Ready for everything you should know about the best trend that has hit the world as of late? Frexting is the in trend and here’s why you should do it.
Have you heard of frexting? While you’re probably familiar with the concept of sexting—having received and sent your fair share of steamy messages and saucy pictures—frexting takes a slightly different turn. It involves sharing flirtatious messages and photos, but within a context that might not necessarily be aimed at sparking a romantic or sexual relationship.
If you haven’t yet explored the world of frexting, here’s everything you need to know about this intriguing practice. Whether you’re looking to spice up your friendships or just engage in some harmless fun, understanding frexting can add a new layer to your social interactions. [Read: 34 secrets to be more social & connect with people if you have no social life]
What Even is Frexting?
Before you raise your eyebrows or jump to conclusions, let’s unpack the term “frexting” and see how it’s reshaping our digital interactions, especially among friends.
At its core, frexting – a blend of ‘friend’ and ‘sexting’ – refers to the act of sending sexually suggestive, yet non-explicit, messages or photos to friends. [Read: 25 secrets to take a good selfie & look cute every time you snap a photo!]
It’s a leap from traditional sexting, which usually implies a sexual or romantic intent and is often shared with partners. Frexting, on the other hand, stays within the realm of friendship, blending playful banter with a hint of risqué.
Initially surfacing as a trend on social platforms, where people shared flattering, often suggestive photos with friends, frexting has evolved into a more personalized form of communication.
It’s not just about garnering likes anymore. It’s an intimate exchange, but one that stays within the boundaries of platonic relationships.
Understanding frexting becomes more intriguing when we consider the concept of homosociality – social bonds between persons of the same sex.
Studies have indicated that such interactions, which can include frexting, play a vital role in solidifying friendships, without any underlying romantic or sexual desire. It’s about affirm ation, comfort, and sometimes a playful challenge to societal norms.
The psychological dynamics of frexting are fundamentally different from those of sexting. Frexting often revolves around trust, fun, and a shared understanding that the intent isn’t serious or romantic.
It’s a way of boosting confidence, seeking validation from peers, or simply joking around. This distinction is crucial to understanding why frexting can be a harmless, yet empowering, part of modern friendships. [Read: 30 hot, sexting examples to start a naughty marathon]
Frexting Decoded
Now take sexting a step further and only send these types of text messages and pictures to your friends and you have what the media and the entire world has begun calling frexting. AKA: friend sexting. Who knows if that word will ever make it into the Oxford Dictionary, but there it is in all its made-up glory.
Why You Should be Sexting Your Friends
Do you know why everyone else – and even you – should be frexting? Here are all the reasons sexting friends has become so popular as of late and why you should jump on this bandwagon, too. [Read: Naughty texting games to have fun all night long]
1. It Gives You a Killer Confidence Boost
You know that amazing feeling when you show up somewhere and your friends are all there to hype you up with compliments, making you feel like a million bucks? But let’s face it, friends can’t always be around when you need that quick confidence boost.
If this sounds familiar, then you’re going to love frexting. It’s perfect for those times when you need a pick-me-up without the hassle of unwanted attention from that guy you had those two horrible dates with. Sexting a friend can give you that essential boost of confidence whenever you need it!
2. You Get an Unbiased Second Opinion
Although using the word “unbiased” may be stretching it a bit, frexting your friends is a great way for them to give you honest feedback on a sexy picture of you. They’ll let you know just why it’s great or why it might be a bit much to send it to that Tinder guy you just met.
You can ask them for their opinion on how a bra looks, if the panties you’re wearing are too tight/not flattering, or even if you’re looking toned and fit.
This is great before a big night out where you could potentially get laid, or just if you want to send the same photo to a new beau. [Read: How to send sexy, nude selfies without getting into trouble]
3. You’ll Strengthen Your Friendship
There’s a bond that is forged between friends who sext that just can’t be made through anything else. There’s just something about sending each other half naked pictures that builds upon your relationship in a great way.
4. You Know You’ll Get the Reaction You Deserve
No, getting a reply of “nice ;)” from a guy is NOT the reaction you deserve for sending that amazingly hot and sexy photo that took you hours to get the right angles and lighting.
You deserve a, “Hell yeah, girl! Get it! Ow ow! Looking sexy!” And that’s exactly what you’ll get from a friend versus some guy – even if he is your boyfriend.
5. It’s Safer Than Sending to Someone You Just Met
You know that your friend isn’t going to save the photo and file it away in some folder labeled “blackmail” for future uses. They’re your friend! They’ll view the sext, send you the reply you’re looking for, and never look at it again.
There’s a pretty good chance that when you send these to a guy, they could show it to their friends, keep it to use if you ever try to leave them, or do who knows what else with it. You’re safer frexting.
6. It’s Fun!
Sometimes, I have absolutely no reason to take off my clothes and send a sext to my friend other than the fact that I think it’s fun and it keeps things interesting during an otherwise boring day. So if you’re bored and don’t know what to do, start frexting!
You never know how much fun you can have sending dirty pictures to your friend unless you’ve done it. It’ll make you laugh, feel great about yourself, and you’ll just enjoy it overall. [Read: 20 crucial girl code rules for a less drama-filled life]
7. There’s No Ulterior Motives
You’re not trying to get something out of the sext – other than a nice compliment, maybe – and your friend isn’t looking to get laid the second you come over like the effect sexting a significant other could possibly have.
You know that when you send this sext you’re just having fun and there are no strings attached anywhere. It gives you peace of mind knowing that you can guiltlessly be sexting a friend.
8. You Have Someone to Share Your Fitness Progress With
This one is a lesser-known reason to sext but it’s still a great reason. I recently have taken it upon my petite self to lift weights and grow myself a hot and bodacious booty.
Who better to share my fitness successes with than a close friend? I throw on some lace panties, pop my booty out, and begin frexting. It’ll not only make you feel sexy and good about yourself, but you’ll also be able to track your progress and it’ll keep you motivated.
9. It Gives You a Way to Show Off Your New Panties Even If You’re Single
Otherwise, how else would anyone know that you just spent $100 at Victoria’s Secret on the hottest panties you’ve ever owned? I was single for an entire year recently and had a minor panic attack when I realized that no one would see my adorable underwear.
Luckily, I remembered that frexting is a real thing and began showing off my purchases to some friends. They loved getting to see the cute panties and it even made them want to go out and get some for themselves, too. [Read: How to look much better naked using real-life tips]
10. It Improves Your Sexting Game
Practice makes perfect, right? In the realm of sexting, that is most definitely true. You only get to know the best photo angles and lighting that makes you look amazing when you practice them often by frexting.
You’ll also get feedback from your friends on what works and what doesn’t and that can make you an expert in the sexting field when it comes time to actually send a racy photo to someone you’re crushing on. [Read: 40 naughty, playful texts to keep things hot and horny]
How to Frext the Right Way
At this day and age, where digital communication blurs lines and redefines boundaries, how do you engage in frexting with your friends in a way that’s both fun and respectful? Here’s a guide to frexting that keeps everyone comfortable and safe:
1. Set Clear Boundaries
Before diving into the world of frexting, it’s vital to understand and respect each other’s limits. A casual chat about what’s okay and what’s off-limits can save you from awkward situations later.
Remember, everyone’s comfort zone is different, and these boundaries can change, so it’s essential to keep the lines of communication open. [Read: 23 secrets to set personal boundaries & guide others to respect them]
2. Ensure Mutual and Ongoing Consent
Frexting must always be a two-way street. Make sure everyone involved is on the same page and comfortable with the exchange. It’s important to remember that consent isn’t just a one-time check. It’s an ongoing process.
If someone seems hesitant or changes their mind, it’s crucial to respect their decision and adjust accordingly. Keep in mind, frexting is about adding fun to your friendship, not stress or discomfort. Use apps with end-to-end encryption and avoid sharing identifiable details in your frexts. Also, have a clear understanding with your friends about not sharing any of your messages or photos without your permission. [Read: 40 secret signs a friend likes you romantically even if they’re hiding it]
3. Safeguard Your Digital Privacy
In the digital age, protecting your privacy is paramount. Be cautious about what you share, even with trusted friends. Remember, once something is out there in the digital world, it can be hard to control.
Use apps with end-to-end encryption and avoid sharing identifiable details in your frexts. Also, have a clear understanding with your friends about not sharing any of your messages or photos without your permission.
4. Understand Appropriate Contexts
Not all situations are suitable for frexting. It’s important to gauge the context and ensure that it’s an appropriate time and place for such exchanges.
Avoid frexting when someone is at work, with family, or in a setting where they can’t engage privately. It’s about being considerate and mindful of each other’s circumstances.
5. Respect the Nature of Your Friendship
Always keep in mind the foundational nature of your friendship. Frexting shouldn’t change the fundamental dynamics of your relationship.
If you feel that frexting is leading to confusion or misinterpretation of the friendship, it might be time to reassess and talk it out. Frexting is supposed to enhance your friendship, not complicate it.
6. Be Mindful of Emotional Impact
Frexting, while often light and playful, can still carry emotional weight. Be attentive to how your exchanges affect both you and your friends emotionally.
If you sense that the frexting is having a negative impact or is being misconstrued, it’s essential to address it promptly. A healthy frexting experience should be uplifting, not a source of anxiety or misunderstanding. [Read: One-sided friendship: 31 causes, signs and how they can hurt & break you]
Get Those Hype-up Messages!
Getting those hype-up messages from your girlies or making your friends feel like a million bucks is what frexting’s all about. It’s a bit like giving your friend a high-five, but digitally and with a bit more pizzazz. It’s that shared laugh, that ‘you go, girl!’ vibe that makes frexting a fun, feel-good way to keep your friendships buzzing.
It’s about more than just the laughs, though. Frexting’s like giving your pals a confidence boost, reminding them how awesome they are, and getting that same love right back. It’s a give-and-take that makes everyone involved feel great. [Read: Good friends are like stars: Ways to build lasting friendships]
So, while frexting with your friends, remember it’s all about keeping things chill, respectful, and consensual. It’s about making sure everyone’s on board and having a good time. Keep it light, keep it friendly, and most importantly, keep it fun. Because, at the end of the day, frexting is just another cool way to strengthen those fantastic friendships.
