10 Booty Call Moves that May Look Like True Love

10 Booty Call Moves that May Look Like True Love

That late night call may feel like one of “the signs,” but is it true love or just an invitation to another tryst? Learn to read those signs here. By Geninna Ariton

You have been seeing your booty call almost every other night now, for the past few months. You have never seen anyone this consistent when it comes to your sexy meetings. You become confused as you start to long for them when they are not around and to call them when the sun is out, as opposed to just seeing them at fleeting moments at night. You suddenly miss them. You suddenly find yourself daydreaming about them while at work, or at random times during the day.

Are you already falling in love with your booty call?

Confusing things your booty call does that might look like love

You may think that physical intimacy is one of the biggest signs that someone’s falling in love with you too, but when you really think about it, you may just be mistaking physical pleasure for an emotional connection.

#1 First rule of a booty call, it does not stay in bed. Booty calls are meant to just relieve yourself of horniness when you need it, not to stay with you to cuddle or to spoon afterward. In fact, you cannot ask them to spend the night. If you begin to want them to spend the night with you, then this could be a problem, especially if your booty call refuses.

There might be several reasons why your booty call is spending the night. First of all, convenience. It might be difficult for them to run back to their place, but it does not mean they’re staying to spend time with you. Second of all, they might be too drunk or too tired to even move or put on clothes. Again, no indication that they are in love with you, so do not mistake this for true love. [Read: 25 friends with benefits rules to remember]

#2 You receive a message from your booty call in daylight. The message indicated a desire to have a quick sexual act in the middle of a cold afternoon. Your heart begins to pound and blood is rushing to your head, making you blush. You think this is it. Your booty call has crossed the thin line of being a booty call to someone who no longer needs the cover of night to see you. Yay, right?

No, your booty call is still not in love with you. Your booty call might just be terribly horny and cannot wait until tonight. Or your booty call might be going out of town for a quick vacation or business trip and needs to catch a flight soon.

#3 Booty calls are for the bedroom and should remain inside.  Not in the kitchen or dining area for breakfast. Unless, of course, your booty call suddenly asks for pancakes, or for bacon and eggs. And you think, this is it! Your booty call is extending their welcome for breakfast, and this might also mean that they want more than just sex.

No, you’re mistaken again. Could it be possible that your booty call got hungry from that all-nighter that you both pulled off? Or your booty call does not have enough time to have breakfast and go to work, so having breakfast done now is very practical for them.

#4 Not only is a booty call not made for breakfast, but also for lunch and dinner. So you receive a message from your booty call wanting to have dinner before you head to his or her place. Or perhaps after having the aforementioned breakfast, you continue your bedroom activities and your booty call decides to stay until lunch. They may just be really hungry, or they simply don’t want to let go of you just yet, in case they get horny again. [Read: 12 signs you’re just being manipulated by your booty call]

#5 Your booty call will only call or send you messages at night, and it is never asking about how you are. And then suddenly, you get a call saying that they want to meet up with you in the daytime, with no mention of even having sex. You’ve just entered the “it’s not all about sex” territory!

The problem with this is that there may be a chance that your booty call needs a partner or a companion for something, and he or she simply can’t find anyone to fill the spot. These “somethings” may include getting help done with heavy duty chores or having someone around to watch their dog. Obviously, that’s nowhere near true love. [Read: 15 signs she’s just leading you on]

#6 Your booty call has never asked about your well-being, but now, you just got a message asking about how you are doing. Oh! This must be the sign that you are looking for! No, again your booty call is not in love with you. Nor should you reciprocate this back. If your booty call is really concerned about your well-being, they would ask this consistently and not just when they want to. They will not only be available at night for you but will be there whenever you need them – day or night.

Asking about your day is normal, even for a booty call. Of course, they want to establish some rapport with you, unless of course, they’re completely emotionally detached and have no regard for you other than as someone they’d sleep with. [Read: 5 clear giveaways of an emotionally unavailable man]

#7 You saw your booty call outside with their friends and they introduce you. You must be in love heaven, if there is one. Your booty call is introducing you to their friends! This is it! Your booty call is probably in love with you and ready for the whole world to know about your relationship. Or not.

Did you ever think that your booty call was just being polite, and there was no escaping the situation? After all, it would be incredibly rude if they said hi to you without making some preliminary introductions, or worse, if they ignored you completely.

#8 You want to have your booty call all to yourself, which is why you call them or text them whenever you are free. You may both be free to meet up whenever you like, but you also have to consider what you’re doing together, instead of how often you’re together.

Challenging your booty call to not only be available at night but also during several times in the day will only make them think that you are horny all the time. Them saying yes to every meeting is just a gesture of saying that yes, they don’t mind having sex with you and they are also probably horny, or that they don’t have anything else to do. [Read: Is he just into for the wrong reasons?]

It could also mean that they don’t want to lose you as a booty call just yet, so they give in to your every whim. But clearly, more sex does not equate to love. Not just yet.

#9 You ask your booty call if they are sleeping with someone else. They say only you. You now think you’re in an exclusive relationship. Well, didn’t that just escalate quickly?

First of all, never ask that question. Why? Unless you don’t use condoms when you have sex, it’s really not your business to ask who else your booty call is sleeping with. [Read: 6 tips on raising the issue of being exclusive]

#10 Which brings us to the next point, even though you are the only one that your booty call is sleeping with, it does not equate to an exclusive relationship. Never try to define the relationship with a booty call. It is what it is: It’s sex, it’s fun, it’s casual. If there are hints of taking your physical relationship to the more emotional realm, confirm them instead of relying on little hints. If you want something more from them, what you need to do is ask. Never assume.

[Read: How to deal with a complicated relationship]

Though some booty calls may turn into an actual, loving relationship, many of them are just there for a night of pleasure before you’re left feeling emotionally bereft. Don’t be fooled into thinking you’ve found love, when all you’ve got to hang onto are those late night booty calls!

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Geninna Ariton
Geninna Ariton
Daydreaming of pristine white sand beaches and attempting to beat her 40 books read in a year record, she is a preschool teacher by day and a writer by night. N...
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