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How to Hook Up With a Girl And Make Out With Her

Want to know how to hook up with a girl, be it a friend or a girl you just met? Use these tips to recognize the right girl and do the right thing.

how to hook up with a girl

Firstly, what is a hook up?

Many people have many definitions for a hook up.

A hook up is any form of sexual interaction with another person with the sole intent of getting sexual without the obligation of a romantic relationship.

[Read: 7 sexiest types of sex ever!]

Generally, a hook up can mean many things.

To a few people, it’s a little kiss while to a few others, it’s indulging in sex or having a one night stand.

And to the rest of them, it could mean anything in between these two sexual boundaries.

How to hook up with a girl

If you want to know how to hook up with a girl, firstly you need to understand how to eliminate the sexual barrier between the both of you.

You could get sexually attracted to a friend or even a hot minx sashaying on the dance floor.

When it comes to a hook up, it’s all the same thing because all that matters here is a great excuse and a reciprocating girl who’s just as interested in making out as you are.

[Read: How to make any girl want to kiss you by arousing her]

We’ll get to ways to get a girl to hook up with you in a bit. First, you have to recognize a girl who can be a potential hook up.


#1 She’s sexually liberated and lets you know it. Ever met a girl who seems extremely eager to let you know that she’s on contraceptives or about how flexible she is? If you find yourself in the company of a girl who likes to show off her fascination for free love, there’s a good chance of having a hook up in an hour or so.

#2 She’s touchy feely and it doesn’t look cute. If a girl touches you a lot, and it’s a lot more lingering and forceful than just a friendly pat. [Read: The art of flirting by touch]

#3 She laughs and flirts a lot. And again, it doesn’t look cute. Instead, it just looks animalistic and sexual. Even her sexy laugh gives you an erection.

#4 She flashes skin at you. If the girl you want to hook up with finds an excuse to flash skin at you or tries to get your attention on her body parts, there’s a good chance she’s interested in a fling thing with you. [Read: 10 things girls do to seduce a man who isn’t theirs]

#5 She doesn’t really play hard to get. Instead, she pounces on you or pretends like she’s drunk and gropes you. She doesn’t want your love, boy, she just wants you. If she does want to date you, she’d try to make you pursue her.

#6 She reciprocates your moves. If a girl is interested in a hook up with you, she’d reciprocate your sexual advances with her own sexual moves.

Now that you know the clear signs of a girl who’s interested in hooking up with you, keep your eyes peeled and watch out for the right girl to hook up with.


Once you know how to recognize a girl who enjoys her sexual liberation, all you need to do is find different circumstances and excuses to get her to hook up with you. Here are a few great ways to hook up with a girl given the circumstances.

#1 Scan your friends. Look for friends who seem to have an active sex life. If a friend talks about her one night stands and sexual exploits freely with everyone, she may be perfect for a hook up via the sex buddy move. [Read: How to have sex with a friend by becoming her f**k buddy]

#2 Make eye contact. Eye contact can help you get the right message across to a girl, be it in office or at a club. Look a girl who seems interested up and down during a conversation. It tells her straight out that you’re interested in sex and her body. [Read: 10 eye contact flirting moves]

#3 Initiate phone sex. Call an interested friend often, preferably late at night. Talk to her for a while about a recent sexual escapade of yours. Warm her up to make her open up with her own confessions. And before you know it, both of you will be planning a whole new sexual escapade.

#4 Lead a friend into temptation via texting. Just like phone sex, sex texts can do the same magic, although it’s a lot safer and slower than straight out phone sex. [Read: How to sex text a friend]

#5 Get drunk with friends. If you want to hook up with a girl who’s a friend, get drunk or pretend like you’re drunk when you’re having a stayover with friends and throw yourself at the girl you’ve been attracted to. Chances are, you’ll wake up in bed together.

#6 Go on a vacation with a few sexy friends. There’s a big chance of a hook up, especially if you’ll be spending a lot of time fooling around with this girl. [Read: How to convince a girl to skinny dip with you]

#7 A few sexy flashes. Discreetly flash to the girl you’re attracted to. If she’s sexually attracted to you, there’s a good chance of turning it into a hook up over a few flashes. [Read: Sexy flashing confessions]

#8 Talk sex now and then. Sometimes, the easiest way to let a girl know you’re only interested in the sex is to just be clear about it. Subtly, of course. Talk about your interest in girls with her and let her know that you’re not interested in relationships right now, but casual sex only.

#9 Just kiss her. Kiss this girl accidentally, and talk about it at night. And tell her you liked it, even though it was just an accident. Chances are, she may have liked it too. [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally]

#10 Sexual truth or dare. Truth or dare is a great game to indulge in a lot of naughty things. All you need is a few friends, a few drinks and a lot of dirty questions to hook up with a girl you like.

#11 Send a nude picture. And say it was an accident and was meant for some other girl. You have to remember that a girl will like these pictures only if she’s already sexually attracted to you. Otherwise, you’ll be a joke!

#12 Compliment her sexually. Flirt with her and compliment her, but always border your compliments on how sexy she looks or how good she must be in bed. [Read: How to compliment a girl]


As sexy as hooking up with a girl can seem, it’s still something that comes with its own share of worries. Keep these things in mind the next time you want to try hooking up with a girl.

# If it’s a girl you just met, it’s alright to make a first move. After all, you have nothing to lose. If she doesn’t like your direct move, she’ll just blow you off or decline your advances. No big deal, there’s a lot of fish in the sea.

# If it’s a good friend, don’t push it. Be discreet and always make it look like the hook up was mutual at best. It’s even better if you can make it seem like she made the first move to make out with you. Both of you can talk about it and forget all about it the next morning, instead of losing a good friendship.

# Don’t ever force your way into making out with a girl. If the vibes aren’t reciprocated, don’t bother going ahead with it. Respect the girl and understand that she’s entitled to her wishes and you can’t really convince her to hook up with you unless she’s interested in hooking up with you.

[Read: How to make out with a girl and make her love it]

Now keep these tips on how to hook up with a girl in mind when you make a move. It’ll make it easier to find the right girl, hook up with her and feel great the next morning!

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Keith Brown
With a penchant for downing more energy drinks than is sane, Keith Brown is a bartender and amateur mixologist who geeks about superheroes and spends way too mu...
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