracted to each other. sounds cool to me.. =)

    i will share another post if the there would be another drinking session with that friend of mine.. hihihihihi..

  12. pretty says:

    I got a friend we really close i wish i can jst hv sex with him bt i nver dea 2 say a single word nt tht he will refuse bt some we hv 2 hold our feeling 2 sacrifice 4 more valuabe things

  13. Samuel Thuranira says:

    This is a great article. Am looking forward to try to have sex with another hot friend of mine. she is very hot!

  14. D says:

    I have a fuck buddy and I can honestly say it is not as bad as I thought to have one. We first me at work and he would always look me up and down so I started getting curious. Then one day he asked me for my number and I made it extremely hard for him to get it until the end of our shift when I finaly gave it to him. A few weeks passed and we would ocasionaly txt. Then one day we ironically quit that job on the same day.we did not talk about quiting to eachother or anything. So that day we decided to meet up at his house and talk about things…wich you can guess led to sex. It was probably the best I have ever had and glad I took the chance. To this day we still meet up mostly at hotels since there is more privacy and every time we do I feel as if there is a special connection even though I know there could never be something due to the fact that we are both in relationships.i would love to be more than fuck buddies but can not see myself leaving my current boyfriend. I guess fuck buddies are called fuck buddies for a reason.

  15. askdao says:

    soo you’re both pathetic cheaters?you deserve eachother 🙂

  16. loledwinlol says:

    Ok so how do I get her to want to be fwb… Like she’s a cute girl who tells me everything and I tell her most stuff… But I would love to have sex with her…. Give me some tips on how I can initiate, work my way up to that, or tell me about how you accomplished it thx.

  17. seraph says:

    hey guys this is ridiculous but what if a fuck body starts turning into something else. like i have a bunch of very cute girls as friends but i will not dare make a move. this side is the coolest on the solving that problem

  18. FrenchKiss1123 says:

    I have super hot guy friend and I called him over and I know he likes me but I was depressed and he came shirtless and we had a super sweet make out session and now I want more

  19. Dylan says:

    this is so stupidly written

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