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So why do women cheat in a relationship? Are women easy to trick or are they just confused? Read these 25 truthful reasons no one ever told you about! By Jake Butler

why do women cheat

Ever wondered why women cheat so easily?

For as long as we could remember, we’ve always thought that men were the bigger cheaters.

But now we know that it’s just a lie.

Why women cheat

Ever had your heart ripped apart by a woman who decided that it was quitting time and bulldozed her way out of your life?

Fret not, you’re not alone.

In reality, women cheat quite often. And we’re not even talking about those drunken kisses and gropes.

[Read: Drunk girlfriends who kiss other guys]

You may know a few reasons behind why women cheat.

Women cheat to fill the emotional void that’s empty after a man neglects her, or perhaps the sexual preferences in the marriage are just too different.

But through my experience, I’ve seen that women cheat for completely different reasons.

And the biggest reason why women cheat?

Well, that’s because they can!

So why do women cheat like there’s no tomorrow?

Looking for real life reasons behind why women cheat? Well, these 25 truthful reasons will reveal the real truth. [Read: The role your ego plays in her affair]

#1 Women get too close to others, too fast. Women build strong emotional connections really fast. It’s easy for them to get close to a guy and confuse the bond with love.

#2 They love any man who can give them emotional support. It’s true. Want to steal a girlfriend, just give her a shoulder to lean on. She’ll give you her bed to sleep on. [Read: How to make a girl with a boyfriend like you]

#3 Women favor the gene pool. They instinctively want to favor the gene pool and play their part for Mother Nature by constantly picking other dating and mating potentials.

#4 Women fall in love fast. They fall in love too fast with just about anyone who shows affection. They try playing hard to get, but almost always end up becoming really easy to get for potential girlfriend stealers.

#5 Women are progressive. They like sprucing men up and working on little man projects now and then. And just when you think you’ve been perfected by your girlfriend, she’ll find another man to perfect.

#6 Women love drama and gossip in their lives. It’s the truth. Women get bored extremely easily and need constant attention and drama in their lives. Once the man settles down in love, the woman starts unsettling. [Read: How to deal with a complicated relationship]

#7 They’re confused about their feelings almost all the time. A girl may love her man generally, but her mood swings ebb and flow like the tides of the sea. She likes her man sometimes, and she bitches about him at other times. Add another man into the equation and it’s a teen sitcom. [Read: How to think like a woman and get the girl]

#8 Women are suckers for affection and compliments. Women fall for compliments and flirty touches really easily. When another guy flirts with your girl, she may think she’s just having fun. But in reality, she’d be falling for him even if he’s just having fun. [Read: The right way to sexually compliment a girl]

#9 It’s ridiculously easy to make a girl doubt her own boyfriend. All another guy has to do is point a few flaws, talk sweet, touch her in a few places, and she’ll start to think her boyfriend’s a loser and the new guy is a sex god who’s in love with her.

#10 Women say they don’t want to stray. But yet all they think about is straying. Every time a guy flirts with a girl, she temporarily forgets she has a boyfriend already!

#11 Women close their eyes while kissing another guy. Yeah, just shut your damn eyes and say it all happened so fast! Women get physical and then say it was a mistake. Men, on the other hand try covering it up by saying it didn’t happen. Women want pity, men forgive them. Men get caught, become a punching bag. [Read: How to kiss a girl by arousing her]

#12 Women always think they’re in a relationship crisis. When a woman’s life’s not crackling with romantic and sexual electricity, they always think their relationship sucks. Women say they don’t like vibrating, entertaining sex toys and dildos, but yet they want men to behave like one.

#13 Women think they’re too good. Almost all women think they’re too good for their boyfriend. With that kind of logic, it’s easy to stray when a “better guy” comes along to play.

#14 Women cheat for the dumbest reasons. Men cheat because they find someone sexy. Women cheat for the dumbest of reasons, to prove a point, to get back at her man, to let him know she’s not getting enough attention, to get something they really want and more dumb reasons.

#15 Women have cravings. That is, chocolates and unavailable traits in men. If her man’s not very clean and tidy, and she meets a coworker who’s a perfectionist when it comes to being clean and tidy, she’ll involuntarily be drawn to that trait. So if a guy wants to lay a girl, all he has to do is show off a trait her boyfriend doesn’t have and she’ll diveboard into his bed.

#16 Women get attracted to any man who makes her feel good. Men usually have affairs only with women who are sexually attractive. So unless the guy is rich or super charming, his odds are slim to have an affair with the girl of his dreams. But women cheat with any loser who knows to treat her better than her boyfriend. [Read: How to get a girl to have sex with you in 10 steps]

#17 She’s a gold digger. There’s no point here. If you’re dating a woman who’s more interested in your money and the fun times you give her than she is in you, you can’t hold on to her unless you strike oil. [Read: Signs she's only using you]

#18 Women cheat when they’re emotionally vulnerable. Men need booze and a sexy girl to cheat. Women just need to feel vulnerable. They’d feel vulnerable for the smallest of reasons and circumstances. And if another guy makes a move at the right time, he’ll be able to sleep with her that very night.

#19 Committed women love getting the attention of other men. And when they don’t get the attention from a guy they like, they try harder to get a second glance. Why do you think girls go weak for bad boys who treat them like crap?

#20 Women don’t learn from their mistakes. Women make moves and mistakes, and they regret it. But they don’t learn. They know when they’re crossing the thin red line with another guy, but they just don’t try to put a stop to the guy because “they like the attention”.

#21 Women cheat when they’re unhappy in bed. Do you have a small weeny? Or are you suffering from impotency or erectile dysfunction? That’s reason enough to cheat on you, don’t you think?

#22 Her man’s charm is wearing off. If a woman isn’t sexually attracted to her man anymore, she’ll definitely dive head first into any other sexually attractive man’s pants. [Read: What do women want in a relationship?]

#23 Women are stereotyped. Most men look at women as cute, walking talking sex toys. Hey, women can only resist temptation so much. If a woman’s constantly being hit on by a million guys everywhere she goes, it’s only a matter of time before she succumbs to temptation, wouldn’t you say? [Read: 20 things about a girl that sexually excite a guy]

#24 Once bitten, never shy. A woman may cheat and get over it after a heartbreaking while. But a few months later, the drama starts all over again. Women just like the constant rush of falling in and out of love all the time.

#25 Do women really ever want to be happy? Really, a woman could be in a perfect long term relationship with a perfect guy. But all she has to do is meet another great guy who knows how to steal a girl and she’ll do his bidding in no time. Perhaps, women think they like being happy when in reality, all they want is to experience bursts of happiness and lots of confusions all the time. [Read: 10 tips to be a good boyfriend]

Well, so why do women cheat so easily? For all these 25 reasons and more. And sometimes, they don’t need a reason at all.

Just ask me, my not-so-steady girlfriend confessed to cheating on me a week ago. She looked into my eyes with her big, beautiful eyes and told me she was sorry and she regretted it. And her reason, well, she doesn’t know why. All she knows is that she’s sorry because she slept with another guy when she’s in love with me.

Seriously, kinda makes me wonder if women need a reason at all!

[Read: Why are women so fickle in love?!]

Have you ever been cheated on by your woman, what’s her reason? Our readers would love to hear a few more reasons. So why do women cheat so easily in your opinion?


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  • GAAAAAH!
    April 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    This was pretty accurate until I read number 14 which I found highly offensive. What, cheating on someone because you find another person sexy is a good reason for cheating? So its okay for men to cheat because they cant help it because they have one good reason, while women have a million bad ones? Well it sounds like that was your not so steady girlfriend’s reason for cheating on you, does it make you feel better then? Oh he was just so sexy I couldn’t resist, that’s all. Cool, add that one as number 26. Ya wanna know why women have so many different reason to cheat, because men are dumb in endless ways. Sorry, I don’t mean to offend but (well actually I obviously do)…anyway, those are all pretty true though, women are a never ending enigma of dark complexities, I’m glad to be one so I don’t need to do one.

  • ROB HELMES
    May 22, 2012 | Permalink |

    I HAVE NOW RETIRED BUT MY EXPERIENCE ABOUT WOMEN CHEATING. I HAVE FOUND THAT WHEN MEN AND WOMEN WORK TOGETHER THAT SOME MEN CONSTANTLY PRAISE A WOMAN FOR HER LOOKS OR STARTS OUT HOW WELL SHE DOES HER JOB, SHE LIKES HEARING THIS. THEN COMPLIMENTS KEEP COMING EVERY DAY TO HER, SHE BUYS HIS CRAP AND THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN SHE IS UPSET WITH HER SPOUSE AND VERY VULNERABLE. HE HEARS OR REALIZES SHE IS PISSED AT HER SPOUSE AND HE IS SO DAM UNDERSTANDING THAT IT WAS ALL HIS FAULT. SHE HE FALLS FOR THIS AND MEETS AFTER WORK AT SOME STORE, SOME TIMES THE GUY GOES TO THE GROCERY STORE OR OTHER PLACE THAT HE KNOWS HE WILL RUN INTO HER. THEN OF COURSE THEY TALK, HE MAY TELL HER OF THE PROBLEMS HE IS HAVING WHICH ARE SOMETIMES MADE UP JUST TO GET HER SYMPATHY. THEN SHE LOOSENS UP AND TELLS HIM LITTLE THINGS. THEN IT KEEPS GROWING IN CLOSE FRIENDS AND IF THE WOMAN IS NOT CAREFUL SHE WILL FIND THAT HE SUCEEDED AND GETS WHAT HE WANTED IN THE START. WOMEN FOR SOME REASON DO NOT THINK ABOUT THAT HE SHOULD BE COMPLIMENTING HIS WIFE AND NOT JUST TRYING TO GET ANOTHER NOTCH IN HIS BELT. ONE FLING LIKE THIS RUINS SO MANY RELATIONSHIPS. WOMEN THEN FIND MORE AND MORE FAULTS WITH THEIR MAN. THIS IS THEIR EXCUSE WHEN IT GOES FURTHER THAN TALK WITH ANOTHER MAN. THE TALKING WAS JUST THAT HE WAS SUCH A NICE GUY AT WORK, UNDERSTANDING , HELPFUL, WHY IS HER HUSBAND NOT LIKE THIS. SHE GET COMFORTABLE WITH HIM AND THEN HE MAKES HIS MOVE. IF SHE REJECTS HIS MOVE HE WILL JUST WANT TO MEET AND TALK SOME WHERE UNTIL SHE WILL MEET HIM IN A MORE PRIVATE SPOT. THEN AGAIN SHE HAS A BAD DAY OR WEEK AT HOME AND HE GETS LUCKY. EITHER WAY SHE BLAMES HER SPOUSE TO COVER WHAT SHE HAS DONE. USUALLY ONCE OR MAY A FEW TIMES AND THEN HE SETS SITES ON SOMEONE ELSE. WOMEN TALKING AT WORK WITH OTHER WOMEN AND HE OVER HEARS OR SOME OTHER WOMAN SAYS THAT SO AND SO IS HAVING PROBLEMS GIVES HIM A PERFECT GOAL TO START HIS MOVE. ONCE DONE IT WILL CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOREVER, EVEN IF SPOUSE NEVER FINDS OUT. A DESCENT WOMAN WILL ALWAYS FEEL GUILTY AND THEN THERE IS A WEDGE BETWEEN HER AND HER HUSBAND.

  • Rain
    June 6, 2012 | Permalink |

    SOME OF IT IS TRUE…BUT….MEN ARE LAZY THEY AMBUSH YOU INTO THINKING THEY ARE SOMETHING THEY ARE NOT, THEN WHEN THEY HAVE YOU IN A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP, THEY TEND TO JUST STOP THE ROMANCE, THE COMPLIMENTS, AND EVERYTHING ELSE THEY DID TO GET Y0U WITH THEIR SORRY ASS IN THE FIRST PLACE…LADIES MEN ARE LIKE CARS …THEY ARE ONLY NEW & EXCITING FOR ABOUT A YEAR OR SO ( IF YOU ARE LUCKY) …THEN YOU MIGHT AS WELL TRADE THEM IN ON A NEW MODEL…THATS WHY I SAY LEASE AND NEVER BUY ;)

  • Mr. Brightside
    July 5, 2012 | Permalink |

    Sounds to me, Rain, that you have had experiences with terrible boyfriends, not all men are like that. Certainly after a while it gets difficult to come up with new and exciting things, but having a creative mind and an understanding partner can make all the difference. When you feel like your boyfriend or even your girlfriend is losing attention, have a conversation with them.

    If you say you didn’t see the cheating coming then you obviously were not paying close enough attention. When your partner’s habits change, it is usually a sign that something significant is happening in their life, it is your job to figure it out if you care about them. If not, then you end up at the cheating crossroad. So while it may not entirely be your fault it is something you could have stopped simply by paying better attention, and not taking her for granted.

  • Beautiful1983
    July 16, 2012 | Permalink |

    I must say that not all men are the same and not all women are the same. We all share common traits, but we possess different characters, personalities, motives, desires, and manifestations.

  • Beautiful1983
    July 16, 2012 | Permalink |

    Even if a man is cheating, it does not guarantee that he is in love with the one he is sleeping with. It could mean that he is looking to get his imagination fulfilled for a moment, but he is liable to come back home. It is good to remind a man that you may not have a child with that if he is not careful, then you are capable and might even pursue doing the same thing that he does behind closed doors and ask him what he thinks about that!

  • WeR4EVER
    September 1, 2012 | Permalink |

    Women who constantly cheat usually have deeply rooted issues with their fathers.
    A man should always find out a woman’s relationship between her n her dad when getting to know her.
    9 times out of 10 if its a rotten relationship between them .. she’s not wifey material.

  • TheTruth
    September 8, 2012 | Permalink |

    I fully accept that not all men and women will fall into these categories. However, there is lots of truth in what is said by the writer. I really enjoyed this piece, and I’m bookmarking it. Well said, and well written

  • are you serious?
    September 25, 2012 | Permalink |

    I was going to say:”This is quite accurate!”but then I read number 14…

    ” Women cheat for the dumbest reasons. Men cheat because they find someone sexy. Women [...] to get back at her man” Are you serious???

    so to act like an animal with no control and sleep with someone because you like her appearance is not dumb and superficial, but to cheat because your feelings were hurt, the trust is gone, etc is just not understandable. Really? What a nice way to see things when you are a man!

    Another good points followed but then number 20 and 25… of course, men, intelligent , superior creatures learn from their mistakes and we have to forgive them but no way a woman could ever learn from her mistakes. Double standard anyone?

    And 25: WE WANT TO BE HAPPY! How rude, superficial, stereotypical, plain stupid is to say otherwise.

    I will admit that women are no pure, innocent angels anymore. Some women cheat as much as men do, many tell lies without even blinking and we share many of the flaws that men are ”guilty” of.
    But to try to excuse men when they cheat and then make women dumb for it, or assume we are all drama queens and just like to be unhappy is plain stupid and unfair.

    Grow up who wrote this article. Both sides are guilty of unpleasant actions and both sides have flaws and make mistakes. And BOTH sides have to take responsibility for it!

  • JAY SAYS
    October 12, 2012 | Permalink |

    many women nowadays just can’t seem to stay with ONLY ONE MAN anymore, why is that? there are so many of us good men out there that would love to find the right woman to commit too. going out for me sucks as it is, because it is like a game trying to meet a decent one for a change. i could never blame myself, since i did not do anything wrong on my part. all i ever wanted was to meet the right woman for me, since i am a good straight man that would love to have a love life again. can’t blame myself for wanting to have what would be normal today. and the men and women that were very FORTUNATE to have found one another and have a family, should go to church to pray and thank GOD very much for having each other. GOD seems to work for many people, why not us?

  • Andy
    October 21, 2012 | Permalink |

    Jay it’s not too hard to understand. Being studied in ancient and medieval history, there is no argument that we live in the most immoral, low class and narcissistic culture the world has ever known. Without a doubt. And we did it all in just about 60 years tops. Today the lowest common denominator is placed on a pedestal, the bad boy is sought by women, the slut by men. The only genetics one is obviously concerned about passing onto a child are the lowest one can find. I’m 46 years old, never married, had about 10 girlfriends (steady) in my life. I haven’t dated in eleven years now. I look around, as you do Jay, and I’m seemingly unmotivated by what I see. I’m not perfect nor is anyone, however, the ending of those relationships I had were because of serious lies, such as involve moral character in general, criminal behavior, drug use etc. I met the worst of them at church, the largest in town, which she attended regularly but apparently didn’t listen at all. Jay all of us want love. All people, though not perfect, but of good character, man and woman, are discouraged. I’ve just learned to be happy without. It’s not hard. Be happy with yourself on the inside and strive to be your best and you’ll be happier than most married people are.

  • Annita
    November 13, 2012 | Permalink |

    Why are there so many men willing to cheat with me? Have never had a problem getting any man to spend some intimate time with me.

    Women cheat because of how it makes us feel. In my case it is a real turn on and the sex that comes about as a result is mind blowing. Care to guess what a man does when you tell him he needs to pull out as you are ovulating and married.

    Cheating is like dating again without seeing his socks on the floor every morning.

  • Rob says
    December 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    many women nowadays like to cheat a lot, and they are very good at hiding it. the average single woman today needs at least a good four to five boyfriends to keep them happy, and can’t seem to be with only one man instead. low life women are everywhere now, making it much more harder for us good men that are seriously looking to meet one good woman to make us happy.

  • Swordsman
    December 2, 2012 | Permalink |

    Thats the reason why i choose to be remain single for the rest of my life. I just don’t have faith in women these days.

  • Rob says
    December 3, 2012 | Permalink |

    to Swordsman, so many women are the ones that are so very badly messed up. we are just to damn good for these LOSERS anyway, and i have met many of them that are so nasty to talk too. many women years ago were certainly much more better educated than the ones that are out there today, and they were very committed to their men too.

  • Yoshi
    December 10, 2012 | Permalink |

    I just went 5 years with a girl who even lied when I saw photo of her. I am still trying to get rid of her because all her friends and her recon its not her, lol it amazes me how even their friends lie for them. She denies cheating but admits losing the fire we once had. Then tells me we can have a releationship living seperatly. omg this world is fukt I studied for years and history, economy and tv all provoke to have bad people. I now have anxiety disorder from all the bullshit cause she left me when I got sick. They love to be by your side when you really need it but for some reason she always gives me money. must be a guilt thing, but money can never make me happy. Soldier on my friends and fight to see another day I say. Any hurt souls reading this don’t worry there are plenty of others out there. We can share this moment together and think about how beatifully crafted the woman is to create deception, what an elegant form that can destruct even the strongest of men. Bye the way I asked for a sign if my girl was cheating and there was a dead black dog on the side of the road 15 seconds later as I drove past, it was large, I think they call it an Omen. what does the dead black dog mean ? It freaked me out because everything was dark and eery like everything slowed down when I saw the dead black dog(it was oversized) eve myfriend saw the dog who was in the car with me at the time. It could have been a coincidence but also sign I recon. 2/2 woman have cheated on me first was 2 years and the second was 5 years. They will never admit it and made me sick to the stomach like I am now. Stupid bitches just leave your partner if you are going to cheat lol I hate you annita

  • Vivian
    December 13, 2012 | Permalink |

    Women are cheating a lot more these days. I bought an two bedroom apartment downtown so I could be close to work and the social scene. The sheets in my spare bedroom get changed a lot more often than the sheets on my own bed. It’s not my single girlfriends either, it’s the ones with boyfriends or who are married looking for a private place to go for a couple hours.

    Here recently a bunch of us went out clubbing for the evening. As the night wore on various girlfriends disappeared, when I got home (alone) I could hear activity in my spare bedroom, not unusual. However it went on most of the night. In the morning while I was having my coffee is started again. A little while later a very attractive man came out and exited my apartment and then to my surprise the noise picked up again. Some time goes by and another most attractive man comes out with a completely exhausted look and exits my apartment.

    At this point in time I’m in near shock. The woman in my spare bedroom had been married for 12 years (I was in her wedding), has three kids, the house with the picket fence, and lacks nothing. What the hell is she doing having a MFM???

    So she comes out of the bedroom, her hair is wild, her expression somewhere between dazed and exhausted, and she reeks of sex. She proceeds to give me the details, much of what I had already heard all night but just hadn’t understood how or why it went on so long. To top it all of she then asks if I have a morning after pill she can use. That’s right no protection or condems, bareback with two strangers.

    I’m tempted to burn the bed this time instead of just washing the sheets. I think women are just now doing what men have always done. Women like sex just as much as men and if we can get away with it and not have consequences then why shouldn’t we. It’s still a big adjustment though and not one I am completely sold on.

  • Serious Mark
    December 24, 2012 | Permalink |

    many women just have a need to cheat nowadays, and they very rarely can’t stay with just only one man like they did years ago. women do cheat much more than men, and there are many of us good straight men that can be very happy with just one woman to be with. finding a good woman is definitely the hard part, especially that many of them have a very bad attitude today and are so hard to talk too.

  • Xedhadeaus
    January 7, 2013 | Permalink |

    I think it’s more based on what females think guys did in their lives, their parents, and the alpha presentation. Most of the guys I ever hear exclaiming of their sex lives are either lying, or sold on their own looks.

    I work labor, so I’m surrounded by a bunch of guys everywhere, and even though we’re a testosterone heavy environment, only about two people prance around talking about getting girls and is specific about it to the point of it being even remotely contrary to how they carry themselves.

    However, there are about 4 women there who control and decide where to bring in the trucks we unload, and about 3 seem to be awakened at the nearest mention of drinking or partying. I’m not implying that it means anything, because it may not.

    In a strictly personal opinion, I find when guys have problems in a relationship, a single hug or honest smile followed by a few nice words are enough to make them happy, we know not all girls are sex crazed dolls who need to be re pierced at set intervals, but feeling like you’re actually in a relationship and not just around some girl who watches and criticizes your every move.

    When you say girls cheat because they can… It hurts a little, because that’s how I feel. Socially we are bound to woo and spoil our betrothed, and every effort is for their affection. So getting that affection seems like more than enough to chase them to the bedroom.

    Just like girls, guys want to feel important too, but I feel like after a certain point a girl can deem a guy a lost cause, and nothing he does actively can change how she feels, that’s probably a sign.

    If girls weren’t the highly sought after sex, things would be a little easier. But everything intimate is based on female satisfaction. Ribbed for her pleasure, vibrator to spice up your sex, blah blah. Women are people yes, but the world treats them like trophies way before guys get the chance, and they can ignore the negative expectations of society while still bringing in the old standard that made women who they are today…

    I wish I knew what that was.

  • Billy
    January 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    whatever happened to the women that were very faithful to their men years ago?, and today the average woman needs at least seven different boyfriends, one for each day of the week.

  • Very Much True
    January 13, 2013 | Permalink |

    remember, you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife

  • Laura
    January 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    This was so ignorant and ridiculously sexist. Is the author a virgin? Dating a clueless, chauvinist jerk, I would have cheated, too! What a load of dog crap.

  • Alan
    January 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    women who cheat are such a low life to begin with, and such losers as well. many women now just can’t stay committed to just only one man anymore, and there are many of us good straight men that can commit ourselves to just one woman. i was married at one time, and i did love my wife very much before she cheated on me.

  • Amanda
    January 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    Women are cheating more these days because most of them have already been cheated on or have witnessed most of the women around them being cheated on for decades. There are a majority of men that cheat on women and in the past it was considered okay for men to cheat because they supposedly “had higher sex drives.” What a load of crap! Truth is, women have just as high of a sex drive as men, but if the display that side, they are called slandering names. The media and porn industry have subjected women today to be viewed as purely sexual play things. Yet, it is men who drive this industry. If men didn’t love sex and women so much, there wouldn’t be so many strip clubs for men and the porn would not be a billion dollar industry. Women cheat because they feel lonely, unappreciated or neglected from their boyfriends. They turn to another man for attention and affection. If men would spend less time jerking off on their computers and spend more time loving their girlfriends or wives, then maybe women wouldn’t have to look elsewhere for intimacy.

  • Alan
    January 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    to Amanda, for your information i was a very good husband that never cheated on her. and i was very committed to her as well. i was very happy with my life at one time, and i thought that i was going to spend the rest of my life with her and have a family too. i am a straight man that hates going out as it is, and with all the low life loser women that seem to be out there now, it is like going to the movies and watching a horror show. it is a real shame that the women that we had years ago, seem to be all gone now. women certainly cheat much more than men do, and they certainly need to be much more educated like years ago. that is a good reason why marriages lasted very long back then, just look at our parents and grandparents, they are proof. times were different back then, and many women accepted their men for who they were, and they did not have to be rich. most of you women want a man with a very large bank account, and you women expect to be very spoiled by them. it is so very sad that many of the women today are really such losers.

  • Steve
    January 25, 2013 | Permalink |

    Great article it’s depressing that it rings true for me, she cheated on me with two guys in a week after a fight cause they called her beautiful, I mean how dumb does she has to be not to know that and I’d remind her heaps earlier on, and shed just dismiss it as lots of women are beautiful.

    Oh well that the end of my 6 yr relationship, it was a bad fight though and as a result she must have been emotionally vunerable. And what’s worse caught up with her after and she is upset that they just used her for sex!!

    Soooo dumb seriously, although I still love this girl I hate her at the same time for being so stupid.

  • Tamara
    February 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    I cheat for the same reasons that guys do. It feels good and is fun. From catching their eye to closing the deal it’s a rush. Women might act stupid about it but we really aren’t nearly as stupid as this article suggests, sex is fun and a little variety can be a great deal of fun. Sound familiar guys? The biggest difference is that women are much more clever about it. We only get caught if we are wanting to get caught. A woman that just wants to play and still keep her relationship can do so very easily with very little risk.

  • True
    February 8, 2013 | Permalink |

    To Tamara, i feel very sorry for you because you are such a loser.

  • my experience
    February 19, 2013 | Permalink |

    Men contribute to the cheating as well. As long as the woman doesn’t lie and say she is not in a relationship when she is. But if she does in fact say she is married, than the men are just as guilty. I’ve been in 6 long term relationships 1-3 years. 2/6 cheated on me and wouldn’t say why. Hurt and confused i WILL NEVER cheat on my partner just because i am angry because i have been cheated on. If you cheat because your were cheated on in the past or because stupid statistics say one gender cheats more than another then you’re very weak minded and have no self control which is very sad to me when people are like that… I have never once even thought about cheating, and i have had the chances! One reason being that i believe in faithfulness and that your partner trusts you for a reason. The Second reason being that: I know what it is like to be cheated on and the pain it causes. For a woman after 2 years out of the blue, cheat on you then completely ignore you when you want explanations. I didn’t provoke anything. Sure i yelled at first, then calmed down. Still no explanations. So told her to pack her sh*t and never seen her again AND MOVED ON. But most importantly i learned from the experiences. There is good woman out their just as well as there is a good man out there. So never give up on searching. There’s someone out there for you that wants the same thing you do.

    Straight 28year male opinion/experiences

  • my experience
    February 19, 2013 | Permalink |

    ..also if your gonna cheat< get out of relationships. And just go be slutty on your own. Cause obviously relationships are not for you. MEN AND WOMAN

  • Steve
    February 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    where are the good old fashion women like June Cleaver and Donna Reed?, and many of us good guys today would certainly love to have a woman like they were.

  • Sarah
    February 20, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hahaha, oh my gosh. So. Your source is one dumb cheating slut? Is that where all these “facts” stemmed from?
    Listen. If your girl is cheating on you because of a freaking compliment or a touch, she sounds pretty desperate, and maybe that’s why she’s with you in the first place. I have never cheated, but I love a little attention. I love dressing up, getting glances and compliments, and I love looking great on my boyfriend’s arm when we go out together.
    Let’em look: I’m sexy, desirable, and I’m all his.

  • Bubbles
    February 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    Sadly, I agree with your list. And I am a woman. Who has NEVER cheated on anyone, even when I was being mistreated. I am very attractive and men hit on me all the time, but I have great values as well. Maybe it boils down to my feeling secure about myself and my appeal. I don’t have to prove a thing. But not every girl is like me…..

  • Anon
    February 25, 2013 | Permalink |

    Bubbles, I’m profoundly grateful for the fact that you even draw breath. Secure in yourself as you are, a compliment from me will mean nothing, but you are a credit to the world by simply living. On behalf of all troubled, desperate and weary souls, please continue to make the world a better place by continuing to stay true to yourself.

    Moral integrity is so very sacred in its rarity these days. Many people pay it lip service but when it comes down to the crunch they are malleable, pliable, and thus worthless as people. The fact that they even have the gall to cry about how they are upset afterwards angers me so very, very much. Utterly unbelievable. If I had a surefire way to avoid detection and ensure I picked my targets accurately I swear I would ferret the whole putrid lot of you out and enact a little ‘social engineering’. It’s not like I have much left to lose at this point; my sanity has long since deserted me. I might honestly now begin to comprehend the kind of desperation that drives once good people to do terrible things, and that scares me, if only a little.

  • Again...
    March 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    Hello

    There are a fair amount of angry souls on here…. What people need to remember is that men and women are not the same. Just because a man doesn’t claim to want to, or has never cheated doesn’t mean that the conditions for his beliefs are enough to stop someone else from doing so in the same situation.

    I have been cheated on twice, in two four-year relationships. The first was innevitable, as she was a budding feminist bi-sexual; I was a 19 year old student in-love with a beautiful, intelligent girl. One year of fem-lit and she was calling me a misogynist and constantly seeking other partners. I am not upset by this as she was a selfish little girl so wrapped up in trying to identify with something that would justify her being a slut, it had nothing to do with me… other than the fact that I was apparently “killing who she was”.

    The second: after 4 years of being together and three living together, it took one dance with a random guy to somehow coax my partner into cheating on me, dumping me, leaving a life full of responsibilities (about 4k’s worth) and having a 2 month fuck-fest with this guy. In her defence she only cheated on me once before dumping me for him, though she lied about it and wrote a letter saying many – completely random and otherwise bullshit – things including, “you’re not the kind of person I want to have children with”…

    After her two month romp, she ‘comes to her senses’ and wants to get back with me. Needless to say, a year goes by before I rip the truth out of her about why she ended it. I had to get her drunk to finaly tell the truth.

    This was 2 weeks ago.

    When you meet the women you later get into a relationship with, you need to ask yourself – “what kind of man am I?”
    If you lose the confidence in your masculinity, and if you ever expose your weakness for more than a moment, women will be turned off. The world is full of hipster, uber feminine males that have no spine and have placed women on such a high pedestal, they can’t even immagine being on a level playing field.

    The truth I have little doubt of, is that women like strong, independant males, who are confident in themselves, have aspirations and planned goals; men who don’t question who they are and are decisive. Ever talk to a woman who seems genuinely angry that you cannot, within 5 seconds decide what you want for dinner?

    When my second partner cheated on me, I was at the lowest point of who I was. I wasn’t socialising much; I wasn’t making much money; I didn’t have a car; I wasn’t working out; and even though I was good to her, I had nothing left to offer her in her eyes. After she left me, I got a raise, I got much more healthy/buff, a car, a new house and the confidence of having random women asking me out…she ran back to me.

    I love women; I love femininity; making a woman laugh and pouring my heart into her seeing her smile makes me so happy; though men, if you lose who you are, she will dump you and she will not feel a seconds guilt.

    Be good to her, though above all, be great to yourself. A man with a great life is a man with a great wife.

    …and if who you are isn’t good enough for a stupid bitch who is so insecure that she can’t sit still for craving attention like doggy biscuits? Fuck that bitch; you will never give her what she’s ‘missing’.

    Thank you.

    BTW: I’ve decided to give my current partner a second chance… lets see how it goes.

  • Gary
    March 13, 2013 | Permalink |

    they are certainly very good at that, and hiding it too.

  • Peter
    March 23, 2013 | Permalink |

    I know of one lady who cheated on me once but in fairness it was my fault as i walked out on her that night why could stay wirh her for abother year. There might have been more than one girlfriend who cheated on me, who knows? I would like to think all previous relationships were honest & would tell me as i have always been honest myself & been told everything. My point being i take relationships as they are for a given time (2-10 even 40 yrs,its irrelevant) & not be stupid or arrogant enough to beleive someone would ever love me. I know in myself i would never cheat on a girlfriend but from my experience if they cheated on me i would quite simply walk out the door on knowing the truth. Even if they were a wife & have my kids. This is because if someone is prepared to cheat on you what truly is the point to make it work? Its like a herion addict saying they will stop, that 1st unlawful act in a woman offering herself (kiss is ok by the way) the damage is done. Life is too short to care for anyone or think people wont hurt you, even family. I always aim for being honest (white lies acceptable), letting people be free, build my woman to be the best she can with the support she needs. If she chooses that is no good anymore then in my eyes there are over a billion people in this world why should i for 1 minute waste time on people close to me who do not build me to a better person or offer back what i offer them. I think men are sometimes to stupid, arrogant & just gay! Guys you gotta toughen up women are evil creatures, they don’t care, you are just another penis to then. Treat them the best you can, never doubt them, love them completely every second for the time they love you. The moment she stops loving you or cheats cut out the years of wasted hurt & turmoil & walk out the door the next day after you know the truth. Life is to short to care for anyone or waste on people who are of no benefit to making you a better person at that time in your life.

  • Scott
    April 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    So true after along term relationship she wanted me so bad but I was far away so she just went off on a cheating spree then blamed me for everything no matter what I did everything for her all the time I hate women alone for life! humans are animals litterally

  • April 13, 2013 | Permalink |

    There is a simple ancient law in eastern world and muslim world as well. “never trust a women”..if not today they’ll cheat you tomorrow but they will cheat you at some point of time. The only reason they cheat is that God made them that way.

  • Joeblow
    April 15, 2013 | Permalink |

    It amazes me when I read articles like that almost all of them leave out the biggest factor in determining whether a woman will cheat or not, if they did it before.
    If a woman has had sex with dozens of men and cheated on her last three boyfriends she will probably do it to you too, prettty simple.

  • Lee Chandler
    May 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    Women trade up, that’s why.

  • Alex
    May 27, 2013 | Permalink |

    From an early age we are learned to threat women good. Imo the only women you should threat with absolute respect are the women who are your blood. Mother, sister, aunt etc. They will be always good to you and have good intentions.

    But other than that you should be very wary of women nowadays. Men get played like crazy. This article is true. Women are like men. They like freedom, sex and can be just as ruthless and tough as men. I find it annoying society tries to deny this and make excuses like oh women are emotional, she didnt know what she was doing.

    Women are very manipulative and know exactly what they’re doing. I didnt know this until I gratuated from college and got my first fulltime job. I sit in an office all day surrounded by women who are married and have boyfriends. Here I’ve learned how dirty women can be.

    Second day a girl got engaged at my work, she was heavily flirting with me and I swear I could have banged her that day. Having a discussion with a married coworker. Who swears in front of everyone at the job she would never cheat on her husband. 1 week later she stalks me the parking lot after work and tries to seduce me. I was so tired that day I didnt even realize what she was doing, I just noticed she looked very dissapointed when I told I had to go. Later I realized she was coming on to me. Ever since then our encounters are awkward. Other girl has a boyfriend but has been seducing me since day 1 in a very agressive manner. Asking to come to my house when my girlfriends not around, asking for massages, constantly touches me and leans against me, and even getting jealous at work in front of everybody, stealing my phone to check messages and wants to know what female coworkers I talk to and why. There are other girls who are single who’ve tried to ridicule my girlfriend in an attempt for me to break up with her. Two other girls at work, thought they were friendly, one is a bored housewife who loves to talk about sex and receiving massages from me. I know I can bang her anytime I want to. She even asks me to send her sexy pictures of myself to her.The other one talks about cheating on her boyfriend all the time and one period I was really tempted by her and there was so much sexual tension I almost cheated on my gf. For the record I stayed true to my girlfriend and didnt do anything with these two ladies. How does the bored housewife and the girl who is open about cheating treat me for being nice to them? They get on facebook and send friendship requests to my girlfriend and try talking her into all of us “getting to know each other and become friends”. They were trying to get in my private life, which would have been inappropriate considering the things they do at work. My girlfriend thought them contacting her was weird btw and I caught a lot of heat because shes jealous by nature. I told her I never really hang out with any of the females at work, she was like it seems like yall are best buddies. There are more women at my job that I have stories about. Milfs, girls with short skirts, human resources, my female boss! etc. etc. etc. I can go on and on about this for hours. Some stories are so scandelous that you wouldnt believe it. There is a girl who I work with whos in a relationship for 8 years. And all of those years shes been cheating with a married man with children! She has other guys on the side to! some of them she brings home and introduces them as friends to her boyfriend, who is totally clueless!

    I never cheated on my girlfriend. I’m happy as I am and if I found out my gf cheated on me I still wouldnt regret not taking the chances to cheat. I get enough sex. I have a good job and I dont want to throw that away for a cheap in and out operation. But I think I’m of a rare breed. I’m amazed not only the women I work with but who I also meet on the streets, parties, gym etc. how easy they are. I always think to myself damn if the boyfriend knew how his girl is playing him for a fool. But aside from this long story I just want to say, men wake up! Women cheat all over the place. I see this all the time. Maybe I get so much attention because I’m the only black guy in a white workplace and neighbourhood. So in a sense I must be exotic to the ladies. But I really do get pussy thrown at me everyday. I experience the backstabbing the women display. You should not be surprised and you should not be insulted. Its the society we live in. Everyone is getting more and more selfish. My lesson to you is to never put too much faith in a woman. Dont go out and buy houses together, spend a lot of fancy gifts, spoiling her as queen with all kinds of gifts. Use your head you can be loving and kind but dont let yourself be played for a fool all in the name of love. Have a vision for yourself and chase that dream. Those things are truly more important then women, because women will backstab you! In ten years you could be succesful and if shes smarts she sticks around, but if you wasted a lot of time on her you will end up broke and old.

  • awa
    May 28, 2013 | Permalink |

    I expect to go back again to the middle ages, let’s give more stupid freedom for women, and that’s the result. I don’t give a f**k, for this modern women. fortunately, next superpowers, won’t be feminist, like China, Asia, Brics, Western Society is collapsing and one of the reason, are modern women, if we play with their rules, we will collapse. Divorce, problematic chilhood, no incentives to date modern women. We’ll give the man that modern women deserve. No one.

  • Ron
    June 7, 2013 | Permalink |

    most of the women today are nothing like the real good ladies that existed years ago when they were very committed to their men and loved them for who they were, and today they are cheating so very much and can’t stay with one man anymore. women are such losers nowadays, and they are certainly the cause of most divorces too.

  • Robert
    June 12, 2013 | Permalink |

    Wonderful.

    Victim mentalities playing out their roles, it’s always everyone elses fault.

    People make choices, live with them grow from them, and don’t repeat them more than once if they don’t feel good. lol

    Peace out,

    Rob

  • jurgen
    June 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    I hate the name Rob

  • VeryTrue
    June 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    much more women today do certainly cheat much more, and many of them are very good at hiding it. very unfaithful women nowadays which is the reason why the divorce rate is out of control now.

  • joe
    August 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    whoever wrote this is hurt and lost their trust and or faith. still, in a negative way..all the points made can be true. i would say they are slighting in nature to women in general. women are this way but hopefully moreso when immature. and i dont think it makes them all cheat. i mean the legistics of sex are crazy and unsettling for many women tempted to step out. i think more women emotionally cheat on their man behind his back than atually go thru with it. and women can hide it when they do cheat because what man is going to tell otr ruin the fun or fall in love? a man cheats and the woman gets possessive, blabs burns the guy if he doesnt undrstand her vulnerability or whatever. lol. i ultimately dont know. been with my lady for 13 yrs. two kids..swears shes not a cheater and ive never caught her. ive had insecurities and suspected a fellow she was friends with but i think i believe her. now, i have caught her betraying me in little ways with past boyfriends wher some emotion was involved.

  • joe
    August 3, 2013 | Permalink |

    seriously tho…i believe more women cheat then men cause they can simply. a guy can have sex without much time after the introduced thought. a women its all about timing. a guy could hit on ten ladies abruptly and boldly and 9 outta 10 will not be in the mood or so readily intrigued without having the proper buttons pushed in the right sequence and blah blah..many days he ll prob get turned down or treated like a dog by all 10 women for breaking standard procedure or whatever..

    im convinced if a women propositioned 10 guys in a day shed 5 of them shed entice inside of her.

  • meryummyii
    August 5, 2013 | Permalink |

    i agree with alex yet not fully.have once cheated on my bf but that was revenge…or something..cuz i was very unhappy with him, he was lying to me all the time and allways complaining about my appearance .All the other guys around me were saying i was cute beautiful hot..sexyy and made me feel good but he only made me feel like shit every day. I guess i was just trying to feel good by having someone love the way i am , appearance and personality.When guys complain about anything and are unsatisfied with their gfs , they will certainly notice that. If you dont accept the good and the bad sites of your bf/gf then one of you will not make a good life partner.Right now im happy with my bf and i forgave him he forgave me.even though… Me as woman have a very high sexual drive so i do find myself in fantasy with someone else,but bbeing patient helps and doing a lot of work, watching movies etc… meaning.-if you really want to stay faithful, you will do any means possible to do so.And if you are just looking for chances to cheat on him, then im sorry but you deserve someone as rotten as you are.

  • lisa
    August 6, 2013 | Permalink |

    The reason why so many woman cheat is because men and women have a different definition of what cheating is. Men will watch porn,and consider that not cheating. Men will undress every woman he finds attractive, and consider that not cheating. So on and so on. Woman are sick of it and are out to get revenge.

  • Joe G.
    August 18, 2013 | Permalink |

    Not all women are cheaters, but many are. Unfortunately every girl I have fallen for has cheated on me multiple times. I think the problem is that these cheaters cannot manage their lives and can’t look 5 minutes into the future. Thank goodness I never had children, got married, or got an STDs. And people wonder what has happened to society? Well cheating women is one part of it.

  • AlwaysRight
    August 26, 2013 | Permalink |

    well one very good reason is, women who cheat are such losers to begin with. and boy are there plenty of them nowadays which is very sad.

  • Adrian
    August 30, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well if i am going to talk about cheating then i’m not going to make this a gender issue. Both men and women cheat, and i think most of the reasons being given for why they do are mostly superficial.
    IMO the main reason why men and women treat is because of the way attitudes towards relationships and marriage have evolved over the last half a century or so.
    life today is all about the individual rights and happiness with things like obligation and honour taking a back row seat.
    People these days believe that it is their partners duty to make them happy, and if that isn’ t happening then it’s deemed to be ok to dump them for someone else who may or may not be up to the task.

    In short. “For better or for worse” has been replaced with “For as long as you make me feel good”.

  • Tony
    September 4, 2013 | Permalink |

    man, cheaters will be cheaters. This is why the best possible way in my opinion, is to have friends with benefits. If the girlfriend or wife cheats, then you can have your fwb to fall back to

  • Rob67
    September 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    after reading all these I have no faith in women. But I agree with about half of it so theres hope.lol. My girl has deep seeded issues which spawn a addiction over 10 years ago, She cheated on her husband with a neighbor and found a BF in rehab, That destroyed her marriage with 3 young kids mine you. So I meet her 2,5 years ago and found out I was on the crazy train 8 months in. Needless to say I walked away a few times in 6 months for her to get healthy. I was kidding myself. I was the Joke here. They found it easy to discard love to just fill the void! She needed a lot of attention. Plus she was very jealous. So it was kinda of a handcuff relationship. In the end I was lied to one last time. We were apart, she was getting healthy so we could live together and build a future. We I found her sleeping with another man. So it broken my heart again and now I can finally heal and move on. I’m 45 and she is 41 so were not kids and know by now what we want in life and not play games. So if you ever date a women with deep seeded issues and or have a addiction, be prepared to lose who you are and you will dance with the Devil!!! Amen people.

  • Laurie
    September 14, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have been reading these posts and feel compelled to comment. I do understand a lot of these comments, but I disagree with many. I am a faithful and loving wife. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship aside from his low testosterone levels. For 3 years I have felt hurt and somewhat embarrassed about this. I always felt it was my fault. I had never been with a man who had these issues. I have always had a high sex drive. So this was devastating for me. But, I also stood by my man’s side, and continue to do so. We talk about this issue openly. He is going to see a Urologist. This problem bothers him as much as it bothers me. I will not lie, I have longed for a sensual touch. To be desired by a man, to feel more like a woman. I want these things. But, I want them from the man I love. Masturbation keeps me content when his libido is low. He is a wonderful man, a good husband and step-father. He is my best friend. My hurt would never translate into me needing the affections of another man. I love MY man. He is who I want in my bed.I am not needy or vain. I am a confident woman.I like who I am, how I look. I may miss passion in the relationship, but we are working on that. There are ways to spice things up. Of course, I would love for him to throw me over his shoulder and carry me into the bedroom. But, love is love. He shows me love in a million other ways. And I see that. The little things…a flower pulled from the garden and put in my car for me to see when I get in. He makes me smile, despite our problems. I would never cheat. There are decent people out there. There are women who are devoted and loving, who support their man. There are women who work on their problems within the relationship. Not all women run into the arms of another. They stay in the arms of their man and do what it takes to make it work.

  • Kiki
    September 17, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have to say I’m very disappointed in this article & disagree with it in its entirety. The man who wrote this has done so from a very cynical perspective, given his clear dissatisfaction of women & jaded perceptions on why they cheat.
    Both men & women cheat & there’s NO acceptable reason or excuse for anyone when they’ve committed themselves to another person. It’s a form of deception & betrayal to their partner & reasons should never be justified or even acknowledged.
    Cheating stems from issues in a person’s past or the relationship they’re in & the person cheating is not taking responsibility to take control of their life or sort out the issues in their relationship. They’re selfishly motivated by an easy way out that hurts another in the process.

    The author of this article seems to excuse the fact men can cheat because they simply find another woman sexy but women have idiotic reasons to do so. Cheating because of attraction to another member of the opposite sex is not a reason or justifiable in ANY way.
    For the author to say “women cheat because they can” – here’s a news flash for you – SO DO MEN!!! And it’s a hell of a lot easier for them to do so with the aid of brothels & the multitude of escorts peddling their services in the classifieds or the online f**k buddies & “safe cheating” websites that have sprung up to accommodate them.
    I don’t see as much of these highly accessible services geared towards women, men clearly hold the majority of the market share in this area. Yet according to the author & some of the comments following – women cheat more than men!!

    If the author is claiming men like looking at & sleeping with beautiful, sexy women & women need to be validated that they are beautiful & sexy, then both genders are to blame in the vicious circle.

    Men created the porn industry – not women! Men created the strip club industry – not women! It’s been the lust & insatiable desires of men to have slutty, sexy women perform for their enjoyment & inflate these industries to the epic proportions they are now.
    Why do women participate in these porn/strip/online industries? 2 main reasons
    1.They are paid ridiculous sums of money to whore themselves out
    and/OR
    2. They get to look & feel sexy & get validation for it

    To all the men that left comments saying how jaded they are after their past experiences of being cheated on & they have no faith there are any good women out there – have some perspective! The world is filled with more than 7 billion people, it’s very limiting to label every single woman on this planet a cheating slut. If your not getting the result you want it means you’ve either given up on your search to find a nice girl or you’re looking in the wrong places – both of which you’re responsible for because there are plenty of decent, lovely women who are loyal & looking for an equal mate, just like there are men.

    We’ve all had bad experiences in the past – Millions of people have. We can all say we know or have heard about men & women cheating in their relationships – unfortunately we live in a society that promotes it but it doesn’t make it right or justifiable.
    Move on & get over it. We all have choices – you can choose to be immersed in the sleezy & immoral part of society either enjoying yourself in it or hurting from it or you can choose to realize there’s another part of society that has a different set of morals & ethics & you could become a part of that instead.

  • Seriously
    September 26, 2013 | Permalink |

    whatever happened to the Good Old Fashion down to earth women like we had years ago?

  • lol pls
    October 9, 2013 | Permalink |

    you got cheated on? can’t imagine why that happened when you think of women as such stupid vapid and naive creatures.

  • Kel
    October 10, 2013 | Permalink |

    Well, I only can say. Women that cheats is their man fault. If you can’t handle your woman, blame yourself. I am a man by the way. If you found your woman cheating on you,move on, you are not her soul, just a visitor in her life, same for woman. I cheat with other man’s gf, yes. But hey… It’s two way. Woman that are attached are dumb? Yes because we wanna get them to bed so we listen to their endless complains and sadness. They think they are taking revenge? Well how silly… I for one gives my wife everything and I never argue, complain or even quarrel with her, I give her priority in everything and make life easy, fun, relax for ourselves . I cheat because I want to and I can’t help it, lol…. I just love the excitement of hiding the truth. Yes you may call it a double life but it keeps me in check, confident and challenging. .. I love to love. There are woman out there that are like me but they are doing it not because they are sad, but because they love it too. Lol… There’s no right or wrong… Either he or she is your life partner or just a visitor in your life.

  • Ben
    October 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    I think it’s definitely fine to cheat. Understandably it may be demeaning to many, but the truth is, men and women cheat for all sorts of different reasons/needs – and the bottom line is, they cheat because they can. It’s that simple. Because there is someone else who (they think) values them more. Nobody can cheat alone.

    I feel it is not fair to call cheaters losers, or low-lifes. At one point of time, the cheater does (or did) have qualities that were loved, adored and treasured, which is why they were a couple in the first place. Undoubtedly emotions will run high for the cheatee. As a man, hypothetically if I were to be approached by, say, a Victoria’s Secret Supermodel would I not cheat? Shallow as my reasons for cheating may be, I would not be arrogant enough to say that my loins will not be stirred and my will be steadfast.

    Similarly, if my wife found another person better than I am for whatever reasons (her reasons may or may not be less shallow than mine, however unacceptable) she might cheat on me if the conditions were ripe – i.e. after we had a nasty fight, etc.

    Many may say it does tarnish the sanctity of marriage, but we live in a progressive and contradictory world where every day we are bombarded by images, ideas and concepts which challenge traditional principles and values. While there are people who cheat constantly and deliberately to feel that rush of empowerment over their partners and spouses, there are many who cheat in moments of weakness. I don’t think it is a moral disease as many would see it, but more like a constant battle to improve ourselves in the eyes of our partners, as well as for our own good.

    We never truly own our partners. I did not raise my wife since she was a baby, and I was not responsible for her education or initial success and neither was she for mine. For me, it took a lot of strength and self realization (and cheating and being cheated on) to understand that. But as we address our needs truthfully and openly, I think it’s a step towards having a meaningful relationship.

    Honey I love you with all my heart, but if Heidi Klum came to me in a drunken stupor, I’m not gonna say no. And I know you’re gonna bang the hell out of Brad Pitt if he hit on you. But it’s okay, we chose each other, and that’s what matters.

  • jane
    October 19, 2013 | Permalink |

    This was pretty accurate until I read number 14 which I found highly offensive. What, cheating on someone because you find another person sexy is a good reason for cheating? So its okay for men to cheat because they cant help it because they have one good reason, while women have a million bad ones? I so agree! A woman has GOOD reasons, while guys have bad reasons. Also most women are right, we are too good for guys and guys suck. They also dump you, they f u and then dump you. Women have intuition and we are good. We fear it, and we are right because guys suck and are dumb.

  • Sad But True
    October 24, 2013 | Permalink |

    Jane, it is Losers like you why many men like us can’t meet a Decent Woman Anymore.

  • AJ
    November 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    The very sad thing nowadays is that women do certainly cheat much more than many men do, and it is sad that the divorce rate is so very high now since many women today are the biggest cheaters. I was very happily married at one time before my wife cheated on me which i really thought that i had finally met a good woman to share my life with and was hoping to have a family as well. Now going out all over again really sucks for me since there are no good women to really meet out there anymore since many of them are so very damn nasty today to talk too, and with the attitude problem that they have now makes it much worse. It is very sad the amount of so many very stupid women that we have out there today, especially the ones that like to cheat so much which makes them very much losers to begin with. Just too many Very High Maintenance Women out there too, and it is all about Money for them anyway. It is just too bad that we don’t have the Real Good Women like we had years ago that were certainly a lot more smarter than the ones that are out there today which made it much easier for many of us meeting a good one than now. Once Women’s Lib took over it really messed up their head very badly, especially the ones that think there all that which they are certainly Not.

  • Chris
    November 17, 2013 | Permalink |

    There’s good and bad, isn’t there, some reading here will be bad anyway, but none the less infuriated by being cheated upon, there may be bad, smug, in there collective assistance in degeneration and pain causing reading away merrily, also the noble will be the people searching for the answer to why?

    There will be those having made the mistake who are to be committed truly to never doing so again, and again noble in there search the others looking for the answer as to why they where cheated, why sometimes isn’t the real pain, the pain in the truth, that, it is really done if your heart ascends to the tune of a 100% committed love where no infidelity exists ever then its done. No reconciliation, no reasoning ditch the dirt before you find yourself in places you’d ‘never’ go.

    It’s a terrible shame that the whores in life cant be tattooed with something they can’t remove safe guarding all who wish to lead truly wholesome lives. The world is still evolving so in time what’s it got to do with reasons to cheat, what ever ‘reason’ provoking the thought, the reason given by the principle of loyalty would alone STOP the thoughts. Reason is its far to easy its a social deficit to cheat all these people are doing in the long run is robbing there children’s children of there future/s if some super disease doesn’t end up spreading through the ranks of these people and there forsaken loyal lovers then something will happen. Something equally as disastrous to the life as the hurt and degeneration there creating.

    Now swinging/open relationships are at least noble in there honesty where ‘cheating’ is a elusion as it’s blatant to both parties.

    Aren’t these ‘cheats’ just disordered individuals with , to the majority even with there ‘good/permissible’ excuses just, liars, I believe they’re liars, liars so bad to the point they believe there bull ‘reasons’ to cheat, maybe they have a character problem i.e. classic, a person immersed in a ‘loving’ relationship yet not fulfilled, the classic my partner is working hard, for both (ya know so life can be lived) of them yet, no ‘spark’. All reasons stated miss the truth the cheating notion starts with and only with the cheaters perceived ‘character’ otherwise it couldn’t and wouldn’t ever happen, period. maybe the reason is they decide to cheat because they’re the selfish brattish type deep down the, sly magpie, with the cunning of a fox. Leave these people to there ‘reason’ filled life’s they’re already in hell and have been since they existed the way they are, they cant be perpetually ‘happy’ only when they feel better than or they’re hurting, someone, whom is aware or not, they’re reason is to do wrong, to cause pain imagined or precipitated usually both in the end, why so many may be here reading such pain giving rise to the very internet search that brought you here. Something will happen to balance this problem. It starts with letting go, take enough from the experience you can make sure you don’t get hurt like this again without being a ‘scarred and scared’ individual. Now shall we tackle world hunger, maybe insurgency, yes?

  • Hmmm
    November 22, 2013 | Permalink |

    I have been cheated on before, several times. I’m now in a commited relationship and we both trust eachother as much as we can.

    We were both insecure and scared either one of us would cheat, we would allow eachother full access to our lives; want to see my phone? Go ahead! Want to go on any of my social networking accounts? Feel free! Want to access my emails? Sure why not! Nothing was hidden, we knew exactly where eachother were at every point in the day, all of our spare time was spent together.

    Now we both still have access to eachothers accounts, but neither of us feel the need to go on them. When we both felt insecure, being there for eachother helped get both of us through it. Now a few years down the line and we’re both happy. We do argue occasionally, every couple does and should!

    If you say you’ve lost all hope in women then I don’t blame you, the majority are as you all describe, but don’t fret… Those hidden treasures, the rarity of the human race, the only decent people in humanity… They do exist, it’s no myth. You just need to find them.

  • Kat
    December 11, 2013 | Permalink |

    Lmao this sounds like it was written by a poor sucker who got cheated on and now hates women. Lol…..most ridiculous misogynistic piece of propaganda against women that I have ever read!

  • Dave Sye
    December 15, 2013 | Permalink |

    I so agree with this post! I recently lost my first love. I was devastated.
    She flirted with me first and came onto me…I was a bit cool…and truthfully I wasn’t 100% attracted but I liked her as a friend and treated her well.
    But naturally, I, and we, fell in love. She was my first true love.

    I treated her so well, tried to be exciting, sexually adventurous, charming, a bit flirtatious (everything you hear in the modern bullshit magazines) but most of all, I was natural and sincere because I am naturally shy.
    It turned out she was seeing other guys behind my back, ugly guys too. I think girls don’t know what they want. I really treated that girl like my princess, but not any clinginess, she went out with friends without me and to salsa classes (which I, in hindsight, warn all men about their girlfriends going to!! cos’ my girlfriend cheated with a guy there)
    I truly believe, like this article says, that a girl cannot truly love a man. They may want a man but once attained, they soon fall out of love – this was my situation – she flirted with me at first, I was cool, but I fell deeply in love, 5 years later, she hates me enough to flirt and see other arsehole guys. A good man WILL grow into love.
    I will never trust another woman again.

  • Kenya
    December 16, 2013 | Permalink |

    Sad, so sad… It is very clear that the author has been hurt and therefore, embittered. The article is misogynistic and degrading. Not every woman is that way. Where do you come across all these silly, naive, shallow, dumb, and just wratched women? Some women are educated, supportive, thoughtful, loyal, generous, intelligent, loving, compassionate and and embody values that would support a long term loving relationship. Unfortunately in my experience, these women are often alone. They are overlooked and rejected because:
    - some men choose wratched women because they themselves are wratched and the woman is a reflection of themselves.
    - some men are not so bright and shallow themselves and fall for dumb shallow women.
    - dealing with a woman of low moral standards allows for men to comfortably display low moral standards/ they don’t have to give as much and do as much work to get and maintain the woman.
    - because they are scorned and think a good woman is too good to be true and treat the good woman like shit.
    Women are no longer as financially dependent as they were 50 years ago. That financial dependence forced a lot of women to endure/remain in relationship where they were being cheated on and mistreated in other ways. It is also important to remember that many women watched this abuse of there mother’s and grandmothers over the years. Some are rebelling by taking on the characteristics of the victimizers/ the men as a form of rebellion and to prevent becoming victims themselves. The behaviors are not good for either group to embody. So sad that so many men have this low opinion of women while there are so many lonely good women out here. Also sad that men don’t see how they dog out and misuse good loyal women. Trust me, I’ve been through a lot relationship wise. However, I refuse to let these disappointing relationships with men in the past rob me of the possibility of honorable fulfilling relationships in the future. There are still good men and women out there.
    -

  • Jim
    December 19, 2013 | Permalink |

    With all the diseases in this world today going around, most of the women that do cheat better realize that once you get that serious disease, your life could very well be at risk.

  • Georgie
    January 20, 2014 | Permalink |

    The article is true and based on reality. Women are very prone to cheat whenver possible because they are vulnerable and attention seeker. Im not saying all but most of them. If they felt that the other man is showing her more support, compliments, love andrespect well its time tosaygoodbye. You can prevent this from happening if you lower your ego and love your gf.

    Women love rich and attractive men. Its the same in both sex. But if you two have really good communication and rel i dont think shell think twice to have an affair.

  • tim
    February 21, 2014 | Permalink |

    Yeah, I came home from Afghanistan after 12 mth tour, 8 of which I was married to my childhood sweety. She decided that she realized that she was never really in love with me and would not spend the rest of her life with me, and then also informed me that she had found an old boyfriend from 16 years ago on facebook that she wanted to go see as a friend. Informing me that 80% of the marriage failing was my fault because of what I had not done. Nevermind the fact that she had “modeled” a black leather dress for this guy on our bed and sent him pictures by email so he could see how she looked in it before she went to see him. Now she is married to him and just had his child. I have honestly lost faith in women who say that they are loyal and want to settle down but instead they find that they are bored and want a life and that they come out with a different personality than what you knew of them.

  • Danna
    February 28, 2014 | Permalink |

    Well I have read this article and I would have to kinda agree with the writers opinion except for the fact of women cheating for the dumbest reason, while guys cheat because someone is sexy, oh and the information that women don’t want to be happy, sorry that’s gotta be some of the dumbest stuff I ever read. Truth is, it doesn’t matter if the girl has issues with her father, it doesn’t matter how well the guy looks, a women cheats because there is something she is lacking in the relationship. For guys to sit there and say the women are all losers nowadays need to stop and look, my grandfather perpetually cheated on my grandmother with hookers, she loved him and stayed with him. Is that the kind of woman you are all looking for? Because speaking truthfully as a woman who has been married twice, I couldn’t live like that. You also gotta look at the way guys are nowadays as well. At my place of work, every male employee has made a move or “hit” or offered thier services to me, and why? I don’t know why. They all know I’m married, and every single one of them are in serious relationships themselves. So, I’m just trying to make sense of all of this, if a guy is in a relationship and looks at porn and is hitting on other women, in hopes of getting lucky it’s okay. But if a girl cheats it’s unforgivable? Hope someone could please help me understand the double standard, cuz I certainly don’t.

  • ric
    March 2, 2014 | Permalink |

    Problem with all women not being the same, it’s hard meeting the desirable percentage who are not remote controlled. The guys who are compatible with these females are always alone. They are usually suckered into bad relationships with a girl displaying most, if not all items on the above list, and then it ends. It’s not unknown women have far more sexual encounters than men, but the problem is what sex becomes for these females. They usually don’t have the heart or the mind to get to know a person, because. They are female. They are sexual beings designed for sex. XX chromosome. They will never understand “Y” they do what they do.They are not smarter, or friendlier, or better because they have sex all the time with whomever, but they are happier. But like a drug, they need sex to feel happy, and may only feel happy if they have sex. Ladies, happiness does not replace character, it’s a varying component of a character. The 1% of ladies who are not a robot, really need to approach the shy, cute guy.

  • BritishDanyal
    March 18, 2014 | Permalink |

    Silly list! That list is just an excuse for cheating. If you’re in a relationship you shouldn’t be cheating. Why would you betray your mate/partner? Why would you make your partner suffer? It’s selfish. If you’re unhappy in your relationship COMMMUNICATE. Communication is the key.

    And that list applies to women who are emotionally unstable. Whoever cheats on their mate/partner should be ashamed of themself. If you dont want to be with your partner end the relationship. Don’t go behind your partner’s back and get intimate with someone else. It’s f***ed up.

    Don’t get into a relationship if you’re going to cheat. Stay single!

  • anon
    March 22, 2014 | Permalink |

    Ohhh I see, you got hurt. I was wondering why you were talking about women so harshly, but of course. Typical male, generalizing, stereotyping, obsessing. Your girlfriend cheated on you because you’re boring, and she probably doesn’t love you anymore. She probably wants to keep you around because you’re secure to her though. Sorry chap. How it goes. Now, go write a positive article when you’re finally happy with the world.

  • Kari
    March 26, 2014 | Permalink |

    OPINION ALERT

    1 Women are usually needier than men you mean? I can see how that might happen. I don’t speak for all women, but that’s true enough as far as I can tell. I don’t think that would be her fault, though.

    2 True enough I guess. If she was such a wreck, then It’s likely she would be open to anything that would “relieve” her of, whatever her problem was. Real or imagined.

    3.. huh? The best thing for the gene pool is to have everyone paired of and monogamous so that everyone knows whose kids are whose.

    Imagine if there was a guy who had been with every woman in the neighborhood for example, and he knocked them all up. All of these women’s kids are probably going to go to the same school. And date their peers. And there would be no way of knowing whether or not their kids were committing incest! Ew! And bad for a person’s health (to be inbred). So cheating is actually really bad for that, isn’t it?

    4 Women sometimes fall in love? Correct. Are you suggesting that men don’t?

    5 If a guy she was seeing needed some serious work, a woman would rather work on him than end it if that was at all possible. That’s probably true. But if she succeeded, and there was some other guy who clearly needed maturing as well? Not her problem! It’s the living an okay life with someone she’s attracted to part that she’s after, not the fixing part.

    6 The whole “women luvz teh drama” trope is just self-serving rubbish. Same with the Nice Guy “Women are attracted to assholes” line, which of course gives them a free pass to act like assholes..

    7 “Reason” number 6 rinsed and repeated. This seems to be what guys are really saying when they say they don’t understand what women want: “Women don’t want what I want them to want. I’m confused!”

    It’s an excuse for them to ignore our wants and needs. And even to keep giving us that which we wish to avoid at all costs instead.

    They know good and goddamned well what we want. We want the same things they do: control over our own lives, love, pleasure, enough resources to support ourselves and our families, and time to relax. Many women also want power and enough money, just like many men do. We wish to avoid the same things men do. It’s not hard to understand, but guys like this just prefer to play dumb, and no one can stop them really.

    8 (women are suckers for affection and compliments) As opposed to men who hate them?

    9 Right. She’ll be like “Well everything this guy is saying must be teh sacred troofs! WHY else would he be hitting all over me and ragging on my boyfriend??”

    10 ‘_’

    11 You’re saying women are honest about it? And this is bad? The rest of that was just word salad.

    12 I think the point of those vibrators and such is that they want them to behave like men.. just saying.

    She might be disappointed once the glitter has worn off. True I guess.

    13 But then shouldn’t she also think she’s too good for this new person too? I confuse.

    14 Women cheat to ‘get something they really wanted’, because women are stupid? Meanwhile cheating because ‘teh sexi!!11!’ is the height of sophistication apparently.

    15 There was a theory about liking people that make up for your own weaknesses. For example if I’m an introvert, I’m going to be attracted to guys who are sociable and who assert themselves really well. While if I was assertive myself, this wouldn’t impress me at all.

    Or like if there was a woman who’s family went through too many hard times financially when she was a kid, she’s going to be attracted to successful men. Who will make her feel okay about her future. While if she was quite rich herself, the mans success would mean nothing. Interesting stuff.

    In the context of this I dunno, maybe you make up for one weakness in your girlfriend while this other person makes up for another one? I dunno. Just a theory.

    16 “Women will cheat with any loser who treats her better than her boyfriend” And this is a bad thing? Really?? Think about it.

    “Men only cheat with women who are attractive”. Yeah. What chance did Sienna Miller have against Jude Law’s nanny? Oh wait, Sienna Miller is an A list actress. Nevermind..

    “So unless the guy is rich or super charming, his odds are slim to have an affair with the girl of his dreams.” What does this have to do with her “feeling good”?

    17 Gold diggers? In the first world? News to me.

    18 This is gender-essentialist. I am not an essentialist so of course I disagree, but to each his own I suppose.

    19 People claim this because they don’t want to acknowledge that woman have their own desires that don’t match what they want FOR us. But it’s bullshit all the same. Is pretending that girls and women “want guys to treat them like crap” a free pass to treat us like crap? Because that’s what it looks like.

    20 What you’re describing is her making the mistake. This doesn’t prove, or even point to the concept that women can’t learn from their mistakes.

    21 “Do you have a small weeny? Or are you suffering from impotency or erectile dysfunction? That’s reason enough to cheat on you, don’t you think?” Well since more than 70% of women will never experience a non-clitoral orgasm through intercourse alone, no I don’t think that’s a good reason.

    22 Losing attraction increases the chances of a person cheating, sure.

    23 Women are hit on but there is such a thing as ‘selfish’ love, where these strange (not to mention scary) men only like her for what she can do for them. And it’s likely that she knows that.

    So all this “attention” can actually be pretty irritating if not horrifying for her a lot of the time, especially when the guy won’t take no for an answer. Hitting on her creepily and constantly might be tempting for her if she has a fetish for creepy guys. Otherwise? Nope.

    24 and 25 are about the same again.

    Let’s start here. Women are human beings and human beings *don’t want* certain things, by design. Like pain, fear, uncertainty, stress, and abuse. Seriously. If you could just remember that, you would be ahead of the game. But you won’t, will you.. If she doesn’t know why she did it it means just that. She might not know why she did it. Her reason/s might conflict with other values of hers or she might just not want to say it out loud, or to you.

    And sorry about your girl.

  • Jaslyin
    April 8, 2014 | Permalink |

    No.26 – woman thought man was a sheep only to realize he’s actually a wolf in sheeps clothing
    No.27 – man changed
    No.28 – man takes woman for granted
    No.29 – man cheated first
    No.30 – man places mother, kids, siblings, friends or work before her

  • Dominic
    April 17, 2014 | Permalink |

    when i was in highschool a very wise old woman looked at me smiling and said all girls are sluts, one of my blonde class mates passed by us and i looked at the old woman and she nodded “its true”. I didnt think anything of it bakc then but now im starting to realize the truth LMAO all girls are sluts, So treat them like so. They are very weak emotional and quite frankly stupid. I just cant deal with their bullshit i get what I need and im out I live quite happily alone thank you very much. One thing i dont do is sleep with another mans wife i dont need that drama in my life. And with all the STDs roaming around you playing with fire.

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