Maybe you’re a spitter who wants to transition to the swallowing club or maybe you just want to learn how to do it right, well, this is how to swallow cum.
I used to be a spitter, that was until I realized it was just easier for me to swallow. I think I always was a swallower until I had one overly salty experience with a guy that totally had me put off from cum. I get it, ladies, some guys have very strong tasting cum which is something that once enters your mouth, scars you forever. But if you’re new to the swallow game, here’s how to swallow cum.
How to swallow cum
Personally, I find swallowing an easier and sexier way of dealing with cum. You just need to know how to swallow cum properly and you won’t have any problems. So, listen up, I’m going to tell you how to swallow cum and move away from spitting into a Kleenex.
I mean, is that even environmentally friendly? All those wasted tissues. You’re going to have to learn eventually.
#1 You don’t have to swallow. You really don’t to if you don’t want to. Now, if you want to but you’re nervous, that’s different. You can also spit or have him ejaculate on your stomach, ass, or tits. Swallowing isn’t the only option you have. If he’s making you swallow his cum when you don’t want to, tell him you don’t like it. If he ignores this, you should reconsider if sex with this person is a wise decision. [Read: 18 ways to instantly spot a misogynistic man]
#2 Don’t be shy to talk to him about it. If you never swallowed before or if his cum tastes very strong, tell him. He’ll be understanding and help you out with the entire process. Now, maybe you really want to swallow but the smell of his cum is just too much, I get it. Some guys just have that smell, but you should know, he can change that.
#3 He can do his part. So, remember when I said that he can actually change the flavor of his cum? Well, it’s true. If he’s eating artichokes, asparagus, or a lot of meat, his cum will be very strong smelling. Which, I can’t lie, is gnarly to try to swallow down.
Instead, he should be eating more fruits and vegetables. He doesn’t have to go vegan or vegetarian, but heavy and greasy foods are causing his cum to be too much. So, get him to hit up the fruit and vegetable aisle at the grocery store—if he’s smart, he’ll do it. [Read: 16 things a man can do to make his cum taste better]
#4 Have his dick go all the way back. Swallowing is pretty easy. The important thing is that you want to make sure it hits the back of your throat. That way, you avoid the taste and texture of it. Many women don’t like the texture, and I don’t blame them. So, when he’s about to ejaculate make sure the dick is all the way in your mouth as far in as possible. [Read: 12 moves to blow his load in minutes]
#5 Wash it down with water/juice. Now, even though he’s eating all the fruits and veggies in sight, you can still wash down his cum by drinking water or juice. It completely masks the taste, just don’t drink milk. I mean, there’s nothing wrong with it, but there’s just something about milk after cum that’s off putting.
#6 Swallow if you know he’s clean of STI’s. Now I’m a fan of swallowing, but you want to make sure their cum you’re going to swallow is STI free. Why? Because his semen can transfer infections like HIV and hepatitis. Swallowing a load really isn’t worth contracting an STI. So, be smart and make sure he’s clean.
#7 You can play with his cum. This technique is for women who have passed the basic swallowing stage and have no problems with it. If you want to amp it up, when he ejaculates in your mouth you can play around with it. So, don’t swallow right away. Pretend it’s bubblegum, use your fingers in your mouth, or swirl it around. The options are really endless, it just depends on what turns you and him on.
#8 Use sounds. If you want to show him that you’re really into it, then try to moan or hum while you swallow or play with it. It makes the experience more sensual and naughty. Throw in a couple sounds and you’re good to go. You can even amp it up by dirty talking while playing or swallowing it. [Read: How to perfect your orgasm face and make them want more of you]
#9 You’re in control. It’s important that you stay in control when you’re swallowing his load. I know, so guys try to take control and ejaculate where they want, but you need to make sure that this situation is comfortable for you. If you’re stressed or anxious, swallowing his load is going to be difficult since your throat will contract.
#10 Lick up his cum. Now swallowing his cum doesn’t mean he has to finish in your mouth. Instead, he can finish somewhere else, like your face, your breasts, on his stomach, etc. Then, you can lick up his cum and swallow. It’s a wild move, believe me, and looks incredibly hot and intense. Expect another round after he sees you doing that.
#11 Facial swallow. Few women do this and I commend them for it. The facial swallow is pretty intense. What you do is have your partner ejaculate all over your face, just have him aim away from your eyes—safety first. After he ejaculates all over your face, you’re going to scoop the cum up with your fingers and put them in your mouth. He’ll be shocked, horny—just an array of emotions. [Read: 11 secrets to give good head and blow his mind every time]
#12 Ease yourself into swallowing. Listen, you’re not going to be the swallowing queen after one go. There’s no point rushing into it. Trust me, this won’t be the last time you suck a dick. So, ease yourself into it, you don’t have to swallow a full load right away. Do little by little and then you can take on a full batch of cum.