30 Hot Texts That Will Turn Him On and Leave Him Obscenely Horny

Need some ideas for sexy texts that will turn him on? Look no further—here are 30 ideas that are guaranteed to get him hot under the collar!

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If you just started dating a guy or are in that fun flirty stage, hell, even if you’ve been dating for years and want to give your sex life a boost, a sexy text can be a great way to turn him on and build up that tension. Then when you next see one another you want to tear each other’s clothes off there and then! If you need some ideas for texts that will turn him on, we have 30 hot ideas for you.

People have used sexy texts as a way to ramp up flirting ever since mobile phones had texting. They certainly add some excitement into your sex life. Sexy texts bring you closer together, heighten sexual energy, and even add a different, more intense, intimacy to your relationship than you ever felt before.

30 texts that will turn him on and leave him hard

If you get sexy texting right you can really learn how to drive your man wild with sexual desire! We understand if you’ve never done it before it might feel a little daunting.

If you are not sure how your man will respond or feel a bit ‘silly,’ then don’t worry. Help is at hand! Learn the different techniques you might want to try as well as some examples of sexy texts to copy right off the page and send to your man straight away!

So, whether it’s the love of your life, or just some hunky guy you recently swapped digits with, here are 30 texts that will turn him on!

#1 Start off slow. There is no need to rush in with the dirtiest thing you have ever thought of right away. If you aren’t 100% sure how he’ll respond, then take it slow. Start off with something cute and flirty, a compliment or tell him you are thinking about him.

You have all the time in the world to build up to the more sexual stuff, so better to do it this way then go in too deep and scare him off! [Read: Flirty fingers: How to turn a guy on over text in 10 steps]

#2 Paint a picture. Get creative and use your imagination to paint a picture of how you feel and all the things you want to do with him. Describe sensations, what you’re wearing, how hot it’s going to be later. Appeal to his senses to get him seriously turned on.

#3 Build it up. As the text messages go back and forth build up the tension, get sexier, and more explicit with each text message you send. This way you build up the sexual tension until he finds it almost unbearable and wants to come over right away! [Read: 20 sexy questions to ask a guy and seduce him]

#4 Learn what his responses mean. Judge the mood. If he’s taking a while to reply, or he’s not really acknowledging what you say then it might be he’s just not in the right frame of mind, and that’s okay. He might be busy or stressed about something. Don’t take it as a rejection and don’t push it. Just let him be and try again another time.

#5 Make him beg for it. Really tease him with your text messages. Get him totally horny and make him beg you to tell him what you’re wearing, or what you are doing to yourself. The intensity makes him wild with desire! [Read: 35 texts that will make him hard and crave your sultry touch]

#6 Add some visuals. In this day and age, you don’t just have to use your words when it comes to getting sexy over the phone. If you’re comfortable with it, why not add in a few sexy pictures here and there to really get him going? [Read: How to send sexy nude selfies and not get into trouble]

#7 Time it right. If you start a sexy conversation first thing in the morning on a Monday when you know he has back-to-back business meetings, it might not be the best time. You also might find it hard keeping up a sexy text conversation all day, so start it an hour or so before you see him. That way you keep the momentum going and get down to it as soon as you set eyes on one another.

#8 Don’t over promise and under deliver! If you start a sex conversation and use a few texts that will turn him on to get him in the mood, don’t suddenly get distracted by doing your laundry and leave him hanging. Also, if you’ve talked about all the sexy stuff you are going to do to him, and he comes home to find you eating Cheerios from the packet in sweats, he might be a little disappointed. So, if you’re not in the mood, maybe leave the sexy texting for another day! [HelloGiggles.com: I sexted my S.O. every day for a week and this is what happened]

Now you have the grips with the timing and techniques for sexy texting, here are some examples of the hottest texts that will turn him on, and how you can start a sexy text conversation with your man:

#9 I had a dream about you last night, you weren’t wearing many clothes.

#10 Licking a popsicle and thinking of you… it’s delicious. [Read: 30 hot, sexting examples to start a naughty text marathon]

#11 You. Me. Naked. Now.

#12 Tell me exactly what you are going to do to me later, I want all the details.

#13 Getting so wet thinking of you right now.

#14 Can’t stop thinking about what we did last night, it’s making me want to do it all over again.

#15 Tell me your fantasy, it might just come true later… [Read: 12 arousing sex fantasies to try in real life]

#16 Lying in bed and wishing you were here…

#17 I’ve been very naughty today. How are you going to punish me? [Read: The couple’s guide to erotic spanking]

#18 I feel like something is missing in my life… Oh that’s right, it’s you, naked, on top of me.

#19 I just got out of the shower and can’t seem to find my towel, wanna come over?

#20 Touching myself and thinking of you.

#21 Tell me the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about me. If you tell me yours, I’ll tell you mine. 😉

#22 Just wanted to let you know how hot you are, seriously, I mean, just thinking about you turns me on.

#23 Come over for dinner later. Bring whipped cream for dessert.

#24 I want you so badly right now.

#25 Can’t stop thinking about kissing you… everywhere… [Read: 60 dirty and seductive things to say to a guy and arouse him]

#26 The things I would do to you if you were here right now!

#27 You know that crazy thing we said we’d do one day, I think tonight might be the night!

#28 You’ll never guess what I’m wearing…

#29 Can’t do any work because I’m thinking of your naked body on top of my naked body—it’s very distracting.

#30 I’m going to do some really filthy things to you when you get home from work. Be ready. [Read: 15 sexting messages to send to your boyfriend: Go flirty or go dirty]

So, there you have it. If you are thinking of sending sexy messages to your man, now you know how to do it. If in doubt, start slow and keep things fun and flirty to see how he responds. If you know he’ll love the dirty stuff, then just start in right away with that!

[Read: Sexting ideas: 14 tips to effortlessly sext like a pro]

Sending sexy messages is all about being flirty and giving your sex life a hot boost! Just remember these texts that will turn him on and simply see where it takes you!

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Bethany Locke
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