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Slow Blowjob: How to Leave Him Irrationally Horny in Slow Motion

The good, old blowjob is one of the best ways to make a guy crazy in bed. However, why not drive him even more insane and try the slow blowjob?

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If there’s one thing the majority of guys want in the bedroom more than anything else, it’s a blowjob. But it’s not just any blowjob they crave, it’s the slow, sultry, sexy kind. Learning how to give your man a slow blowjob will put you in his mind forever. He’ll never be able to forget you, that’s for sure!

But it’s not just about giving him something incredible. It’s more about learning how to please any man with your mouth alone. When you have a skill like this, your confidence will skyrocket and you’ll be able to blow any other girl out of the water – pun intended. [Read: 17 Blowjob techniques to add to your repertoire right now!]

Why do guys love blowjobs so much?

You’d think that guys would be more interested in getting it in your lady bits than in your mouth, but if you ask enough of them, they’d definitely choose to get a blowjob. But why is that? The truth is that there are a lot of different reasons guys love having their piece in a woman’s mouth.

One of the main reasons men like getting blowjobs so much is something they don’t even realize. It’s the power they feel. When you’re kneeling before them, they have a sense of control. Another reason is simply because it feels really good. It’s a different type of feeling than when they just have sex. And for some men, it’s something they don’t get a whole lot and that makes it even more exciting. [Read: What men really want from their woman in bed]

Of course, not every man on the planet is crazy about blowjobs, there are probably some out there that don’t even like them. But, for the overwhelming majority of guys, a blowjob is high up on their wish list for the day!

How to perfect the slow blowjob and drive him wild

There are many tricks us ladies could learn to turn our men on and make them drip with anticipation. The best thing for this, however, is learning how to perfect the slow blowjob. If you know how to give him what he wants and do it the right way, you may even earn yourself a little something special from him.

Being able to drive your man wild is something you should always strive for. Without keeping the sex in your relationship hot and spicy, things can fizzle out fast. Therefore, learning how to give him a slow blowjob is essential. [Read: How to get a blowjob: 12 secret techniques to get her to enjoy it]

As the name suggests, a slow blowjob is a regular blowjob, done very slowly. This builds up the anticipation and drives him insane!

1. Surprise him

Don’t just go down on him as a means of foreplay. While that’s always nice and appreciated, the best kind of blowjobs – the ones that will drive him wild – are the ones he never expected to get.

So crawl over him during a movie and get to work! Not only will he be *pleasantly* surprised, he’ll never know when to expect another one. [Read: Surprise sex: Shock and awe him with these naughty moves]

2. Build up the anticipation

Half the fun of giving your man a blowjob is watching him twitch with anticipation. When he knows he’s about to get something that great, he’ll want it more and more. This makes it all the more better.

You can easily do this by whispering what you want to do to him in his ear or even sending him a naughty text while he’s at work. Anything you can do to give him a hint that you’re about to blow him will get his heart racing. [Read: 16 sex tips for women to make sex so much more exciting]

3. Tease him – but not too much

Don’t just whip off his pants and go to town. Make your movements slow and calculated. Kiss along his stomach until you’re almost there and then move back up. This will make him go crazy – in a good way. You just have to be careful not to drag this out for too long so he won’t get impatient.

4. Remember to use your tongue

The key to a slow blowjob is that you have to keep your movements slow and not really fast. That being said, this allows you to use your tongue instead of just dipping him in and out of your mouth. You’ll be able to circle it around his tip and apply pressure with it in certain areas. [Read: Hot blowjob secrets you have to try on your man]

5. Use different suction pressure

Along with using your tongue to apply pressure, you can also use different amounts of pressure when actually sucking. A great thing about slow blowjobs as opposed to regular ones is that he can really tell the difference when you switch up the pressure during a slow one.

Start with light pressure and build it up as you progress. Then, once you’ve hit a pressure he seems to like best, change it a few times. This will not only keep him guessing, but it’ll give him different sensations that he’ll love.

6. Move up and down at different paces

Yes, this is a slow blowjob, so you can’t just be really speedy and then slow down. The key here is that you don’t just keep the same slow rhythm the whole time. You can speed up a tiny bit and then slow it way down before returning to an in-between slow pace. [Read: Sexual exploration: Ever heard of the finger blowjob?]

7. Use only your mouth

I know a lot of us ladies like to use our hands in addition to our mouths when giving a blowjob, but when you slow it way down, that’s just not necessary.

Take your hands off and just use your mouth. This will allow you to go deeper and he’ll be able to concentrate on just the feeling of your mouth on him without anything else getting in the way.

8. Move your hands over his body

Now that your hands are free, USE THEM! Don’t just drop them lazily at your side. Slide them up his legs, squeezing his thighs on the way up to his stomach. You can graze your nails along his sides, pulling him closer and deeper as you do so. Don’t underestimate the power of the touch of your hands. [Read: 18 physical turn ons that arouse a guy instantly]

9. Pay attention to how he’s responding

Not all guys are going to like the same things. I mean, sure, they’ll all like your mouth on them so long as your teeth aren’t digging into it, but they’ll respond differently depending on what you do.

So make sure you’re paying attention to their reactions. Are they making sounds, tossing their head back with pleasure, or are they just sitting there and not really appreciating it? Adjust your technique so they’re verbally or visually enjoying themselves.

10. Don’t forget his balls!

When you’re giving a slow blowjob, you’re focusing on sensations. How many different ways can you make him feel good? That’s the main question you have to answer with your mouth on his schlong.

One thing that is often missed is paying attention to his balls. The truth is, many guys enjoy their balls being sucked, lightly squeezed, and even just rubbed. Give these a try and see how he likes it! Just remember that not all guys do enjoy this, so don’t worry if he doesn’t. [Read: Blow job queen – 13 titillating moves to give the best head ever]

Bonus tips for a slow blowjob he’ll never forget!

Now that you have everything you need in order to perfect the slow blowjob, you’ll want some extra tips to make sure he never forgets a second of your mouth wrapped around him.

1. Remember to enjoy yourself too

Something that makes a blowjob great – no matter how fast or slow – is if you’re actually enjoying yourself too. If you hate doing it and think it’s gross, he will be able to tell and it won’t be nearly as pleasurable. So make little moaning sounds and show him that you like it, too. [Read: Top reasons many girls refuse to give a guy a blow job]

2. Tell him how much you enjoy it

You can even go so far as to tell him how much you like it. This is not only great for him to hear, but it can be used as foreplay, or you can even talk dirty to him in the middle of the blow job by telling him how much fun you’re having with him in your mouth. [Read: Your ultimate guide for talking dirty in bed]

3. Ask hm what he wants you to do

If you’re not as brave and don’t like just trying new things on your man – like playing with his balls – ask him what he wants. Not only is this super sexy, but you’re also getting a certain idea of what he likes.

[Read: 20 sizzling blow job tips you gotta know]

Giving your man a slow blowjob he’ll never forget is a lot easier than you think. As long as you follow the tips above, you’ll have him begging for another.

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Annabel Rodgers
Annabel is a lifestyle writer, cheese enthusiast (Wisconsin native over here) and fantasy adventure author-in-progress who enjoys all things love, dog,...