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Ways to Deal with a Complicated Relationship

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Relationships can get complicated for a lot of reasons, big and frivolous. Find out how to deal with a complicated relationship the right way.

A perfect relationship can turn into a complicated one in no time, and one lover can’t really predict it without listening to the confusions in the other partner’s mind.

But in almost all cases, a complicated relationship is a one sided love affair where one person wants to hold on while the other person just wants to let go or go with someone else.

So are you in a complicated relationship?

Understanding how to deal with a complicated relationship is simple if you can see the facts straight.

Why is your relationship complicated in the first place?

Learning to see the problem in clear light is the first step to solving any relationship issue.

Almost all the time, people in a complicated relationship fail to see the problem because they’re either not interested in acknowledging a problem or too clouded by emotions to accept reality.

Dealing with a complicated relationship

While a complicated relationship status on facebook may seem like a cool thing to show off, a complicated relationship is heartbreaking and painful to experience when you’re alone and wondering about what really is happening in your love life.

Reasons for complicated relationships

Complicated relationships can emerge for a lot of reasons, all the way from falling out of love, falling in love with someone else, a bitter fight, a piercing remark, to confused affairs like bed buddies and relationships where one person is using the other.

If you’re on the receiving end of a complicated relationship, don’t try to solve the complication just yet.

Instead, try to find out what really bothers you and how you intend to deal with it. Complicated relationships almost always never have a happy ending, especially if the love is one sided. And if it’s a crush that you have in mind, that’s definitely not a complicated relationship. It’s just a crush. [Read: Understanding unrequited love]

Try to end the complication

No complication in a relationship is ever similar. So you’ll have to create your own ways to working with it and evening out the complication.

In a long term relationship, complications could arise when your partner falls in love with someone else or starts losing interest in you as a partner potential. On the other hand, in a shorter relationship, the novelty of the new relationship may have worn off or your date may just not want to go out with you anymore for several reasons. So what do you intend to do about it? [Read: How to have a perfect new relationship]

Speak to your partner

The easiest way to solve any complicated relationship is by talking about it with your partner. You may find it easier to live in denial and avoid confronting the situation. But even if you have to talk to your partner at the cost of losing a relationship or ending it altogether, do it. Talk to your partner.

In most complicated relationships, one partner may be too much of a coward to end a relationship and may find it easier to avoid a partner and hope they get the hint. While you may be blissfully trying to deal with your complicated relationship status, your partner may have moved on with someone else. [Read: How to end a relationship]

When you’re stuck in a complicated relationship, no matter how much it hurts to confront the complication, muster up the strength to face it. By doing that, you’d at least know where the relationship is heading instead of groping in the dark.

Complicated relationships that just can’t work

If you find yourself in a relationship where your partner constantly cheats on you or tells you they don’t want to be with you anymore but come back into your arms every now and then, or if your partner ignores you, it’s a definite sign that the relationship is heading nowhere. Your partner may just be trying to look for someone else to go out with and may be using you until they find someone else. Or they may be too much of a coward to break up with you. [Read: What to do when you like someone else?]

If you can’t end a complication with conversations and assurances, perhaps both of you are just not meant to be.

Are you ready for a fresh start?

Sometimes, it’s easier to end a relationship and walk away especially if there are way too many complications involved. But if you really do love your partner and are willing to work on the relationship again, take a chance.

But you have to remember that complicated relationships almost always never work. When you’re the one stuck in the painful end of a complicated relationship, it only means that your partner is using you or is just too selfish to care about anyone but themselves. [Read: How to resist temptation in love]

Walk out of a complicated relationship if you’re unable to work the differences and sort the complication. It may hurt a while, but no matter how much it hurts, it can never hurt more than how you feel right now, during every single day of your complicated life. By ending it, you’d at least be able to remove the painful complication from your life.

Heartbreaks can always be healed with time, but complications only increase with time, remember that. [Read: How to get over a broken heart easily]

So do you still want to know how to deal with a complicated relationship? But you know what to do already, don’t you? No matter how unique your complication is, there’s only one way to sort it all out. Confront it.

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42 thoughts on “Ways to Deal with a Complicated Relationship”

  1. Joanne says:

    Complicated relationships can break your heart and literally force you to end your life. I was in a happy marriage for a long time until an old ex of mine came into my life. He told me he was single, and started wooing me even though he knew I was married. Flattered at first, I ended up having an affair with him. I didn’t realize what I was doing until my husband found out and walked out on me.

    And then, I find out that my ex only wanted to have an affair with me, because he was already in another relationship with some other woman. Now, I’m having an affair with my ex, seperated from my own loving husband and yet, have no one who truly loves me.

    I feel so helpless at times, and yet, I have no idea what to do. Sometimes, simple complications of the heart can ruin an entire family.

  2. Are you serious? says:

    Joanne, you’re an idiot, and one more nail in the coffin of my growing misandry.

    “I didn’t realize what I was doing until my husband found out…”

    Hope you suffer. Feel sorry for all the men in your life, past, present and future.

    P.S. if my experience is any indication, husband is probably glad to be rid of you and enjoying life without you

  3. Why does my husband master bate while on the computer.He is a diabetic and can’t get a eroction but I think he does on the porn sites .He has cheated on me in the past married 30 years?Confused and he doesn’t talk.

  4. Tanya Waters says:

    What do you do if you are in a complicated situation where you love two men but don’t know how to tell them? I love my boyfriend of a year and a half now but then I also love my friend. the relationship with my friend was meaning less at first, we would just hand out and tell each other secrets, things like that. After a while though, it started getting serious, his touches became more frequent and insisting and so did mine but at the end of the day I would always go home to my boyfriend and be with him.

  5. tani wels says:

    i dont know whats going on with relationship,,i love dis guy for 1 and half year and we were both in a happy sweet love. but he got a job and we are in a long distance relationship since few months.. so are aruguments have now increased and he blames me for everything.. he says dat i brought misfortune in his life and i m just a shit,, and we cant leave each other as we got maried legaly without anyones knowledge.. so when there is a problem he keeps ranting at me like hell and treats me as if i m not at all worthy..lost and confused:(

  6. Laura says:

    My relationship is complicated because we met at the age of 17 back in 2009 and have been together almost 4 years now. For the most part we’ve been really happy together, but I know now that he spent most of the first 2 years carrying on with his flirtatious ways with almost every girl he met. He’d always been that way before he met me and I don’t know what made me think you can change something you’ve done for years. It’s complicated and I feel hurt because I don’t know where I stand. Or where I’ve always stood. He’s always told me he loves me but had gone behind my back quite a lot in terms of keeping friendships or chat affairs secret. So confused because I don’t know how I feel about him as a result of it all when we’ve spent so long together and been through so much, good and bad.

    I feel stupid for allowing myself to stay and put up with the stress, but on the other hand I really don’t want to just throw away everything without trying to make it work.

    Thing is though, I can’t try to move on from it all when I’ve got him telling me things he’s done and said because he feels guilty and wants to be totally honest with me so we can start again properly. He says he doesn’t want to lose me and loves me, he was just young and set in his stupid ways and didn’t think and just wants to make things right and give me the relationship he never gave me the first time round.

    Need advice 🙁

  7. firewall says:

    I’m in a complicated relationship and for the most part this article rings true. But what if you both are willing to try and works things out. That’s how it was until recently for me. He stopped trying to deal with his obligations and let the stress take away his will to try. He blames his unhappiness with himself for being unhappy with me. I don’t understand but I know he hasn’t given me a fair chance to speak my mind about what I’ve been going thru. He doesn’t see that a relationship is about two people that both need to help eachother. He’s so full of self loathe that its trickled down to me. Its so frustrating bc I know asking to speak would only push him away further. I’m scared and the only thing I can do is keep my distance as much as possible. Its difficult to do when he doesn’t give me an opportunity to share how I feel. He basically just blurted out hurtful words and condemned our future together. I’m so hurt but I don’t want to make things worse.

  8. boy friend says:

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  9. Blondy82 says:

    This is my complication….
    I met a guy over a year ago. We were just going to hang out and fool around with each other because that’s supposedly all he did, and I wasn’t on a stage of my life that I wanted to deal with another heartache. I wanted to be able to relax and have fun. He wasn’t even really my type

  10. Sam says:

    I m 24 n i met a guy whos 16yrs older than me, we met through an online site just for casual but didnt realize when fell in love, i m guy, i never wanted a relation with any man more than physical but now i just cant think about anything else except him n i m so happy to find him n truly love myself, worst part he s got a partner of 9 years……he says his partner is selfish n dsnt give him emotinal support so he s lost and lonely, but still he loves him n cant hurt him, also he loves me now n want me to be his secret lover…..is there anything complicted than this…….?

  11. Jessica lain says:

    I fell for my boss, powerful, sexy (to me), dynamic, funny. He had a child from his previous partner but claimed to want more, as many as possible… It was a mutual attraction from day one and after a few months we started a relationship. It was Dificult from the beginning, he has a volatile personality and very demanding, friends and family waved flags, but he would win me with his great side. Very quickly it was clear that when his daughter was in his life I was either the nanny or pushed away. The mother lives in another country so I thought it normal he’d want to be with his child when she was around, I firmed a great relationship with her, but his relationship with her was and is just as strange. They continue with his life and his routine, he doesn’t change to provide a child environment, she has to conform. I realized very quickly he is a control freak, but part of this I was attracted to, the father figure, I want a family and am desperate for a baby, I saw him as the father in my family. At first we seemed to be going on this direction, then he used his daughter and ex as the reason why he couldnt commit to me in that way. Then he changed my clothes, disrespected my friends, my lifestyle, liked my parents took them to eat but never went to eat with them at their home of accept dinner invitations unless in restaurants he chose. I started to get depressed and cry all the time, he was cruel and verbally abusive at times. I started having panick attacks and took anti stress medication for depression and anxiety. Eventually it all came to a head, he had all the passwords to my accounts and one day saw a conversation between an boy I had known in baby school, who also lived in another country, and for the last 3 years we’d casually turned a friendship, I won’t lie the friend was often very flattering to me and I had enjoyed although never reciprocated. My guy went mad, and I finally found a stength to end it. I wasn’t that strong and we got back together for a few months, it was better than ever and I thought I’d won, but as soon as I mentioned marriage and children, he told me he would never forgive my “indiscretion” with my friend, and although we could stay together it would be purely under his conditions. He’s still my manager, and very much in my life, I want to move on, but am half wanting him to tell me he’s changed, I know he won’t change, I’m no longer on medication and it’s been 7 months, I saw him yesterday and the spark is still there and we kissed just a simple goodnight kiss but it felt perfect. I know he’ll have moved on sexually with partners but I can’t, also we live on an island and I’m sort of afraid that if I find someone he’ll never take me back, although I know I should never go back, agh, my head just won’t work!!

  12. Miss fed up says:

    My boyfriend only likes to drink and lime with his friends and he makes me feelin like he don’t love me anymore ….and I’m insecure

  13. Laurie says:

    I met Jacob seven months ago when we started dating. At our six month anniversary hen decided it was best for us to split. We decided to still talk….well eventually we have been talking and have agreed that we would be the only ones that would talk to eachother. We have been getting along, pretty much acting like we are together; kiss and everything. But when I try to bring up our relationship he always says “Idk” and I recently did this present and a thing popped out asking him to be mine and he just started crying and never even replied. I what his deal is, I’m really trying and I promised things would be different and no more arguing butnits almost like he is scared or doesn’t want the responsibility of commitment like he used to….otherwise I don’t umderstand why he is still holding on if he doesn’t know. Hes not sure that he loves me, but I guess he’s not sure enough to let me go. What do I do? I’m inlove with him, and he makes me happy and we wanted a life together but now… what the hell? I know he doesn’t want anyone else because he always tells the truth and I’m a snooper. We talk 24/7. Should I just stop bringing it up? What do I do?

  14. Ruby says:

    Hi, I am 35 years old, having lucoderma. I am in great depression. My problem is that I met a boy 10 years younger than me. we were friends he was 20 when i was 30, after some time of friendship we fell in love with each other. He loves me a lot and me too, We don’t have any physical relationship. we were already aware of the fact that it wouldn’t be possible for us to get married, even he is ready to marry another girl. But the problem is for me that i cant just imagine him with another girl, and even cant imagine myself with another partner. It is sure that the day of his marriage is very close. because of this i am getting more and more depressed. He says me that he will never leave me even he never had hurt me. What should i do, please help me..

  15. confused alright says:

    I’ve seen this guy on and off for three years now, nearly 4. He was my first during the first year of seeing him but we’ve never had a relationship before. We only saw each other occasionally over the three years but this past year or 2 we’ve become extremely close as to seeing each other almost every day and spending practically every weekend staying with each other. We are intimate and have spoke about a relationship were he tells me he would want it to work but he has fears from past relationships and hasnt been in a serious relationship for almost 3 years. I’m so nervous around him that I dont have the confidence to bring anything like that up so I text him. I know, I’m a wimp, its just that he makes me so shy. He gives me some signs that he’s interested, but I dont feel convinced 100% and he isn’t exactly jumping at the chance to ask me into a relationship. He isn’t shy either, not disrespectfully, but he has been a ‘lady’s man’, ‘bachellor’ most of the three years I’ve known him. Not that I’m complaining because I have been in relationships between periods of time we drifted, but he mostly just slept with these girls and nothing more, where as to now he has told me that he isn’t seeing anyone while we’re seeing each other and we spend time just watching films, cuddling like a couple and I get a goodbye kiss (averagely 3mins long, just to give the image of the kind of kiss not just a peck). I’m really stuck, I dont know how to speak to him to move it forward or how to even know if he wants anything more as to just saying it to ‘keep me happy’. I dont want to be someones ‘buddy’ when we’re practically bestfriends as to say we act like bestfriends too. I’m shy but I’m laid back like a man, yet I look feminine. Any advice? Would really clear things up for me.

  16. jemma says:

    Im in a really complated relationship my bf was with his wife he told me I didnt split them up it was already on the rocks as I said to him if you want your wife go back and try with her but he didnt want to he told his wife what was going on and how he felt towards me I thought he was messy us about but he showed me sumink that he wasnt lieing anyway we have been together for a year now and iv also found out im prwgant but the problem is hia lads that are 18 and 22 the oldest is being off with his atm and he owns his house and we keep splitting up because of his son and him owning his house as he dont live in their he lives with me and his wife livea their as hes not a horrible man throwing her out on the street but thw issue we have is we love eachother so much but he feels hes not their for his lads and the fact that its his house seen to his childhood experience I very dont know what to do anymore I dont want people writrinf shit I want advice ??


    How to deal with a complicated Relationship? That is Bull shit! Fact! If the is completed relationship, that means there is no communication. & if you can’t sit an talk to each other then you need to just your little butt an walk away an never look back. Go forward in life not backwards in life! See if both can’t talk to each other, an that is at any time, day or night. People that love each other, will stop everything there doing an be there for there mate. He Or She are the most important persons that they can ever have next to them in there life. It’s like my wife when she was alive, “SHE WAS MY LIFE”. THE AIR I’D BREATH.. People make problems for them selfs. See there is only a solution no problems.. Life is way to short to waste your time & there’s bickering fighting, trying to be the one that is right. If thing are not working out & your not “Communicating, then just walk away. There is a Good an Happy life out there waiting for you.. Most of the time you go out looking. But the whole truth is that it will find you. I was not looking an then there was that voice of my love to be, an then right then & there I knew an she knew. We never said any thing we just looked at each other an we talked with out talking. Our eye’s an body language said it all with out words. Neil young an his wife knew it. He talks about it in his book an when people ask him how did you know! He answer’s “I just felt it, &she too! Peace, Love & Good Karma to you an your’s. Grady Jr. of Hayward Calif.


    Just one more thing. Who come’s up with them off the wall Questions @ the top of this “LOVEPANKY THING”? What I see or read is Ann Lander in the News paper. See people make there own hell an & complicated life’s. Just make your life simple, no rocks,bricks, hearse words bad thoughts, hate full feelings Ill will to any one. Find YOUR Center! Be @ peace with you, your self.. You must know your self & love your self, before you can give love, true Love to some else. the keys are there to unlock the door’s in front of you. Just open up your eye’s an start to live. You start seeing thing smelling thing’s you never did be for! Take time for you. You are very important to YOU!

  19. Tasha says:


    Age isn’t so much a factor when it comes to love, and loving someone. Your man of interest is getting married! You said that the two of you couldn’t possibly get married, but yet he is already about to marry someone? I know you are depressed, but I honestly think you should let him go if you feel like there is no future in it. What is the point in torturing yourself with this love, when you can go after someone who is potential for you? It will hurt, but you must do what’s best for you and yourself.

    Good luck to you.

  20. Reinnyday says:

    me and my husband have been together for almost 4 years in December. I love him and he loves me. I have a 1 year old daughter with him. lately I have been really emotional and doing nothing but bitching and nagging I feel like it is falling apart. We constanly fight… or I do. And I don’t think its good for our relationship. And I am confused on weather we should. Seperate or not?

  21. Matster says:

    My situation is going to be much different than anyone elses. I’m feeling hurt right now, but this article is helping. The only way to get my frustration out is writing to you strangers from my cell phone. Please if anyone can relate comment back.

    My name is Mathew and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. My girlfriend and I have a son together and have been through everything. She helped me get custody of my younger brother (im 26 hes only 11). She helped me get through my jobs at call centers. Shes recently helped me with my grandmother passing and going to college. Shes a smart girl. We always love and argue like everyone does. Now before we actually started dating she had friends who were guys and were gay. She was very depressed and going through alot in her life. I was always there for her and made her think postive. Nothing against gays. Just this guy in preticyalur treated her bad. She became in huge debt because of all the money she spent on him. Anways she realised what was happening and stopped talking to him.

    5 years now shes been strong and never thought of all the negative stuff in her life until recently she found a new gay buddy at work. I thought what ever she can talk to him and add him to fb. Few weeks to month later shes starting to think negative thoughts and reflecting on her past again. We started second guessing our relationship and she thought about a break apart. In the last 5 years shes been obsessed with me and never had thoughts about leaving me unless I did something terribly wrong. She trusted me and let me hang out with my friends at the bars. I was faithful. I would always watch myself around girls. Now i had some issues with trust. I wanted to try and pervent anything from happening. I know we should trust out partners but I been through to much and just wanted to pervent things from happening and it worked. Until recently she started talking about at these little things I do that she hates. Than tried to convince me we should take a break. I thought it was allmmy fault and almost agreed. Until tonight, we tried talking things out. And you know the hole I want this and that. Well I realized she kept bringing up wanting to be friends with this gay guy. She explained she laughs at work with him and they like to be mean about other people and that i cant do the same because im to nice! Like wtf. Here I’m thinking this was allmmy fault. I agreed to all what she wanted. Now it comes down this guy. Its like when your girl likes another guy but in this case not to date. Just be best friends and do everything that i cant do as a best friend. I shouldn’t have to compete with anyone. Now im stuck and feeling helpless. I hate it.

  22. GET REAL says:

    I am female have been seeing guy for 3 years now that i have known for 5 years overall, he hasn’t had many relationships in his life before he was married for only 5 months sort of like oh shit at 41 i have left things too late in life as it turns out the ex wife wrote quite a nasty letter to his mother, i was shown this a while ago and couldn’t work it out at that time, he is a mommas boy he has never left home now 46 and his mother 70 still does his washing cooking cleaning buying his clothes cleans his room and making decisions for him treats him like a child this woman his mother has alienated everyone from their lives so much conflict and his mother is the common denominator of the issues however blame is always placed on someone else she is controlling domineering manipulative meddling narcisstic wolf in sheeps clothing when he was a child he was banished and not spoken to he treats all the same way when he feels he has been wronged I am a decent positive human being that has had self confidence stripped and drained my life and treated like a doormat due to his issues he will not change his patterns basically getting older stuck and will not see the issues so positive changes can be made his mother has never liked any potential partners of his and is very negative towards everyone very critical of all and its my way or the highway nothing i do is ever good enough because she has her way for years as the males being her husband and son have no spine when it comes to her she has had her way for to long and if she is crossed look out, i have created boundaries and gone through hell in the last few years but privately i know i have won as i know the issue is not mine its theirs. Please note if you see things and they don’t look right RUN before these people suck the life from you!!!!

  23. dieing inside says:

    My partner is quick to I love you but just as quick, o point out my indefinite status and to ecknowlage my feeling neglected as treatment in return for feeling neglected ..she has an extreme indiferance to what out being together means to her what do I do

  24. ani says:

    I and my bf are in a relationship from past 8 yrs and want to get married with each other but our family didnot want to accept our relationship as we are of different caste . Now my bf is confused between me and his family whom to choose and I want to get married with him at any cost , he loves me the most most but respects his family as well so what shoul we do?

  25. heartbroken says:

    my bf is not paying ant attention to me like before, he recently start talking about his ex…and i hate it.

  26. patie says:

    I met my bf while he was dating his colleague, he said he will break up with her but he didn’t. I confronted him and he said he didn’t because she is now the new director and he reports to her. am confused what should I do

  27. sweet honey pie says:

    I have my complicated relationship when i meet my bf now for 4 years and he still married with his wife he said the devorce will not be finalized because of his wife doesnt want a lot of people my family friends advise to stay away from him.but i feel that i cant live with out him hes my first bf and only man that i sleep with i am christian but i allow my self into a ellicit relationship i tried many times to broke up with him but in the end i suffering of pain and depression and i dont know what i am going to do now i had sleepless night when he wasnt able to send me email all my day is always focusing on him and i never cheat on him even one i am very honest and faithful girlfriend they say i have a look why i become crazy about him and he is older guy i am at early 30s now please do help your advice guys thanks a lot

  28. samantha says:

    Hey I need help its been five months since I happily hanged with my boy friend. He is mad at me because I sent nude pics to a random Guy I barely knew. I met him once n we talked for a year. Once in a while. When he saw them he said I had sex with him coz the view was too good for me to have taken them by my self.I have tried being sorry and even blocked every nasty friends I had. But he is so cold n distant and I dnt know what to do anymore.
    help me please…

  29. Julia says:

    Hi. I never thought I would be in a complicated relationship but I am. I have been with my partner (lesbian relationship) for the past 18 years. Right now my life is hell…has been for the past four months. Six months ago we moved to have her mother move in with us. Our relationship has been good…we rarely fight. But four years ago she unexpectedly had an affair. We went to counseling and blamed the woman and things seemed to settle back. Now four months ago a woman (15 years younger) moved into her parents home. As you can guess my partner now believes she is in love with this woman. The woman (who has alcohol and possibly a personality disorder) just left to return to Colorado to be with a man. My partner is now angry, mood swings, and self obsessed. She has never been like this and is telling me she no longer loves me, thinks…talks only about her love interest. Meanwhile I am trying to keep the house together along with working. I still love her but now there are times I barely recognize her. I am stuck living in a new house with all my money poured into it We can’t sell since they are building new houses all around us. Is this situation hopeless?

  30. Babe says:

    I have been in a relationship since last year, 1 yr. and 4 mos. to be exact. We both love each other, until the guy whom I’ve been hooked for almost 10 yrs. came back , he’s single now, and I am in a relationship. We are friends as our friends knew, we have this thing called M.U. Mutual Understanding, until I realized that I am more in love with this guy. My boyfriend now also about this thing for we don’t keep secrets with each other, I broke up with my boyfriend without even knowing what will be he next move, but he refuse, told me that he can still love and accept me whatever I am going through now. He love me very much that he also proved that to me, But as days past I am longing for that guy (the guy 10 yrs ago) We didn’t talked that much , we didn’t know our status instead we only know that we’re doing what a couple does, He loves me in his own way, even he isn’t verbally expressed but the way he make time for us to see, to bond is enough to be told that he really have something special for me also, but my boyfriend even I intend to break up with him, He doesn’t want to break up with me, what should I do?. I cannot marry my boyfriend now for I am emotionally unstable.

  31. sunaina says:

    i need help!!! all my friends and my sister is against my relationship with my boyfriend! we both really,truly love each other. im just 17,i know. and he’s 19. but we have decided our future together! and i can assure you that its not infatuation! its truly love!! how should i deal with this problem of mine?! how can i make everyone understand that we both cannot live without each other? we have broken up for a while,waiting for things to settle down. but i know that they wont! how should i make them to agree with this? i really love him. and so does he. help me please!!

  32. Don says:

    I have been with my wife 23 years and lately she has been acting strange! Going out not coming home until late in the day. She said she is not having an affair and will tell me what is going on in about a week or two. I checked her cell and found out she is in contact with a financial institution. She tells me she is doing a job for someone but I think I have found out what MIGHT be going on. She has been telling me she still loves me but does not know if she is in love with me anymore. The last year I was laid up with my back and on pain meds. She said she was very lonely and I have slowly quit the pain meds and am exercising everyday and feel great. But the comments keep on coming about how I should date other women because she thinks I need it. I have always been there for her except with my back and taking care of my elderly father. I have never cheated on her and we still have sex so I have no idea where she is headed with our marriage?

  33. jay says:

    ok, so im in a realtionship with this girl we have been toether for almost 2 years we have a problem though im the type of person that likes to go out but she doesnt shes a hermit today we had a conversation and we are both thinking about takeing a break but the problem is we both live together what should i do

  34. Stephanie says:

    I have been with my boyfriend going on two years in September. Just recently back in December of 2014 he asked me to marry him, and without even hesitating I said yes. We moved in with each other only a month of dating. And I couldn’t have asked for anything any better. It’s like we were meant to be. We were planning to get married on March 28,2015,but that’s not happening now. Around the middle of Jan. he got to where he would come home from work and start a fight with me for no reason at all. Well in the early part of February I was tired of him arguing with me. So I packed my stuff up and moved out just like I told him I would. So I’ve been staying with my grandma, but everyday when he gets off work, he comes over here and spends time with me before going back to his place. What I am confused about is, whether or not he still wants to marry me or am I just wasting my time hoping for something that isn’t probably going to happen. I’ve been married before and I have three kids also, but he has never been married or have any children of his own. So I wonder did he start getting nervous because it was getting closer or what. We had already had invitations made and got some other stuff to, so I would hate to think that’s true. There is also a big age difference between us. I’m 32 and he’s 53. Can you please help me with some advice?

  35. Rainbow says:

    I’m so tired…. he’s my first boyfriend and I really really really love him ,but I’m not sure he loves me tho he says he does love me… He’s always too busy for me,hardly calls,last time he called was 3 months agl

  36. elicia vails says:

    I been in my relationship for 10 years on july 16 2015 now we have 3 KIDS together i know he love me but he cheated on me and now he has another child he no longer with his baby mother he want to get married i do to put i just dont want to make the big mistake he show that he do love me but is it because what i do for him or is it true love he wants to get married this year dont know wat to do i love him very much i just dont know about marrying him even tho we been together for 10 years wat yall think i should do

  37. Dorrey Brown says:

    Hey guys!..i need some help here!.well am in a complicated relationship!..i’v been in a relationship where i sacrifice a lot,having troubles with my parents because of meeting him…i love him more than any one can imagine…and he knows that!..well he ignores and act wierd on me just because i sleep early!..really?its a lame reason…i alwys try to talk to him to make him understand hw i am..but he stays evn a week without talkn to me!…it really hurts…what shall i do?.

  38. MS says:

    Hey Sunaina,
    Relationships are something like our personality. Very unique. But if you take my advice, either you talk things out with family if you care for them or else things get complicated. You must make your mind if you want to be with him and start convincing. But I feel it is too young for both of you to think that far. You might get into long term because of your career, and there things mostly get complicated. So, I’ll suggest you to calm down and take it lightly. See where you are headed with your life. Talk to your elders and then decide what to do. The sooner you decide ,the easily you solve it.

    Hope your love lasts forever..

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