MMF Threesome: 30 Best Positions, Must-Knows & Tips to a Devil's Threeway

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Thinking about an MMF threesome? These wild positions, essential tips, and safety rules will guide your first Devil’s Threeway from fantasy to reality.

The most pleasurable MMF threesome sex positions

Points to know about the devil’s threeway

The most important rules and tips for MMF threesome pleasure

MMF Threesomes in 2025: New Trends and Real Talk

Giving the MMF threesome a try

Thinking about an MMF threesome? These wild positions, essential tips, and safety rules will guide your first Devil’s Threeway from fantasy to reality.

So you’re curious about an MMF threesome, aka the Devil’s Threeway, and want to know exactly how it works, how to pull it off, and what positions will make it unforgettable? You’re in the right place.

In this complete guide, we’ll break down the best MMF threesome positions, step-by-step tips to keep it hot and drama-free, and essential safety advice backed by relationship psychology and expert insights.

Whether it’s your first time or you’re just refining the fantasy, here’s your ultimate MMF playbook, from the hottest moves to the biggest mistakes to avoid.

[Read: 21 must-know ways to ask someone for a threesome and join you in bed]

Studies show that MMF threesomes are one of the most common sexual fantasies, but they also come with unique emotional and physical dynamics to consider. 📚 Source: Ryan Scoats, 2018, Women’s experiences and expectations of MMF threesomes

What you’ll get from this MMF threesome guide:

The hottest, practical MMF threesome positions
Rules to keep things safe, consensual, and drama-free
Tips for newbies, curious couples, and bi-friendly guys
What to expect emotionally, before and after the threesome
Red flags and when to say no

[Read: 57 Signs & Rules to Have a Threesome & the Best Three Way Tips & Positions]

The most pleasurable MMF threesome sex positions

We’ll share all the rules and expectations you need to follow below, but first, you need to know some of the MMF threesome sex positions you can use to ensure every involved has a great time in bed.

1. Mutual masturbation

For this position, just get into any position that feels comfortable to you. You can do it on the bed, the couch, or in the shower. Touch yourselves and each other.

As things get steamy, then move on to other positions. Mutual masturbation not only allows everyone to feel great all together, but it’s also a great way to show others how you like to be touched.

2. BJ switch

Have the male partners stand in front of the female, and then kneel down and switch off performing a blowjob on each of them.

While she’s giving the blowjob to one, she can reach over and use her hand on the other one. This is a great position if the woman loves giving oral. It also allows her to be the center of attention. [Read: 66 Blowjob Techniques, Positions & Tips to Give Good Head & Make Him Gasp!]

3. Doggy blowjob

For this position, you start by having sex doggy style with one person and have the other one lie on their back in front of the woman. The woman gets between their legs, get down to her elbows, and performs oral sex at the same time.

4. The spit roast

If you’re a guy doing your first devil’s threeway, and you’d very much rather be far away from the other guy as much as possible, then the spit roast is the go-to position for you. As the name implies, this position looks like your fourth of July hog roast.

In this position, the girl goes on all fours while one guy takes her from behind, and the other guy positions himself in front of the girl to receive oral. [Read: How to please a man with your mouth]

5. Reverse high five

This is a different version of the high five. For this one, have the woman lie on her back with her legs apart. Then, the men should get into a doggy-style position. The person in front gives her oral sex.

If you want to have anal sex, then this is a good position to try. It’s also good if you enjoy oral more than penetration. [Read: How to Have Anal Sex & 51 Bum Must-Knows to Prepare for Your First Time]

6. Circle

This sex position requires bisexual or bi-curious male participants.

For the circle, all three of you should perform oral sex on each other while lying on your sides. Try to put your bodies in a circle by resting your head on each other’s inner thighs. When you do this position, you can share the experience of both giving and receiving. [Read: Unicorn dating – How to find a sexual third partner and do it right]

It’s also a good thing to do if you need to take a break from more complicated or tiring positions.

7. Face f*ck

The woman should lie on her back with her knees bent and her head resting on a pillow. One of the men can go down on her while the other one straddles her chest so she can give him a blowjob.

This one keeps the three of you close together and gives everyone a good view if they want it. [Read: How to Eat a Girl Out: 81 Oral Sex Tips to Eat Pussy & Tongue Her to Bliss]

8. Double stuff

This position involves double penetration. To get yourselves into the right position, one person should lie on their back at the end of a bed. Their legs should also be hanging over the edge.

Then, the woman should climb on top of them and ride them cowgirl style. The third person stands or kneels behind her to penetrate as well. You might need to adjust to get the angles right, but it’s something that provides a lot of stimulation.

9. Twisty threeway

The woman should lie on the bed and have her legs hanging off the edge. One man will stand between her legs and enter her while the other man straddles her, facing the standing man, to play with the woman’s clit. For this position, the woman gets all of the attention.

10. 69 with an anal bonus

In this position, one guy and the girl adopt the 69 position with the girl on top. Guy number two then positions himself behind the girl and goes in for some anal sex.

This one is hard overall but extra hard for the guy below, who is at risk of washing his face with the combined sex juice coming from above.

11. Female sandwich

Another double penetration position where all three lie on their sides on the bed.

One guy spoons the girl from behind and gives her anal sex while the other guy faces her and penetrates her vaginally. The relaxed position allows the two guys’ free hands to pleasure the girl in other ways. [Read: Does Anal Sex Hurt? 31 Secrets to Make Anal Sex Less Painful & More Fun]

12. The right angle

One guy lies on his back as the girl has vaginal or anal sex with him in reverse cowgirl fashion. The other guy stands in front of the girl to receive oral sex from her.

13. Double intruder

One guy lies on his back, and the girl has anal sex with him using a reverse cowgirl position while she receives guy number two, who penetrates her in a missionary position. To make this work, the girl leans back and supports her weight with her arms planted near the first guy’s sides.

This one is very difficult, and there is a risk of penis injury for the guy lying on his back if the girl loses her balance. [Confession: My first threesome – An accidental threesome experience]

14. The tower

In this very kinky position, the guy carries the girl in a standing position as he penetrates her vaginally while guy number two closes in from behind and penetrates her anally. Both guys can take turns carrying the girl’s weight as they bob her up and down onto their penises. [Read: How to be good at sex: 17 moves to become the hottest lay]

15. The flat line

One guy lies on his back while the girl sits down on his face to receive oral from him while she blows guy number two, who is also lying down. [Read: The threesome invite: How to make the amazing happen]

16. The Lazy Daisy (For maximum comfort & long sessions)

If you’re going for a marathon, not a sprint, this low-effort position helps everyone stay engaged without getting winded. Have the woman lie flat on her back on the bed while one man lies beside her, kissing her, playing with her nipples, or whispering in her ear. The other man kneels between her legs and enters her slowly.

This position allows breaks, eye contact, and more intimate connection, ideal if one of the guys is newer to group sex and needs time to ease in. Positions that allow physical closeness without constant motion reduce anxiety and help build emotional comfort, especially for first-timers.

17. The Power Pyramid (For a dominant/submissive fantasy setup)

This setup lets one person (usually the woman) fully embrace being the “queen bee” of the trio. She sits in a chair or leans against a wall, and the two men kneel on either side, one giving oral, the other fingering or using toys.

This setup plays into kink dynamics without full BDSM, one receiver, two attentive givers. Perfect for power play and sensual teasing.

18. The Tag Team Tease (For first-timers or soft swap dynamics)

Instead of all three engaging at once, try staggered interaction. One man receives oral or gives penetration while the other massages, kisses, or teases from the side, then they switch. It’s a relay that helps everyone stay stimulated without feeling overwhelmed or left out. [Read: Soft Swap: How to Warm Your Partner Up to Give Swapping Partners a Try]

19. The Human Slide (Erotic massage + warmup hybrid)

Start the threesome with full-body contact rather than immediate penetration. Have the woman lie on her stomach while both men slowly run their bodies over hers from opposite ends, kissing, massaging, and letting the tension build.

This isn’t a position for penetration, it’s a slow, sensual warm-up that builds chemistry and removes awkwardness, and the best part, touch-based warmups increase oxytocin and help participants feel emotionally safer.

20. The Bi Bridge (For bi-curious men or fully queer-friendly threesomes)

Have one man on his knees performing oral on the other, while the woman either straddles the one giving oral or kisses him from behind. This creates a triangle of intimacy where every person is engaging, including male-male interaction.

This kind of position is still underrepresented in mainstream threesome guides, but it’s increasingly relevant as more MMF threesomes include bi-curious or pansexual men.

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Points to know about the devil’s threeway

The devil’s threeway, or the MMF threesome, involves two males and one female. From this, we deduce two points. First, that’s one lucky girl. Second, two guys make it complicated. Here’s why:

1. Threesomes, in general, require multi-tasking skills

The first rule of any threesome is everybody should be happy in the end, meaning that everybody should have an equal share of sexual pleasure from the threesome. No one should be left behind to do all the work or, worse, ignored.

All participating partners should be capable of making hands and orifices work at the same time, in a manner of speaking. [Read: Threesome tips – 20 things to know before entering one]

2. The MMF threesome appeals to ‘sexually explorative’ males

If you are a guy who takes issue with physical contact with another naked male, then a Devil’s threeway may not be for you.

Even if you are two hot-blooded straight males who swore to ignore each other during the threesome, you’ll still end up brushing on each other’s skin at some point. While it isn’t a requirement, MMF threesomes prefer bi-curious males to make it more enjoyable.

3. There is a requirement for female ‘overtime’ work

Initially, the devil’s three-way is thought to be a win-win situation for ladies who just lie down and let the men do all the work. Well, you thought wrong.

After the boys have done their chores, they expect to be rewarded handsomely. As you would expect, a devil’s threeway would require the lone female to do more work, and she must expect to have both her hands and “other” parts full. [Read: MFF threesome: 20 dos and don’ts you shouldn’t ignore]

The most important rules and tips for MMF threesome pleasure

The MMF threesome may be inviting, but in reality, it also requires a lot of work and preparation. It also comes with a risk. There are a lot of ways for a devil’s three-way to go wrong. It could ruin not only a night of supposedly hot sex but also the relationship *if one is involved*.

That’s why it is best to keep these set of rules and tips in mind prior to an MMF threesome:

1. Always keep communication open

It’s a fact that threesomes are easy until you find yourself in the exact moment. There will be the question of who does what and what goes where. No matter how experienced you are, there’s a part where you just play it by ear.

Sometimes, your threesome partners may do things that surprise, shock, and put you in an uncomfortable position. When these types of situations arise, don’t be afraid to speak up about them.

Communicate everything – if it feels good, uncomfortable, or if you want to do something “creative.” [Read: How to have great sex with your lover]

2. Make sure everybody gets due attention

The most common risk encountered during MMF is when someone gets left behind during the action, which is, you know, quite understandable given the odd number.

However, the trio must always consider that all feel good and involved during the devil’s threeway.

3. Protection

A must-have, especially if you’re all strangers with no idea of each other’s previous sexual activities. It is wise to bring proper protection. [Read: The dangers of unprotected that most people don’t even think about]

4. Communicate expectations and rules

It’s important to talk about the rules and expectations prior to the threesome. Simply, there will be members of the MMF threesome who want expectations and limits.

To make the threesome work, it should be communicated to all parties so that they know when to step on the brakes in case things stray from their comfortable zone during the moment.

Rules and boundaries also help a lot in case the threesome involves a couple in a relationship. [Read: Tinder threesome – How to write a couples bio and meet the perfect third]

According to a 2024 review of nonmonogamous sexual experiences, clear communication and consent boundaries are the most important predictors of satisfaction and emotional safety in threesomes. 📚 Source: Motivations and Outcomes of Consensual Threesomes, Pandey et al., 2025

5. Choose your partners wisely

Take a lot of time in choosing your partners. Most often, people choose partners based on their level of attractiveness or openness to an MMF threesome. While all are fine criteria to determine partners, there are other points to consider in choosing your other partners.

1. For couples: Don’t pick someone to play a “third wheel”

The usual MMF set-up is a couple looking for a third male partner to complete the trio. However, consider that the guy is a human being too.

As mentioned, singles looking for couples to play with also want to feel loved and involved. Don’t treat the other guy like a third wheel just in there to work for your fantasies. Make him feel part of the threesome, not just room meat. [Read: Third wheel – 32 perks, annoyances & the guide to surviving being one]

2. For couples who are after a third wheel, try swinger clubs

If you’re a couple really after a third wheel eager to play the part, you can find eager ones guilt-free at swinger clubs and similar meet-ups.

Not only do they flock to those events, making your life easier, but you’ll also be sure to find someone already experienced to fulfill your MMF threesome fantasies. [Read: How to make the swinging style work for you]

3. For single first-timers – pick others who are equally single and inexperienced

It will be very exciting if everyone’s on an even playing field. If all three are single and inexperienced in trying their first threesome, there will be much groping around, in a manner of speaking.

4. For single females – take caution when finding partners

Especially two guys who know each other. Let’s play the devil’s advocate and say that the setup is not always safe and has a margin of possibility for sexual assault.

Of course, the possibility is rare, but it’s still there and needs to be safeguarded against. [Read: How to have safe sex in every single way it is possible to]

6. Threesome with a friend?

While some would not agree to invite a close friend into a devil’s threeway because it’s embarrassing to ask, you might be in for a treat. They could be more into it than you would think.

Even if they don’t admit it, friends *especially guy friends* have considered a threesome with female friends at one point. All it takes is a little bit of coaxing. [Read: What do guys think of all their female friends? 17 honest secrets revealed]

7. Know the MMF positions

Get acquainted with sex positions suited for MMF threesomes. Of course, the other problem of devil threeways is who goes where. Sexual positions are a bit limited compared to couples-only sex.

Be familiar with the varieties, if not all of them, so that you have a backup plan in case your third partner is not physically suited to the one you have in mind. [Read: The 24 best threesome positions for all combos of men and women]

8. Use toys

Toys are a welcome addition to the threesome. First, it is a quick remedy to the “third wheel” problem. If one fails to find a hole to park into at some point, they have toys to play with while the other two bring him into the fold.

Toys also make the devil’s threeway interesting since there will be a lot of hands to be made busy.

9. Don’t get too drunk

If you’ve read first-time threesome stories online, most of them happened because of alcohol. But there’s a rule to letting alcohol join your threesome: drink until you’re all agreeable to a threesome, but not until you’re sloppy. [Confession: My accidental, first-time threesome story]

10. For guys: keep your homophobia in check

It’s an MMF, man. Two guys. When the action starts, you’ll get to a part where you brush thighs and other parts together. If you interrupt the act every time to shuffle away from the other guy, maybe an MMF threesome is not for you.

MMF threesomes do not really require bi-curious men, but those who aren’t squeamish in rubbing parts with the other male partner. [Read: The soft swap – How to ease your partner into testing the waters]

11. Check in a lot

Try to check in with your threesome buddies after the act. Just to make sure that everyone is okay and cared for during the act. A short call to check in is well-appreciated by your threesome partners.

12. You can take a break or bail on it

It’s okay for you to take a break or bail out during the middle of the threesome. If things don’t go according to your expectations or if it’s too much for you, it’s perfectly fine to bail out of the threesome.

Ask to take a break and then voice your concern. They will not and should not hold it against you. [Read: Meaning of safe words and how to use them when you’re playing rough]

We can all agree a threesome can be exciting, and the MMF threesome is a particular treat for all those involved. For one, the girl is pleasured with a serving of four caressing hands and an extra sausage. As for the two guys, they get themselves a good taste of real-life, interactive porn – one they both watch and participate in.

When it’s time to get down to business, there will always be the problem of “who and what goes where.” While we have a wealth of sexual positions for couples, pulling off a smooth threesome sex position where all parties are comfortable can be a bit tricky and cannot be simplified to a game of “Human Sex Tetris” where you just fit people into nooks.

So if you’re ready to have an MMF threesome or have fantasized about one, remember these positions and tips, and go ahead and give it a try!

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MMF Threesomes in 2025: New Trends and Real Talk

While MMF threesomes have always been a fantasy, more people now are exploring them through ethical nonmonogamy, apps, or swinger communities, not just late-night experiments. There’s also a growing focus on emotional safety, STI prevention, and inclusivity for queer and bi-curious partners.

The vibe is less “college dare” and more “consensual adventure.”

So if you’re curious, know this: it’s not taboo. It’s just about knowing your boundaries, respecting others, and making sure everyone’s on the same page, and the same page often leads to the same bed. [Read: How to Be Kinky: 42 Steamy Tips to Explore Sex Outside of Normal]

Giving the MMF threesome a try

Having a threesome, especially an MMF threesome, isn’t just about pulling off some wild sex positions. It’s about chemistry, communication, and making sure everyone leaves the room feeling good physically and emotionally.

If it’s your first time, it might not go exactly how you imagined. Maybe one of you gets shy, someone feels left out, or it all ends in giggles instead of orgasms. That’s okay. Sex isn’t a performance, it’s an experience.

On the flip side, it might be everything you hoped it would be. The key is preparation, consent, and flexibility, and maybe a little lube in the right places. [Read: Sexual Bucket List: 35 Dirty Deeds to Build Your Naughty Wishlist]

So if you’re seriously thinking about having an MMF threesome, take the time to plan, talk, and align with your partners. And when the moment comes, enjoy it fully, no guilt, no pressure, no regrets.

Just remember: fantasies are fun, but the best threesomes are built on mutual respect and real connection.

[Read: Throuple relationship – 27 rules and secrets to a happy romantic trio]

Threesomes, especially the MMF threesome, can be fun when imagining it but a bit complicated to do in real life. Yet, it is a fantasy worth working through!